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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For a long time we have spoke how we would love and extra women in our relationship on a permanent basis. But dam what’s the odds of finding someone. I mean we have found a unicorn once in our swinging life but to find a unicorn that wants a relationship with a couple must be near dam impossible.
Please I want to hear anyone’s stories if they know people in a throuple relationship or have been in ones yourselves.
( ?? or if you want us to wine and dine you ?? ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A wonderful idea and our ideal swinging situation in a way, but definitely hard to achieve.
My instincts say that it might actually be easier to achieve outside of the swinging world per se. A single female swinger is likely to perceive such an offer in terms of restrictions and impingement on their time allocation to other partners. Perhaps a trusted vanilla friend would make an easier transition into such an arrangement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was a third to a married couple for a while in my early 20’s. I even stayed with them for 3 months and loved their 3 kids too. We kept everything on a day to day basis as Just good friends and never gave the children or neighbours any reason to suspect.
It started when I had an affair with the husband and the wife also took a lover. We met up as 2 couples each weekend but never swooped. She then dumped her younger lover as he got too serious and she had a fantasy to sleep with a woman.
We had great fun and would love to find a local couple that a regular 3 sum would work with but find it hard to find couples where I am attracted to both. |
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We had a girlfriend for a few months, it was amazing! Started off as casual threesome and ended up in a proper exclusive relationship.. She got a job offer quite far from us and now she is seeing "regular" guy but still texting us every now and then.. |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
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Something we talked about when we first started out in this lifestyle. We've had a few experiences with single females, all positive but never had a regular female to share this lifestyle with. We'd love to find a single and become close friends. Wouldn't use the term girl friend as that sounds to exclusive for any female to comprehend in this lifestyle, close enough to share everything though would be awesome   |
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Been there done it. Too much hassle. You simply do not always agree on stuff and you can take the moments where you have a couple’s disagreement and add another angle which can make shit even more of a pain. Nope, not wasting time on that again. The sex is always fun... until one has a headache and wants to cuddle when the others want to fuck... again, a pain. FWB is easy. Third wheel isn’t. 5 month relationship was fun for a fair bit but became the opposite of it. |
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I've been part of one for a little over 10 years now.
It's much the same as any other relationship, it doesn't fall into place over night and it takes a lot of hard work. Boundaries need to be set. Lots of talking until a solution to differences can be found.
People often glamourise a throuple relationship, but they are fucking hard work. |
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"This is the big problem. Trying to find that One diamond in a pile of rare diamonds. A unicorn is hard enough xxxx"
With the greatest of respect, your language doesn't match with a throuple agreement. Unicorn, diamond. A throuple is an equal 3 way relationship, not a couple with an additional person to call on when you need them which is what your language points to.
I'm not saying you mean to be disrespectful, because I'm sure you don't, just you need to be clear what you want and mean. |
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