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What you really mean is do they respect cheating married men who are doing this behind their partners back.
It strikes me very peculiar that you can be honest about your relationship status on here but you cant be honest with your wife.
This is fabswingers, not Ashley Madison.
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
Some will be OK with chatting to & meeting married men, but a many, including myself, won't want to get involved.
Well done for at least being upfront and honest about your marital status OP, a lot of people aren't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For some it's more exciting when the man is married. The forbidden fruit tastes sweeter. And also the idea that you are his dirty bit on the side is also a turn on as it sexualises the whole encounter as one of Pure sex.
Also, never understood why so many support 'hotwives' and wives in general being free to fuck but men who do it are bad. Double standards much? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us no, its not an issue. We would prefer them to be honest but in the past we have played with a man and later found out he had a gf and in a long term relationship. As long as we're honest with each other the person we bring into our lives is irrelevant, they are the ones who have to live with cheating and look their other half in the face, us as a couple have done nothing wrong.  |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
I don't mind married/attached men, I never judge people, everyone's circumstances are different. What pisses me off is if they lie about being single. Married men are just like single men, the sex can range from meh to mind blowing. |
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On our couples profile we have had messages from the 'wife/gf' who has discovered that their fella is cheating behind their back. Even though we'd only been chatting to that person the wife was from from comfortable with it and we don't want to be put in the situation of potentially meeting then face to face.
So our preference is no to married men appart from those who are both in a swinging relationship.
But if your open about being in a relationship it shows that your honest to a degree even if you can't be with your partner. |
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"So do people on here respect a married man for be honest about his relationship status and does that make you more likely to chat to him  "
Why should you have respect for him being ‘honest’ about his married status on here if he can’t be ‘honest’ enough to tell his wife he is using a swinger’s site? |
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We appreciate when people are honest about being attached and playing around without their partners knowledge. But we don’t want to meet with them.
We don’t want to judge as each to their own but honesty is very important to us and we don’t want any drama should the partner find out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We admire the fact that you have married on your profile so people then have an option to converse with you or not.
For us personally their is so much choice on here we'd choose not to play with someone married as we wouldn't want the possibility of someone's wife/husband knocking on our door. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I appreciate honesty from a married guy. Although he doesnt have to tell me cos he doesnt owe me anything. Maybe if I was a single woman I might not like it but being married myself it's not like we are gonna fall for eachother  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I appreciate honesty from a married guy. Although he doesnt have to tell me cos he doesnt owe me anything. Maybe if I was a single woman I might not like it but being married myself it's not like we are gonna fall for eachother "
Very good point |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I think it's best for all when a man or woman is upfront about their marital status, then nobody is deceived and people have a choice to meet or not.
However I wouldn't chat with a view to a meet, I prefer single men |
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We had a couples profile but changed to single while my partner takes a year out to recover from an op. She is well aware of every meet I have and will hopefully join me again in a couple of months. If necessary she will speak to others on the phone if a meet is imminent to prove she is aware... Still seems to put some off tho  |
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Personally I don’t mind if someone tells me or not (married women) I’m not here to judge People and quite frankly who am I to judge someone else that I don’t know ?
It’s way too negative on fab as anyone reading this forum post can see, let’s just enjoy this lovely weather |
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I don't think it will make anyone more likely to chat, simply because if you don't declare it nobody will know.
Some people prefer married so they will be happy to chat to you but ultimately its down to your personality and profile. Some of the most popular members of fab state their marital status and nobody seems to mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So do people on here respect a married man for be honest about his relationship status and does that make you more likely to chat to him "
Depends really.
Does their honesty extend to telling their wife, or is it what we call 'part-time honesty'? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"What you really mean is do they respect cheating married men who are doing this behind their partners back.
It strikes me very peculiar that you can be honest about your relationship status on here but you cant be honest with your wife.
This is fabswingers, not Ashley Madison.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never hide the fact on here, then its upto the other parties if they want a chat or not. Although I always read a profile and never message those that I don't match their criteria  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For some it's more exciting when the man is married. The forbidden fruit tastes sweeter. And also the idea that you are his dirty bit on the side is also a turn on as it sexualises the whole encounter as one of Pure sex.
Also, never understood why so many support 'hotwives' and wives in general being free to fuck but men who do it are bad. Double standards much? "
Not double standards. |
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Makes me laugh ..
The way some people on here take the moral high ground..
Most wouldn’t turn down a hot young married woman though ..this thread should be about married people on here regardless of gender ..
I’m totally single btw.. but I’m nobody to judge others.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For some it's more exciting when the man is married. The forbidden fruit tastes sweeter. And also the idea that you are his dirty bit on the side is also a turn on as it sexualises the whole encounter as one of Pure sex.
Also, never understood why so many support 'hotwives' and wives in general being free to fuck but men who do it are bad. Double standards much? "
Double standards?
Nooooo, say it aint so?! |
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"What you really mean is do they respect cheating married men who are doing this behind their partners back.
It strikes me very peculiar that you can be honest about your relationship status on here but you cant be honest with your wife.
This is fabswingers, not Ashley Madison.
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This.... no it’s a big no from me. You can always tell if they’re attached after a few days anyway whether they’re honest or not. Block and move on. |
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"So do people on here respect a married man for be honest about his relationship status and does that make you more likely to chat to him
Depends really.
Does their honesty extend to telling their wife, or is it what we call 'part-time honesty'?"
Fab-honesty?  |
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We kind of assume most men are married or in long-term relationship such a small percentage of men who have single in profile say they can accommodate i know some will have legitimate reasons but I suspect most can't because they have partners at home |
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"I love fucking married men,as long as they are upfront about it, they are usually far more discreet.
