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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've met my girlfriend multiple times if that's what you mean. And I do love cumming deep inside her   "
No lol... I meant like someone whom you know from the site and y’all have been having regular sex for a very long time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've met my girlfriend multiple times if that's what you mean. And I do love cumming deep inside her "
No lol... I meant like someone whom you know from the site and y’all have been having regular sex for a very long time |
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"I've met my girlfriend multiple times if that's what you mean. And I do love cumming deep inside her
No lol... I meant like someone whom you know from the site and y’all have been having regular sex for a very long time"
If you’re genuinely having regular sex for a long period of time, and you truly trust the other person, each regularly get tested with provable results, then personally I don’t see it as any different to having a girlfriend or a wife with whom you do not use condoms.
But I think that’s fairly obvious? The risks are no greater than your partner cheating on you unprotected and not telling you. The key element is trust and transparency, and herein lies the risk. Ultimately you are reliant on the other person, and the herd of fab will tell you nope, no way, never, I value my sexual health (as if you don’t). At least that’s what I’ve seen in these types of threads before.
Personally I think that’s bollocks, there’s a lot of hyperbole that surrounds this topic, and often not a lot of actual reasoned and logical discussion. Many would have you wrapped up in a full body condom, just for a social.
If anything, many husbands and wives just assume they’ll definitely be STI free - because they (rightly) trust that their partner has never strayed - and don’t bother with testing at all for decades. Of course, this doesn’t apply to everyone... before I get jumped by the fab herd!
Just my tuppence.   |
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I remember a similar post to this where a guy accused a couple of being disease spreaders for having a preference to bareback sex turned out he had met the couple twice on an old profile both bareback meets people in forum don't always practise what they preach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ITT: The same virtue signalling that occured the last 300 times this thread came up.
For our part, as always, principally yes we would consider it if we had a playmate we trusted enough and had enough experience with. But practically we haven't developed a relationship of that level with a playmate to date and don't anticipate that's likely to change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With the right, trusted person who I saw regularly, then yes I’d consider it.
Obviously with sexual health checks etc taken regularly and the trust being there. Otherwise it’ll always be condoms with anyone but my partner. X |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
I think, like most things, there's a time and place for it. If there's enough trust and rapport in place and it's between people who are responsible with their sexual health (i.e. safer sex always with new / unknown partners, regular testing, birth control, etc).
Everything is a calculated risk, not just P in V intercourse, but all types of outercourse, oral sex, etc. Then of course there's people's preferences outside of the risks, which are all valid.
Finally there's still a lot of stigma and misinformation out there about safer sex practices and STIs, which muddies the issue further. At the end of the day we all need to be as responsible and as respectful of each other as possible. |
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I've read many thread's on here about this, let's face it it's probably one of the most posted subjects.
Lot's of preaching on one side, lot's of acceptance on the other.
Fact is.
Most swinger's are probably far more cautious,educated and selective than your average singleton who goes out on the lash or (precovid) Spanish holiday where it is a fuck fest of any hole (or cocks) a goal d*unken one night stands, it's not called shagaluf for nothing.
This is reckless sexual health.
Ok so swinging is promiscuity and sex is the agenda.
But we have been to many clubs and many parties for the most part people are fairly selective.
The same with meets , unlike vanilla life you have more insight and honesty in people's sexual history.
So if you have known someone for a few years met many times and both parties are open and honest.
Having bareback sex with them is possibly less of a risk then say someone you have been in a relationship with for a few months who you know very little about their past.
We are supposed to be grown ups who can make an educated decision about their own sexual health.
This is a world away from a free for all at a local dogging spot where one person may entertain multiple bareback stranger's in one evening or to indulge and add to said rice pudding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and I find most people will even if not regular I see it all the time people who have on they profile only play safe but asking for bareback while setting ground rules and stuff xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's ok if they are regulars.and you have known them for a good while. There's a lot of people on here who have bareback with random guys. It's like Russian roulette |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a very amusing thread so many saying no so many saying yes. So the other question is do you have protection oral as in giving receiving oral because so many sti can also be passed this way. So if only reason you are you yousin protected sex is to not get pregnant then all fine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These type of threads are all about social pressure. So if you look at the hundreds of threads on this topic, you get some threads where people are absolutely villainised worse than Donald Trump for a bit of bareback fun, so then no one will admit to it and you would think no one ever indulged ever. Then you get some threads that start off being openly loving of bareback and then people will openly speak up about liking it and that encourages more people to open up about enjoying it to. |
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If you are meeting active member and yourself a active member Plus an opportunity that may arise on a night out surely the responsible thing is to wear a condom every time because it's not 100% ..
