"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!"
Absolutely none! Not one. Not a single respectful sausage. You’d think statistically that you might get one or two, but it’s an absolute void of male decency.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.  |
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I’d say it’s about 50/50. But they are getting harder to spot I find.
But there are defo some lovely guys on here just need to through the fakes, timewasters, cheaters who just want to chat or talk big... |
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"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!
Absolutely none! Not one. Not a single respectful sausage. You’d think statistically that you might get one or two, but it’s an absolute void of male decency.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news. "
Don’t believe this absolute charlatan, he’s the worst. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By saying you’re respectful doesn’t mean you are!"
Proof is in the pudding.
I take great pride in being respectful.
I don't suffer fools either.
Respect earns respect.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are lots of genuinely nice guys on fab. Idiots too, but you can get generally spot them a mile away..
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Yes your one of the nice guys for sure hun x |
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"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!
Name and shame. Who upset you and how"
That’s against fab rules- you can’t name and shame without risking a spell on the naughty step |
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"There are lots of genuinely nice guys on fab. Idiots too, but you can get generally spot them a mile away..
Yes your one of the nice guys for sure hun x"
I don’t know how I’ve pulled this off, but I’ll take it. x |
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"By saying you’re respectful doesn’t mean you are!
Proof is in the pudding.
I take great pride in being respectful.
I don't suffer fools either.
Respect earns respect. "
Ditto! But you’re not a woman or a couple, you disrespectful swine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!"
There are plenty of us but it does seem that if we send a polite message it gets lost/deleted and never replied too
I understand there are a heck of a lot more guys than ladies on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are lots of genuinely nice guys on fab. Idiots too, but you can get generally spot them a mile away..
Yes your one of the nice guys for sure hun x
I don’t know how I’ve pulled this off, but I’ll take it. x"
Keep fingering me |
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"There are lots of genuinely nice guys on fab. Idiots too, but you can get generally spot them a mile away..
Yes your one of the nice guys for sure hun x
I don’t know how I’ve pulled this off, but I’ll take it. x
Keep fingering me "
Always a pleasure, never a chore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!"
There are plenty of us respectful decent men on here, unfortunately the moronic twats seem to out number us at least 5/1 and we all get tarred with same brush, just ignor block and move on or name and shame the twats.
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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago
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Oh fuck off! (safety winks )
This is like the guys who show up saying 'why won't any birds talk or meet? Bloody time wasters!'
Plenty will, and plenty are very respectful - try not to let the scrotes ruin it. Just block & move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!
Only me I suspect. "
There is only Seb alas.
Ignore the knobbers
Block
Move on
Enjoy your adventure on here your way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There always seems to be a tone change when going from replying to the missus to the hubby, usually for the worse.
I suggest letting the better (female) half deal with the fellas, arsey hubbies are a bit of a bore. |
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over a year ago
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"Oh fuck off! (safety winks)
This is like the guys who show up saying 'why won't any birds talk or meet? Bloody time wasters!'
Plenty will, and plenty are very respectful - try not to let the scrotes ruin it. Just block & move on. "
Whoomp there it is! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!"
Yeah there's loads of us, you should try chatting to us instead of picking the rude ones |
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I’m sorry but sadly the minority outweigh the majority .. and a lot of us guys that are genuine and respectful get judged wrongly and overlooked
Ladies... give us a chance to prove the minority wrong .. |
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"There's loads. Filter wisely.
I’m not stupid ffs!!"
trust me my filters are to the max and I still manage to chat to the liars and cheats. it's not your fault. it's the game and players. It really annoys me when people are quick to blame the reciever. it seems we accept poor behaviour and blame it on the woman who shows flesh |
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"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!"
I'd argue that I'm respectful. Never rude when I'm turned down. Some women are really rude. But there are cunts in all lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a twat
Bless you Cane "
Thank you my good man.......
I just like to be a contrarian , if every man in this thread is going to say .... He is a gentleman.
I’m the only one that is going to be honest.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We find most men are respectful and well mannered
Despite not being able to bother reading profiles and assuming they are talking to the wife
Men look they dont read  "
That’s very true !
I always assume it’s the wife ! Do you not make it clear tho at the start of the conversation? |
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"We find most men are respectful and well mannered
Despite not being able to bother reading profiles and assuming they are talking to the wife
Men look they dont read
That’s very true !