Plus it feels extra naughty"
There's a married woman on here whose definition of 'extra naughty' is when she lets a married man cum inside her...  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"So do people on here respect a married man for be honest about his relationship status and does that make you more likely to chat to him "
Yes, I happily meet married men if I find them attractive. |
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"What you really mean is do they respect cheating married men who are doing this behind their partners back.
It strikes me very peculiar that you can be honest about your relationship status on here but you cant be honest with your wife.
This is fabswingers, not Ashley Madison.
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this is a prime example of everything wrong with fab swingers , far too many making judgement on others and being down right discriminatory against men ! If the op had been a married woman the thread would probably have read a lot differently |
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"I love fucking married men,as long as they are upfront about it, they are usually far more discreet.
Plus it feels extra naughty
There's a married woman on here whose definition of 'extra naughty' is when she lets a married man cum inside her... "
I prefer Cider with ice to be honest |
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I think fab threads like this have the same outcome men on fab cheating on their wives he must be a terrible husband women on fab cheating on their husband he must be a terrible husband pushing her into it noboby knows other folks personal situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What you really mean is do they respect cheating married men who are doing this behind their partners back.
It strikes me very peculiar that you can be honest about your relationship status on here but you cant be honest with your wife.
This is fabswingers, not Ashley Madison.
this is a prime example of everything wrong with fab swingers , far too many making judgement on others and being down right discriminatory against men ! If the op had been a married woman the thread would probably have read a lot differently "
let's ask the question how many on here would happily play with a married woman who's hubby didn't know? |
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"What you really mean is do they respect cheating married men who are doing this behind their partners back.
It strikes me very peculiar that you can be honest about your relationship status on here but you cant be honest with your wife.
This is fabswingers, not Ashley Madison.
this is a prime example of everything wrong with fab swingers , far too many making judgement on others and being down right discriminatory against men ! If the op had been a married woman the thread would probably have read a lot differently let's ask the question how many on here would happily play with a married woman who's hubby didn't know? "
I would hazard a guess at the majority of men would and wouldn't condemn them either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think fab threads like this have the same outcome men on fab cheating on their wives he must be a terrible husband women on fab cheating on their husband he must be a terrible husband pushing her into it noboby knows other folks personal situation "
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By *anMoodyMan
over a year ago
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I’m totally honest about my marital status.
I’m married. Very happily.
And we also have a couples profile on here. My wife knows all about this single profile. In fact it was her idea.
Just another part of our dynamic; we have no secret from each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes me laugh ..
The way some people on here take the moral high ground..
Most wouldn’t turn down a hot young married woman though ..this thread should be about married people on here regardless of gender ..
I’m totally single btw.. but I’m nobody to judge others.."
If it was the same people saying yes to wives and no to husbands purely on the grounds of marriage, then it'd be double standards, but it isn't, therefore it's not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do people on here lose their rag when adulterous men are often turned down (by empathic women, or simply those who don't want the hassle) but adulterous women are accepted (by men who don't give a flying fuck about hubby)?
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"Why do people on here lose their rag when adulterous men are often turned down (by empathic women, or simply those who don't want the hassle) but adulterous women are accepted (by men who don't give a flying fuck about hubby)?
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slightly unfair comparison couples are much more likely to turn a blind eye to a woman being married than they are a man means to an end i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What you really mean is do they respect cheating married men who are doing this behind their partners back.
It strikes me very peculiar that you can be honest about your relationship status on here but you cant be honest with your wife.
This is fabswingers, not Ashley Madison.
this is a prime example of everything wrong with fab swingers , far too many making judgement on others and being down right discriminatory against men ! If the op had been a married woman the thread would probably have read a lot differently let's ask the question how many on here would happily play with a married woman who's hubby didn't know? "
Our comments would be exactly the same whatever gender.
Women don't tend to broadcast what they are doing on here as much as men do. |
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"Why do people on here lose their rag when adulterous men are often turned down (by empathic women, or simply those who don't want the hassle) but adulterous women are accepted (by men who don't give a flying fuck about hubby)?
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Absolutely spot on !! |
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"This seems like a contentious subject. Thanks for your advice and thanks for taking the time to reply people "
It's probably up there with bareback sex as the most contentious issue on FAB.
For us 99.9% of our meets are in a swinger club.
We don't want to know about marital status and what happens in the club stays in the club. Also, should the shit hit the fan, it is always deniable.
On the very rare occasion we have met guys outside of a club we do our utmost to avoid married guys like the plague.
There is far too much potential for trouble, so if we get as much as a sniff that they are married we run a mile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I appreciate honesty from a married guy. Although he doesnt have to tell me cos he doesnt owe me anything. Maybe if I was a single woman I might not like it but being married myself it's not like we are gonna fall for eachother "
Amazing profile you guys. Love playing with wife's permission and the fact that it turns her on so much too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What you really mean is do they respect cheating married men who are doing this behind their partners back.
It strikes me very peculiar that you can be honest about your relationship status on here but you cant be honest with your wife.
This is fabswingers, not Ashley Madison.
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Well said |
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"What you really mean is do they respect cheating married men who are doing this behind their partners back.
It strikes me very peculiar that you can be honest about your relationship status on here but you cant be honest with your wife.
This is fabswingers, not Ashley Madison.
Well said"
would it be as well said if it was a cheating married woman tho ? |
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erm if he's married and shares a couple profile, sure not a problem... if he's openingly admits he's cheating then its the recipient who decides if they're interested but yes it's good that he is honest. |
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