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Meeting alone

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi all you lovely fabbers.

I am really liking the idea of sorting out some meets alone with out my partner. Men or women, I really love both. I have discussed with him and he is happy with the idea in principle but is really concerned with the safety side of things. This is post Covid of course although socials could probably happen now I suppose.

How do those of you whose partners play alone make sure it’s safe and you aren’t putting yourself in danger.

Thanks A x

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By *isstinseltoesWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

I am half a couple and we meet separately

Alwats have a social and go at your own pace

Let your partner pick you up /drop you off so they know exactly where you are

Maybe meet at a club when safe to do

Good luck x

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By *uminsiderMKMan over a year ago

St Austell

It's something that verifications can be a great help with - in the past, I've had meets with ladies playing 'solo' who were happy to meet me alone because of what they'd read (here and elsewhere)...

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I'm half a couple I always have a social somewhere public and stay in contact with my husband through the occasional message, letting him know how it's going, where I am if we choose to change location or what ever

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By *xcited99Couple over a year ago

omagh

I agree. Hubby always drops me off and picks me up, and I remain in contact throughout. Of course he knows how it's going if I send him a photo or short video of me having fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I play alone. My husband always has the address and phone number of the guy or people I'm meeting. I also have a location tracker on my phone he can see.

When I am there I text or call on arrival. After half an hour or so text again if I'm comfortable. And text every so often after that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Great this is all good advice thank you especially the phone tracker. Hadn’t thought of that x

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By *actileGent69Man over a year ago

East Cheshire

As a couple we have only done this with folk (usually singles) we have already met together a few times hence trust has built up. Similar situ meeting couples as a couple and going off to separate bedrooms for a few hours or all night. It's amazing...

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By *andkCouple over a year ago

Wisbech

I've met men, women and couples alone as long as I get some videos to show my fella when I get back home

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

not judging you, but for us swinging is all about sharing the experiance, hence we dont meet alone, stay safe, everyone is different, and if it works for you then fair play

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By *ave BearMan over a year ago

Manchester

I always meet the coupled first for a drink and then separately once we're both comfortable with eachother.

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

I, Mrs, will meet single ladies alone.

Mr will know exactly where I'll be and he will know what time I'm due home.

Have a social first and go off your gut instinct.

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