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I’m on and off Tinder and Bumble ..
Had more sex off tinder than on here ..
Plus you see who you’re messaging..
On here you’ve no idea until you swap face pics, and that’s not always a pleasant suprise  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use other dating sites, more success on these sites also. I was recommended to FAB thought these and have recommended FAB to others on these sites. Cast your net wide young man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m on and off Tinder and Bumble ..
Had more sex off tinder than on here ..
Plus you see who you’re messaging..
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...but you don't get to see their butthole  |
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"I’m on and off Tinder and Bumble ..
Had more sex off tinder than on here ..
Plus you see who you’re messaging..
...but you don't get to see their butthole "
I get to see more on tinder usually lol x |
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I wish more women knew about sites like these and actually asked for what they wanted...
In my experience Tinder and other dating sites are full of guys just wanting to shag under the false pretense of dating or something more meaningful.
At least here you know what you're getting, for the most part. |
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"I wish more women knew about sites like these and actually asked for what they wanted...
In my experience Tinder and other dating sites are full of guys just wanting to shag under the false pretense of dating or something more meaningful.
At least here you know what you're getting, for the most part."
I’ve actually found that being brutally honest about only wanting casual yields surprising results. |
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"I wish more women knew about sites like these and actually asked for what they wanted...
In my experience Tinder and other dating sites are full of guys just wanting to shag under the false pretense of dating or something more meaningful.
At least here you know what you're getting, for the most part.
I’ve actually found that being brutally honest about only wanting casual yields surprising results. "
Well that's good then  |
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"That is true. I want to date and swing with the same partner so its hard as both sites tend to be the opposite of what i want them for. "
Yup, I don't tend to use them as I never find the happy median.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv done well on tinder etc but they all seem to be vanilla unfortunately for me. Plus i dont want to advertise non vanilla as my sister is on tinder and will find out. Ffs"
I got a lifetime ban from tinder for advertising non vanilla so tread carefully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab and Tinder have different purposes
That being said, I've met more women from Tinder than I have from Fab (0 Meets )
There isn't this veil of fantasy on Tinder, and people are generally more down to earth.
People who complain about Tinder most likely have terrible photos or profiles.
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"Fab and Tinder have different purposes
That being said, I've met more women from Tinder than I have from Fab (0 Meets )
There isn't this veil of fantasy on Tinder, and people are generally more down to earth.
People who complain about Tinder most likely have terrible photos or profiles.
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They have much the same purpose in the end I find same as pof x |
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"Fab and Tinder have different purposes
That being said, I've met more women from Tinder than I have from Fab (0 Meets )
There isn't this veil of fantasy on Tinder, and people are generally more down to earth.
People who complain about Tinder most likely have terrible photos or profiles.
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Yes, I look like the girl from the grudge in person and my personality has been missing since 2001  |
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"I wish more women knew about sites like these and actually asked for what they wanted...
In my experience Tinder and other dating sites are full of guys just wanting to shag under the false pretense of dating or something more meaningful.
At least here you know what you're getting, for the most part."
The women on Tinder are as promiscuous as the men ..
Trust me ..
Especially the over 40’s whose sex drive has got out of control..
But on tinder you have to be pretty..
On here guys will fuck people they haven’t seen and would never admit to fucking publicly.. |
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"I wish more women knew about sites like these and actually asked for what they wanted...
In my experience Tinder and other dating sites are full of guys just wanting to shag under the false pretense of dating or something more meaningful.
At least here you know what you're getting, for the most part.
The women on Tinder are as promiscuous as the men ..
Trust me ..
Especially the over 40’s whose sex drive has got out of control..
But on tinder you have to be pretty..
On here guys will fuck people they haven’t seen and would never admit to fucking publicly.."
So because I don't like the way Tinder is and I've not had "success" (I use tinder to date, not fuck), I'm ugly?
Men on Tinder use it as they use fab, to get a leg over.
Women use tinder for sex and to date.
I personally use fab to fuck and possibly find a like minded swinger who likes the kinks I'm into.
The guys that will fuck anything stick out on fab hence I suppose them striking out on here.
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By *yronutMan
over a year ago
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Been on Tinder, Bumble and POF for 6 years.
in that time I’ve had two one night dates and one two night, none came to any fruition! I’m nice, that’s my problem! (I am also picky! I know what I want) I won’t lower my Standards just for a quick shag.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, own up, who else is on tinder, might look for you, so bored of dating vanilla now ."
I'm the sado and on all of them. Pof, tinder, bumble and badoo.
