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By *exford OP Man
over a year ago
discombobulated land |
Keep it civil and polite... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the amount of fakes, and people who dont turn up when they said they would, in our experiance men are worse for this, we organised a gb for Arri, invited 15 expecting 19 to show, all verified, all keen, lots of messeging both ways, how many showed? none |
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By *r.HMan
over a year ago
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"the amount of fakes, and people who dont turn up when they said they would, in our experiance men are worse for this, we organised a gb for Arri, invited 15 expecting 19 to show, all verified, all keen, lots of messeging both ways, how many showed? none"
Honestly never understood why people are bang up for it (excuse the pun) but then never show? Always baffles me, call me old fashioned but if I agree to something or say I'll be somewhere then I'll do it or be there. |
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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago
huddersfield |
Fake people people that don't turn up or have you travel then not meet there are lots of great people on here it's just a few that spoil it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the amount of fakes, and people who dont turn up when they said they would, in our experiance men are worse for this, we organised a gb for Arri, invited 15 expecting 19 to show, all verified, all keen, lots of messeging both ways, how many showed? none"
That is indeed very bad!!!
I’d expect one or two drop outs but a total no show is just a wow factor!!!
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Time wasters
Rude people(Not too many thankfully)
Apart from that,I quite like it  |
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i cant believe people dont show up..i presume you checked they were verified? I may be old fashioned but if i say i will then i will. gentlemans word is his bond
Fabs is generally good. I think there software is very clunky and trying to search for folks can be tricky.. but i have tried other sites and they promise much but dont deliver..at least fabs delivers. |
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Fakes and fantasists
Really grind my gears
Oh and accounts that are the opposite to what I’m looking for but still message hoping for a sympathy shag
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Fab itself is fantastic, some of the people that use it display truly shocking behaviour however. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fakes
Pic collectors
People with Fab ego
Drama cpls
Profiles with loads of NOs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the amount of fakes, and people who dont turn up when they said they would, in our experiance men are worse for this, we organised a gb for Arri, invited 15 expecting 19 to show, all verified, all keen, lots of messeging both ways, how many showed? none"
I was told, always invite at least twice as many men than you want to attend, whatever the event... People not reading my profile but their first words are "love your profile" always want to reply but usually just delete unread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When people don’t read profiles
And the amount of fakes in here now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fake profile.
People who are "just chatting/not meeting" under normal circumstances of course.
People with really old pictures.
"New here will fill in later"
Couples looking who are looking for a single ladies, just for the ladies to play.
People who won't meet married men, buf more then happy to meet married women.
My list is endless  |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
Sussex/Surrey |
Women pretending to be swingers who post threads which are clearly research. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women pretending to be swingers who post threads which are clearly research. "
Hahah true
And some women argue about lots of things on forum other than swinging |
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Mainly the layout and interface of the site it has not progressed with the internet come it's like 2020..
So much it could be more streamlined focused and user-friendly but I do understand it is not necessarily a money-making venture it's more service.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very interesting what people are complaining about.
Maybe fakes should be named so we can at least block them. |
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"Women pretending to be swingers who post threads which are clearly research. "
Does this happen?
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Nothing
It's fun and serves the purpose I want
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single women profiles that mention they never meet without their partner.
Lazy profiles that have 18-99 age range but make it clear in the profile description there is an upper age limit.
Those that believe they are God’s gift to those they are seeking.
Fabs itself is great. |
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"Very interesting what people are complaining about.
Maybe fakes should be named so we can at least block them. "
Or removed quicker.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fake profiles and time wasters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the assumptions made about profiles - not all tvs/sissies are the same and here for the same thing
the profiles that say they are seeking tvs but have them blocked
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Cock picks, it's the only thing we ask not to send, yet we get on avarage 5 a day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep it civil and polite..."
Where do i start.
1: the number of fakes & men pretending to be women.
2: the stupidly high standards women on fab have for men.
3: the number of ignorant fuck wits that are on here.
Im saying no more or ill end up saying something that may get me banned lol |
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By *cac9186Couple
over a year ago
london |
Fake profile and timeswasters we hate that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing anymore |
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By *yes146Man
over a year ago
London |
Rude and mannerless people!!!!!
Be polite and Humble |
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"Keep it civil and polite...
Where do i start.
1: the number of fakes & men pretending to be women.
2: the stupidly high standards women on fab have for men.
3: the number of ignorant fuck wits that are on here.
