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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good Evening everyone, I’m looking for some advice on how to get my girlfriend in to the idea of swinging for the first time, we have never spoke about the idea at all.
Looking for advice from MF couples both new and experienced, married and in a relationship?
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Just ask her, she'll let you know. It can't be because you've lost a bit of interest or there's problems in your relationship, swinging will end it for sure. A solid base trust wise and the ability to separate swinging sex from feelings apart from between yourselves during the act is a key factor. Good luck, op, if it's a no from her respect her wishes.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's about trust. If you don't both have it, as said above it will destroy what you had. And there's no coming back from it if it goes wrong. I started with small talk in the bedroom, added a toy and said mmmm if only it was a real one...and talked from there. Her first experience was going to a club. all on her terms. Not happy not playing that was it. Was rocky till we met a good guy who convinced her that there's a difference to fucking and making love. Sex can just be enjoyable and not always an intimate act. But don't ruin trust over a bit of fun. And don't rush things. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Talk to her op, discuss your fantasies and maybe talk about a club and see how she reacts
It's not for everyone, so if she says no, then leave it at that, you can't get her into swinging of she doesn't like the Idea
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"Good Evening everyone, I’m looking for some advice on how to get my girlfriend in to the idea of swinging for the first time, we have never spoke about the idea at all.
Looking for advice from MF couples both new and experienced, married and in a relationship?
Thanks "
How long have you been together? We would only recommend it's something to get into if you've been together for a long time, are both sexually adventurous, and already have a great sex life. If so, watch Swingers on Channel 4 next Monday together, ask her if she'd fancy it  |
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"Good Evening everyone, I’m looking for some advice on how to get my girlfriend in to the idea of swinging for the first time, we have never spoke about the idea at all.
Looking for advice from MF couples both new and experienced, married and in a relationship?
Thanks How long have you been together? We would only recommend it's something to get into if you've been together for a long time, are both sexually adventurous, and already have a great sex life. If so, watch Swingers on Channel 4 next Monday together, ask her if she'd fancy it "
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The only way is to talk to her. Tell her your thoughts and feelings, and listen to hers.
You could start by baby steps and build up to full swinging. She may enjoy this site and the sexy chat and flirting with others, then build on that.
She may also say no, which in that case you may need to give her time and discuss it more.
It isn't for everyone though and like others have said, you need a very solid marriage/relationship to enter into swinging.
Good luck OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good Evening everyone, I’m looking for some advice on how to get my girlfriend in to the idea of swinging for the first time, we have never spoke about the idea at all.
Looking for advice from MF couples both new and experienced, married and in a relationship?
Thanks How long have you been together? We would only recommend it's something to get into if you've been together for a long time, are both sexually adventurous, and already have a great sex life. If so, watch Swingers on Channel 4 next Monday together, ask her if she'd fancy it "
Think i will watch this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good Evening everyone, I’m looking for some advice on how to get my girlfriend in to the idea of swinging for the first time, we have never spoke about the idea at all.
Looking for advice from MF couples both new and experienced, married and in a relationship?
Don't agree with only getting involved if you've been together a long time.
We've been together 3 years are solid and just starting out!
Thanks How long have you been together? We would only recommend it's something to get into if you've been together for a long time, are both sexually adventurous, and already have a great sex life. If so, watch Swingers on Channel 4 next Monday together, ask her if she'd fancy it "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just show her your profile and see if she likes it. "
There is always one!
I guess I'll do the follow up...
She's already into it... check out my verification  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seen loads of posts about meetings people on here and talking it further than just meets. That's my ideal: if I meet someone already in this lifestyle, then that would make these awkward conversations must easier. Good luck, glad you are ready to have the conversation and not doing it behind her back. |
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