I always assume it’s the wife ! Do you not make it clear tho at the start of the conversation? "
Why would you assume its the wife. Surely a couples profile means it could be either .
Why should we make it clear when they have assumed otherwise |
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"We find most men are respectful and well mannered
Despite not being able to bother reading profiles and assuming they are talking to the wife
Men look they dont read
That’s very true !
I always assume it’s the wife ! Do you not make it clear tho at the start of the conversation?
Why would you assume its the wife. Surely a couples profile means it could be either .
Why should we make it clear when they have assumed otherwise "
yeah course !
I haven’t talked to many couples to be honest it was just in my head it was the women or my case the couples I talked to it was the women ! |
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over a year ago
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"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!"
Probably not.... According to everyone looking for good fun.
The genuine respectful ones are apparently boring and "finish last" |
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"We find most men are respectful and well mannered
Despite not being able to bother reading profiles and assuming they are talking to the wife
Men look they dont read
That’s very true !
I always assume it’s the wife ! Do you not make it clear tho at the start of the conversation?
Why would you assume its the wife. Surely a couples profile means it could be either .
Why should we make it clear when they have assumed otherwise "
From my experience, usually single women get more mindless inconsiderate messages than couple profiles as men seem to "talk differently" to a guy than they would to a woman.. if they assume they are talking to a man or woman in a couple profile. I find it's usually the man in a couple messaging me and they usually very polite. am i wrong? |
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"Most of the guys I know are respectful and the older and mature the better for me in my experience made some lovely friends that way.."
I get the total opposite from older men.. most send me the most vile messages so I litterly blocked most people from messaging me now. It shouldn't be like that but I feel much safer now with my filters to the max. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See that just says it all and gives all men a bad name, i get so frustrated at this, not all if us are like it, we can be genuine and honest.....so angry!!!! |
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over a year ago
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"See that just says it all and gives all men a bad name, i get so frustrated at this, not all if us are like it, we can be genuine and honest.....so angry!!!!"
Don’t think we’re getting all painted with the same brush mate there just talking from some situations
If you ain’t like that why be angry ? |
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over a year ago
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"See that just says it all and gives all men a bad name, i get so frustrated at this, not all if us are like it, we can be genuine and honest.....so angry!!!!
Don’t think we’re getting all painted with the same brush mate there just talking from some situations
If you ain’t like that why be angry ? "
Well not angry as such but its frustrating, lots do get painted with the same brush then us genuine ones dont get a chance.....but heyho such is life!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See that just says it all and gives all men a bad name, i get so frustrated at this, not all if us are like it, we can be genuine and honest.....so angry!!!!
Don’t think we’re getting all painted with the same brush mate there just talking from some situations
If you ain’t like that why be angry ?
Well not angry as such but its frustrating, lots do get painted with the same brush then us genuine ones dont get a chance.....but heyho such is life!!!!"
Exactly mate you do you
I get your point tho us men do get a bad wrap at times
But if you get hit up like some of these women do with crazy chat etc !
I cant blame them for having a perception on some men on here ! But no we’re not all like that you dead right |
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over a year ago
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"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!"
Exactly what I say about couples on here.
Couples or singles, there's good and bad, so we shouldn't tar them all with the same brush. |
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over a year ago
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"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!
There are plenty of us but it does seem that if we send a polite message it gets lost/deleted and never replied too
I understand there are a heck of a lot more guys than ladies on here "
Trouble here is that fab is often used like a cattle market and some men not all will fuck(pardon the pun ) anything and anything |
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"See that just says it all and gives all men a bad name, i get so frustrated at this, not all if us are like it, we can be genuine and honest.....so angry!!!!
Don’t think we’re getting all painted with the same brush mate there just talking from some situations
If you ain’t like that why be angry ?
Well not angry as such but its frustrating, lots do get painted with the same brush then us genuine ones dont get a chance.....but heyho such is life!!!!"
proof is in the pudding... I say on average I used to get 100 messages a day, times that by over 365 days. Only 10 in 100 would be a genuine decent polite intro message... can you see why most women get frustrated and fatigue with the general attitude of how men think they can talk to fab women?  |
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over a year ago
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"Yes but it's just a shame women brand all men the same and the genuine guys suffer aswell..
