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"... category of people who are called cheaters not a swingers Your opinion? " Loads of them on here. | |||
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"We assure most people are in relationship or married single men who can't accommodate in 90 percent of cases will have a partner at home obviously a little different for single ladies who might not want to give address to people security etc " A bit sexiest, I think that 90% of the women who can’t accom are married as well. | |||
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"... category of people who are called cheaters not a swingers Your opinion? " If they're no throwing stones at me I have no desire to throw anything at them. | |||
"We assure most people are in relationship or married single men who can't accommodate in 90 percent of cases will have a partner at home obviously a little different for single ladies who might not want to give address to people security etc A bit sexiest, I think that 90% of the women who can’t accom are married as well. " I guess I'm in the other 10% then. I can't (choose not to) accommodate because I'm a single parent and this is my children's home, even if I didn't have kids I would be unlikely to accommodate the due to safety concerns. I'm very happily not married nor am I in a relationship. I just don't want strangers from the Internet coming to my home or knowing where I live. | |||
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"... category of people who are called cheaters not a swingers Your opinion? Loads of them on here." And that is for sure  | |||
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"Making broad sweeping statements condemning entire groups of people, with little or no knowledge of their individual circumstances or motivations...... A group of people I refer to as bigoted and judgemental......." Whilst the group that the OP is referring to are dishonest and disrespectful if their partners don't know. | |||
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"We agree honesty is the best policy. We also however recognise that expecting and demanding full honesty from others is probably too high a bar for many if not most. For us, if we are interested in meeting you, we arent especially concerned with whether you are married or not. We have played with married women who had partners who knew, and who didnt. Its not our concern. We offer sexual exploration and fun, if you are taking such offers up when you shouldnt be then that is your concern and your consequences to bear. Neither our business or our problem. If you dont tell us we arent going to ask, if you do tell us we arent going to judge. We arent in your marriage, perhaps you have your reasons. "  | |||
"I'll probably get shot down for saying this...Sadly, not everyone has the happy marriage that so many on here claim.. I'm honest about being married and on here without my other half's knowledge. I don't have sex at home, so love the opportunity to explore with sexy women and couples on fabs without the drama " Couldn't of put that better myself. I'm in exactly the same position. Though not having much luck (and I can't blame them!), I find this is my little escape from a sexual desert. | |||
"I'll probably get shot down for saying this...Sadly, not everyone has the happy marriage that so many on here claim.. I'm honest about being married and on here without my other half's knowledge. I don't have sex at home, so love the opportunity to explore with sexy women and couples on fabs without the drama Couldn't of put that better myself. I'm in exactly the same position. Though not having much luck (and I can't blame them!), I find this is my little escape from a sexual desert. " Just for interest, what would you think if the lady was on here? | |||
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"Sexless marriage Can’t get bread in one shop you go to another Everyone has needs Please don’t judge nobody is perfect " What would happen if they were? | |||
"We assure most people are in relationship or married single men who can't accommodate in 90 percent of cases will have a partner at home obviously a little different for single ladies who might not want to give address to people security etc A bit sexiest, I think that 90% of the women who can’t accom are married as well. I guess I'm in the other 10% then. I can't (choose not to) accommodate because I'm a single parent and this is my children's home, even if I didn't have kids I would be unlikely to accommodate the due to safety concerns. I'm very happily not married nor am I in a relationship. I just don't want strangers from the Internet coming to my home or knowing where I live. " Yup, we're a happily married couple but don't accommodate at home for all the above reasons. Hotels and clubs yes (under normal circumstances). Would go to someone else's house if invited but only together (safety). Us not accommodating has nothing to do with us being a genuine etc, but everything to do with us having kids at home and safety. | |||
"I'll probably get shot down for saying this...Sadly, not everyone has the happy marriage that so many on here claim.. I'm honest about being married and on here without my other half's knowledge. I don't have sex at home, so love the opportunity to explore with sexy women and couples on fabs without the drama Couldn't of put that better myself. I'm in exactly the same position. Though not having much luck (and I can't blame them!), I find this is my little escape from a sexual desert. Just for interest, what would you think if the lady was on here?" Honestly? It would be a relief. | |||
