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Do women message men?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a thought but do women ever message men first. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks just wanted to know  |
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"Yes"
Message Me please Dee xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yrs sometimes |
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"Yrs sometimes"
Message Me please Midnight xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for all of your replies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rare but I have had a couple |
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I’ve had nearly all of my more recent meets by being messaged first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes if someone tickles my fancy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we are looking forward a single guy at that time, then yes...i message |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
I, the male, have received messages from ladies.
All were from ladies who knew what they wanted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have received some lovely messages from women |
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"Yes if someone tickles my fancy "
Can I Tickle your Fancy please xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never received an unsolicited message from anyone on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had nearly all of my more recent meets by being messaged first. "
So here's a Q... Would a man turn a woman down if she messaged first? Or is a meet then a given?? |
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I will message a guy first either from the forums if they seem to have good chat on there or if their profile/pics are actually fun and make me want to get to know them a bit better |
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"I’ve had nearly all of my more recent meets by being messaged first.
So here's a Q... Would a man turn a woman down if she messaged first? Or is a meet then a given?? "
Of course you might choose to turn a woman down, and I have, on a number of occasions. Or she might turn you down once you start chatting. If you aren’t a match why wouldn’t you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I await one with baited breath |
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I've received messages from ladies.
Not common but not unheard-of. |
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It does happen from time to time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had nearly all of my more recent meets by being messaged first.
So here's a Q... Would a man turn a woman down if she messaged first? Or is a meet then a given??
Of course you might choose to turn a woman down, and I have, on a number of occasions. Or she might turn you down once you start chatting. If you aren’t a match why wouldn’t you?"
On that's good to know |
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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Yes
Message Me please Dee xx "
That would mean you messaged first lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rarely ... I'm shy  |
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By *lovisMan
over a year ago
Twickenham |
Yup. If you have the right profile then it can happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has happened OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had nearly all of my more recent meets by being messaged first.
So here's a Q... Would a man turn a woman down if she messaged first? Or is a meet then a given?? "
Neither and both
Always nice to have a message but sometimes you arent attracted or the chemistry fizzles or life happens. I would never assume because we are messaging that we are going to meet |
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we covered this many times over... i rarely send initial messages unless i really really interested. I
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking forward to it! |
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i find men more likely to be interested in you if they "found you" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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indeed we do |
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"Rarely ... I'm shy "
yeah me too.. i hate rejection  |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
Yes, if someone catches my eye on the forums, or something about their profile interests or intrigues me, then I will happily send a first message. That often results in some interesting conversations, sometimes leads to a social meet and occasionally more. |
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"Just a thought but do women ever message men first."
Yep! Next question? |
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By *man79Man
over a year ago
newry dundalk. warrenpoint |
"Just a thought but do women ever message men first.
Yep! Next question? "
Yes every day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was messaged when I first joined the forums but I haven't recieved another message for months now |
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"Just a thought but do women ever message men first.
Yep! Next question?
Yes every day "
I bloody love your Easter pic! |
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"Just a thought but do women ever message men first."
yes I often do
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They do but only once or twice a day for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I do "
A man can only dream
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No have not experienced an initial message approach by a female but would love to receive and am genuinely available |
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By *man79Man
over a year ago
newry dundalk. warrenpoint |
"Just a thought but do women ever message men first.
Yep! Next question?
Yes every day
I bloody love your Easter pic! "
Thankyou , I’m a huge fan of yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I, the male, have received messages from ladies.
All were from ladies who knew what they wanted."
Love a woman who knows what she wants! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Especially during lockdown. |
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Yes if they want you
They won't hesitate
My inbox is proof |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
Indeed they do, ironically have received one just this morning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes but in my experience they don't want to meet just chat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a thought but do women ever message men first."
Yes if they look like someone from a hollywood movie  |
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I do once I’ve had a read of their profile and like what I see/read. |
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"Yep. "
Wish you would message me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.
