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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't care if the message is polite or not, if I do not fancy meeting the gent who sends an unsolicited message, then it will be deleted without a reply, and would block the gent from future contacts.
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
Nice guys finish last....
Don't agree with that but there is a difference in being nice & polite in your messages and coming across as boring and not standing out from the others.
Think alot of the time it is more to do with messaging at the right time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience, women are not here for nice guys who send sweet messages... they have husbands / boyfriends for that purpose! Yes, treat the ladies and couples with the utmost respect but remember, the main reason most couples and single fems are here is to get fucked senseless and acquire something to add a bit of spice to their usual sex life. Just my thoughts anyway. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I put it that if you are genuinely being nice and send a polite message it is often ignored and deleted. Why? Feel free to discuss and make me see..."
not at all.. and i am lving proof of that..
I may not be the best looking bloke in the world.. and may not have the best figure... but I try to be the best "me" i can...
big believer in getting out what you put in...... |
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A face pic might help, a LOT of messages get sent out from profiles with no pic and they're largely timewasters.
Other than that, keep at it - you'll probably find that the people who do respond to your nice, polite messages are a better fit than the ones you might be hoping would respond.
personally I gave up on sending out messages after about a week, it's a colossal waste of effort and likely to piss off more people than it attracts. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree that you should stand out and that being polite is for husbands and boyfriends, but i deliberately dont put things like 'fancy a fuck' as its crude also wont do me any favours... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nice guys finish last....
Don't agree with that but there is a difference in being nice & polite in your messages and coming across as boring and not standing out from the others.
Think alot of the time it is more to do with messaging at the right time."
+1. In addition, remember that couples and single fems are absolutely inundated with messages! I remember being sat with a girl once when she was logged in and she was receiving messages quicker than what she could read them. It may sound nice, but could you handle that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I put it that if you are genuinely being nice and send a polite message it is often ignored and deleted. Why? Feel free to discuss and make me see...
not at all.. and i am lving proof of that..
I may not be the best looking bloke in the world.. and may not have the best figure... but I try to be the best "me" i can...
big believer in getting out what you put in......"
Ya big hunk of a man you Fabio lad id shag ya
If I was a WENCH of course I mean im not gay or owt you no
mwah xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree that you should stand out and that being polite is for husbands and boyfriends, but i deliberately dont put things like 'fancy a fuck' as its crude also wont do me any favours..."
Couldn't agree more! Respect and common courtesy are key to success! Don't treat people on here any differently than you would in a real life situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree that you should stand out and that being polite is for husbands and boyfriends, but i deliberately dont put things like 'fancy a fuck' as its crude also wont do me any favours..."
Being polite is for husbands and boyfriends????????? Have a long hard think.....
There are plenty of ways of standing out, that's what alot of people don't get in my opinion.
This site is prime thinking outside the box territory, especially if you are happy with who you are.......I'm living proof of that.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I put it that if you are genuinely being nice and send a polite message it is often ignored and deleted. Why? Feel free to discuss and make me see..."
That doesn't prove that nice guys finish last at all mate. Unless you can also show evidence that the dickheads and "fancy a fuck" brigade always get their messages replied to. Which I doubt, as they don't!
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I put it that if you are genuinely being nice and send a polite message it is often ignored and deleted. Why? Feel free to discuss and make me see...
That doesn't prove that nice guys finish last at all mate. Unless you can also show evidence that the dickheads and "fancy a fuck" brigade always get their messages replied to. Which I doubt, as they don't!
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I would reply to 'fancy a fuck' message from you....lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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movies.
woman lust after the violent hard man.
soaps. woman like the diry den or mitchell brothers type who take no shit and come across as dangerous.
sport.
champions are the ones who push the barriers and break the rules to win at all costs. fair players lose.
life.
how many woman do you know that have taken back a man who has hit them?
dont get angry with me ladies please im only stating the obvious.
woman like someone on the edge they cannot control. they do not want a boring door mat of a man.
good guys always finish last.
be a bastard and they will be throwing themselves at you.
experience proves this.