Im saying no more or ill end up saying something that may get me banned lol"
You forgot to mention men who expect reply from messages and sex from every meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Things like sucks like a dyson and you know who you are don’t mess him/her about but the one that really annoys me is when they have professional in their profile when in fact they probably on benefits but they think inserting the word professional makes them sound remotely interesting  "
Ohhh yess
The amount of time we heard can’t send a face picture cause there a professional so is half the site apparently ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people think they are better than others, feel it’s ok to pass judgement without getting to know some |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Mainly the layout and interface of the site it has not progressed with the internet come it's like 2020..
So much it could be more streamlined focused and user-friendly but I do understand it is not necessarily a money-making venture it's more service. "
Yes, always this. The issues with people on Fab can mostly be avoided with a bit of common sense, but the site! |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"Fake people people that don't turn up or have you travel then not meet there are lots of great people on here it's just a few that spoil it"
Agreed but we believe the balance is changing, it’ll be the good that are in the minority.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who are quick to jump on people on the forum and be unkind. Leave a thread and all is good, come back and all hell has broken loose
I think the best way to deal with something is privately, or it turns into some mass forum brawl
Apart from that its when people get arsy with you for not messaging back when you have said in your profile that you are looking for what they blatantly are not.
Then that whole ranting about time wasters on peoples statuses. No she said she didn't want to meet you. You just wouldn't give up.
Ah I feel better now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep it civil and polite...
Where do i start.
1: the number of fakes & men pretending to be women.
2: the stupidly high standards women on fab have for men.
3: the number of ignorant fuck wits that are on here.
Im saying no more or ill end up saying something that may get me banned lol
You forgot to mention men who expect reply from messages and sex from every meet. "
yea i forgot about that one i dont expect a reply or meet from every message if i get no reply i hit block & move on no point in hanging around, theres more to life than waiting for women who clearly wont reply due to the high standards they have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep it civil and polite..."
The amount of fucking arsehole who can't read and respect profiles.
Mainly single guys, but couples do it as well.
If there is no match, why bother?? |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Maybe fakes should be named so we can at least block them. "
The reason they aren’t is because naming & shaming is open to abuse. If people suspect profiles as fake, they can report to admin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not much to be honest. I use this site for what I want to get out of it. I use the block button if needed and delete button. |
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"Keep it civil and polite...
The amount of fucking arsehole who can't read and respect profiles.
Mainly single guys, but couples do it as well.
If there is no match, why bother??"
Same, they just look at the pics and wink or message anyway  |
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Not reading our profile. Offering us stuff we're clearly not looking for, bulls, Doms ect. Sending messages (cold calling) just to the me the fem, being over freindly.
Not turning up for meets, takes a lot of time and effort arranging. And with very little playtime can be a real let down. Plus looks like we have lots of meets, as we put up playtimes. But half or less come to anything. But makes us look like perverts being on here morning, noon and night. |
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Guys who get rude when you say no thank you.
Not reading a profile.
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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Keep it civil and polite...
Where do i start.
1: the number of fakes & men pretending to be women.
2: the stupidly high standards women on fab have for men.
3: the number of ignorant fuck wits that are on here.
Im saying no more or ill end up saying something that may get me banned lol
You forgot to mention men who expect reply from messages and sex from every meet. yea i forgot about that one i dont expect a reply or meet from every message if i get no reply i hit block & move on no point in hanging around, theres more to life than waiting for women who clearly wont reply due to the high standards they have "
High standards are not a bad thing. So I should just shag people I don't fancy or don't tick what I want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What annoys me is people seem to think Fab is the be all and end all, and that anyone who isn't on here is boring or vanilla.
Kinky open minded people do exist outside fab 
Apart from that I'm fed up of seeing women ask for free drugs on their statuses. Heck, I've seen people create profiles just for this under the guise of being a "domme" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that everything is a catch 22 |
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forum trolls (immature behaviour)
liars
fakes
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I would love it if those who are looking for a TV would have it on their profile so I would know it was ok to message.
Many won't have it on their profile as they get inundated by hairy panty wearers and I honestly don't blame them for choosing not to show it. |
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pesters
pic collectors
ghosters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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High standards are not a bad thing. So I should just shag people I don't fancy or don't tick what I want? "
There should be a trade off i have standards but i dont expect every woman to be blonde,slim & big boobed yet women expect every man to be tall (over 6ft) handsome & ripped to fuck & hung like a horse even if they dont tick any boxes but hey we can all dream but does it matter if you fancy someone its sex not a long term relationship i get the ticking of certain boxes though we all have needs & wants ive said enough now ill start getting hate messages again |
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"What annoys me is people seem to think Fab is the be all and end all, and that anyone who isn't on here is boring or vanilla.
