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You can tell me to mind my own business but so intrigued which fabber has the highest number of sexual partners? I had a lover who claimed he had over 400 lovers.. where I know one of my friends only had 2.
They say men tend to double their numbers and women halve it.. not sure in the fab world, it is the same   |
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"You can tell me to mind my own business but so intrigued which fabber has the highest number of sexual partners? I had a lover who claimed he had over 400 lovers.. where I know one of my friends only had 2.
They say men tend to double their numbers and women halve it.. not sure in the fab world, it is the same "
Who the heck counts past 350?
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over a year ago
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"My number is 7
Crap I know.
*not Mr lover man *"
Why put yourself down?
High numbers does not equate to skill or experience, you may have had 7 lovers and done all sorts many times and someone else had 100 lovers and was crap every time. |
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"My number is 7
Crap I know.
*not Mr lover man *
Why put yourself down?
High numbers does not equate to skill or experience, you may have had 7 lovers and done all sorts many times and someone else had 100 lovers and was crap every time. "
i been with one guy who only had 1 lover in his life. 32 years old and made me cum in minutes. really attentive lover. |
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"My number is 7
Crap I know.
*not Mr lover man *
Why put yourself down?
High numbers does not equate to skill or experience, you may have had 7 lovers and done all sorts many times and someone else had 100 lovers and was crap every time. "
I have covered lots but still need practice |
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over a year ago
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Lost count a long time ago
Use to be a little game I played in my head to have the highest count possible it’s kind off a turn on for me to be a used up whore that’s been banged by everyone and anyone and yes I have self respect for my self
But meny spit roastes and one gangbang and general one night stands I lost count
If I was to try and have a estimate would say in the 100-150 range not nearly a nuff
Want to at least be in the 4 digits for men who have fucked me so got a lot off work to do lol
Definitely love the idear in my head off being used up whore xxx
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"You can tell me to mind my own business but so intrigued which fabber has the highest number of sexual partners? I had a lover who claimed he had over 400 lovers.. where I know one of my friends only had 2.
They say men tend to double their numbers and women halve it.. not sure in the fab world, it is the same "
I've got a rough idea on my partners and I know it's a 4 figure number . To partners I used to always say less than 10 ... as men didn't seem to like it if a woman was over double figures. Now I just say a lot. |
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"You can tell me to mind my own business but so intrigued which fabber has the highest number of sexual partners? I had a lover who claimed he had over 400 lovers.. where I know one of my friends only had 2.
They say men tend to double their numbers and women halve it.. not sure in the fab world, it is the same "
How many have you had OP? |
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"You can tell me to mind my own business but so intrigued which fabber has the highest number of sexual partners? I had a lover who claimed he had over 400 lovers.. where I know one of my friends only had 2.
They say men tend to double their numbers and women halve it.. not sure in the fab world, it is the same I've got a rough idea on my partners and I know it's a 4 figure number . To partners I used to always say less than 10 ... as men didn't seem to like it if a woman was over double figures. Now I just say a lot. "
I don’t I find it sexy I love to know that my woman has been round the block and been used and abused find it hot as xxx |
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"I have never counted.
I've a friend who had a spreadsheet though! I find it easier to just cross em off in the phone book. "
"Lovers or people you have had sex with? Not that many for either but the quality was always high!
people you have penetrative sex with. dildos don't really count
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That's a *pretty* low bar! I'm in the lower double digits but only a fraction of them would count as lovers - which to me denotes at least some dedication to your partner's pleasure, possibly emotional openness/vulnerability too. |
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By *elmc1Man
over a year ago
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Depends what you count, in my 20s countless one night stands, met someone fell in love, 2 kids, then split up. Probably about three people since then, all secret because I had the kids, now they all grown up I find its harder to meet anyone, maybe just forgot how to.  |
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I (Luke) don't know exactly for myself. I think it's between 20 and 30.
One of the first people I met on the scene reckoned she had had about 400 men and the most in one go was 40. I've been curious to know where she's at these days. |
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"Lovers or people you have had sex with? Not that many for either but the quality was always high!
people you have penetrative sex with. dildos don't really count
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What about if you put a wig on the dildo and draw a face ? |
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"We couldn’t say off hand but this always brings out the cringe in us. We can’t understand why people brag about it... it’s crass. Lol."
sorry had a nose and the female in your profile so sweet looking... I think for some people it's like collection hunters. I once had an ex who had a photo album of all his exes  |
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"We couldn’t say off hand but this always brings out the cringe in us. We can’t understand why people brag about it... it’s crass. Lol."