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"movies.
woman lust after the violent hard man.
soaps. woman like the diry den or mitchell brothers type who take no shit and come across as dangerous.
sport.
champions are the ones who push the barriers and break the rules to win at all costs. fair players lose.
life.
how many woman do you know that have taken back a man who has hit them?
dont get angry with me ladies please im only stating the obvious.
woman like someone on the edge they cannot control. they do not want a boring door mat of a man.
good guys always finish last.
be a bastard and they will be throwing themselves at you.
experience proves this.
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wondered when you would pop up with your "good guys finish last" statement. Youve been back a couple of weeks and its first time ive seen you type it you need to up the anti.
Oh and i will answer with my usual answer, what a lot of bollocks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I put it that if you are genuinely being nice and send a polite message it is often ignored and deleted. Why? Feel free to discuss and make me see...
That doesn't prove that nice guys finish last at all mate. Unless you can also show evidence that the dickheads and "fancy a fuck" brigade always get their messages replied to. Which I doubt, as they don't!
I would reply to 'fancy a fuck' message from you....lol "
I feel that maybe I should adopt a new approach then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"movies.
woman lust after the violent hard man.
soaps. woman like the diry den or mitchell brothers type who take no shit and come across as dangerous.
sport.
champions are the ones who push the barriers and break the rules to win at all costs. fair players lose.
life.
how many woman do you know that have taken back a man who has hit them?
dont get angry with me ladies please im only stating the obvious.
woman like someone on the edge they cannot control. they do not want a boring door mat of a man.
good guys always finish last.
be a bastard and they will be throwing themselves at you.
experience proves this.
wondered when you would pop up with your "good guys finish last" statement. Youve been back a couple of weeks and its first time ive seen you type it you need to up the anti.
Oh and i will answer with my usual answer, what a lot of bollocks"
like i give a toss what you think.
off your high horse |
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"movies.
woman lust after the violent hard man.
soaps. woman like the diry den or mitchell brothers type who take no shit and come across as dangerous.
sport.
champions are the ones who push the barriers and break the rules to win at all costs. fair players lose.
life.
how many woman do you know that have taken back a man who has hit them?
dont get angry with me ladies please im only stating the obvious.
woman like someone on the edge they cannot control. they do not want a boring door mat of a man.
good guys always finish last.
be a bastard and they will be throwing themselves at you.
experience proves this.
wondered when you would pop up with your "good guys finish last" statement. Youve been back a couple of weeks and its first time ive seen you type it you need to up the anti.
Oh and i will answer with my usual answer, what a lot of bollocks
like i give a toss what you think.
off your high horse "
see you got your crocodile head on, snap snap snap |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"movies.
woman lust after the violent hard man.
soaps. woman like the diry den or mitchell brothers type who take no shit and come across as dangerous.
sport.
champions are the ones who push the barriers and break the rules to win at all costs. fair players lose.
life.
how many woman do you know that have taken back a man who has hit them?
dont get angry with me ladies please im only stating the obvious.
woman like someone on the edge they cannot control. they do not want a boring door mat of a man.
good guys always finish last.
be a bastard and they will be throwing themselves at you.
experience proves this.
wondered when you would pop up with your "good guys finish last" statement. Youve been back a couple of weeks and its first time ive seen you type it you need to up the anti.
Oh and i will answer with my usual answer, what a lot of bollocks
like i give a toss what you think.
off your high horse "
Most of the bastards I know get looked at in much the same way by the women I know as the men.
