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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Time and time again some people seem to insist on putting the most explicit pics of their bits on their profiles. I know it's a swinging site, but what about leaving a little mystery??
Does absolutely nothing for us. Each to their ow of course. What do others think? |
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Graphic close ups of genitals don't really appeal to me. I prefer pictures that tease. Judging by how many close up/explicit pics make it onto Hot Pics they obviously must appeal to others though.
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"Time and time again some people seem to insist on putting the most explicit pics of their bits on their profiles. I know it's a swinging site, but what about leaving a little mystery??
Does absolutely nothing for us. Each to their ow of course. What do others think?"
I completely agree ,looking at your lovely photos im just gagging for more ,they are just explicite enough to excite all sorts of fantasy. |
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Hmmm, I understand exactly what you are saying but we personally like to see what we’ll be potentially playing with. Sounds kinda crass but we really don’t want to go through the build up and only to find something unpleasant in the pants department. Peoples’ bits do differ and I really don’t want to play with anything that looks like Chewbacca yawning and Lou’s not hot on the whole tight foreskin and red angry helmet look. Call us picky but hey.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hmmm, I understand exactly what you are saying but we personally like to see what we’ll be potentially playing with. Sounds kinda crass but we really don’t want to go through the build up and only to find something unpleasant in the pants department. Peoples’ bits do differ and I really don’t want to play with anything that looks like Chewbacca yawning and Lou’s not hot on the whole tight foreskin and red angry helmet look. Call us picky but hey.
Ed"
Understand that. I think we tend to look at the merchandise after we have established a connection. I think if you are attracted to somebody physically and get on, the bits and bobs would have to be pretty awful to put you right off |
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"Time and time again some people seem to insist on putting the most explicit pics of their bits on their profiles. I know it's a swinging site, but what about leaving a little mystery??
Does absolutely nothing for us. Each to their ow of course. What do others think?"
As you said. Each to their own. Their profile. Their choice. I don't have to look. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Time and time again some people seem to insist on putting the most explicit pics of their bits on their profiles. I know it's a swinging site, but what about leaving a little mystery??
Does absolutely nothing for us. Each to their ow of course. What do others think? As you said. Each to their own. Their profile. Their choice. I don't have to look. "
True, and it's a forum. Not having a go, just having a discussion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I agree OP. I know I need a few more pics on my profile and I will get around to taking some but I way prefer seeing pics likes yours where you both look great dressed up. "
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"Hmmm, I understand exactly what you are saying but we personally like to see what we’ll be potentially playing with. Sounds kinda crass but we really don’t want to go through the build up and only to find something unpleasant in the pants department. Peoples’ bits do differ and I really don’t want to play with anything that looks like Chewbacca yawning and Lou’s not hot on the whole tight foreskin and red angry helmet look. Call us picky but hey.
Ed
Understand that. I think we tend to look at the merchandise after we have established a connection. I think if you are attracted to somebody physically and get on, the bits and bobs would have to be pretty awful to put you right off"
Exactly that, it would be really embarrassing to let somebody down after chatting/flirting with someone for a couple of weeks due to finding their parts unattractive in the end. We’d rather see all parties and all parts in the profiles, not just the female or male (which tends to happen). Faces not being shown is quite normal because of discretion but as this is a swinging site geared around sex and all things sexual, you will have to expose your parts at some point.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hmmm, I understand exactly what you are saying but we personally like to see what we’ll be potentially playing with. Sounds kinda crass but we really don’t want to go through the build up and only to find something unpleasant in the pants department. Peoples’ bits do differ and I really don’t want to play with anything that looks like Chewbacca yawning and Lou’s not hot on the whole tight foreskin and red angry helmet look. Call us picky but hey.
Ed
Understand that. I think we tend to look at the merchandise after we have established a connection. I think if you are attracted to somebody physically and get on, the bits and bobs would have to be pretty awful to put you right off
Exactly that, it would be really embarrassing to let somebody down after chatting/flirting with someone for a couple of weeks due to finding their parts unattractive in the end. We’d rather see all parties and all parts in the profiles, not just the female or male (which tends to happen). Faces not being shown is quite normal because of discretion but as this is a swinging site geared around sex and all things sexual, you will have to expose your parts at some point.
Ed"
Maybe they could just apply a few filters  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Time and time again some people seem to insist on putting the most explicit pics of their bits on their profiles. I know it's a swinging site, but what about leaving a little mystery??
Does absolutely nothing for us. Each to their ow of course. What do others think? As you said. Each to their own. Their profile. Their choice. I don't have to look.
True, and it's a forum. Not having a go, just having a discussion"
I'm not having a go either. Sorry if I sounded snappy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Time and time again some people seem to insist on putting the most explicit pics of their bits on their profiles. I know it's a swinging site, but what about leaving a little mystery??
