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Hello everyone, ok fabbsters a question for you all.
How long should a single guy or any guy if he's a part of a couple, from start to finish last in bed on a meet?
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How long should the penetration part last for?
Love to find out everyone's different views and see just how naughty you lot are. |
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"Or if the guy does cum first, then don't stop! She can still cum you know, don't just pull out and wipe your cock on the curtains...  "
It’s just good manners... |
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"I like to think 1:30 seconds is the right amount if time to leave the bag in water for the perfect brew.
As for sex any time is good for me!
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1:30 seconds?? Even if you mean 1 min 30 secs that's some nasty insipid dishwater!  |
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"I like to think 1:30 seconds is the right amount if time to leave the bag in water for the perfect brew.
As for sex any time is good for me!
Mr
1:30 seconds?? Even if you mean 1 min 30 secs that's some nasty insipid dishwater! "
Nope it is the perfect time and yes i did mean 1 min 30 sec. Stir it 10 times left, 10 times right leave for the rest of the time then only a splash of milk. Try it and see
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Also never understood this the woman has to cum first thing. Its great if they do but i also know not every woman finds it easy to or even feels they have to cum to have a good time. The beauty of it all is finding out what feels good and is enjoyable.
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"Also never understood this the woman has to cum first thing. Its great if they do but i also know not every woman finds it easy to or even feels they have to cum to have a good time. The beauty of it all is finding out what feels good and is enjoyable.
Mr"
Darn right. I rarely cum with a new partner, it takes me a while to get 100% relaxed. If I think the focus is on that then there is absolutely no chance that I will.
The best and most pleasurable meets are where nobody is worrying about living up to the internationally recognised board of swingers meet standard  |
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"Also never understood this the woman has to cum first thing. Its great if they do but i also know not every woman finds it easy to or even feels they have to cum to have a good time. The beauty of it all is finding out what feels good and is enjoyable.
Mr
Darn right. I rarely cum with a new partner, it takes me a while to get 100% relaxed. If I think the focus is on that then there is absolutely no chance that I will.
The best and most pleasurable meets are where nobody is worrying about living up to the internationally recognised board of swingers meet standard "
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"The lady should always cum first
After that time doesn't matter"
Some women don’t orgasm from fucking, so that’s only true for some people. She should always cum... but first? Depends on the couple. Fortunately S gets a LOT from fucking so she cums a lot before D. |
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"I like to think 1:30 seconds is the right amount if time to leave the bag in water for the perfect brew.
As for sex any time is good for me!
Mr"
i disagree 5 minutes for the tea bag  are you a milk first person?
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"I like to think 1:30 seconds is the right amount if time to leave the bag in water for the perfect brew.
As for sex any time is good for me!
Mr
i disagree 5 minutes for the tea bag are you a milk first person?
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God no, that's just wrong.
But if it's a pot of tea then i agree on the time.
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"Also never understood this the woman has to cum first thing. Its great if they do but i also know not every woman finds it easy to or even feels they have to cum to have a good time. The beauty of it all is finding out what feels good and is enjoyable.
Mr
Darn right. I rarely cum with a new partner, it takes me a while to get 100% relaxed. If I think the focus is on that then there is absolutely no chance that I will.
The best and most pleasurable meets are where nobody is worrying about living up to the internationally recognised board of swingers meet standard "
Spot on. As long as there’s chemistry between the two people (or 3 or 4 etc!) then the sex is usually very good. So doesn’t matter who comes first,but just in case bagsy it’s me! |
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"Hello everyone, ok fabbsters a question for you all.
How long should a single guy or any guy if he's a part of a couple, from start to finish last in bed on a meet?
Also
How long should the penetration part last for?
Love to find out everyone's different views and see just how naughty you lot are. "
I think its down to good turn on and foreplay.
I hate not satisfying a woman, so I'm down there for ages, plenty mouth and finger action, orgasm before the cock goes in.
More turned on she is, more I am, and it will last.
Combine it all, HR or 2, orgasm a plenty |
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Thank you for everyone that's posted very interesting varied answers.
Personally I like the social side of swinging all meet up have a meal drinks chat get relaxed with each other first team if everyone's OK start the sex with long teasing foreplay I always love to make the lady cum a good few times if she can before my cock gets anywhere near her pussy as I jave great difficulty in cum and can go all night and not cum so as much as im going to be very satisfied even not cumming I makes sure the female of a Cole or lmsingle lady are always happy and satisfied. I also think lots of passionate kissing is a turn on but I understand not all couples allow this. |
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Long enough for me to enjoy myself,if he waited for me to come he would be at it forever I've never cum through penetration so a minute or an hour makes no difference.