As sad twats who they often tolerate - but wouldn't spend 1-2-1 time with if you paid them!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"movies.
woman lust after the violent hard man.
soaps. woman like the diry den or mitchell brothers type who take no shit and come across as dangerous.
sport.
champions are the ones who push the barriers and break the rules to win at all costs. fair players lose.
life.
how many woman do you know that have taken back a man who has hit them?
dont get angry with me ladies please im only stating the obvious.
woman like someone on the edge they cannot control. they do not want a boring door mat of a man.
good guys always finish last.
be a bastard and they will be throwing themselves at you.
experience proves this.
wondered when you would pop up with your "good guys finish last" statement. Youve been back a couple of weeks and its first time ive seen you type it you need to up the anti.
Oh and i will answer with my usual answer, what a lot of bollocks
like i give a toss what you think.
off your high horse
see you got your crocodile head on, snap snap snap"
not at all im sitting here laughing because i was waiting for you to join in after my post.
predictable.
and as my post clearly says' dont get upset with me ladies'
yuo fell hook,line and sinker but its good to see you havnt taken it personally pmsl |
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"movies.
woman lust after the violent hard man.
soaps. woman like the diry den or mitchell brothers type who take no shit and come across as dangerous.
sport.
champions are the ones who push the barriers and break the rules to win at all costs. fair players lose.
life.
how many woman do you know that have taken back a man who has hit them?
dont get angry with me ladies please im only stating the obvious.
woman like someone on the edge they cannot control. they do not want a boring door mat of a man.
good guys always finish last.
be a bastard and they will be throwing themselves at you.
experience proves this.
wondered when you would pop up with your "good guys finish last" statement. Youve been back a couple of weeks and its first time ive seen you type it you need to up the anti.
Oh and i will answer with my usual answer, what a lot of bollocks
like i give a toss what you think.
off your high horse
see you got your crocodile head on, snap snap snap
not at all im sitting here laughing because i was waiting for you to join in after my post.
predictable.
and as my post clearly says' dont get upset with me ladies'
yuo fell hook,line and sinker but its good to see you havnt taken it personally pmsl"
Im not upset, im never upset, its the way you tar all women that maked me laugh. Also a gentlmen would say toss to a woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I put it that if you are genuinely being nice and send a polite message it is often ignored and deleted. Why? Feel free to discuss and make me see...
That doesn't prove that nice guys finish last at all mate. Unless you can also show evidence that the dickheads and "fancy a fuck" brigade always get their messages replied to. Which I doubt, as they don't!
I would reply to 'fancy a fuck' message from you....lol "
As would I from you guys...and the reply would be very positive indeed... |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"movies.
woman lust after the violent hard man.
soaps. woman like the diry den or mitchell brothers type who take no shit and come across as dangerous.
sport.
champions are the ones who push the barriers and break the rules to win at all costs. fair players lose.
life.
how many woman do you know that have taken back a man who has hit them?
dont get angry with me ladies please im only stating the obvious.
woman like someone on the edge they cannot control. they do not want a boring door mat of a man.
good guys always finish last.
be a bastard and they will be throwing themselves at you.
experience proves this.
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Sorry but that's a load of rubbish!
I often like the look of 'bad boys' as I generally prefer the unpolished rocker look. But as for other stuff...no thanks.
I don't and won't put up with anyone like that. |
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"movies.
woman lust after the violent hard man.
soaps. woman like the diry den or mitchell brothers type who take no shit and come across as dangerous.
sport.
champions are the ones who push the barriers and break the rules to win at all costs. fair players lose.
life.
how many woman do you know that have taken back a man who has hit them?
dont get angry with me ladies please im only stating the obvious.
woman like someone on the edge they cannot control. they do not want a boring door mat of a man.
good guys always finish last.
be a bastard and they will be throwing themselves at you.
experience proves this.
Sorry but that's a load of rubbish!
I often like the look of 'bad boys' as I generally prefer the unpolished rocker look. But as for other stuff...no thanks.
I don't and won't put up with anyone like that."
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"I put it that if you are genuinely being nice and send a polite message it is often ignored and deleted. Why? Feel free to discuss and make me see..."
If it makes you feel better you believe whatever you want. |
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