Some might think its crass, some might find it's refreshingly honest.
Both opinions are valid |
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over a year ago
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I was hubbies 25th and his total is 25 (I can only base this on what he has told me).
I started a snog book when I was about 15. I don’t really know why but have developed and continued this ever since. I now have a spreadsheet which I know is a bit silly but I like to look back over it from time to time and reminisce.
I won’t give my exact number but it would certainly be considered high in the vanilla world.
I’m not ashamed of my high numbers and would be honest if someone were to ask me about it. |
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"You can tell me to mind my own business but so intrigued which fabber has the highest number of sexual partners? I had a lover who claimed he had over 400 lovers.. where I know one of my friends only had 2.
They say men tend to double their numbers and women halve it.. not sure in the fab world, it is the same I've got a rough idea on my partners and I know it's a 4 figure number . To partners I used to always say less than 10 ... as men didn't seem to like it if a woman was over double figures. Now I just say a lot.
I don’t I find it sexy I love to know that my woman has been round the block and been used and abused find it hot as xxx"
I've not been used and abused. |
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I'm quite surprised at some of the low numbers... I've realised I'm such a greedy girl as I've had high double figures in one session. Although the last few years, even my group sessions have tended to be guys I've met previously with the odd newbie here and there.
This year I've had a significantly lower number and that was before covid to be fair |
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"I'm quite surprised at some of the low numbers... I've realised I'm such a greedy girl as I've had high double figures in one session. Although the last few years, even my group sessions have tended to be guys I've met previously with the odd newbie here and there.
This year I've had a significantly lower number and that was before covid to be fair "
 luv it, most in one session? |
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"I'm quite surprised at some of the low numbers... I've realised I'm such a greedy girl as I've had high double figures in one session. Although the last few years, even my group sessions have tended to be guys I've met previously with the odd newbie here and there.
me too considering its a swinger site... mine this year is born again virgin numbers
This year I've had a significantly lower number and that was before covid to be fair "
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"You can tell me to mind my own business but so intrigued which fabber has the highest number of sexual partners? I had a lover who claimed he had over 400 lovers.. where I know one of my friends only had 2.
They say men tend to double their numbers and women halve it.. not sure in the fab world, it is the same I've got a rough idea on my partners and I know it's a 4 figure number . To partners I used to always say less than 10 ... as men didn't seem to like it if a woman was over double figures. Now I just say a lot.
I don’t I find it sexy I love to know that my woman has been round the block and been used and abused find it hot as xxx I've not been used and abused."
It was ment to be a complement didn’t really come out well not mater xxx |
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Im not 100%sure i would say slightly less than 50 BUT and this is a big BUT only 8 of them have been out off this world and insane in bed high numbers deffinetly doesn't mean good sex if I had only ever slept with them 8 in my life time I would be a happy man. |
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"Im not 100%sure i would say slightly less than 50 BUT and this is a big BUT only 8 of them have been out off this world and insane in bed high numbers deffinetly doesn't mean good sex if I had only ever slept with them 8 in my life time I would be a happy man. "
yes probably same with most people who had many lovers that only a handful were exceptional |
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The men I would class as lovers are few and far between. The number of men I've had sex with over the years probably 50+. Of those, while nice guys, probably less than half a dozen I've wanted to have sex with more than once. |
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"I'm quite surprised at some of the low numbers... I've realised I'm such a greedy girl as I've had high double figures in one session. Although the last few years, even my group sessions have tended to be guys I've met previously with the odd newbie here and there.