Kinky open minded people do exist outside fab
Apart from that I'm fed up of seeing women ask for free drugs on their statuses. Heck, I've seen people create profiles just for this under the guise of being a "domme" "
Haha yes, good point, the fact that using a blindfold on someone or can send rude emails makes them a domme.
For me it's the sense of entitlement and judgement that permeates some folks. It's just a site for people to have a bit of fun after all, it's not the magna carta. |
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By *attM73Man
over a year ago
Oldham |
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The lack of women that are ‘gagging’ to meet and fuck an ageing but still able guy like me. |
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Site expectations, constantly seeing statuses stating the site is a waste of time etc.. often you check their profiles and it’s practically empty with a couple of cock pictures and one big rant of a status about the site.
It’s only a site and not the whole scene, most of the fun I’ve had is at clubs or people I’ve met from the clubs, they know I’m genuine and I also know they are.
Either use it for what it is, the very basic part of the lifestyle not the actual lifestyle, that takes effort |
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The lack of conversation skills, ping pong text and small talk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is what it is, we have pretty much stopped using the site for meets as it really has become very time consuming over the last couple of years.
It could definitely do with more filters for searching to narrow down what we're looking for.
We do like the forums and especially the club section for when it's open. |
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People that don’t reply to a message |
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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago
Cambridge |
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High standards are not a bad thing. So I should just shag people I don't fancy or don't tick what I want?
There should be a trade off i have standards but i dont expect every woman to be blonde,slim & big boobed yet women expect every man to be tall (over 6ft) handsome & ripped to fuck & hung like a horse even if they dont tick any boxes but hey we can all dream but does it matter if you fancy someone its sex not a long term relationship i get the ticking of certain boxes though we all have needs & wants ive said enough now ill start getting hate messages again "
For me yes it does matter and I'm not going to fuck someone I don't fancy regardless of it just being sex or a relationship. You shouldn't be getting hate messages. Report them if you do |
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"The lack of conversation skills, ping pong text and small talk "
yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the amount of fakes, and people who dont turn up when they said they would, in our experiance men are worse for this, we organised a gb for Arri, invited 15 expecting 19 to show, all verified, all keen, lots of messeging both ways, how many showed? none
I was told, always invite at least twice as many men than you want to attend, whatever the event... People not reading my profile but their first words are "love your profile" always want to reply but usually just delete unread "
we invited 15 expecting 10, like i said they all seemed so keen, so never gave it a thought that nobody would show up, maybe next time we will invite 4 times the amount we want to meet, but knowing our luck they would all turn up then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me yes it does matter and I'm not going to fuck someone I don't fancy regardless of it just being sex or a relationship. You shouldn't be getting hate messages. Report them if you do "
fair enough each to thier own & what not & im just a narrow minded biggot who apprently hates women lol not my words some other morons on here i just have an opinion if people dont like it tough tits dont read or coent simples |
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I/We get 100s of messages a day.
Really??? Every day???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Accusations and being branded even tho a most genuine polite attentive message is sent, the reply is “cut and pasted lazy time waster” Which is uncalled for.
Talk to us, learn about us, enjoy the attention and if it flat lines then part with grace and decency. |
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"I/We get 100s of messages a day.
Really??? Every day???
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Take your filters off and put a new pic up, it’s relentless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People that don’t reply to a message "
Thats another thing
People sit on messaged for hours and days despite being online .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same thing that makes it quite so fab
Everyday People |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i cant believe people dont show up..i presume you checked they were verified? I may be old fashioned but if i say i will then i will. gentlemans word is his bond
Fabs is generally good. I think there software is very clunky and trying to search for folks can be tricky.. but i have tried other sites and they promise much but dont deliver..at least fabs delivers."
yes all had verifications, and all sounded keen, maybe stage fright got to them |
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"People that don’t reply to a message
Thats another thing
People sit on messaged for hours and days despite being online .
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but what if you’ve got hundreds of them can you actually be bothered to look at them ? |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
Lack of folders in the mail/messages area makes it hard to keep things tidy.
Broken filters.
Email notifications of new messages are pointless - they just say we have a new message. Be better if it included the actual message.
