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With the number of photos on our profile you could class is as attention seekers. We rarely if ever join in the threads where people say who they find the most attractive/kind/etc. So I suppose you could say we seek validation in some ways |
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"With the number of photos on our profile you could class is as attention seekers. We rarely if ever join in the threads where people say who they find the most attractive/kind/etc. So I suppose you could say we seek validation in some ways"
So definition of attention seekers is high number of photos... tbf, I take alot of photos to document my lingerie wardrobe and particular flirtation I want to express. Yes, I admittedly get excited if my photo gets to page 2 most fabbed and men get interested in me but I rather have quality over quantity and not flattered if I get many unwanted messages.
But I wondered people upload photos to gain better popularity? |
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"With the number of photos on our profile you could class is as attention seekers. We rarely if ever join in the threads where people say who they find the most attractive/kind/etc. So I suppose you could say we seek validation in some ways
So definition of attention seekers is high number of photos... tbf, I take alot of photos to document my lingerie wardrobe and particular flirtation I want to express. Yes, I admittedly get excited if my photo gets to page 2 most fabbed and men get interested in me but I rather have quality over quantity and not flattered if I get many unwanted messages.
But I wondered people upload photos to gain better popularity? "
There are some people who delete and re-upload the same pictures repeatedly. I can't think of any reason why they would do that apart from wanting the attention they receive when on the new photos page |
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"With the number of photos on our profile you could class is as attention seekers. We rarely if ever join in the threads where people say who they find the most attractive/kind/etc. So I suppose you could say we seek validation in some ways"
I would not say to many photos are attention seeking, in fact it proves your genuine. It's people status and the none stop repeating routine needy attention messages. I should of put this comment on what makes my p!$$ boil forum. I don't have time for it. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Let's face it most like attention if we honest? X
So a builder whistles from a site?
Love it dont happen any more at my age lol x"
Ha ha, think it more to do with pc than a gorgeous...
Let me get back to pc. |
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"Let's face it most like attention if we honest? X
So a builder whistles from a site?
Love it dont happen any more at my age lol x"
me neither. only when i was 15 years old... now i realise how dodgy that was builders flirting with 15 year olds  |
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"With the number of photos on our profile you could class is as attention seekers. We rarely if ever join in the threads where people say who they find the most attractive/kind/etc. So I suppose you could say we seek validation in some ways
So definition of attention seekers is high number of photos... tbf, I take alot of photos to document my lingerie wardrobe and particular flirtation I want to express. Yes, I admittedly get excited if my photo gets to page 2 most fabbed and men get interested in me but I rather have quality over quantity and not flattered if I get many unwanted messages.
But I wondered people upload photos to gain better popularity?
There are some people who delete and re-upload the same pictures repeatedly. I can't think of any reason why they would do that apart from wanting the attention they receive when on the new photos page "
The one I don't understand is 10 photos loaded over time of the same photo |
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"With the number of photos on our profile you could class is as attention seekers. We rarely if ever join in the threads where people say who they find the most attractive/kind/etc. So I suppose you could say we seek validation in some ways
So definition of attention seekers is high number of photos... tbf, I take alot of photos to document my lingerie wardrobe and particular flirtation I want to express. Yes, I admittedly get excited if my photo gets to page 2 most fabbed and men get interested in me but I rather have quality over quantity and not flattered if I get many unwanted messages.
But I wondered people upload photos to gain better popularity? "
We don't do it to gain popularity and it's a good job we don't because that isn't what it's achieved  . None of our pictures has ever got into hot pics and we don't court that. It's an exhibitionist thing with us and I think that there must be an element of validation there even if it's only to each other. |
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"With the number of photos on our profile you could class is as attention seekers. We rarely if ever join in the threads where people say who they find the most attractive/kind/etc. So I suppose you could say we seek validation in some ways
I would not say to many photos are attention seeking, in fact it proves your genuine. It's people status and the none stop repeating routine needy attention messages. I should of put this comment on what makes my p!$$ boil forum. I don't have time for it."
I think there are different ways of attention seeking and we all do it to an extent. I don't mean that we're attention seekers in a negative sense but exhibitionism has a certain amount of attention seeking at base.
We're quite happy in our own skin but like being looked at in other words |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not going to lie definitely hear for the attention mean it’s a sex site
I am hear for men and woman and cupple to covint my body I am hear to be wanted in bed
Am I a attention seeker in ever day walking life no but on fab and in the bed room then yes I am and the more attention the better
If everyone was honest this place would be a lot better and there wouldn’t be a meany no show meets and fakes xxxx |
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"With the number of photos on our profile you could class is as attention seekers. We rarely if ever join in the threads where people say who they find the most attractive/kind/etc. So I suppose you could say we seek validation in some ways
I would not say to many photos are attention seeking, in fact it proves your genuine. It's people status and the none stop repeating routine needy attention messages. I should of put this comment on what makes my p!$$ boil forum. I don't have time for it.