This year I've had a significantly lower number and that was before covid to be fair "
Sounds like you need to find a way of enticing new single guys in to the club....  |
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"I'm quite surprised at some of the low numbers... I've realised I'm such a greedy girl as I've had high double figures in one session. Although the last few years, even my group sessions have tended to be guys I've met previously with the odd newbie here and there.
its more like i need to muster the confidence to go to a club. only way I'm gona meet new men
This year I've had a significantly lower number and that was before covid to be fair
Sounds like you need to find a way of enticing new single guys in to the club.... "
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"The fantasists will be out on this thread "
i have been a regular at gay saunas for over 20yrs, its a promiscuous lifestyle I would say easily 500-1000  |
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"The fantasists will be out on this thread i have been a regular at gay saunas for over 20yrs, its a promiscuous lifestyle I would say easily 500-1000 "
yes i heard gay men who visit these places tend to rack up numbers really easily |
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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago
New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies |
I started to count but kept losing count, as I would dwell on something particularly memorable though I realised it was a fair bit more than i thought, but then I have been doing it for 44 years. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"The fantasists will be out on this thread i have been a regular at gay saunas for over 20yrs, its a promiscuous lifestyle I would say easily 500-1000
yes i heard gay men who visit these places tend to rack up numbers really easily "
Our gay friends are so naughty... at the end of a night out when we’re all going home they will typically head off “cruising” to public toilets around 3am and get a few more fucks in before the suns up |
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"The fantasists will be out on this thread i have been a regular at gay saunas for over 20yrs, its a promiscuous lifestyle I would say easily 500-1000
yes i heard gay men who visit these places tend to rack up numbers really easily
Our gay friends are so naughty... at the end of a night out when we’re all going home they will typically head off “cruising” to public toilets around 3am and get a few more fucks in before the suns up "
so 1970's |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I lost count around 60 and that was by time i was 18ish
Its Well over 100 now
I dont see how you can class yourself as a swinger when uve had 15 sexual partners
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I’m just about in triple figures I think
I wouldn’t offer up the information unless asked, but I wouldn’t round it down. It’s like a sorting hat and anyone who was bothered by it isn’t for me anyway
Some of my hottest experiences the last six months were with someone and I was their third |
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"96, I think.
Alice is challenging herself to get 1000 before she's dead."
nearly read it as she done 1000 then she's the clear winner so far on this thread as most are way under 50 which surprises me |
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By *eo_72Man
over a year ago
Mansfield |
"You can tell me to mind my own business but so intrigued which fabber has the highest number of sexual partners? I had a lover who claimed he had over 400 lovers.. where I know one of my friends only had 2.
They say men tend to double their numbers and women halve it.. not sure in the fab world, it is the same "
I was a 18/30 club rep for two years in Zante in my early 20’s. If memory serves me correctly I’d had over 500 sexual partners by the time I joined the military |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
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"No where near the numbers in this thread myself, can tell you each of their names, and where we met etc as it’s important to me even if it’s just casual. "
I can tell you where the bodies are all buried in my case.
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"96, I think.
Alice is challenging herself to get 1000 before she's dead.
nearly read it as she done 1000 then she's the clear winner so far on this thread as most are way under 50 which surprises me "
I'm well over that... I have had over 300 in a week previously.. ( it was a busy week in my greedy girl life) and my most in one month was 560 ( back when I had a man that kept count for me)
Even if I average it out at 5 a week for 23 years.... the number is high.. But I've slowed down since hitting 40 to be fair.
Although when the attic cinema was open, it wasnt uncommon for me to have 30plus on a lunch time visit... but.... many I meet their now tend to be regular guys with the odd newbie thrown in.
Most in any 24 hours was 113 but that was about 9 years ago now
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"No where near the numbers in this thread myself, can tell you each of their names, and where we met etc as it’s important to me even if it’s just casual. I can tell you where the bodies are all buried in my case. "
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"No where near the numbers in this thread myself, can tell you each of their names, and where we met etc as it’s important to me even if it’s just casual. I can tell you where the bodies are all buried in my case.
Ok Fred "
is that his name or one of the victims? |
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I keep a list, as I have said in previous threads recently that I love a list and therefore this should not come as a surprise to some of you
The numbers on my list I share with my boyfriend but he has never seen my list.
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"I keep a list, as I have said in previous threads recently that I love a list and therefore this should not come as a surprise to some of you
The numbers on my list I share with my boyfriend but he has never seen my list.
Her x"
I'm in Pembrokeshire atm... so glad the weather OK... but I'm like you in sense during lock down, I decided to write a list of my ex lovers giving them a score and key points lol I'm such a Monica. But it made me realise how few of them were amazing. I haven't met my 10/10. Hoping fab may give me that experience but I get more sex from vanilla dating sites than I do from FAB.. Its so tricky on here |
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"We couldn’t say off hand but this always brings out the cringe in us. We can’t understand why people brag about it... it’s crass. Lol.
sorry had a nose and the female in your profile so sweet looking... I think for some people it's like collection hunters. I once had an ex who had a photo album of all his exes "
Yeh and it’s not for all people... we just mean it’s cringe because you know it also brings out the people who think higher numbers make them somehow better and thus just make it up. Not everyone but you know people who will do it...
