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Yes....I'm married also, I regularly meet a married woman. I'm in love with her, there's something so alluring about her, she's so damned gorgeous, very accommodating in the bedroom, I am totally obsessed with her!....MY WIFE x
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would have a better chance beating off a diminutive woman looking to find who has been with her husband, than a 20 stone bear of a man, wanting to know who has been pricking his wife.
erm... that would b a no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any blokes out there that would meet a married woman??"
Nope not at all sorry not my thing. I dont go for nor try to meet with married women who are playing away from home behind hubbies back as I think they can dress it up as much as they want but cheating is still cheating and thats just wrong on so many levels
I have said this before on here and ended up with a ton of grief for it and sarcastic remarks for my trouble. Maybe im one of only a few to think this way but principles are mine to have hey lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any blokes out there that would meet a married woman??
have no issues as long as hubby knows....
if hubby doesn't know... then no I wouldn't....."
This!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont ask. Nowt to do with me, just sex."
I do ask, but as stated "Nowt to do with me." I don't make a habit of going out with married women. Most of the time, I'm approached. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would...but I'm not after an affair...and I certainly wouldnt be listening to any baggage issues , also wouldnt be saying i think its a healthy thing...as I wouldnt play without my own partners consent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not most the men on here are married and there wives don't know there on here! 
Now aint that THE TRUTH ! lol
Im not married! lol"
lol timber...its does say "most"...altho we never met I do oddly enuff believe ya xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why not most the men on here are married and there wives don't know there on here!
Now aint that THE TRUTH ! lol
Im not married! lol"
not married either or have a partner lol-stay with my dad so cant always accom...feel free to check up he'll answer the phone in a sexy voice tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not most the men on here are married and there wives don't know there on here!
Now aint that THE TRUTH ! lol
Im not married! lol
lol timber...its does say "most"...altho we never met I do oddly enuff believe ya xxx"
No one would have me luv lol and aint for lack of trying either I been to all the single womens activities and ventures in town and all they wanted to do was be my fwiendddddddd
Maybe they thought I was gay or sumat could have been the home made cake I brought and all the spare knitting from my forum time outs hahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting mix of opinions. I just wanted to see what people thought if it was a woman asking, instead of the usual bloke.
I tried to phrase it carefully so it didn't show my opinion. And I didn't actually say that it's ME looking...! 
My profile first line says I'm married. It also says I have a ton of kids and mentions goldfish.
The last bit of my profile is true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have mixed _iews on this Mr will and doesnt mind either way if their partner knows or not though Mrs wouldnt meet if married and partner didnt know, so maybe is blokes less fussy who they meet? or are us gals more sensative to this type of meet, we both trust each other so that isnt the issue, but would worry the cheating single may get to attached and wanted to meet said partner on their own? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would regardless of if hubby knew or not.
My job requires discretion and there's nothing more discreet than a wife playing away from home!
Views are my own... You can have your _iews and I will not take offence at them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd meet a married woman whether her hubby knew or not..
It's the excitement of the forbidden fruit  "
Then the excitement of knowing if he can find out who you are and where you live.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any blokes out there that would meet a married woman??
have no issues as long as hubby knows....
if hubby doesn't know... then no I wouldn't....."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Makes no difference to me if somebody is married or not likewise if husband knows or not. None of my business and we are all here for our own reasons. Not for me to judge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would and have ! But I'm a bad boy, I know . But we are all here for fun . Although I think men find it easy not to get emotionally attached . It's a hard one and one that will continue on this forum long after we have all gone, and the next generation will be asking the same question is it ok to play with a married person . Right I'm off to America to become a mormon and have 100 wives oh no I meant moron ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any blokes out there that would meet a married woman??