"I'll probably get shot down for saying this...Sadly, not everyone has the happy marriage that so many on here claim.. I'm honest about being married and on here without my other half's knowledge. I don't have sex at home, so love the opportunity to explore with sexy women and couples on fabs without the drama Couldn't of put that better myself. I'm in exactly the same position. Though not having much luck (and I can't blame them!), I find this is my little escape from a sexual desert. Just for interest, what would you think if the lady was on here? Honestly? It would be a relief." As much as talking to her about it? | |||
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"I tell my husband. Just afterwards when he’s balls deep in my ass listening to the filthy details. I’m glad I’m lucky enough to not have to ‘cheat’ it must be awful feeling you have to sneak around "  I love that  | |||
"Sexless marriage Can’t get bread in one shop you go to another Everyone has needs Please don’t judge nobody is perfect " Go and buy it in another just as you say. But if you do not care for her enough to treat her with respect and honesty, well then you should show her the dignity of walking away. | |||
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"Sexless marriage Can’t get bread in one shop you go to another Everyone has needs Please don’t judge nobody is perfect Go and buy it in another just as you say. But if you do not care for her enough to treat her with respect and honesty, well then you should show her the dignity of walking away. " Take it your not married or with a partner Not as easy as you suggest She perfect in many other ways except the bedroom I can live with that | |||
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"I'll probably get shot down for saying this...Sadly, not everyone has the happy marriage that so many on here claim.. I'm honest about being married and on here without my other half's knowledge. I don't have sex at home, so love the opportunity to explore with sexy women and couples on fabs without the drama " Same here... | |||
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"I’m here and my husband isn’t aware. I’m very honest about it on my profile, that way people can make their own choice if they would like to chat and get to know me. It’s so easy to throw stones and cast aspersions while sat behind a keyboard, however nothing is ever black and white. My reasons for being here are my own, and I very much go by the fab cliché of I won’t judge others and expect the same in return. And contrary to what some believe - I’m not scum of the earth or a horrible person." Great summary and very open and honest. Everyone has their reasons for being here. In the same way that everyone has different kinks and interests. There is no one right answer, and I’d hope there’s enough people on here for everyone to find the kind of chat / meet etc that they want. (Single males with profiles full of cock pics excluded from this ) | |||
"Sexless marriage Can’t get bread in one shop you go to another Everyone has needs Please don’t judge nobody is perfect Go and buy it in another just as you say. But if you do not care for her enough to treat her with respect and honesty, well then you should show her the dignity of walking away. Take it your not married or with a partner Not as easy as you suggest She perfect in many other ways except the bedroom I can live with that " We are married, surely you can see that on our profile? It is great that you have made the conscious choice and live with the fact that she is perfect in every other way. Such a shame though that you don't respect her enough to allow her to choose whether SHE wants to live with what you are doing. | |||
"Sexless marriage Can’t get bread in one shop you go to another Everyone has needs Please don’t judge nobody is perfect Go and buy it in another just as you say. But if you do not care for her enough to treat her with respect and honesty, well then you should show her the dignity of walking away. Take it your not married or with a partner Not as easy as you suggest She perfect in many other ways except the bedroom I can live with that We are married, surely you can see that on our profile? It is great that you have made the conscious choice and live with the fact that she is perfect in every other way. Such a shame though that you don't respect her enough to allow her to choose whether SHE wants to live with what you are doing." This | |||
"I'll probably get shot down for saying this...Sadly, not everyone has the happy marriage that so many on here claim.. I'm honest about being married and on here without my other half's knowledge. I don't have sex at home, so love the opportunity to explore with sexy women and couples on fabs without the drama Couldn't of put that better myself. I'm in exactly the same position. Though not having much luck (and I can't blame them!), I find this is my little escape from a sexual desert. " Yep exactly the same situation for me. I'll just put this out there, us married people who don't get sex at home what are we supposed to do if we don't "cheat" live sex less lives forever? | |||
"Im here and my husband doesnt know. Was a knee jerk reaction to him cheating and in my defence I havent met anyone since I joined. I talk to people and chat on the forums and never hide that Im married. Dont think Ive ever had a negative reaction tbh. Might not be right to some and I understand that too " Except the 1 female you met 5 months ago? | |||
"Yep exactly the same situation for me. I'll just put this out there, us married people who don't get sex at home what are we supposed to do if we don't "cheat" live sex less lives forever? " We're usually told that we should leave our wives - regardless of what the exact circumstances of each individual situation may be - and often vilified to the extreme... | |||