Men seem to be more respectful on fabs compared to dating sites tho. But its good for wasting time away, especially during lockdown lol |
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"Iv done well on tinder etc but they all seem to be vanilla unfortunately for me. Plus i dont want to advertise non vanilla as my sister is on tinder and will find out. Ffs"
Do you reckon your sister would see your Tinder profile and click on and read about what you want? Plus... that would make her more red faced surely? Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're not on either but in my single days there was definitely a hierarchy of likelihood of sex Vs effort expended:
1: POF
2: Skout
3: Tinder
And Fab at a very distant 4th.
Makes me wish that swinging was less damaging to be public with, a captive market is never good for competition. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have dabbled briefly with Tinder. POF & Bumble. Not met a single person from all my wasted hours swiping right !
Deleted all my accounts and only use Fab and the other Fetish site that Fab doesn't like us mentioning!
Fab is best though due to the verification system. And getting to see sexy pics at the start of interactions to see if there is any physical attraction.
No one can be verified on the other more conventional dating apps, and dick pics are frowned upon!
It's Fab for me all the way. |
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"I have dabbled briefly with Tinder. POF & Bumble. Not met a single person from all my wasted hours swiping right !
Deleted all my accounts and only use Fab and the other Fetish site that Fab doesn't like us mentioning!
Fab is best though due to the verification system. And getting to see sexy pics at the start of interactions to see if there is any physical attraction.
No one can be verified on the other more conventional dating apps, and dick pics are frowned upon!
It's Fab for me all the way."
tinder i like... pof full of mix bags but generally get accused of being fake on there... bumble is too labourous and quiet but met afew people from there... the other kink site is really impossible to navigate so my preference is tinder for dates and fab for forums.  |
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"I wish more women knew about sites like these and actually asked for what they wanted...
In my experience Tinder and other dating sites are full of guys just wanting to shag under the false pretense of dating or something more meaningful.
At least here you know what you're getting, for the most part."
That’s why I am on here not Tinder, When looking for poly with a hint of kink this feels more honest. Not necessarily with much success, but everyone is being (more) honest. |
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"I’m on and off Tinder and Bumble ..
Had more sex off tinder than on here ..
Plus you see who you’re messaging..
On here you’ve no idea until you swap face pics, and that’s not always a pleasant suprise "
Oh thanks did my face upset you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is true. I want to date and swing with the same partner so its hard as both sites tend to be the opposite of what i want them for. "
Exactly, maybe we should make a “find your swinging partner site” lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the sites are shit. They're all a woman's domain. I've been on Tinder, Pof, Badoo here and had no luck whatsoever. One meet off here five years ago. "
They are all a woman's domain, but the negative effects of that reduce as the size of the population in the app increases.
Hence why Fab is so much more challenging than somewhere like POF or Tinder.
Basically if the number of women (x) increases, in line with the number of men (y), and women's standards remain the same (n) then in effect competition between men (c) decreases proportionally
C = x/y over n
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of those on dating sites are on here......"
I'm curious how you came to that conclusion. Fab's total online user base right now is approximately 27k. And it's a global site.
Do you really think that most of the people who are on dating sites are also on Fab? Because I doubt the numbers add up, not even close. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most of those on dating sites are on here......
I'm curious how you came to that conclusion. Fab's total online user base right now is approximately 27k. And it's a global site.
Do you really think that most of the people who are on dating sites are also on Fab? Because I doubt the numbers add up, not even close. "
previously being on dating sites comparing notes with other users of being on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most of those on dating sites are on here......
I'm curious how you came to that conclusion. Fab's total online user base right now is approximately 27k. And it's a global site.
Do you really think that most of the people who are on dating sites are also on Fab? Because I doubt the numbers add up, not even close. previously being on dating sites comparing notes with other users of being on fab "
Do you mean most people on Fab are on tinder? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of those on dating sites are on here......
I'm curious how you came to that conclusion. Fab's total online user base right now is approximately 27k. And it's a global site.
Do you really think that most of the people who are on dating sites are also on Fab? Because I doubt the numbers add up, not even close. previously being on dating sites comparing notes with other users of being on fab
Do you mean most people on Fab are on tinder?"
That would make far more sense. No doubt there is substantial overlap, if I were single I'd be on both |
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must be uglier than i think i am
either that or my patter must be shite
or maybe i smell of shite 
I’ve also had meets from Xhamster. Apart from those, I’ve only used Fab, and have no plans to try anywhere else 