No ability to comment on people's updates. Think that they would be used more if they were a bit more "Facebooky".
People without any public pics - don't make us ask for them, just put them up.
Guys who message "how's your day" or "how are you". We can't answer that thirty times each day.
People that just want endless dirty chat - we don't want to tell you what we did last night or what we're doing with a guy tomorrow. We want to know a bit about you then arrange a meet.
Guys who are "in (our) area" and horny so would we like to meet.
Guys who look at pics and message without reading profiles. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"People sit on messaged for hours and days despite being online"
Two of us use the account. We don't always reply till the other has seen it and we've talked about it. If neither of us are feeling very "Fabby" then it could take a while. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with the comments about the user interface - but actually it works pretty well on the phone, so not complaining.
Ability to search profiles by keyword, maybe have an ability to put tags on your profile to aid searching, additional criteria etc. Some will moan, but making the effort to fill it all in properly shows something in itself.
What does wind me up - endless “what’s wrong with my profile” threads - pretty much always the same outcome - too many close up pics, not enough information, too broad on age range etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People that don’t reply to a message
Thats another thing
People sit on messaged for hours and days despite being online .
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Tbh I've done this a few times to people who have messaged me but are outside my prefs, such as women outside my age range or couples even though I'm not seeking couples.
I usually do send out "no thanks" messages, but I don't bother with these  |
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"Fakes
Pic collectors
People with Fab ego
Drama cpls
Profiles with loads of NOs
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Completely agree with you on this, some sad people out there |
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**that's not proper swinging**...
People who judge that someone isn't a proper swinger and therefore is not entitled to join in this fun site.
Like the semantics and nuances of swinging have somehow been enshrined in some sort of 28th amendment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fakes
Pic collectors
People with Fab ego
Drama cpls
Profiles with loads of NOs
Completely agree with you on this, some sad people out there "
You give option of any scenario, they just don't seem to like them ,wonder why are they on Fab wasting their time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who message me that don’t reside in Birmingham. My profile clearly states this, so it means they haven’t read it (surprise surprise) or they are chancers or arrogant. Both are an automatic turn off. “Oh I’ll travel for you any day” or “...you’re only xxx mikes away” ffs!
People who don’t like ‘no’ and persistently message me. I have no problem ignoring messages and blocking people, and I know being ‘told off’ can be apart of someone’s kink, but it still annoys me x |
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People who say No face pic no reply, when they don't have any themselves |
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People with massive egos
People who say they will not respond to messages unless they are sent a face picture, yet only have a picture of boobs on their own profile.
Those who are compelled to put 420 in their username or ask for lemo in their profile text |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who say No face pic no reply, when they don't have any themselves"
That is a personal pet hate & then get snotty with you or block you when you ask for one! |
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Single guys who message us and don't bother to read our profile first and then take no notice of what's been said. Also why is it that 95% of messages we receive that are from single men are all aimed at the female and not taking into account that we are a couple plus 99% of the time men always assume they are chatting to the female or if they find out it's the male half online then they don't wish to carry on with their messages. This kind of behaviour is not going to get you any wear. |
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By *k8kttMan
over a year ago
Wickford |
People who will not reply to messages. Even if it was a ...NO THANKS..
Rant over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People sending friend invites when we haven't even spoken |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
Guys who assume they're talking to me (Char). Guys who message us like I'm a piece of meat, just sat at home dripping wet waiting for anyone to stick their cock in me!! They seem surprised that I have a job and other things to do!! |
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That I only seem to be visible to Men. And yes I know It's probably 95% men on this site. |
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They are more like shitbags
Give you all the talk to meet up
Then u arrange it
Then they shit out cos scared of gettin caught out with their partners |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On fab it's hard to get a message back, even tho you have read their profile and made alot of effort in the message.
Women and couples get so many messages they mass delete. Single guys have to message maybe 100 people to get anything out of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep it civil and polite..."