Nope not at all sorry not my thing. I dont go for nor try to meet with married women who are playing away from home behind hubbies back as I think they can dress it up as much as they want but cheating is still cheating and thats just wrong on so many levels
I have said this before on here and ended up with a ton of grief for it and sarcastic remarks for my trouble. Maybe im one of only a few to think this way but principles are mine to have hey lol "
I am with you, I even struggle with my conscience with those that are a couple but meet separately, watched my dad being treated like scum as a child when my mother flaunted her lover in front of him so never ever would I meet a cheater |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting mix of opinions. I just wanted to see what people thought if it was a woman asking, instead of the usual bloke.
I tried to phrase it carefully so it didn't show my opinion. And I didn't actually say that it's ME looking...!
My profile first line says I'm married. It also says I have a ton of kids and mentions goldfish.
The last bit of my profile is true. "
My cats would love your goldfish |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Interesting mix of opinions. I just wanted to see what people thought if it was a woman asking, instead of the usual bloke.
I tried to phrase it carefully so it didn't show my opinion. And I didn't actually say that it's ME looking...!
My profile first line says I'm married. It also says I have a ton of kids and mentions goldfish.
The last bit of my profile is true.
My cats would love your goldfish "
Ooh... I like your kind of 'cat'....! Perhaps we could introduce them sometime?! |
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"Are there any blokes out there that would meet a married woman??"
we both do in a single sense and as a cpl ..
and their other halves also know..
would guess that a large proportion of 'single' guys and a smaller percentage of fems are actually married or in a 'relationship'..
so in some ways its a similar question to 'does a bear shit in the woods', perhaps? |
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had two long term things over years with married ladies, that husband would spend too much time watching fotball etc , one was maybe bit nasty with husband she would often want to see me a hour or so before he was due home then he would think stockings wet pussy was all for him
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any blokes out there that would meet a married woman??
have no issues as long as hubby knows....
if hubby doesn't know... then no I wouldn't....."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes no difference to me if somebody is married or not likewise if husband knows or not. None of my business and we are all here for our own reasons. Not for me to judge."
Doesn't surprise me that you'd say that with your history |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any blokes out there that would meet a married woman??"
Depends on circumstance i guess - married swinger ? - married and hubby knows ? - or married and playing away
for me i be happy to meet anyone as long as they are in control - but there again im a bloke so id guess id say that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I would and yes I do, quite regularly. Saying that I'm the same myself so cant really complain either!
It's sex at the end of the day, I make no secret of the fact that I'm married so that people can then make their moral judgement calls on whether to give me a wide berth or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing about swinging for us is the honesty that you have between you as a couple. I think that when you then involve someone who is not honest it somehow doesn't seem right.
I think alot of the cheaters should try to introduce their partners to the scene they would maybe be surprised if they opened up about it their partners might like it. Maybe thats what they're scared of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not something I actively would look for.
It's not something I would actively avoid.
I can't take a blanket ban standpoint as everyones personal situation is different.
I know the 'constant' in all that is that, yes, they are married and some will see any non-consentual play as 'cheating' but people have their reasons for doing what they do, some more valid than others.
If someone is married and playing away, all I would ask is that I am made aware of it prior to making the decision to meet or not.
I recognise that we all have different boundaries of acceptability and that mine are set higher than some peoples, but fall far short of others.
If that makes others questions my morals or values, then so be it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well what a sedate thread to the ones we normally have when nearly the same question comes up."
I guess that even at 1000 to 1 males to females ratio there are less males on the site who object to cheating than there are females...... Personally "never knowingly", can't say for sure at a club or party etc. for us no strings fun means no strings!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not something I actively would look for.
It's not something I would actively avoid.
I can't take a blanket ban standpoint as everyones personal situation is different.
I know the 'constant' in all that is that, yes, they are married and some will see any non-consentual play as 'cheating' but people have their reasons for doing what they do, some more valid than others.
If someone is married and playing away, all I would ask is that I am made aware of it prior to making the decision to meet or not.
I recognise that we all have different boundaries of acceptability and that mine are set higher than some peoples, but fall far short of others.
If that makes others questions my morals or values, then so be it."
