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"The answer surely must be "the way she likes it best". Neither of those things would help me have an orgasm.
What technique helps you to orgasm? "
Depends on my mood really. A long slow build up over a day of closeness, teasing and general eroticism followed by lengthy foreplay with an element of bdsm and sensitive use of fingers and toys or a quick fun twenty minutes involving fingers and maybe toys and anything in between  |
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"The answer surely must be "the way she likes it best". Neither of those things would help me have an orgasm.
What technique helps you to orgasm?
Depends on my mood really. A long slow build up over a day of closeness, teasing and general eroticism followed by lengthy foreplay with an element of bdsm and sensitive use of fingers and toys or a quick fun twenty minutes involving fingers and maybe toys and anything in between "
Yes, that's more like it. I think the build up is key to having intense orgasms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tongue mainly but depends on how the lady reacts to my touch, if she ll orgasm from fingers I ll concentrate there but can’t beat having a lady cumming on my hot tongue thighs clamped around my ears and her grinding her pussy on my face mmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is your favourite way to make a woman come? Tongue or cock?"
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tounge,cock & fingers ive even used toys too, but it all depends in the woman & the connection i am not one for much chit chat i like to let my skills do the talking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is your favourite way to make a woman come? Tongue or cock?"
I just whistle them, flick my head in a come hither motion and shout 'Oi, Love'. They always come but normally just to slap me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"gents, do you prefer a woman to try and make you come the way she wants to or the way you want her to do it?"
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Thats a really good point for me i try & make it about her more than anything i come really easily anyways so it makes no difference to me either way  |
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"gents, do you prefer a woman to try and make you come the way she wants to or the way you want her to do it? warning the following comment my offend some people
Thats a really good point for me i try & make it about her more than anything i come really easily anyways so it makes no difference to me either way "
Why would that offend anyone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why would that offend anyone? "
Dunno just covering my bases incase anyone is a little sensitive about that sort of thing, apologies if anyone is offended by the way |
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Why would that offend anyone?
Dunno just covering my bases incase anyone is a little sensitive about that sort of thing, apologies if anyone is offended by the way "
Lol. Well you'd have to go a loooong way further than that to offend me. |
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Lol. Well you'd have to go a loooong way further than that to offend me. "
thank you but you are a moderator ive spent 48hrs on the naughty step i dont want to spend anymore so i just like to make sure before hand that what i say may offend people as i am the sort of person that will say it as i see it even if its not exactly the correct way if that makes sense, again sorry to anyone who may be offended by my comments |
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Lol. Well you'd have to go a loooong way further than that to offend me. thank you but you are a moderator ive spent 48hrs on the naughty step i dont want to spend anymore so i just like to make sure before hand that what i say may offend people as i am the sort of person that will say it as i see it even if its not exactly the correct way if that makes sense, again sorry to anyone who may be offended by my comments"
OK, well it isn't a good idea to discuss a ban publicy. If you stick to the forum rules you should be ok
https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules |
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Lol. Well you'd have to go a loooong way further than that to offend me. thank you but you are a moderator ive spent 48hrs on the naughty step i dont want to spend anymore so i just like to make sure before hand that what i say may offend people as i am the sort of person that will say it as i see it even if its not exactly the correct way if that makes sense, again sorry to anyone who may be offended by my comments
OK, well it isn't a good idea to discuss a ban publicy. If you stick to the forum rules you should be ok
https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules"
ok thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slow oral and clit rub till she’s getting wet, take your time no rushing when she’s slowly grinding slip 1 finger in then 2 then lick her clit slowly round and round whilst pulling the fingers in and out in rhythm and build up speed, then as she’s about to cum STOP!!! it will really p her off but then start again and this time it will drive her nuts and the orgasm will be intense x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well the obvious answer is - Whichever is most effective and pleasurable for her.
All other things being equal however, preference would be for cock. Outside of my somewhat infamous "Couples Curse" my cock can simply last longer in most positions. Largely indefinite in cowgirl. And I simply get more gratification from her orgasms when it's done penetratively.
It also tends in my experience to be more likely to produce a squirt which is always exciting. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Being totally focused on her bodies reactions and using my whole body to sensually play her melody. "
Awww that’s sweet 
My fave is kneeling to the side of her all bound in rope, with one hand on her throat and one hand gently pinching and slapping her clit while she asks nicely. It’s not he fave she likes explode with a deep hard fuck from behind |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Being totally focused on her bodies reactions and using my whole body to sensually play her melody.
Awww that’s sweet
My fave is kneeling to the side of her all bound in rope, with one hand on her throat and one hand gently pinching and slapping her clit while she asks nicely. It’s not he fave she likes explode with a deep hard fuck from behind "
Oooft, ladyboner activated! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Tongue, cock, lips, fingers, dildo attitude, imagination and a lot of stamina.