Fake profiles?!messers,dreamers... |
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Full of fakes - no face piccy, nothing on their profile wat they lookin for
Liars- say wud luv to meet up n spend all time with u
But go shaggin others
Picture copiers- piccys of fellas who dont even look like them copied from porn sites
Thsnk god for reverse image
Cheats - shaggin behind partners backs
Liars - start chattin with them sayin wud luv to meet up, but go n shag someone else
2timon shits - shaggin behind their own partners backs(especially wen they state they dont know they are on here), sayin they are single but have partner,
All talkers - give you all the chatm n chat sayin wat they would luv to do to you wen they meet u
But wen u say u will meet them they just shit out n block you
Timewasters- yes like everyone
You say you will meet up
Get to place they dont turn up, u go to msg them
They gave either blocked u or deleted their profile
Alot of fantasists and gloaters goin on sayin they have big dicks,
U wont be disappounted wen u meet me
I could go one
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By *arkbaneMan
over a year ago
East leeds |
"the amount of fakes, and people who dont turn up when they said they would, in our experiance men are worse for this, we organised a gb for Arri, invited 15 expecting 19 to show, all verified, all keen, lots of messeging both ways, how many showed? none"
Oh my god that is extremely rude |
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By *arkbaneMan
over a year ago
East leeds |
"Full of fakes - no face piccy, nothing on their profile wat they lookin for
Liars- say wud luv to meet up n spend all time with u
But go shaggin others
Picture copiers- piccys of fellas who dont even look like them copied from porn sites
Thsnk god for reverse image
Cheats - shaggin behind partners backs
Liars - start chattin with them sayin wud luv to meet up, but go n shag someone else
2timon shits - shaggin behind their own partners backs(especially wen they state they dont know they are on here), sayin they are single but have partner,
All talkers - give you all the chatm n chat sayin wat they would luv to do to you wen they meet u
But wen u say u will meet them they just shit out n block you
Timewasters- yes like everyone
You say you will meet up
Get to place they dont turn up, u go to msg them
They gave either blocked u or deleted their profile
Alot of fantasists and gloaters goin on sayin they have big dicks,
U wont be disappounted wen u meet me
I could go one
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People who are overly choosy, having such a high option of themselves, thinking they are Far better than others on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who are overly choosy, having such a high option of themselves, thinking they are Far better than others on here. "
Are people not allowed to be choosy as they want to?? |
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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago
london |
For me it’s got to be the amount of fake profiles! That and dreamers which are just as bad. Basically anything that’s a waste of time |
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subs who think being a sub is getting pegged all the time... oh men! |
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Lack of politeness And the high expectations of some.also while I'm at it those expecting you sit quiet and sober so they can have an impromptu late night meet miles from anywhere. |
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"People who are overly choosy, having such a high option of themselves, thinking they are Far better than others on here.
Are people not allowed to be choosy as they want to??"
I retract the choosy statement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The shear level of desperation I me that creates a huge level of arrogance within females |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those who take great delight in using the block button then even more delight publicising it endlessly....
Bore off..!!! |
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By *eaford2Couple
over a year ago
Seaford |
Fake profiles and time wasters ... you either want to meet or you don’t |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think I've spotted a new one - "Dommes" constantly seeking "subs" for free house work.
Nah, you're just a tight arse who doesn't want to pay a tradesman |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
People who can't take 2 mins to read a profile and moan when you'd delete them
Pests who won't take no for an answer
Those who slag others off in their status updates or constantly moan about fab /ask for bjs etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lack of effort.
Men that go tit blind and send no content messages with their cocks.
Disrespect by some men.
Apart from that it’s all good.
T |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For a site about a liberal lifestyle, the judgment from done is palpable
Calling it a sex site
Misunderstanding of kink/bdsm
Given the dictionary def of swinging, the number of profiles that state, 'won't meet attached'
The entitled
No mandatory facial picture verification means the site could be populated by underage folk
Lack of emojis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Timewasters, you agree time and place and they cancel hours before, it takes a fair bit of organising our end and no amount of verifications on their profile stop them from being timewasters, it’s only ever single guys as well |
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Ditto.
People who won't send a face pic with their message.
Don't read our profile which says we will DELETE if one liner.
People who have no intention of meeting and constant excuses |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
People whining, take the good, dismiss what’s not working. |
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People you talk to for while and then get ghosted. For no apparent reason at all and cannot even be adult about it and give a explanation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bad tempered fems with attitude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fakes, no single dating functionality, clunky UI |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People you talk to for while and then get ghosted. For no apparent reason at all and cannot even be adult about it and give a explanation"
Agree - Fab is the Ministry of Ghosting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The moaning - constant moaning by all and sundry  . |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Bad tempered fems with attitude. "
Noooo, they are the best bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad tempered fems with attitude.
Noooo, they are the best bit."
You wouldn't say that if they were male. |
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High standards are not a bad thing. So I should just shag people I don't fancy or don't tick what I want?