I think there are different ways of attention seeking and we all do it to an extent. I don't mean that we're attention seekers in a negative sense but exhibitionism has a certain amount of attention seeking at base.
We're quite happy in our own skin but like being looked at in other words "
Nicecouple, you always have the words! For us, it is more the exhibitionism rather than validation or attention seeking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 100% a attention seeker. But that takes many forms and with lots of varying intentions. For example, on here, I want to be found as desirable and attractive in order to find passion. But also to feel feel validated, as well as to find fun. Attention brings interaction, which when right, brings out the best in me.
I think negative attention is also there. I know and am aware of my insecurities, and this site doubtless feeds them unless I am disciplined in not letting it.
Being an attention seeker is not an inherently bad thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You think being on FAB encouraged you to seek more validation/admiration if you didn't have fab? "
If anything fab has made me realise what a cruel world we live in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be lying if I didn’t say that there is a narcissistic element to this for me.
I don’t think particularly highly of myself, so all those little ego boosts, and uplifting messages bring me smiles.
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Tbh yes I would say so! I didn't join any of these kinds of platforms till I reached 60 and not gonna lie! The attention I've had and lovely meets I've had I find amazing! I'm not daft i know alot of it is just peeps after a quick shag! But at my age I'm very much enjoying the attention x |
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"Tbh yes I would say so! I didn't join any of these kinds of platforms till I reached 60 and not gonna lie! The attention I've had and lovely meets I've had I find amazing! I'm not daft i know alot of it is just peeps after a quick shag! But at my age I'm very much enjoying the attention x"
Beautifully said!! What’s wrong with feeling good? |
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"Tbh yes I would say so! I didn't join any of these kinds of platforms till I reached 60 and not gonna lie! The attention I've had and lovely meets I've had I find amazing! I'm not daft i know alot of it is just peeps after a quick shag! But at my age I'm very much enjoying the attention x
Beautifully said!! What’s wrong with feeling good?"
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"You think being on FAB encouraged you to seek more validation/admiration if you didn't have fab?
Im on here to meet sex partners not boost my ego.
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Exactly this  However because of the incredibly high number of men on here you have to use your profile to ‘ market’ yourself and stand out otherwise you will struggle. |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
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This place has been a absolute positive for my confidence and allowed me the freedom to fully express my fem side. That has to be a good thing as I was miserable and unfulfilled before. The men and the meets, however, I can mostly take or leave. I've found that most men don't really know what to do when it comes to sex. That's a shame I think.  |
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I’ve noticed this it’s always the same women in the top photos every day almost like they don’t feel good in themselves unless they’re page one every day ! A bit cringey if you ask me ! It’s nice to soo different faces and people not the same people day in day out lol, kills the sexyness of them.  just my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve noticed this it’s always the same women in the top photos every day almost like they don’t feel good in themselves unless they’re page one every day ! A bit cringey if you ask me ! It’s nice to soo different faces and people not the same people day in day out lol, kills the sexyness of them. just my opinion. "
You have to remember that it’s others that put them there, they just add the photo.
I like the attention, I’m not going to lie, but because I enjoy it, not because I need it, or the validation. |
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"I’ve noticed this it’s always the same women in the top photos every day almost like they don’t feel good in themselves unless they’re page one every day ! A bit cringey if you ask me ! It’s nice to soo different faces and people not the same people day in day out lol, kills the sexyness of them. just my opinion.
You have to remember that it’s others that put them there, they just add the photo.
I like the attention, I’m not going to lie, but because I enjoy it, not because I need it, or the validation. "
If everone honest who wouldn't like it? I love it! But as u say I'm very happy in my skin ! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You think being on FAB encouraged you to seek more validation/admiration if you didn't have fab? "
I think it can make you more outgoing, and positive about yourself. talking to likeminded people about the things you kept to yourself before, and no judgement, It's a good thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If putting up a photo to receive positive comments & fabs makes me an attention seeker, then so be it.
At my age, it's highly flattering.
Carry on fabbing, I say! "
Well said |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"If putting up a photo to receive positive comments & fabs makes me an attention seeker, then so be it.
At my age, it's highly flattering.
Carry on fabbing, I say! "
this! Couldn't put it better lol  |
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Attention is showed to attraction - A decent profile pic does that. Personally, I enjoy attention but I’m more interested in finding new sexual experiences on this platform. I’m not here to be number one on the hot pics. Also, that would never happen. |
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When I first joined fab I think it did suck me in so I took a break. I came back a lot more sane realising that you just have to be female to get a lot of attention - it doesn't make you suddenly gods gift. Still it's a nice boost to be wanted as long as you accept it for what it is, a lot of very thirsty men chasing far too few women.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I stopped using the cam
I am not exactly looking for attention
I am looking for friends
I don't have verification
How do I gain more vefication
Verification. Means trust |
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