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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

which one prefered???

people say they feel different?

whats your views on this

I prefer, always safe actually also how often do people actually get tests?

interesting to see responses

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't like condoms but they're an absolute neccessity in swinging. It feels like I'm having a bath with my socks on but needs must if we want to stay safe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am sure everyone prefers bare sex.. its just not sensible..

We mostly play safe for full sex.. but will if we want to go bare.. oral we never use a condom for...

I actually prefer giving oral to full sex with a condom on.... It feels totally different with a condom on... It just doesn't feel nice.

As for testing.. when we are playing normally its every 4-6weeks....

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am allergic to condoms (or what they put on them) and the damn things dry me out but I still use them because the alternative is worse, but I have very little extra sex now, doesn't seem worth the pain. I have a partner who I have unprotected sex with and god it feels good!

I get tested every 4 months.

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By *eminiman61Man over a year ago

mansfield

I agree with a partner bb with a swinger loveglove on,although I've done bb with one nighters/swinger I was tested clean 2 weeks ago

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By *exki11enWoman over a year ago

Bristol

I know i'm in the minority, but I actually prefer sex with condoms

I'm a little OCD when it comes to mess, and although I'm getting better, and obviously don't use with hubby, I would probably prefer to given the choice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am sure everyone prefers bare sex.. its just not sensible..

We mostly play safe for full sex.. but will if we want to go bare.. oral we never use a condom for...

I actually prefer giving oral to full sex with a condom on.... It feels totally different with a condom on... It just doesn't feel nice.

As for testing.. when we are playing normally its every 4-6weeks....

Cali "

agree with cali here.....it suprises me how many claim to have been tested and know very little about the regime off testing and the questions asked tho.... even been asked what a GUM clinic was by someone saying tested regular.... some fibbing going on methinks....hence love bareback...but 4 swinging...no glove no love....simples xxx

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By *eminiman61Man over a year ago

mansfield

You think GUM would give you a stamped green card like pro's used to get in Germany

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You think GUM would give you a stamped green card like pro's used to get in Germany

Like an mot It's only a snap shot at that moment your tested...

We all know that condoms are a help.. But I think to many still think that by using them its safe and therefore don't get tested.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it would help to have evidence of a clean test, but you are right, it's like a new computer! out of date the instant you get it unless you keep you cock in your pants or your legs crossed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

safe.

always will be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i prefer bareback

but are you actually asking what people do because what i prefer and what i do isnt always the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it would help to have evidence of a clean test, but you are right, it's like a new computer! out of date the instant you get it unless you keep you cock in your pants or your legs crossed."

I have a prob wi me pants stoppin on and me legs are uncomfy crossed xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am allergic to condoms (or what they put on them) and the damn things dry me out but I still use them because the alternative is worse, but I have very little extra sex now, doesn't seem worth the pain. I have a partner who I have unprotected sex with and god it feels good!

I get tested every 4 months. "

im the same if the only condoms to hand are latex ones i wont do full sex and they make me very dry and sore and have rubbed me till i have bled at times, even if i use lub it drys very quick

Took me ages to find a condom that suited me so now i always carry my own as they are quite expensive and guys on here just arnt willing to spend more than they have to, i have had a few meets say they will get the type i use them turn up with different ones and still expected a shag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

prefer bareback but it's gotta be safe all the time.

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By *eminiman61Man over a year ago

mansfield

Yes I Understand that the card would only confirm you were clean on say Monday 3rd but it proves the person does go n was clean recently........ I also know some ppl would fake em.

I still think it'd be a start

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes I Understand that the card would only confirm you were clean on say Monday 3rd but it proves the person does go n was clean recently........ I also know some ppl would fake em.

I still think it'd be a start

OMG your right they wud fake em !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First time I fucked a girl from a swinging site I got an infection. Not a commonly named one. In fact not testef for in GUzm clinics. The most common ones arnt. Eg microplasma genitalium or ureapladma urealyactum. Can cause nasty probs for women and sometimes men. And just think it could be AIDS. bareback in swinging scene is insanity. Only for the stupid.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"First time I fucked a girl from a swinging site I got an infection. Not a commonly named one. In fact not testef for in GUzm clinics. The most common ones arnt. Eg microplasma genitalium or ureapladma urealyactum. Can cause nasty probs for women and sometimes men. And just think it could be AIDS. bareback in swinging scene is insanity. Only for the stupid."

but like you, most will learn that for themselves the hard way

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By *ishopstippleMan over a year ago

Purley

I get tested every 4 months.

im the same if the only condoms to hand are latex ones i wont do full sex and they make me very dry and sore and have rubbed me till i have bled at times, even if i use lub it drys very quick

FFS Mates make non latex ones called synn i think and go buy some lube even sainsburys sell it these days.

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple over a year ago

Boldon

I get tested every 4 months.

im the same if the only condoms to hand are latex ones i wont do full sex and they make me very dry and sore and have rubbed me till i have bled at times, even if i use lub it drys very quick

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FFS Mates make non latex ones called synn i think and go buy some lube even sainsburys sell it these days.

Skyns are the name of a non latex brand of condoms - available at all good supermarkets and pharmacies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bareback everytime!!!! We have never ever used a condom with each other

However, when involving others, condoms are a must. X

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By *inktherapyCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

which one prefered???

people say they feel different?

whats your views on this

I prefer, always safe actually also how often do people actually get tests?

interesting to see responses

Prefer bareback - soo much nicer. However, from a swinging point of view it's not responsible to do so - so condoms it is with playmates, bareback with husband.

Tests - depends on how often we play and also if there's been any accidents (lost/ split condoms - only happened a couple of times, but wait a couple of weeks and get another test, even if I've just had one just prior to the event)

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By *eminiman61Man over a year ago

mansfield

I'm off today for testing n a hep b jab

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By *ove2-shareCouple over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

like most of the aboves really, bareback with my wife, condoms when swinging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I cant stand smell of condoms and being slightly gross - they leave my knob all smelly aftrwards - however within the "swinging" / shared partner scene, they are a MUST have option

i be a lier to say i not done/had BB sex; but have done so ONLY with a known/trusted and respected partner.

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