There should be a trade off i have standards but i dont expect every woman to be blonde,slim & big boobed yet women expect every man to be tall (over 6ft) handsome & ripped to fuck & hung like a horse even if they dont tick any boxes but hey we can all dream but does it matter if you fancy someone its sex not a long term relationship i get the ticking of certain boxes though we all have needs & wants ive said enough now ill start getting hate messages again "
Why shouldn’t women on here have high standards? I’m as choosy as the next one! Sounds like you have a chip on your shoulder maybe from how women on Fab have treated you but men get what they deserve on here. If they have a me me me attitude and arrogance it gets them nowhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profiles that say " were professional people". What bunch of shysters! |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Bad tempered fems with attitude.
Noooo, they are the best bit.
You wouldn't say that if they were male. "
Damn right I would, they are the nearest thing to competitive sport I get to nowadays. |
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"Those who take great delight in using the block button then even more delight publicising it endlessly....
Bore off..!!!"
That’s me then lol. Block button is best feature on Fab. |
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It’s become so hard work on
fab, few years back it was fun, it’s like it’s lost it’s fun bohemian factor, no one seems actually interested in meeting anyone, we actually find going to club easier.  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Those who take great delight in using the block button then even more delight publicising it endlessly....
Bore off..!!!
That’s me then lol. Block button is best feature on Fab. "
Saves so much being nice time. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
None of it annoys me, I just find most of the things mentioned all a bit funny or cringey.
Then again I've never had my time wasted or been caught out by a fake, I might feel differently if I had. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That swinging, swingers, their welfare and their enjoyment of the scene is furthest from its business model and MO |
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Not being good enough for 99% of people on here well it’s 100% but I like to keep the 1% to keep my hopes up lol |
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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago
Skegness |
no show meets hate hem wasting time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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people repeatedly looking bit not saying anything like. Nice pics hi or hi noce pics sorry not what we are looking for |
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Rude arrogant guys who think women are here to just drop their knickers for them.
Guys who try to be devious to get sex.
Entitled people who think they are gods gift.
People who call it a sex site.
Blocked people following one around the forums.
Ghosting - what’s that about?
Swearing.
Guys who expect a reply to messages.
Silly statuses like ‘suck my cock’, ‘I’m horny’
People who think it’s ok to be nasty to others.
Cock pics.
Vagina pics.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Those who take great delight in using the block button then even more delight publicising it endlessly....
Bore off..!!!
That’s me then lol. Block button is best feature on Fab. "
I rest my case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Those who take great delight in using the block button then even more delight publicising it endlessly....
Bore off..!!!
That’s me then lol. Block button is best feature on Fab.
Saves so much being nice time. "
I rest my case agIn |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
RANTY PROFILES.
So off putting not matter how nice the pics are. I know us chaps can be daft and sometimes put our cocks in charge of our brains....but even so.
I usually read profiles (for all the good it does me) and I tend to like those which are articulate and engaging.
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Oh god, if I were to start sounding off.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do think a lot of people just get off on being messaged but the reality of them meeting is very low.
Personally, I like to chat online a bit first, and always found it easier at parties and clubs to relax.
It can be tough turning up into the unknown, and some people just get too nervous I think. |
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The 4/5 new (fake) profiles in our area everyday. All with the same couple of words for a bio "looking for men women and couples" and that's it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fakes and being blanked lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The 4/5 new (fake) profiles in our area everyday. All with the same couple of words for a bio "looking for men women and couples" and that's it. "
I’m in the same area and everyday 4/5 women all aged 31 looking for men.....
Great fun stringing the losers along..... |
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The amount of men that take up space in a lady's inbox. I'd like a friend inbox and a random inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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verifies of woman to men they have met stating. 'hands off ladies he is mine'or 'am not going to share this man'as if to lay claim to that person.and why do men show them anyway? I also dont like guys claiming to be 'straight' when they aint. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too much talk about sex |
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Couples who are not at least photo verified after a year.
Why can’t they remove profiles if they don’t at least get photo verified after a month? I mean it takes about 2 mins and if you are both on here then why wouldn’t you do it?
Weed out a few fakes at least! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another vote for the fakes |
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Couples who only show the pics of the wife / female. Very unfair on a woman from another couple viewing them. |
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Didn’t you know the world is flat? That’s why Bigfoot has never fell of the edge! |
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"The ‘Virus’ forum....."