The very few people I actively talk to off the forums I messaged first or got introduced to.
The only issue with that is I sometimes don’t message because I assume they’re out of my league! I’ve missed months of flirting that way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They do, but it takes an overwhelming power imbalance in terms of desirability.
Generally only two circumstances where it happens:
1: The guy is VWE and model standard, the woman is not
2: Its not really a woman. |
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I do .. a lot. To be honest I don’t really read many of the unsolicited messages I get at they’re mostly ‘hey’ or a whole page of what they’d like to do with me - both a turn off. If I like the sounds of them usually on forums I message ..... tends to be easier than trawling through all the messages that women get. |
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"Yes.
The very few people I actively talk to off the forums I messaged first or got introduced to.
The only issue with that is I sometimes don’t message because I assume they’re out of my league! I’ve missed months of flirting that way "
How could anyone be out of your league. You are a straight 10/10 |
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"They do, but it takes an overwhelming power imbalance in terms of desirability.
Generally only two circumstances where it happens:
1: The guy is VWE and model standard, the woman is not
2: Its not really a woman."
Hahah don’t message men who have cock shots on their profile, nor gym bunnies
Most definitely a women ....
I guess the real answer is ‘some do and some dont’ |
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"They do, but it takes an overwhelming power imbalance in terms of desirability.
Generally only two circumstances where it happens:
1: The guy is VWE and model standard, the woman is not
2: Its not really a woman."
Which one of these am I? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They do, but it takes an overwhelming power imbalance in terms of desirability.
Generally only two circumstances where it happens:
1: The guy is VWE and model standard, the woman is not
2: Its not really a woman.
Which one of these am I? "
Well I've seen your penis, so... |
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"They do, but it takes an overwhelming power imbalance in terms of desirability.
Generally only two circumstances where it happens:
1: The guy is VWE and model standard, the woman is not
2: Its not really a woman.
Which one of these am I?
Well I've seen your penis, so..."
True. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They do, but it takes an overwhelming power imbalance in terms of desirability.
Generally only two circumstances where it happens:
1: The guy is VWE and model standard, the woman is not
2: Its not really a woman.
Which one of these am I?
Well I've seen your penis, so...
True. "
It is a lovely penis though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
The very few people I actively talk to off the forums I messaged first or got introduced to.
The only issue with that is I sometimes don’t message because I assume they’re out of my league! I’ve missed months of flirting that way
How could anyone be out of your league. You are a straight 10/10"
That’s very sweet, thank you |
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Yes, but not always wanting to meet.
Had a few meets from initial fem contact / would be delighted with more!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes they do but not often |
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By *r.HMan
over a year ago
A gentleman never tells |
It is rare granted but they do on occasions, I've received some so can personally testify it happens. |
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"They do, but it takes an overwhelming power imbalance in terms of desirability.
Generally only two circumstances where it happens:
1: The guy is VWE and model standard, the woman is not
2: Its not really a woman.
Which one of these am I?
Well I've seen your penis, so...
True.
It is a lovely penis though "
Aww thanks! Yours is rather nice too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They do, but it takes an overwhelming power imbalance in terms of desirability.
Generally only two circumstances where it happens:
1: The guy is VWE and model standard, the woman is not
2: Its not really a woman.
Which one of these am I?
Well I've seen your penis, so...
True.
It is a lovely penis though
Aww thanks! Yours is rather nice too "
Can I sit on both please? |
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"They do, but it takes an overwhelming power imbalance in terms of desirability.
Generally only two circumstances where it happens:
1: The guy is VWE and model standard, the woman is not
2: Its not really a woman.
Which one of these am I?
Well I've seen your penis, so...
True.
It is a lovely penis though
Aww thanks! Yours is rather nice too
Can I sit on both please? "
Yes please! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They do, but it takes an overwhelming power imbalance in terms of desirability.
Generally only two circumstances where it happens:
1: The guy is VWE and model standard, the woman is not
2: Its not really a woman.