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"Im here and my husband doesnt know. Was a knee jerk reaction to him cheating and in my defence I havent met anyone since I joined. I talk to people and chat on the forums and never hide that Im married. Dont think Ive ever had a negative reaction tbh. Might not be right to some and I understand that too Except the 1 female you met 5 months ago?" Actually I didnt meet her 5 months ago. Shes a "real life" friend of mine who verified me | |||
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"Making broad sweeping statements condemning entire groups of people, with little or no knowledge of their individual circumstances or motivations...... A group of people I refer to as bigoted and judgemental......." See what you did there | |||
Majority of the condemnation comes from couples.... I've lost count of the amount of guys in couples who've messaged me asking to meet behind their partners back!! | |||
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Majority of the condemnation comes from couples.... I've lost count of the amount of guys in couples who've messaged me asking to meet behind their partners back!! " | |||
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"We assure most people are in relationship or married single men who can't accommodate in 90 percent of cases will have a partner at home obviously a little different for single ladies who might not want to give address to people security etc A bit sexiest, I think that 90% of the women who can’t accom are married as well. I guess I'm in the other 10% then. I can't (choose not to) accommodate because I'm a single parent and this is my children's home, even if I didn't have kids I would be unlikely to accommodate the due to safety concerns. I'm very happily not married nor am I in a relationship. I just don't want strangers from the Internet coming to my home or knowing where I live. " I agree with this young lady too..... I do accom on occasion which has in the past helped me meet ......but i live with a grown up family member and cannot 100% commit to accomodating. Cheaters maybe ...but i see a few married Men and Woman who are stuck in sexless and loveless marriages, mainly for financial and family reasons, and just need a release?? You may never judge another person until you have walked a mile in their shoes!  | |||
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"if you are in a sexless marrage, it may be partly your fault, instead of spending time on fab, maybe spend time with your wife/husband, you might find they are as frustrated as you, and if that doesnt work then leave, life is to short. so im sorry but not buying that argument, cheating is cheating what ever way you put it, how would you feel if your oh was doing it to you, swining is all about honesty, without that it doesnt work, only our opinion " . Replies like this make me smile, yea just walk away like it's that simple! Don't you think some of us have'nt already tried talking and things are still no better as I've personally already said in another thread, what if you can't leave for financial, family reasons or the rest of the marriage is fine but just the sex is missing? Life isn't always black and white, I bet theirs alot of couples on here would do exactly the same if they were in a sex less relationship. Yes cheating just for the sake of it isn't nice but for some people it's the only way to get some sort of intimacy in their lives and splitting up divorce may not be the answer or practical. | |||
"if you are in a sexless marrage, it may be partly your fault, instead of spending time on fab, maybe spend time with your wife/husband, you might find they are as frustrated as you, and if that doesnt work then leave, life is to short. so im sorry but not buying that argument, cheating is cheating what ever way you put it, how would you feel if your oh was doing it to you, swining is all about honesty, without that it doesnt work, only our opinion . Replies like this make me smile, yea just walk away like it's that simple! Don't you think some of us have'nt already tried talking and things are still no better as I've personally already said in another thread, what if you can't leave for financial, family reasons or the rest of the marriage is fine but just the sex is missing? Life isn't always black and white, I bet theirs alot of couples on here would do exactly the same if they were in a sex less relationship. Yes cheating just for the sake of it isn't nice but for some people it's the only way to get some sort of intimacy in their lives and splitting up divorce may not be the answer or practical. " if you arent happy then leave, i have, all the money in the world isnt worth a unhappy life, grow a pair and go on your own, like i said, i have, im worse off in the bank, and lost a house, but im happy, you cant put a price on that, there are too many people in the world convince themselves that they have to stay, its the easy way, but those that leave are way happier, i know | |||
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"These threads always make me giggle
Majority of the condemnation comes from couples.... I've lost count of the amount of guys in couples who've messaged me asking to meet behind their partners back!! "this 100% the amount of messages i used to get from couples profiles were the guy asks to meet without his partner knowing was unreal and the reason i blocked couples from contacting me anymore ... meeting couples is a club thing only now and with hubs with me and i still get the odd hey fancy meeting with out my partner or yours... | |||
"... category of people who are called cheaters not a swingers Your opinion? " Not sure why its anyone's business but those involved. We don't have to justify it to anyone. If you don't like it then jog on! | |||
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