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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else"
Why have you posted this in the forum?  |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else"
I’ve been back for less than 24 hours and almost at that point too. . It clearly states right at the top of my profile that I’m not meeting. I’ve seen a veritable phalanx of phalluses (ugh) and already have over 300 messages in my inbox wanting to know whether I can meet, whether I want to have text sex right now/watch them cum and, bizarrely, why I don’t include fisting in my likes.
I give myself three days before I’m off here again.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else
Why have you posted this in the forum? "
because i can?????
and also to hopefuly stop men being idiots whan they message, you prroblem is what, just the sort of thin we are trying to avoid, swinging should be fun, attacking someone on an open forum doesnt make us look bad, vut it does others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else"
We are looking for single guys. But if they haven't read our profile or match what we are looking for or come out with the 'fancy a fuck' messgae we private note them or block. There really are some good single guys out there. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else
I’ve been back for less than 24 hours and almost at that point too. . It clearly states right at the top of my profile that I’m not meeting. I’ve seen a veritable phalanx of phalluses (ugh) and already have over 300 messages in my inbox wanting to know whether I can meet, whether I want to have text sex right now/watch them cum and, bizarrely, why I don’t include fisting in my likes.
I give myself three days before I’m off here again. "
ots such a shame isnt it, the bad outway the good, dont get me wrong we have met some great men, before anyone gets judgemental |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else
Why have you posted this in the forum?
because i can?????
and also to hopefuly stop men being idiots whan they message, you prroblem is what, just the sort of thin we are trying to avoid, swinging should be fun, attacking someone on an open forum doesnt make us look bad, vut it does others"
I am not attacking anyone, for example I have blocked a few people today, just didn’t feel the need to make a thread about it . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else
Why have you posted this in the forum?
because i can?????
and also to hopefuly stop men being idiots whan they message, you prroblem is what, just the sort of thin we are trying to avoid, swinging should be fun, attacking someone on an open forum doesnt make us look bad, vut it does others
I am not attacking anyone, for example I have blocked a few people today, just didn’t feel the need to make a thread about it . "
but fely the need to comment  |
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"I've blocked all new messages since April.
I’ve been sending them since March!!! (only joking!)
and no reply, thats just rude "
I can’t complain,I’ve had hundreds of messages off her since. I’m even thinking of blocking her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else
Why have you posted this in the forum?
because i can?????
and also to hopefuly stop men being idiots whan they message, you prroblem is what, just the sort of thin we are trying to avoid, swinging should be fun, attacking someone on an open forum doesnt make us look bad, vut it does others
I am not attacking anyone, for example I have blocked a few people today, just didn’t feel the need to make a thread about it . but fely the need to comment "
Yeah, because I can |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've blocked all new messages since April.
I’ve been sending them since March!!! (only joking!)
and no reply, thats just rude
I can’t complain,I’ve had hundreds of messages off her since. I’m even thinking of blocking her "
sounds like a bunny boiler |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else
Why have you posted this in the forum?
because i can?????
and also to hopefuly stop men being idiots whan they message, you prroblem is what, just the sort of thin we are trying to avoid, swinging should be fun, attacking someone on an open forum doesnt make us look bad, vut it does others
I am not attacking anyone, for example I have blocked a few people today, just didn’t feel the need to make a thread about it . but fely the need to comment
Yeah, because I can "
fair point lol  |
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"I've blocked all new messages since April.
I’ve been sending them since March!!! (only joking!)
and no reply, thats just rude
I can’t complain,I’ve had hundreds of messages off her since. I’m even thinking of blocking her
sounds like a bunny boiler"
Na she looks nice and I like her posts on the forum,funny and caring. Don’t tell her that tho! |
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else
I’ve been back for less than 24 hours and almost at that point too. . It clearly states right at the top of my profile that I’m not meeting. I’ve seen a veritable phalanx of phalluses (ugh) and already have over 300 messages in my inbox wanting to know whether I can meet, whether I want to have text sex right now/watch them cum and, bizarrely, why I don’t include fisting in my likes.
I give myself three days before I’m off here again. ots such a shame isnt it, the bad outway the good, dont get me wrong we have met some great men, before anyone gets judgemental"
Sorry the numpties have been annoying you. It’s no wonder ladies and couples stuck to stealth mode here is it! I hope that you’ll keep your filters on and come and find the gents you like the look of yourself. Then hopefully you can avoid the idiots and enjoy Fan for what it should. Good friendly sexy fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"it's a shame that idiots spoil it for others.