Which one of these am I?
Well I've seen your penis, so...
True.
It is a lovely penis though
Aww thanks! Yours is rather nice too
Can I sit on both please?
Yes please! "
Like you even have to ask |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No messages off any women as yet
Been told in the past that my penis is ‘attractive’ though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rare as Hens Teeth |
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Of course I do if I'm interested - why wouldn't I? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From my experience no. |
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"Of course I do if I'm interested - why wouldn't I? "
Lucky men receiving messages off you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes... It's how I met my fwb |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They do, but it takes an overwhelming power imbalance in terms of desirability.
Generally only two circumstances where it happens:
1: The guy is VWE and model standard, the woman is not
2: Its not really a woman."
So under what circumstances do i get messages then because as hard as you may find it to believe I do.
1 - I'm not VWE neither do I have model looks
2 - in the 4 years I've been on and off here I've had maybe 3 or 4 men pretending to be women message me
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I do message men usually to pay them compliments.x |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Yes had some nice messages from ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, sure every gender / profile type etc will message every other type. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
I have a few women message me first however half of them have been fake or scammers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mainly women message to pay a quick compliment or if a status has piqued their attention and they’d like answers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hopefully some will feel sorry for me and send me one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeap, more now that I have been on the forums. |
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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago
Central Scotland |
Yes it does happen, even for old gits like me |
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Absolutely,if I find someone I like, I have no issues in sending a message |
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I get so many I can't answer them all
Sorry ladies?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do, if they pique my interest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's rare but I do sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder if i peak anyones interest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has happened - being in the forums helps - gives some immediate common ground |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No never. It’s a conspiracy |
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By *ack-offMan
over a year ago
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No not on this site , I don’t think they have the option to or fab a pic, it seems they don’t do anything on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do. If something catches my eye on a profile or a good pic... I’ll send a message. Why not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a thought but do women ever message men first."
Yes. I do occasionally when I find someone with an outstanding profile that fits what I am looking for at the time. |
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"Yes... It's how I met my fwb "
this. I've found my most successful pairings have been with gents I've contacted first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had 2 in over 6 months, nothing come out of it, they went ghost |
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I’ve had a few, not as many as I send though |
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
I do if I’m attracted to them |
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Absolutely. I know plenty of ladies who happily send first messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely do . |
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"Just a thought but do women ever message men first."
I rare occurence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep they do. I’ve been talking to a lovely lady for over a month now and she messaged first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course. Next you will be asking if women look at men's photos  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course. Next you will be asking if women look at men's photos "
Wait......you mean they do?! I thought it was just bi guys that checked them out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course. Next you will be asking if women look at men's photos
Wait......you mean they do?! I thought it was just bi guys that checked them out "
LOL, maybe you want this
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course. Next you will be asking if women look at men's photos
Wait......you mean they do?! I thought it was just bi guys that checked them out
LOL, maybe you want this
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I know who I’d prefer looking at them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course. Next you will be asking if women look at men's photos
Wait......you mean they do?! I thought it was just bi guys that checked them out
LOL, maybe you want this
I know who I’d prefer looking at them lol "
Looking at what lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve never been that lucky on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get the occasional women msg me.. |
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I’m in!
(Is it not one of those threads!?) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course. Next you will be asking if women look at men's photos
Wait......you mean they do?! I thought it was just bi guys that checked them out
LOL, maybe you want this
I know who I’d prefer looking at them lol
Looking at what lol x"
Whatever took their fancy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course. Next you will be asking if women look at men's photos
Wait......you mean they do?! I thought it was just bi guys that checked them out
LOL, maybe you want this
I know who I’d prefer looking at them lol
Looking at what lol x
Whatever took their fancy "
Who's fancy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course. Next you will be asking if women look at men's photos
Wait......you mean they do?! I thought it was just bi guys that checked them out
LOL, maybe you want this
I know who I’d prefer looking at them lol
Looking at what lol x
Whatever took their fancy
Who's fancy x"
Casper the friendly ghost |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course. Next you will be asking if women look at men's photos
Wait......you mean they do?! I thought it was just bi guys that checked them out
LOL, maybe you want this
I know who I’d prefer looking at them lol
Looking at what lol x
Whatever took their fancy
Who's fancy x
Casper the friendly ghost "
Does he have a profile on here that I can look at his photos? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get messages every now and then.