And thank you x |
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"We couldn’t say off hand but this always brings out the cringe in us. We can’t understand why people brag about it... it’s crass. Lol.
sorry had a nose and the female in your profile so sweet looking... I think for some people it's like collection hunters. I once had an ex who had a photo album of all his exes
Yeh and it’s not for all people... we just mean it’s cringe because you know it also brings out the people who think higher numbers make them somehow better and thus just make it up. Not everyone but you know people who will do it...
And thank you x"
that's never true. One of the best guys I've ever been with had only had 2 women before me.
I dont meet lots because I think I'm great.. it's just how I am and I like stranger sex |
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"I keep a list, as I have said in previous threads recently that I love a list and therefore this should not come as a surprise to some of you
The numbers on my list I share with my boyfriend but he has never seen my list.
Her x
I'm in Pembrokeshire atm... so glad the weather OK... but I'm like you in sense during lock down, I decided to write a list of my ex lovers giving them a score and key points lol I'm such a Monica. But it made me realise how few of them were amazing. I haven't met my 10/10. Hoping fab may give me that experience but I get more sex from vanilla dating sites than I do from FAB.. Its so tricky on here "
I hope you're enjoying Pembrokeshire
I don't keep a score on my lovers just a list and a little symbol for if I have had repeat meets with them.
I hope you find the lover you are seeking and that person brings out the amazing lover from within you too.
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"We couldn’t say off hand but this always brings out the cringe in us. We can’t understand why people brag about it... it’s crass. Lol.
sorry had a nose and the female in your profile so sweet looking... I think for some people it's like collection hunters. I once had an ex who had a photo album of all his exes
Yeh and it’s not for all people... we just mean it’s cringe because you know it also brings out the people who think higher numbers make them somehow better and thus just make it up. Not everyone but you know people who will do it...
And thank you x that's never true. One of the best guys I've ever been with had only had 2 women before me.
I dont meet lots because I think I'm great.. it's just how I am and I like stranger sex"
Of course. I wasn’t saying you specifically or even anyone here. Just saying it can be true and people do it. As I say, not suggesting anyone here specifically was! |
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"96, I think.
Alice is challenging herself to get 1000 before she's dead.
nearly read it as she done 1000 then she's the clear winner so far on this thread as most are way under 50 which surprises me I'm well over that... I have had over 300 in a week previously.. ( it was a busy week in my greedy girl life) and my most in one month was 560 ( back when I had a man that kept count for me)
Even if I average it out at 5 a week for 23 years.... the number is high.. But I've slowed down since hitting 40 to be fair.
Although when the attic cinema was open, it wasnt uncommon for me to have 30plus on a lunch time visit... but.... many I meet their now tend to be regular guys with the odd newbie thrown in.
Most in any 24 hours was 113 but that was about 9 years ago now
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that's a site I would love to see, love greedy open mind ladies. |
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"96, I think.
Alice is challenging herself to get 1000 before she's dead.
nearly read it as she done 1000 then she's the clear winner so far on this thread as most are way under 50 which surprises me I'm well over that... I have had over 300 in a week previously.. ( it was a busy week in my greedy girl life) and my most in one month was 560 ( back when I had a man that kept count for me)
Even if I average it out at 5 a week for 23 years.... the number is high.. But I've slowed down since hitting 40 to be fair.
Although when the attic cinema was open, it wasnt uncommon for me to have 30plus on a lunch time visit... but.... many I meet their now tend to be regular guys with the odd newbie thrown in.
Most in any 24 hours was 113 but that was about 9 years ago now
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113 in 24 hours is 4.7 guys an hour every hour for 24 hours so preety much one every 12 or so minutes for 24 hours that's a lot of sex and a lot of cum |
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In my 20's I had many utterly ridiculous one night stands I was a late starter; didnt lose my virginity til I was 19  my number now lies somewhere between 60 and 70, I no longer give it any thought, but the pace has definitely slowed down and the bar has gotten a lottttt higher |
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