Does absolutely nothing for us. Each to their ow of course. What do others think? As you said. Each to their own. Their profile. Their choice. I don't have to look.
True, and it's a forum. Not having a go, just having a discussion I'm not having a go either. Sorry if I sounded snappy. "
No probs, sorry of I did x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Time and time again some people seem to insist on putting the most explicit pics of their bits on their profiles. I know it's a swinging site, but what about leaving a little mystery??
Does absolutely nothing for us. Each to their ow of course. What do others think? As you said. Each to their own. Their profile. Their choice. I don't have to look.
True, and it's a forum. Not having a go, just having a discussion I'm not having a go either. Sorry if I sounded snappy.
No probs, sorry of I did x"
you honestly havent. I was just a bit snotty and I shouldnt take things out on people. Apologies xx |
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over a year ago
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"I agree OP. I know I need a few more pics on my profile and I will get around to taking some but I way prefer seeing pics likes yours where you both look great dressed up.
Thanks so much!"
Very welcome. Your pics on the 8th August 2020 and 18th August 2019 are so inviting! August must have been a good month for you both. Or maybe every month is a good month.  |
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We don’t mind them on profiles... that’s not an issue. It’s the profile picture. How do guys wanna stand out if they’re just showing a cock photo which on this site is so small it makes every single one look like pretty much the same thing. |
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"Time and time again some people seem to insist on putting the most explicit pics of their bits on their profiles. I know it's a swinging site, but what about leaving a little mystery??
Does absolutely nothing for us. Each to their ow of course. What do others think?"
Not for me and I won’t send any either, who knows who’s the other side of the profile and not just screen shooting to share around mates. If someone doesn’t want to play because they couldn’t inspect my fanny first that’s fine by me. Don’t think I’ve ever looked at a penis and thought ‘that’s the one!’  |
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Personally we prefer more subtle and teasing pics. Don't mind the odd one or two but a profile full of them can sometimes put us off. I don't mind people sharing more intimate pics privately once we are chatting but it's not something we ask for.
K x |
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I understand genetal pics arent all that attractive, but on fab and what we are looking for/ advertising thrn I do have pics of mine, currently in my private pics gallery, but have had in public before.
I must admit with a lot of people knowing what size and trim they are looking for it means at least they can decide if i fit that criteria before proceeding, as a pic can speak a 1000 words lol |
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"I understand genetal pics arent all that attractive, but on fab and what we are looking for/ advertising thrn I do have pics of mine, currently in my private pics gallery, but have had in public before.
I must admit with a lot of people knowing what size and trim they are looking for it means at least they can decide if i fit that criteria before proceeding, as a pic can speak a 1000 words lol"
Yeah one or two, ok. It's more lots of them that gets me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand genetal pics arent all that attractive, but on fab and what we are looking for/ advertising thrn I do have pics of mine, currently in my private pics gallery, but have had in public before.
I must admit with a lot of people knowing what size and trim they are looking for it means at least they can decide if i fit that criteria before proceeding, as a pic can speak a 1000 words lol
Yeah one or two, ok. It's more lots of them that gets me "
Yes totally agree, enough to show what you have without 100s of the same thing from different angles or loads of repeat pics |
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"Time and time again some people seem to insist on putting the most explicit pics of their bits on their profiles. I know it's a swinging site, but what about leaving a little mystery??
Does absolutely nothing for us. Each to their ow of course. What do others think?"
I don’t reply to men with cock shots on their profile. Once a connection is made sure swap more intimate photos but nope I have no interest in someone who is just a cock. |
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"Time and time again some people seem to insist on putting the most explicit pics of their bits on their profiles. I know it's a swinging site, but what about leaving a little mystery??
Does absolutely nothing for us. Each to their ow of course. What do others think?"
Completely agree with this, we do have some "action" pics but we like to try and keep most of our pics tasteful and with a cheeky little tease for the viewer full on wham there's my bits pictures do nothing for us either but everyone is different and if that's what others like to post then that's cool but we're just not big fans of it  |
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"Not for me but to each their own. It's a filter itself: what does the profile say about the person, and do I want to meet them on that basis?"
Exactly this. I think you can tell quite a lot about a person, & what they are looking for, by how they choose to portray themselves in their profile and pics.
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I find many genital pics really off-putting and that’s the exact reason I like to see them early on. I’d hate to offend someone by chatting to them for a while, it’s all going well, we arrange to meet, I see their genitals and at that point have to turn them down. I think that could be really upsetting for them and I’d also hate to be in that position myself.
I don’t need to see loads of pics or really graphic, mid-action shots but I do like to see one or two cock pics.
I wouldn’t be this shallow if I was after a relationship or anything long-term as the connection would be more emotional than physical but for purely sexual purposes I am more picky.
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