But play how you want nothing to with anybody ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only with husband.
Not worth risking your life for 10 min of pleasure with strangers.
He stated further down he meant someone that he’s been seeing for a very long time. "
But what's the guarantee that the other person is not barebacking someone else?
Just because he is a regular doesn't mean you have to have bb sex ?
This way they will out their own real partners at risk. |
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I only do when I'm seeing a woman or couple exclusively. And trust has been established. Also insist on open mutual testing, on top of the usual check ups.... its lovely but only worth it if you've taken every possible precaution..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have decided to recently with another couple, Who we have been playing with for 6 years. We don’t as a rule with just anyone, but once a respectful and trusting relationship is built and with measures such as testing, we feel comfortable to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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56 deanstreet can supply you with prep. They are one the biggest sexual health facilities in Europe .
You will be required to have a full hiv STI test and kidney / liver function test first .
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I have in the past (twice, with the same woman) but I consider it an unnecessary risk and a mistake. I won't be doing it again. Fortunately I have been tested since and I know I didn't catch anything. Luke |
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AnEmotionalTampon here
Yes I would. I'd prefer to go bareback anyway. Do have condones and will use them but prefer it raw and what's with people I met here, on other hook up apps and when pulling when on nights or and days out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the forum posts on this subject are definitely not reflective of the messages we receive at least 80 percent of men who message ask if we play bare and lots of couples "
Same. I've literally only had 2 or 3 people say they only play safe and mean it. Everyone else is more than happy playing bareback with me. Xx |
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Iv never used a comdom with women and had one gay guy go bare with me a few times last year While I was d*unk and in his bed
I was scared after So got tested
I kept seeing him once I had test and knew he was clean
I don’t use condoms with men for oral
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Risking your life? Wtf 
Who is even that dramatic!
My number is very high, condoms used with maybe 5% of that number.
My sexual health file is as thick as most people on fab from regular testing.
Never had a thing, I once got told I gave someone chlamydia, went and got tested and results was negative.
I think luck and been a good judge of character has something to do with it.
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"Iv never used a comdom with women and had one gay guy go bare with me a few times last year While I was d*unk and in his bed
I was scared after So got tested
I kept seeing him once I had test and knew he was clean
I don’t use condoms with men for oral
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it's not a given that because your gay you have STDs , very discriminatory comment ! |
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I agree std’s and infections infect people regardless of the sexual orientation and to think that people still believe that gay people are the ones spreading the diseases is very immoral and racist |
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"I agree std’s and infections infect people regardless of the sexual orientation and to think that people still believe that gay people are the ones spreading the diseases is very immoral and racist "
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"Iv never used a comdom with women and had one gay guy go bare with me a few times last year While I was d*unk and in his bed
I was scared after So got tested
I kept seeing him once I had test and knew he was clean
I don’t use condoms with men for oral
it's not a given that because your gay you have STDs , very discriminatory comment ! "
It’s a response to the OP question and what I do
Don’t make this into something it’s not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trust. It's a word used on a lot on threads on this subject. But can you really trust anyone from a site like this? Sounds harsh, but a case in point is the op - his pics are stolen from the web (reverse image search is your friend). So, bareback if you want to, but just don't believe what people tell you. |
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"Iv never used a comdom with women and had one gay guy go bare with me a few times last year While I was d*unk and in his bed
I was scared after So got tested
I kept seeing him once I had test and knew he was clean
I don’t use condoms with men for oral
it's not a given that because your gay you have STDs , very discriminatory comment !
It’s a response to the OP question and what I do
Don’t make this into something it’s not"
it's very judgemental chose how you look at it , you confidently have bare back sex with women without a worry , once with a gay guy and it scares you enough to go get tested , it's shouts gays must be riddled with disease , obviously you're pre conceived ideas colour your reaction , bare back sex is risky with ANYONE ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Trust. It's a word used on a lot on threads on this subject. But can you really trust anyone from a site like this? Sounds harsh, but a case in point is the op - his pics are stolen from the web (reverse image search is your friend). So, bareback if you want to, but just don't believe what people tell you."
So the Op is really a white guy? |
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