Good point, well put |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I think it is the way it is written, a simple question ..would you?
rather than why not me/us the marrieds/because a 3rd party is failing in some way to deliver sex"
I have seen it asked the same way before now View....but the answers were totally different, which in turn sets the thread off on a different tangent.
As I say, this is very sedate in comparison. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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as you know, it is often down to the first few replies that directs it a certain way, the reaction of the OP early on.
This was written ( I think ) in reply to another thread about cheating and the reactions you mention were on there.
It was written I imagine to gauge the difference that we often see in reactions from guys cheating to woman cheating.
I think |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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It was written I imagine to gauge the difference that we often see in reactions from guys cheating to woman cheating.
I think
Exactly.....and what a difference there is in the answers "
and we know that for sure, there always is.... and probably always will be... sadly.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting mix of opinions. I just wanted to see what people thought if it was a woman asking, instead of the usual bloke.
I tried to phrase it carefully so it didn't show my opinion. And I didn't actually say that it's ME looking...!
My profile first line says I'm married. It also says I have a ton of kids and mentions goldfish.
The last bit of my profile is true.
My cats would love your goldfish
Ooh... I like your kind of 'cat'....! Perhaps we could introduce them sometime?! "
So long as there is enough to go round, and I was being serious, I do have 5 cats altogether |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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@op Sure - either way. They know what they're doing and what they're letting themselves in for if they get caught. Perhaps that's half the buzz. Have heard all the stuff (crap) about sexless marriages, higher sex drive, 'doesn't understand me' before off of both sexes. Just think those that cheat should be prepared for their other half cheating on them someday too.. it's a two way street 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any blokes out there that would meet a married woman??
are there any men out there that would not fuck a married worman"
Just gay men and Cliff Richard but they are probably one and the same |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It was written I imagine to gauge the difference that we often see in reactions from guys cheating to woman cheating.
I think
Exactly.....and what a difference there is in the answers
and we know that for sure, there always is.... and probably always will be... sadly.
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Yes that was exactly my intention. I worded it carefully without showing my opinion or whether I'm married or not. (My profile is jokey, not serious)
Good point about the OP sometimes getting defensive and setting the thread off on a more irate tangent. I didn't want to influence it either way.
I was also interested to see if I was bombarded with offers on pm's but not sure if my profile put people off... Or if I'm just not attractive enough.
Perhaps my next thread will be a 'why can't I get any meets' thread. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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actually i think it is interesting because it shows what part of the body most guys are thinking with here....
can't say I am surprised..
but couldn't be prouder that I am in the minority on this one... |
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"I think it is the way it is written, a simple question ..would you?
rather than why not me/us the marrieds/because a 3rd party is failing in some way to deliver sex"
Of course that's a big part of it. It does not invite people to comment on what they think about it, just asking men if they would............ that and the fact that anyone with half a brain reading the other thread running at the time knew why this one was posted.
If the 'simple' question had been "What do you all think about married women cheating?" would the replies have been the same as they were in this thread?
If the question had a lead-in of some sort of attempt to justify cheating, would the replies be different?
As a study it is flawed. |
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"I think it is the way it is written, a simple question ..would you?
rather than why not me/us the marrieds/because a 3rd party is failing in some way to deliver sex
Of course that's a big part of it. It does not invite people to comment on what they think about it, just asking men if they would............ that and the fact that anyone with half a brain reading the other thread running at the time knew why this one was posted.
If the 'simple' question had been "What do you all think about married women cheating?" would the replies have been the same as they were in this thread?
If the question had a lead-in of some sort of attempt to justify cheating, would the replies be different?
As a study it is flawed."
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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It was written I imagine to gauge the difference that we often see in reactions from guys cheating to woman cheating.
I think
Exactly.....and what a difference there is in the answers
and we know that for sure, there always is.... and probably always will be... sadly.
Yes that was exactly my intention. I worded it carefully without showing my opinion or whether I'm married or not. (My profile is jokey, not serious)
Good point about the OP sometimes getting defensive and setting the thread off on a more irate tangent. "
Without reading the thrad again I am not sure wwether someone else mentioned going off on a tangent and your post was to them.....but when I mentioned going off on a tangent I didn't mean if the OP got defensive....I meant the other posters answers.
