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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i think ive worked it out at last
women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time
men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think ive worked it out at last
women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time
men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet
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Yes that is often true. However I use Fab to find a guy for regular meets rather than swinging, as I do that rarely.
However if you read their profiles and messages it’s easy to out the ones that will say anything for a f**k and go or as a last resort - they often resort to begging when you say no  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i think ive worked it out at last
women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time
men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet
Yes that is often true. However I use Fab to find a guy for regular meets rather than swinging, as I do that rarely.
However if you read their profiles and messages it’s easy to out the ones that will say anything for a f**k and go or as a last resort - they often resort to begging when you say no "
well having been on fab from the start and other sites before fab i can honestly say i know what to look out for (most of the time lol) and this is guys who have excellent veris and have been on the scene for years and think they know how to play you ....anyone can work out the ''hey fancy a fuck crowd '' lol i guess even being very picky can not guarantee anything..
and once i say no i block everytime without fail
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time for me so much so that we have become a couple "
thats fine when your looking for a single woman who wants that  |
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"i think ive worked it out at last
women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time
men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet
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I would prefer a regular lady |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Methinks that perhaps one is expecting exclusivity without having to deal with the risk of hurt feelings that go along with asking for it."
im exclusive to no one and i dont want it either lol just what they say they are looking for at the begining nothing more nothing less nothing creeps me out more than exclusive deffo not for me and i would not meet a guy who wants that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not a lonley hearts site if u want exclusive try match or elitesingles"
and thats aimed at who ??
lol im a married swinger the clus is in ''married'' and ''swinger'' who said anything about exclusive not me just talking about regular nothing else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Methinks that perhaps one is expecting exclusivity without having to deal with the risk of hurt feelings that go along with asking for it.
im exclusive to no one and i dont want it either lol just what they say they are looking for at the begining nothing more nothing less nothing creeps me out more than exclusive deffo not for me and i would not meet a guy who wants that"
If you say so, the OP does sound more than a little bit butthurt that the regular guy is meeting others. If thats not the case, well fair enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would disagree, like others have said it depends upon if exclusivity is wanted. The site is used for many different things, yes there are dishonest people using it too but that’s why It’s best to ask the question up front and make sure both want the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Methinks that perhaps one is expecting exclusivity without having to deal with the risk of hurt feelings that go along with asking for it.
im exclusive to no one and i dont want it either lol just what they say they are looking for at the begining nothing more nothing less nothing creeps me out more than exclusive deffo not for me and i would not meet a guy who wants that
If you say so, the OP does sound more than a little bit butthurt that the regular guy is meeting others. If thats not the case, well fair enough."
and yet again way of the mark ive no concern as to who meets who lol oh boy this is getting twisted at every level since when did the word regular mean exclusive or your mine and nobody else's ?? as said above im exclusive to no one and would never meet anyone who wants that ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is the problem that they don’t want to meet as often as you? "
that could be simply the case maybe over promising things in the first place ..i guess that can happen |
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The reason we've wanted regular play mates is so we can build a level of comfort to try more awkward/difficult things.
Things like DVP. It's something we really want to try but it requires a level of comfort and trust that's a lot higher than we get on a standard meet.
There's more things we want to try with women and couples to that would need a higher level of comfort.
There's also the added bonus everyone knows and it's that sex gets better the more you know someone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The reason we've wanted regular play mates is so we can build a level of comfort to try more awkward/difficult things.
Things like DVP. It's something we really want to try but it requires a level of comfort and trust that's a lot higher than we get on a standard meet.
There's more things we want to try with women and couples to that would need a higher level of comfort.
There's also the added bonus everyone knows and it's that sex gets better the more you know someone. "
snap ... this profile and my couples profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think ive worked it out at last
women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time
men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet
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OMG.....apparently I'm a woman!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not aimed at anyone it's a general comment think your taking it as a personal insult it's not meant to be so my apologies if it came across that way x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Obviously meeting the wrong guys OP "
think you maybe right its about a couple of guys only im not moaning about all as ive had lots of fantastic meets over the years with hubs and on my own in fact these 2 are on another site more fetish minded the post was just a little grumble lol maybe had i had a slice of cake first id not of written it 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think ive worked it out at last
women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time
men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet
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"The reason we've wanted regular play mates is so we can build a level of comfort to try more awkward/difficult things.
Things like DVP. It's something we really want to try but it requires a level of comfort and trust that's a lot higher than we get on a standard meet.
There's more things we want to try with women and couples to that would need a higher level of comfort.
There's also the added bonus everyone knows and it's that sex gets better the more you know someone. "
Totally agree with this,this sounds like us |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"i think ive worked it out at last
women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time
men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet
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To add.. Regular=when he fancies sex, no friends, just benefits. This is why I'm no longer willing to do fwb. |
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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago
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We had regular guy few years ago the sex got better and if I was not around they had sex with out me but it was not all about sex we go out meals pubs ect he pop round if we was having a bbq our friends none siwingers thought he was a guy I work with and he live on his own and I took him under my wing me and him wood go out have beers game pool was really good we wood love to fined some one like that again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i think ive worked it out at last
women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time
men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet
To add.. Regular=when he fancies sex, no friends, just benefits. This is why I'm no longer willing to do fwb. "
yes i beginning to think the same |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We had regular guy few years ago the sex got better and if I was not around they had sex with out me but it was not all about sex we go out meals pubs ect he pop round if we was having a bbq our friends none siwingers thought he was a guy I work with and he live on his own and I took him under my wing me and him wood go out have beers game pool was really good we wood love to fined some one like that again "
that sounds so good for you but not for me it would be just sexual friendship ..with my job and family i would not be able to do the extras not that i want them anyway i dont do clingy/or to involved infact the more i answer these message the more im realizing that maybe its me and that regular actually does not suit me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A regular couple would be my ideal. I would leave fab if found, I wouldn't expect exclusivity from their side either, sort of a "slightly owned, by them" feel. J |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"i think ive worked it out at last
women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time
men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet
To add.. Regular=when he fancies sex, no friends, just benefits. This is why I'm no longer willing to do fwb.
yes i beginning to think the same "
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Not all men like one offs just like not all women like regular.
I prefer regular as you connect better that way and things can improve with regular meets and yes that includes friendships as well as sex.
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I've had a few men who has been advertising all day long for a meet then when time is running out before wife gets home etc I get the message ,hey babe fancy a fuck ? Not on your fucking Nelly mate lol  |
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I've not met many couples over the years through various sites, but the majority have been more than the once, making everyone more relaxed.
Met one couple maybe 1 to 2 times a month at worst, for 3 years, definitely gets better as get to know the others likes and comfortable chatting whilst recharging!! Unfortunately commitments on both sides meant it became difficult to meet as often. |
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"i think ive worked it out at last
women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time
men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet
To add.. Regular=when he fancies sex, no friends, just benefits. This is why I'm no longer willing to do fwb. "
Agreed had 2 phone conversations yesterday from here when I ask what does fwb mean both really want just the benefits bit ! And I know this is swinging site basically but its same on pof hard to find what u exactly looking for x |
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"We had regular guy few years ago the sex got better and if I was not around they had sex with out me but it was not all about sex we go out meals pubs ect he pop round if we was having a bbq our friends none siwingers thought he was a guy I work with and he live on his own and I took him under my wing me and him wood go out have beers game pool was really good we wood love to fined some one like that again "
Sounds ideal x |
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