Top tip try some of us mature male's as we have much better manners and have a lot more respect for couples than these younger so called super studs."
weve actualy found the oposit to be true |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else
I’ve been back for less than 24 hours and almost at that point too. . It clearly states right at the top of my profile that I’m not meeting. I’ve seen a veritable phalanx of phalluses (ugh) and already have over 300 messages in my inbox wanting to know whether I can meet, whether I want to have text sex right now/watch them cum and, bizarrely, why I don’t include fisting in my likes.
I give myself three days before I’m off here again. ots such a shame isnt it, the bad outway the good, dont get me wrong we have met some great men, before anyone gets judgemental
Sorry the numpties have been annoying you. It’s no wonder ladies and couples stuck to stealth mode here is it! I hope that you’ll keep your filters on and come and find the gents you like the look of yourself. Then hopefully you can avoid the idiots and enjoy Fan for what it should. Good friendly sexy fun."
we just think ist sad that people cant play nice, but a sign of the times i suppose, to many people think its instashag, not a swinging site |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else
I’ve been back for less than 24 hours and almost at that point too. . It clearly states right at the top of my profile that I’m not meeting. I’ve seen a veritable phalanx of phalluses (ugh) and already have over 300 messages in my inbox wanting to know whether I can meet, whether I want to have text sex right now/watch them cum and, bizarrely, why I don’t include fisting in my likes.
I give myself three days before I’m off here again. ots such a shame isnt it, the bad outway the good, dont get me wrong we have met some great men, before anyone gets judgemental
Sorry the numpties have been annoying you. It’s no wonder ladies and couples stuck to stealth mode here is it! I hope that you’ll keep your filters on and come and find the gents you like the look of yourself. Then hopefully you can avoid the idiots and enjoy Fan for what it should. Good friendly sexy fun.
we just think ist sad that people cant play nice, but a sign of the times i suppose, to many people think its instashag, not a swinging site"
How do you define ‘swinging ‘
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Unfortunately I suspect a lot of the men that read the forum posts and know how things work on here are probably not the main culprits in terms of the dick pic flooding and fancy a fucks!
But it’s a place to get it off your chest and that in itself is therapeutic! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else
I’ve been back for less than 24 hours and almost at that point too. . It clearly states right at the top of my profile that I’m not meeting. I’ve seen a veritable phalanx of phalluses (ugh) and already have over 300 messages in my inbox wanting to know whether I can meet, whether I want to have text sex right now/watch them cum and, bizarrely, why I don’t include fisting in my likes.
I give myself three days before I’m off here again. ots such a shame isnt it, the bad outway the good, dont get me wrong we have met some great men, before anyone gets judgemental
Sorry the numpties have been annoying you. It’s no wonder ladies and couples stuck to stealth mode here is it! I hope that you’ll keep your filters on and come and find the gents you like the look of yourself. Then hopefully you can avoid the idiots and enjoy Fan for what it should. Good friendly sexy fun.
we just think ist sad that people cant play nice, but a sign of the times i suppose, to many people think its instashag, not a swinging site
How do you define ‘swinging ‘
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to us swinging is making friends and then maybe playing, is that what you wanted to hear, or are you just being argumentitive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think there would be less moaning about single men if others did same and then put the effort into looking for what they want rather than taking a passive role and getting hacked off. |
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I blocked men completely a good while ago.
I’m afraid men aren’t generally ‘my thing’ as such, but would not be adverse to a degree of conversation or intelligent ‘banter’ or chat, or even respond to some nice compliments made in the right way which I did.
However 99% of messages were simple ‘phishing’ unintelligible one liners from blokes I wouldn't be seen within a million miles of ... let alone contemplate anything further ... most of whom claim to be ‘straight’ ( yeah right), but clearly have identity issues and are kidding themselves!
Therefore I humbly apologise to the 1% of nice blokes out there who are the complete anthesis of all I have described above.
No compunction whatsoever doing what I needed to do!
However ... now my mail box is incredibly quiet - hey ho!
R xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well weve decided to block all men from messaging, shame, as we do meet men, but there are so many idiots who cant read a profile, who send a fancy a shag message, so sorry guys unless you are already a frien then we wont be hearing from you, shame a few idiots ruin it for everyone else
I’ve been back for less than 24 hours and almost at that point too. . It clearly states right at the top of my profile that I’m not meeting. I’ve seen a veritable phalanx of phalluses (ugh) and already have over 300 messages in my inbox wanting to know whether I can meet, whether I want to have text sex right now/watch them cum and, bizarrely, why I don’t include fisting in my likes.
