FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Couples: Who’s driving the profile?
Couples: Who’s driving the profile?
Jump to: Newest in thread
We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.
How do you guys operate?
The Boy. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.
How do you guys operate?
The Boy. "
We're the opposite of you guys. I'm the one who uses the forums and does the messages mostly. I'm the biggest flirt 
Mrs x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.
How do you guys operate?
The Boy.
We're the opposite of you guys. I'm the one who uses the forums and does the messages mostly. I'm the biggest flirt
Mrs x"
Gorgeous outfits hun xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.
How do you guys operate?
The Boy. "
Pretty much the same as you. She tried running it, but got fed up of the rude guys messaging |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.
How do you guys operate?
The Boy. "
Exactly the same - Niki just doesn't have the patience!
K |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Sky has no interest in it. I (blue) sift through all of the crap and only share with sky anything I feel we'll both be interested in. If I have whittled that down to 10%, I know sky will whittle that down further to about 2% after showing her. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We both reply here.
I tend to get excited and carried away, then Lily comes along and asks all the important things I’ve overlooked. She’s the Admin!
- John"
Women are far more practical than men. Lol. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.
How do you guys operate?
The Boy. "
Pretty much the same. I (he) does the filtering for her to avoid personalising countless Want Fuck Noooow requests. We chat/laugh/WTF over forums.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We both do. I (fem) am probably more active on the forums and fab more pics though because I have more time. Both read all messages, but because we aren't always together when they arrive in the inbox they sometimes sit there until we have both seen them before one of us will write a reply.
K |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
MrS doea most of the winks, reaching out, messages etc. I tend to stick to the forums. Will message when a couple or individual floats my boat. I stay quiet if I am not interested. Let MrD know offline that I am not keen and let him deal with it.
MsD |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's me Mrs N who answers messages and posts on the forum. Mr N manages photos, reads all the messages and deletes and blocks the ones addressed only to me  . The profile text is written by me with his input and approval. So you could say that either one of us can be behind the wheel but it's a dual control car. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's me Mrs N who answers messages and posts on the forum. Mr N manages photos, reads all the messages and deletes and blocks the ones addressed only to me . The profile text is written by me with his input and approval. So you could say that either one of us can be behind the wheel but it's a dual control car."
Are you both forum mods or just one of you????
T |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I (Bebe/her) do the fabbing as SjA cannot get beyond the terrible outdated design of the site. SjA looks after our swinging apps but I’m not a fan of them because there is no forum or virtual public place to out the dicks and I don’t want to waste my time chatting to someone one to one to find this out. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's mostly me (D) who makes initial contact, forums, fabs or makes initial replies and vets blokes unless C is very horny, sees someone she fancies or actively looking or going to a club. C is the only one who accepts friend requests. C is basically too busy with life to spend ages on here and if she hits it off she will move conversation to whats app |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's mainly me (N) - S doesn't use the forums, so that's always me. He looks at the messages and we discuss things together etc. When meeting was a possibility, we obviously looked at profiles together, made plans etc. but I'm in the driver's seat. It's excellent fun when people (usually guys) message us and assume they are talking to S  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.
How do you guys operate?
The Boy. "
i was when I was part of the couple  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's me Mrs N who answers messages and posts on the forum. Mr N manages photos, reads all the messages and deletes and blocks the ones addressed only to me . The profile text is written by me with his input and approval. So you could say that either one of us can be behind the wheel but it's a dual control car.
Are you both forum mods or just one of you????
T"
The profile is a forum mods profile |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.
How do you guys operate?
The Boy. "
We are exactly the same, I tend to only get involved once things have got past the initial messages stage. But I do like a play around on the forums 
Mrs xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's me Mrs N who answers messages and posts on the forum. Mr N manages photos, reads all the messages and deletes and blocks the ones addressed only to me . The profile text is written by me with his input and approval. So you could say that either one of us can be behind the wheel but it's a dual control car.
Are you both forum mods or just one of you????
T
The profile is a forum mods profile "
Nice
Thank you and good job.
Only asked because I wondered if Rugby’s profile was him or her wearing the stockings which look amazing if they read this.!!
T |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Its always the M doing the initial engagements with us.
The doesnt have the patience to deal with the flakes and the timewasters. She only gets involved once ive determined that the potential playmate is sufficiently serious that its worth her time. Usually that isnt on Fab however as we will generally move the conversation to a kik group chat at that time. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Its always the M doing the initial engagements with us.
The doesnt have the patience to deal with the flakes and the timewasters. She only gets involved once ive determined that the potential playmate is sufficiently serious that its worth her time. Usually that isnt on Fab however as we will generally move the conversation to a kik group chat at that time."
This is very much how we work. By the time I’ve determined a potential couple or single guy for her, it’s moved over to WhatsApp where she joins in and starts flirting, seducing, exchanging pics and discussing dates and locations etc without having to worry and deal with all the pre qualifying. It means for her it’s close to 100% conversation to meet ratio |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Almost always Bloke in the forums but we both check winks, messages, etc.
So it could be either of us.
If we think there is an interesting message or someone/couple we may be interested in then we will highlight it to each other.
These situations are few and far between though as we get the same pointless 'Hi', 'How you doin? ', 'Wow, great pics', 'Free right now', uninvited cock pics, etc. type messages, as most do, so either delete, block or sarcastically reply.
Clubs and organised socials have been our main source of finding others. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
D.