I have seen more or less the same question asked without any justifying by the OP of cheating and without asking what people think of cheats, and the answers and result has been totally different.
So I guess it depends on what sex you are as to what answers you get. |
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"actually i think it is interesting because it shows what part of the body most guys are thinking with here....
can't say I am surprised..
but couldn't be prouder that I am in the minority on this one... "
Good on you! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It was written I imagine to gauge the difference that we often see in reactions from guys cheating to woman cheating.
I think
Exactly.....and what a difference there is in the answers
and we know that for sure, there always is.... and probably always will be... sadly.
Yes that was exactly my intention. I worded it carefully without showing my opinion or whether I'm married or not. (My profile is jokey, not serious)
Good point about the OP sometimes getting defensive and setting the thread off on a more irate tangent.
Without reading the thrad again I am not sure wwether someone else mentioned going off on a tangent and your post was to them.....but when I mentioned going off on a tangent I didn't mean if the OP got defensive....I meant the other posters answers.
I have seen more or less the same question asked without any justifying by the OP of cheating and without asking what people think of cheats, and the answers and result has been totally different.
So I guess it depends on what sex you are as to what answers you get."
I figured as a female I'd get a softer response than a single bloke. Perhaps people were just in a good mood and decided to be kind. Perhaps they know that I am lovely sweet innocent girlie and they didn't want to upset me.
When I said about going off on a tangent I was just thinking of another I'd read where the OP got defensive/ irate so it kind of got people's backs up. I like debate. |
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It was written I imagine to gauge the difference that we often see in reactions from guys cheating to woman cheating.
I think
Exactly.....and what a difference there is in the answers
and we know that for sure, there always is.... and probably always will be... sadly.
Yes that was exactly my intention. I worded it carefully without showing my opinion or whether I'm married or not. (My profile is jokey, not serious)
Good point about the OP sometimes getting defensive and setting the thread off on a more irate tangent.
Without reading the thrad again I am not sure wwether someone else mentioned going off on a tangent and your post was to them.....but when I mentioned going off on a tangent I didn't mean if the OP got defensive....I meant the other posters answers.
I have seen more or less the same question asked without any justifying by the OP of cheating and without asking what people think of cheats, and the answers and result has been totally different.
So I guess it depends on what sex you are as to what answers you get.
I figured as a female I'd get a softer response than a single bloke. Perhaps people were just in a good mood and decided to be kind. Perhaps they know that I am lovely sweet innocent girlie and they didn't want to upset me.
When I said about going off on a tangent I was just thinking of another I'd read where the OP got defensive/ irate so it kind of got people's backs up. I like debate. "
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I figured as a female I'd get a softer response than a single bloke. Perhaps people were just in a good mood and decided to be kind. Perhaps they know that I am lovely sweet innocent girlie and they didn't want to upset me.
When I said about going off on a tangent I was just thinking of another I'd read where the OP got defensive/ irate so it kind of got people's backs up. I like debate. "
Naw, you got a softer response because men dont want to ruin their chances.  |
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I would Deff meet a maried woman and have a few times.
But I don't really like hearing any excuses
Half the time there false just to justify there cheating which isn't necessary.
It should be just fun sex!!
I don't judge and dont exspect to be judged myself.
Myself and my partner both swing as singles thats our choice and we respect others
Even if they ask things like can you only txt/call/meet during the week say
each to there own I say have fun folks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I figured as a female I'd get a softer response than a single bloke. Perhaps people were just in a good mood and decided to be kind. Perhaps they know that I am lovely sweet innocent girlie and they didn't want to upset me.
When I said about going off on a tangent I was just thinking of another I'd read where the OP got defensive/ irate so it kind of got people's backs up. I like debate.
Would that be me ? friends everyone shake hands "
Yes you grumpy arse I meant you! However it turns out you're actually really cool and funny. Oops typo. |
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