You can bet a lot of them are one liners. Some from those posting "message advice" on the forums! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples mainly, but does happen and its a nice suprise |
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I have been known to message 1st. X |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
Proud to say yes, but it has never led to anything though, on Fab at least. |
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By *exy penWoman
over a year ago
liverpool |
I don't usually but that's because I'm a big women and not many men like big women, I have winked a few guys just to let them know I'm interested though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a thought but do women ever message men first."
I don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They do occasionally,yes |
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By *odd4funnMan
over a year ago
Walthamstow Leyton |
I dont or very rarely message anyone i Tend to wink and if the couple or woman are interested they can message me Works well and saves alot of wasted time sending loads of messages with no response Whats the point If they fancy some fun its there choice So wink and see
R |
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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago
south west ! |
I get (mrs Legin) about 80 messages a day however if someone tickles my fancy, I will message !
Politeness goes a long way in my book
Xx |
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By *intteaMan
over a year ago
Bristol |
I had a message for a nice lady banning me from the forums once - but that it so far |
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"Rarely ... I'm shy
yeah me too.. i hate rejection "
That's really ironic! |
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Once or twice in six years - not exactly the definition of success. That being said it's no surprise. It's incredibly rare i message anyone now as you know the chances of any kind of response are way less than 1%. On the other hand why would a woman bother messaging when she's getting bombarded anyway - surely she's bound to find a few diamonds in there, even if as most say the vast majority of what they get is effortless crap? All that being said it's been a real thrill on the very rare occasion I have been contacted first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i find men more likely to be interested in you if they "found you" "
Really? I’m sure most men would love a message off a women that “found” them, my self included. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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Occasionaly, if they are interesting enough. |
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"Just a thought but do women ever message men first."
Yes they do and some message couples too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had replies, but never received one first from a woman. |
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My inbox has received its share . It’s empty right now though so don’t be shy ladies |
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I do. But it’s generally more to chit chat about something I have seen on the forums profile. Not to meet.
That said I recently messaged one fella first and we have arrangements made for a weekend this month |
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"I’ve had nearly all of my more recent meets by being messaged first.
So here's a Q... Would a man turn a woman down if she messaged first? Or is a meet then a given?? "
No such thing as a given unless he's a "any holes a goal" kinda guy and logistics aren't an issue.
I would still want to feel an attraction before I would meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've sent messages on the back of forum threads but wouldn't ever proposition a guy. I don't have the courage for that
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we're looking for a mfm then the wife likes to do the looking so she'll happily send the first message. |
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"I've sent messages on the back of forum threads but wouldn't ever proposition a guy. I don't have the courage for that
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Awwww that's a shame as you just never know if the guy you like could be everything you've dreamed of
It is hard to ask but what's the worst that can happen, they politely decline ?
I never told a stunning girl I liked her when younger and then at her funeral her best mate said she really liked me but didn't have the courage to approach me.
It properly messed me up for awhile and even now I occasionally think what if ?
So from that day I do approach women and of course you get thanks but no thanks and some are in relationships but at least I tried
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, when someone interests me |
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"I've sent messages on the back of forum threads but wouldn't ever proposition a guy. I don't have the courage for that
Awwww that's a shame as you just never know if the guy you like could be everything you've dreamed of
It is hard to ask but what's the worst that can happen, they politely decline ?
I never told a stunning girl I liked her when younger and then at her funeral her best mate said she really liked me but didn't have the courage to approach me.
It properly messed me up for awhile and even now I occasionally think what if ?