I give myself three days before I’m off here again. ots such a shame isnt it, the bad outway the good, dont get me wrong we have met some great men, before anyone gets judgemental
Sorry the numpties have been annoying you. It’s no wonder ladies and couples stuck to stealth mode here is it! I hope that you’ll keep your filters on and come and find the gents you like the look of yourself. Then hopefully you can avoid the idiots and enjoy Fan for what it should. Good friendly sexy fun.
we just think ist sad that people cant play nice, but a sign of the times i suppose, to many people think its instashag, not a swinging site
How do you define ‘swinging ‘
to us swinging is making friends and then maybe playing, is that what you wanted to hear, or are you just being argumentitive"
Why are you so defensive? Swinging means different things to different people, I guess it can be all things to all people?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think there would be less moaning about single men if others did same and then put the effort into looking for what they want rather than taking a passive role and getting hacked off. "
Spot on, the whiff of entitlement is strong on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Think there would be less moaning about single men if others did same and then put the effort into looking for what they want rather than taking a passive role and getting hacked off. "
think our profile is fairly honest about what we are looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think there would be less moaning about single men if others did same and then put the effort into looking for what they want rather than taking a passive role and getting hacked off.
think our profile is fairly honest about what we are looking for"
Not looked at it, was just meaning there's many who complain about messages from men yet they have the option to stop the messages complained about by blocking men and doing the search themself, simple solution I'd think yeah?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Think there would be less moaning about single men if others did same and then put the effort into looking for what they want rather than taking a passive role and getting hacked off.
think our profile is fairly honest about what we are looking for
Not looked at it, was just meaning there's many who complain about messages from men yet they have the option to stop the messages complained about by blocking men and doing the search themself, simple solution I'd think yeah? "
thats what we have now done, just think its a shame we have to really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think there would be less moaning about single men if others did same and then put the effort into looking for what they want rather than taking a passive role and getting hacked off.
think our profile is fairly honest about what we are looking for
Not looked at it, was just meaning there's many who complain about messages from men yet they have the option to stop the messages complained about by blocking men and doing the search themself, simple solution I'd think yeah?
thats what we have now done, just think its a shame we have to really"
Why? If you are continually getting unsuitable messages then it only makes sense for you to make an effort and search and message the people you want to talk to ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think there would be less moaning about single men if others did same and then put the effort into looking for what they want rather than taking a passive role and getting hacked off.
think our profile is fairly honest about what we are looking for
Not looked at it, was just meaning there's many who complain about messages from men yet they have the option to stop the messages complained about by blocking men and doing the search themself, simple solution I'd think yeah?
thats what we have now done, just think its a shame we have to really"
Fair point but could also argue why shouldn't you do the searching though. Also wondered at the rationale for doing a forum post about it, could backfire and just create negative attention, best just to go quietly about your business and do what's right for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Think there would be less moaning about single men if others did same and then put the effort into looking for what they want rather than taking a passive role and getting hacked off.
think our profile is fairly honest about what we are looking for
Not looked at it, was just meaning there's many who complain about messages from men yet they have the option to stop the messages complained about by blocking men and doing the search themself, simple solution I'd think yeah?
thats what we have now done, just think its a shame we have to really
Why? If you are continually getting unsuitable messages then it only makes sense for you to make an effort and search and message the people you want to talk to ? "
its a shame we have to block everyone because of a few bad apples, spoiles it for the good ones, and we know they are out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think there would be less moaning about single men if others did same and then put the effort into looking for what they want rather than taking a passive role and getting hacked off.
think our profile is fairly honest about what we are looking for
Not looked at it, was just meaning there's many who complain about messages from men yet they have the option to stop the messages complained about by blocking men and doing the search themself, simple solution I'd think yeah?
thats what we have now done, just think its a shame we have to really
Why? If you are continually getting unsuitable messages then it only makes sense for you to make an effort and search and message the people you want to talk to ?
its a shame we have to block everyone because of a few bad apples, spoiles it for the good ones, and we know they are out there"
It really isn’t such a big deal if you have to delete a couple of unsuitable messages a day? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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just block the idiots ?? i only meet guys so i just block the idiots or guys im just not interested in by doing that i get 2 or 3 idiots a day and the rest fairly decent messages ......block block block cant tarr the good ones with the same brush an idiot ruins it for himself nobody else
got to be at least a 1,000 on my block list i reclon as i block anywhere for 3 to 10 everyday but it saves me in the long run |
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Is a shame you need to do that O/p but totally understand your decision. After speaking to many friends on here the single guy situation has got a lot worse. The worrying thing is lots just think of it as a sex site and feel there entitled to sex. Half struggle to get into a conversation and think sending a cock picture is going to work. Sadly few of these guys have now started going to the clubs to. Shame can’t turn the clocks back a bit. I’ve been swinging over 9 years now and can’t remember it been so bad at start |
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