Absolutely |
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guys that start threads with a poorly disguised attempt at looking for wanking material |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
No 1 for me is guys who don't read profiles.
Also blokes who have more than one profile.
Blokes who moan on their updates that no one on here meets.
The Fab people who don't listen to members ideas on how to improve the site.
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"People that don’t reply to a message
Thats another thing
People sit on messaged for hours and days despite being online .
Tbh I've done this a few times to people who have messaged me but are outside my prefs, such as women outside my age range or couples even though I'm not seeking couples.
I usually do send out "no thanks" messages, but I don't bother with these "
That explains it then |
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My biggest turn off on the site is that silly status about Sydney uni and all the other ones like it
Especially when that bit is 3 or 4 times bigger than the rest of the text if not 99% of the whole profile |
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"Women pretending to be swingers who post threads which are clearly research. "
Bingo. This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My biggest turn off on the site is that silly status about Sydney uni and all the other ones like it
Especially when that bit is 3 or 4 times bigger than the rest of the text if not 99% of the whole profile "
This! It’s ridiculous! And I’ve no idea how those people ever get any attention or conversation |
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"My biggest turn off on the site is that silly status about Sydney uni and all the other ones like it
Especially when that bit is 3 or 4 times bigger than the rest of the text if not 99% of the whole profile
This! It’s ridiculous! And I’ve no idea how those people ever get any attention or conversation "
I actually use it as an extra filter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the moment those looking for meets or trying to shame those who wont meet |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
"The ‘Virus’ forum.....
Absolutely "
Totally agree, go there at your peril. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
Profiles almost as long as Tolstoy's" War & Peace.
People who leave their age parameters at the default setting of 18 - 99 then get stroppy when someone of my age contacts them. |
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By *annahHeartsWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I want to be!!!! |
"The lack of conversation skills, ping pong text and small talk yes "
And the “hi” intro mail .... I mean errrrr no effort to at least give me something to go on... ‘delete!’ |
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lying about the size of their cock |
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People posting really inappropriate off topic comments on other people's threads just to "ruin the mood of the thread".. Wish there was something done about it as it seems the same kind of people time and time again  |
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By *exford OP Man
over a year ago
discombobulated land |
So to conclude everyone...
Pretty much everything is perfect, no-one has any real gripes and so it's probably safe to say 99.9% satisfaction rate???
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Biggest pet hate, and there are a few, but when you’ve read someone’s profile, after confirming that you are really what the person in the profile is looking for, composing a considerate and well thought out message only for it to be left unread, well when I say unread, it of course means they have read it, then marked it as unread and choose to ignore it.
Of course their prerogative to decide I’m not for them, but do the polite thing and send a two word reply now ta’
I find it pig ignorant if I’m honest....blah blah it’s in the rules...
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"People who leave their age parameters at the default setting of 18 - 99 then get stroppy when someone of my age contacts them."
This!! ^^^^ |
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"Biggest pet hate, and there are a few, but when you’ve read someone’s profile, after confirming that you are really what the person in the profile is looking for, composing a considerate and well thought out message only for it to be left unread, well when I say unread, it of course means they have read it, then marked it as unread and choose to ignore it.
Of course their prerogative to decide I’m not for them, but do the polite thing and send a two word reply now ta’
I find it pig ignorant if I’m honest....blah blah it’s in the rules...
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Ha ha my pet hate which is linked to this is women moaning they get 300 messages a day! I get 2 if I’m lucky! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who leave their age parameters at the default setting of 18 - 99 then get stroppy when someone of my age contacts them.
This!! ^^^^"
Say no more, iratating |
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"Biggest pet hate, and there are a few, but when you’ve read someone’s profile, after confirming that you are really what the person in the profile is looking for, composing a considerate and well thought out message only for it to be left unread, well when I say unread, it of course means they have read it, then marked it as unread and choose to ignore it.
Of course their prerogative to decide I’m not for them, but do the polite thing and send a two word reply now ta’
I find it pig ignorant if I’m honest....blah blah it’s in the rules...
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But if it was in the rules, they had to reply to every message sent, wouldn’t you then be complaining they’re not following the rules ?
Then if that rule existed and their reply was rude and derogatory, with a curt reply of how much they find you unattractive, happy to get an inbox full of those messages?
Women get those messages currently when they say no thanks, after awhile they just delete as it’s not worth the hassle. It’s not ignorance it’s why bother.
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Wind up merchants 
People who have to have the last say  |
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