Ooo what's a dildo attitude? Act like a knob but he a fake knob? ffs
A knobhead in disguise!
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I'm just messing with you, you forgot a comma between dildo and attitude  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I've been experimenting with yoni massages over the past few months (I'm a therapist anyway)
And they have had some pretty amazing results x"
I had abit of a thing for yoni massage porn recently, it looks very hot |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Tongue, cock, lips, fingers, dildo attitude, imagination and a lot of stamina.
Ooo what's a dildo attitude? Act like a knob but he a fake knob? ffs
A knobhead in disguise!
I'm just messing with you, you forgot a comma between dildo and attitude "
Oh..ok. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Tongue, cock, lips, fingers, dildo attitude, imagination and a lot of stamina.
Ooo what's a dildo attitude? Act like a knob but he a fake knob? ffs
A knobhead in disguise!
I'm just messing with you, you forgot a comma between dildo and attitude
Oh..ok. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only shagged men then? "
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No ive shagged women & plenty of them just didnt realise such thing existed no need to be abusive towards me when i was was just making a passive comment i didnt realise you would be so offended hence the discalimer to start all comments. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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Only shagged men then?
The follwing comment may offend
No ive shagged women & plenty of them just didnt realise such thing existed no need to be abusive towards me when i was was just making a passive comment i didnt realise you would be so offended hence the discalimer to start all comments."
Abusive? Offended? Are you OK? |
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Abusive? Offended? Are you OK? warning the following my offend people
Fine thank you
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You really don't need to keep putting that warning on every post you make. It's not necessary and will probably have the opposite effect to the one you hope. As I explained earlier of you stick to the rules you'll be fine and just responding in a normal way to posts won't get you banned. A mod won't ban a person just because someone reports them and if you feel you've been banned unfairly you can contact admin and ask them to review the ban. https://www.fabswingers.com/contact-us
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You really don't need to keep putting that warning on every post you make. It's not necessary and will probably have the opposite effect to the one you hope. As I explained earlier of you stick to the rules you'll be fine and just responding in a normal way to posts won't get you banned. A mod won't ban a person just because someone reports them and if you feel you've been banned unfairly you can contact admin and ask them to review the ban. https://www.fabswingers.com/contact-us
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i did & no response & ive had enough now if this is how im going to be treated then i will stop using the forums all im doing is trying to have a faor & decent convo & give a valid opinion but if im going to be pulled up all the time then whats the point in even discussing anything you may aswell make everyone mutes! I wont bother posting in future |
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You really don't need to keep putting that warning on every post you make. It's not necessary and will probably have the opposite effect to the one you hope. As I explained earlier of you stick to the rules you'll be fine and just responding in a normal way to posts won't get you banned. A mod won't ban a person just because someone reports them and if you feel you've been banned unfairly you can contact admin and ask them to review the ban. https://www.fabswingers.com/contact-us
i did & no response & ive had enough now if this is how im going to be treated then i will stop using the forums all im doing is trying to have a faor & decent convo & give a valid opinion but if im going to be pulled up all the time then whats the point in even discussing anything you may aswell make everyone mutes! I wont bother posting in future"
I wasn't pulling you up I was trying to give you some information.
It's your choice to use the forum or not and if you find it's upsetting you taking a rest from it might be a good idea. |
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I wasn't pulling you up I was trying to give you some information.
It's your choice to use the forum or not and if you find it's upsetting you taking a rest from it might be a good idea."
i have vented my grievences directly to the owner & it feels like you are targeting me & me alone you have said nothing to anyone else on any forum let alone the one person who keeps having subtle digs at me who i have blocked hence the disclaimer at the start so i dint upset further people my rants over now im rather angry at how im being treated & actually feel like im being bullied i wont be using these forums ever again! |
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I wasn't pulling you up I was trying to give you some information.
It's your choice to use the forum or not and if you find it's upsetting you taking a rest from it might be a good idea. i have vented my grievences directly to the owner & it feels like you are targeting me & me alone you have said nothing to anyone else on any forum let alone the one person who keeps having subtle digs at me who i have blocked hence the disclaimer at the start so i dint upset further people my rants over now im rather angry at how im being treated & actually feel like im being bullied i wont be using these forums ever again!"
Oh wow....
Reading through this has made my head hurt.... you have only been offered advice & a little light banter - absolutely nothing that would constitute bullying.
Back to the OP......
I love to kiss their neck, whisper in their ear & slowly finger to completion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dunno if im like other women on here but there is no magic way im either having great sex and cumming or im not ... great sex is all it takes for me im multi - orgasmic and squirt (not bed soaker) ... nothing turns me off more than a guy who makes it his mission that bores me ....so theres the answer for me just great sex is all it takes |
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