So from that day I do approach women and of course you get thanks but no thanks and some are in relationships but at least I tried
Good luck "
Really sorry to hear that buddy - thats a harsh lesson to have had to learn. Sometimes it's amazing to find out someone we thought was unattainable actually likes us back. All the best. |
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I dont think I have ever messaged anyone I am so shy talkative but shy but once I get to know someone well thats for me and them to find out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep. The ones they fancy. |
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"I've sent messages on the back of forum threads but wouldn't ever proposition a guy. I don't have the courage for that
Awwww that's a shame as you just never know if the guy you like could be everything you've dreamed of
It is hard to ask but what's the worst that can happen, they politely decline ?
I never told a stunning girl I liked her when younger and then at her funeral her best mate said she really liked me but didn't have the courage to approach me.
It properly messed me up for awhile and even now I occasionally think what if ?
So from that day I do approach women and of course you get thanks but no thanks and some are in relationships but at least I tried
Good luck
Really sorry to hear that buddy - thats a harsh lesson to have had to learn. Sometimes it's amazing to find out someone we thought was unattainable actually likes us back. All the best."
Cheer Buddy,
I changed my whole philosophy when I found out so at least something good came out of it(didn't seem like it at the time)
I'd beg anyone whether a guy or girl to build up the courage to just smile and say hi if they like someone
A moments embarrassment might just lead to something special |
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Yes and when it happens it’s lovely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They do, but it takes an overwhelming power imbalance in terms of desirability.
Generally only two circumstances where it happens:
1: The guy is VWE and model standard, the woman is not
2: Its not really a woman."
Is the correct answer |
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By *aCaiMan
over a year ago
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"They do, but it takes an overwhelming power imbalance in terms of desirability.
Generally only two circumstances where it happens:
1: The guy is VWE and model standard, the woman is not
2: Its not really a woman.
Is the correct answer "
Boy is this accurate
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They do but but usually it’s the usual “hi, you are sexy” or “wow” and then if you are lucky, one word or monosyllabic emails follow. Leaves one brain dead or uninspired most of the time. |
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"They do but but usually it’s the usual “hi, you are sexy” or “wow” and then if you are lucky, one word or monosyllabic emails follow. Leaves one brain dead or uninspired most of the time."
Those aren’t women messaging you. Every single woman who has messaged me has had something more than that to say and then some. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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They do but if you filter out the fakes & forum users & only count those you’ve never conversed with or spotted before then it’s a very rare occurrence.
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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago
Stoke-on-Trent |
If they're interested 
But it's always very much appreciated as even these days it's still such a rarity |
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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago
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"I've sent messages on the back of forum threads but wouldn't ever proposition a guy. I don't have the courage for that
Awwww that's a shame as you just never know if the guy you like could be everything you've dreamed of
It is hard to ask but what's the worst that can happen, they politely decline ?
I never told a stunning girl I liked her when younger and then at her funeral her best mate said she really liked me but didn't have the courage to approach me.
It properly messed me up for awhile and even now I occasionally think what if ?
So from that day I do approach women and of course you get thanks but no thanks and some are in relationships but at least I tried
Good luck
Really sorry to hear that buddy - thats a harsh lesson to have had to learn. Sometimes it's amazing to find out someone we thought was unattainable actually likes us back. All the best.
Cheer Buddy,
I changed my whole philosophy when I found out so at least something good came out of it(didn't seem like it at the time)
I'd beg anyone whether a guy or girl to build up the courage to just smile and say hi if they like someone
A moments embarrassment might just lead to something special"
A moments embarrassment might just lead to something special, worth remembering  |
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"If they're interested
But it's always very much appreciated as even these days it's still such a rarity"
These days? Are you saying it was common in the past?! |
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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago
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"If they're interested
But it's always very much appreciated as even these days it's still such a rarity
These days? Are you saying it was common in the past?! "
The opposite, even with more parity in society today, it's still incredibly rare for a woman to make the first move. |
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