If I'm honest I find it flattering if I can get a guy so horny that he comes quickly.
As long as plenty of foreplay takes place I'm pretty happy .
Besides I have been with guys who take ages and frankly it gets boring and I get sore. |
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"Twelve parsecs.
That’s a distance not a time. Haan Solo has a bad script writer on that point. "
It all makes sense in the Extended Universe or Solo though |
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"The lady should always cum first
After that time doesn't matter
Pretty much this. If they haven’t cum, you definitely can’t! That’s my stance anyway. "
Incorrect... you don't win anything for coming second, ever. Be a winner. plus, from an evolutionary standpoint your ancestors ensured your blood line by getting in quickly and getting the job done. Don't let them down. |
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"This why some women fake it to get some sweaty guy of then...  "
I like it when a guy gets sweaty during sex. (Providing he is clean beforehand and it is fresh sweat!) I kinda find it sexy as you can see how much effort he is putting in! mmmmm |
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"Hello everyone, ok fabbsters a question for you all.
How long should a single guy or any guy if he's a part of a couple, from start to finish last in bed on a meet?
Also
How long should the penetration part last for?
Love to find out everyone's different views and see just how naughty you lot are. "
Ideally Until the lady is totally satisfied, unless she doesn't cum through penetration and then it's up to the guy to pleasure her in other ways |
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No one wants to be banging away for hours hoping for something to happen. Some women cum the second the tip goes in and some need a little longer. All depends on mood, situation and how into each other you are. |
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Depends on the situation - if girls on her knees in glorlyhole or in a club with multiple guys being sucked and wanked then ASAP, if it’s a couples situation then it’s when “it’s right” generally when everyone has had a good amount of fun and adventure.
But generally unless the situation was specified then single guys being brought into the equation then probably most times don’t want them going on for hours - the point is it’s a swinging experience with a couple and selfishly likely to want you to fulfill their desires and that’s it, before they move onto the next adventure or other guys.
they got their own partner if they want another 10 hours!
Some situations like the gangbang situation guys shooting their load quickly is the turn on - someone still not coming can make you think you’ve not done it for them. |
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"Long enough for me to enjoy myself,if he waited for me to come he would be at it forever I've never cum through penetration so a minute or an hour makes no difference.
If I'm honest I find it flattering if I can get a guy so horny that he comes quickly.
As long as plenty of foreplay takes place I'm pretty happy .
Besides I have been with guys who take ages and frankly it gets boring and I get sore."
Hi this is perfect for me i can spend ages doing foreplay on a woman and ive always wanted to cum orally but never had a woman who can do it yet still joping she's here.would love to meet you but knownim too far away as your stunning xx |
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"This why some women fake it to get some sweaty guy of then...
I like it when a guy gets sweaty during sex. (Providing he is clean beforehand and it is fresh sweat!) I kinda find it sexy as you can see how much effort he is putting in! mmmmm"
Hi Bella wow love your profile I would love to meet you and get very sweaty with you that wouldnt be a problem for me lol. Would like to push my boundaries with you too. Xx |
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"Takes me bloody ages so as long as they've got there. I'm not fussed.
If I don't get there, it's no biggie for me. I can still enjoy the fun  "
SMe here i get a great deal of pleasure knowing if satisfied a lady over my own completion I still am satisfied |
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"Long enough for me to enjoy myself,if he waited for me to come he would be at it forever I've never cum through penetration so a minute or an hour makes no difference.
If I'm honest I find it flattering if I can get a guy so horny that he comes quickly.
As long as plenty of foreplay takes place I'm pretty happy .
Besides I have been with guys who take ages and frankly it gets boring and I get sore."
Heard this a few times.. i got stuck previously on not letting myself cum before they do. But a lot of women find it a turn on if a guy does cum for them quickly especially if you can recover quick or not need a break at all. If I cum quickly and keep going I know the chemistry is there |
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Honestly it depends. If they get me worked up enough I can cum in a matter of minutes. Extended sex with multiple orgasms can be really hot but still, 45mins to an hour over a few positions would be the absolute max before it just gets sore. I don't mind so much if they cum before I do as long as they still carry on in other ways . |
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Depends on how much I'm enjoying it (provided time isn't limited). If it's good then I'm greedy and want hours (some breaks in between are acceptable). If not good, well... Are you done yet? |
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If u remove the foreplay before (for the ones who loves it) then I think 30-40 min max of proper sex (including Bj) otherwise it can get a bit sore after that. If we say, with foreplay and breaks and cumming multiple times, then I love a whole afternoon of sex  |
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