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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a single straight guy, under normal circumstances I'd say this is a challenge. Other than clubs - have you met vanilla and developed or just open and told your new partner you're into it and they happened to be also. Would love to hear your tales - straight forward and unusual on how couples got together and into the lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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L had no swing experience at all before we met. She had one FFM which had occured organically in her late teens but that was it.
She knew she was fully bisexual though, so that helped.
I was very open about what i was into before we formalised what we were doing into a relationship, she knew i had a bit of a history as a naughty boy and that swinging was my outlet for that side of my personality. To my amazement she totally got on board with it and we've developed together on the scene since.
I think it depends on how much of a priority you place on swinging being a part of your next relationship. if its a huge thing for you then be honest about it and accept that you're probably going to have a lot of women walk away at that stage and thats fine.
If its not that important to you, decide whether or not its worth limiting your options to only those women who have an interest or potential interest in the scene. |
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