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over a year ago
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Couples thinking I am there just for their pleasure, or the woman of the couple wanting me to join in to please the man.
Im here for my pleasure, thanks  |
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Quite right too. We are committed to the pleasure of all involved when we get intimate with others. Everybody should have a wonderful time and it's our job to make sure we give others the pleasure they seek if they are equally invested in our pleasure too. |
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"Quite right too. We are committed to the pleasure of all involved when we get intimate with others. Everybody should have a wonderful time and it's our job to make sure we give others the pleasure they seek if they are equally invested in our pleasure too. "
couldn't agree more !!!!
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"Couples thinking I am there just for their pleasure, or the woman of the couple wanting me to join in to please the man.
Im here for my pleasure, thanks "
Even though the idea of being pleasured by two women is many men's (including mine) fantasy, I agree with you completely. Any meet that we have we expect everyone involved to have a great time.
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Not all couple are like that, I'm not a single woman but I regularly play separately and have the same problems. They just want me to be thier toy for the night.
Unicorns have the right to only play with who they want, part of the bonus of being a unicorn.
I'm sure you tell them 'what's for' and rightfully so. 
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"Had a few where the couple were selfish and it is very offputting, no wonder there arnt many of us"
We’ve heard about selfish couples with other couples, so it’s not just single Ladies. Sums up a lot of society unfortunately  |
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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago
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"Couples thinking I am there just for their pleasure, or the woman of the couple wanting me to join in to please the man.
Im here for my pleasure, thanks "
. Go girl, take what pleasure you want and leave the rest behind! |
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over a year ago
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" ooh I want us to do this to him, then that"
"Sorry we are soft swing" (so you just want be to suck his dick then you two fuck? )
"Its his/her birthday......."
No. Just no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples thinking I am there just for their pleasure, or the woman of the couple wanting me to join in to please the man.
Im here for my pleasure, thanks "
When I made the fatal error of mentioning looking for a couple for me and a FB, all I got were couples wanting to watch me with the woman so she could explore her bi side.
Piss off man, I'm not a performing pony/unicorn. |
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We have had the same problems or couples that only want the women and push out the guy swinging is ment to be everyone enjoying them self and getting what they want what's the point otherwise if you going to play play fair and equal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had a few where the couple were selfish and it is very offputting, no wonder there arnt many of us"
Same happened to me, only met two couples and both were selfish, after lots of chat the meets were quite the opposite of what we agreed would happen. Hence why I only meet single guys now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh and the birthday line, yes!!
Many couples around here post statuses of looking for a single lady to share her man with on his birthday. Why would any lady jump at that, makes it such a disposable act |
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It does seem to be the default for many new couples who come here looking for a woman to fulfil their MFF fantasy how they want it.
Not all couples are like that.
A single woman woman would have the choice of playing with us both equally or they could just meet K for FF without me the male half present.
Maybe it's worth looking at couples with some swinging experience under their belts who fully under the scene? As opposed to new comers to swinging who think it's a way to achieve their envisioned MFF fantasy according to their needs / rules.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couples thinking I am there just for their pleasure, or the woman of the couple wanting me to join in to please the man.
Im here for my pleasure, thanks "
Thats the point though you are here for your pleasure and they are here for their pleasure also. |
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"Couples thinking I am there just for their pleasure, or the woman of the couple wanting me to join in to please the man.
Im here for my pleasure, thanks
Thats the point though you are here for your pleasure and they are here for their pleasure also. "
We like to make sure our third is fully satisfied  |
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We're a bit shocked actually. Probably us being naive but when we think about a woman joining us, it's for a shared experience. I'd hope we'd spoil our guest rather than take advantage of her!
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"" ooh I want us to do this to him, then that"
"Sorry we are soft swing" (so you just want be to suck his dick then you two fuck? )
"Its his/her birthday......."
No. Just no."
Them, straight to block list!!! I used to have written on my profile but didn’t work so I removed it but I feel you Ivy  |
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I'd have thought there may also be females who would enjoy being part of a tease on the guy just as much as there's those who don't. Spose it's about finding suitability. We all get approached by people who don't read a profile or don't take account of our needs, such is life I guess. |
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"Quite right too. We are committed to the pleasure of all involved when we get intimate with others. Everybody should have a wonderful time and it's our job to make sure we give others the pleasure they seek if they are equally invested in our pleasure too. couldn't agree more !!!!"
I couldn't agree more also |
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"We always say that it's not us (the couple) and the single lady....it's 3 people having fun "
I think this is it. It’s when so many poly people get so annoyed when people say ‘looking for a third’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree!
I’ve put it in my bio.
Threesome is exactly that, fun and enjoyment for all three. I’m not a play thing
Awesome pics by the way x"
Thank you, right back atcha  x |
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We’ve encountered it the other way round. We’d been chatting to a lady for a while, we’d discussed likes/dislikes, boundaries, everyone’s expectations etc. And she knew I wanted to take it slow as it was my first mff but on the day everything went out the window and she was definitely only in it for her own pleasure (plus hotel stay, drinks, food, transport and whatever else she could get out of us newbies!).
Some unicorns are just ponies with a cone on their head! 
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