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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We're still really new to this world and we don't kiss others, unless Peaches is having a bi encounter with another lady then she will kiss/snog the Lady. We pretty much just kiss on the lips now with a cheeky snog during sexytimes at home. Couples - When your in a soft/full swap meet where kissing is allowed all around,would you say you kiss/snog the other partner of the couple more than you would with your own partner during sex at home?? I know every meet is different and depends on different vibes. I'm quite intrigued to know, and I guess we're both a little insecure about it if we was to allow it in our play. Would love to here couples thoughts. |
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We don't miss our casual sex partners passionately. We're not big kissers anyway.
The thing to remember is that there is no right way to do this. Your way is right *for you*. If it's not how other people want to do it, it just means you're not compatible.
Plenty will disagree about kissing and tell you they'll never meet people who don't kiss, it's too clinical etc etc. But I think it's just rude.
You do you, proudly and enjoy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mrs p was always against the thought of kissing others but soon realised it was part of the intimacy of sex. She enjoys being fucked more when kissing then when she doesn't. It was one of those rules we pushed until we were both happy so just do what your comfortable with. At the end of the day everyone's journey is different but I always say it's about enhancing the couple's fun, not about what the other party wants. Do what you want and have your own rules that work for you |
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"Kissing is very important to us simply because it's what gets us both going. I couldn't meet someone who wouldn't.
Lou x"
This for me too
When I meet with my partner, there has to be some good old fashioned snogging to set things off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We won’t meet people who don’t kiss, it completes the experience for us.
It doesn’t make sense for people to say it’s too intimate, yet they will engage in oral and full swap. |
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"We won’t meet people who don’t kiss, it completes the experience for us.
It doesn’t make sense for people to say it’s too intimate, yet they will engage in oral and full swap."
It makes complete sense to have a preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We won’t meet people who don’t kiss, it completes the experience for us.
It doesn’t make sense for people to say it’s too intimate, yet they will engage in oral and full swap.
It makes complete sense to have a preference. "
Is kissing more intimate than burying your face into someone’s genitals then?
We understand it may be a preference but I think you missed the point  |
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"We won’t meet people who don’t kiss, it completes the experience for us.
It doesn’t make sense for people to say it’s too intimate, yet they will engage in oral and full swap.
It makes complete sense to have a preference.
Is kissing more intimate than burying your face into someone’s genitals then?
We understand it may be a preference but I think you missed the point "
To some people, yes it is. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"I think is everyone is different, so some will agree some won’t. Kissing is massive to me - it’s very important and I won’t people who don’t kiss . "
Yes, same for us - we’d never consider a meet where kissing wasn’t as equally shared an experience as licking, sucking and fucking.
But it’s a purely personal preference like many others. What people like is up to them alone. |
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There's loads not meeting us 
We got asked by a Lady at a club "who's decision is it that you don't kiss?". The answer was "both of us". Looking back it's quite disturbing for someone to question others boundaries  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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Kissing is huge to us - we won’t meet non kissers and it’s full on , passionate , intimate. Each to their own and no issue with non kissers, just like bare backers and bi couples , it’s your choice but just find it slightly weird when females in couples will kiss other females during sex but not other males but happy to sick and lick genitals of either sex. What’s the explanation of that ? |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"We won’t meet people who don’t kiss, it completes the experience for us.
It doesn’t make sense for people to say it’s too intimate, yet they will engage in oral and full swap.
It makes complete sense to have a preference.
Is kissing more intimate than burying your face into someone’s genitals then?
We understand it may be a preference but I think you missed the point
To some people, yes it is. "
Hell yes! Looking deep into someone’s eyes , gently touching their face , pulling their hair a little , giving and taking tongues and lips, teasing and communicating like that is way , way more intimate to eating a cock or pussy. |
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"There's loads not meeting us
We got asked by a Lady at a club "who's decision is it that you don't kiss?". The answer was "both of us". Looking back it's quite disturbing for someone to question others boundaries "
It is. I just don't know why this seems to be an acceptable boundary to question. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We won’t meet people who don’t kiss, it completes the experience for us.
It doesn’t make sense for people to say it’s too intimate, yet they will engage in oral and full swap.
It makes complete sense to have a preference.
Is kissing more intimate than burying your face into someone’s genitals then?
We understand it may be a preference but I think you missed the point "
To be honest I have this perception upto now. For example - if peaches was to kiss another man more passionately then she does me i'd probably have a brain fart in our journey so far, Where if she was giving oral to the guy i'd be thinking in my head(what a dirty slut. I think it comes down to experience and how long you have been together. We've done some things which if you asked me at the start of our journey I would of said no way and we wouldn't have stepped into the lifestyle. So yer I think it comes down to experience and levels. For us anyway upto now. |
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