You get fed up going through the same old crap with everyone "
Oh I can imagine |
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over a year ago
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"Yes but it's just a shame women brand all men the same and the genuine guys suffer aswell..
You get fed up going through the same old crap with everyone "
yes I can imagine its unbearable for women on here sometimes ... |
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"See that just says it all and gives all men a bad name, i get so frustrated at this, not all if us are like it, we can be genuine and honest.....so angry!!!!
Don’t think we’re getting all painted with the same brush mate there just talking from some situations
If you ain’t like that why be angry ?
Well not angry as such but its frustrating, lots do get painted with the same brush then us genuine ones dont get a chance.....but heyho such is life!!!!
proof is in the pudding... I say on average I used to get 100 messages a day, times that by over 365 days. Only 10 in 100 would be a genuine decent polite intro message... can you see why most women get frustrated and fatigue with the general attitude of how men think they can talk to fab women? "
Of course it must be exhausting...
Can you imagine how you'd feel if you got 10 messages a day? Or 3? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!"
one right here but get overlooked due to the usual single guys are all the same tag & the fact i dont look like an adonis aswell but hey ho im quite happy here hiding away lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!"
no offence but what do you women expect every man to be james bond lol |
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"There's loads. Filter wisely.
I’m not stupid ffs!!
What a charmer  "
It’s a wonder anyone messages the op couple after this thread ..
They’re not showing much respect, so maybe you reap what you sow  |
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over a year ago
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"The gems are there, you just have to do a little work to find them sometimes and not always be quick to dismiss. "
Haha ok
I’ve been here a while and done a lot of work also so your point isn’t valid |
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By *rKC92Man
over a year ago
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"Seriously are there no genuine respectful guys in this place....just one? Anyone?!!!!!"
There's a severe oversaturation of dickheads among the single guys. Many of us can handle rejection without spitting our dummy out but the immature ones ruin it for everyone. It's a real shame that should warrant bans. |
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"Wow a couples profile slating off single guys ..
How original
I’m a woman not a couple
There you go right there...men can’t read?"
So why does your profile say you're a couple??
There you go right there.... Women can't even set up profiles? |
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over a year ago
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"Wow a couples profile slating off single guys ..
How original
I’m a woman not a couple
There you go right there...men can’t read?
So why does your profile say you're a couple??
There you go right there.... Women can't even set up profiles? "
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We think it's down to the experience. The arseholes, and there are plenty (including couples and single girls) are the ones you interact and remember.
The good ones seem to stay quiet, respect your filters and preferences.
There should be a sort of super verification the good singles men can get, to raise them above the maelstrom of horror that is out there.
And similarly some sort of credit card verification to keep the fakes out. |
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over a year ago
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"Wow a couples profile slating off single guys ..
How original
I’m a woman not a couple
There you go right there...men can’t read?
So why does your profile say you're a couple??
There you go right there.... Women can't even set up profiles? "
Because I was a couple and I can’t change it!
As I say if you read it it explains it!! |
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"Wow a couples profile slating off single guys ..
How original
I’m a woman not a couple
There you go right there...men can’t read?
So why does your profile say you're a couple??
There you go right there.... Women can't even set up profiles?
Because I was a couple and I can’t change it!
As I say if you read it it explains it!!"
Why would I read your profile?
On here it says couple..
No need for your attitude atall.. |
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"Wow a couples profile slating off single guys ..
How original
I’m a woman not a couple
There you go right there...men can’t read?
So why does your profile say you're a couple??
There you go right there.... Women can't even set up profiles?
Because I was a couple and I can’t change it!
As I say if you read it it explains it!!"
Why would I read it? I'm simply replying to this thread. And with your attitude I'm even less tempted, to be honest
But is it beyond you to set up a new profile? It's not exactly rocket surgery.... |
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"We think it's down to the experience. The arseholes, and there are plenty (including couples and single girls) are the ones you interact and remember.
The good ones seem to stay quiet, respect your filters and preferences.
There should be a sort of super verification the good singles men can get, to raise them above the maelstrom of horror that is out there.
And similarly some sort of credit card verification to keep the fakes out."
I think that's called using an entirely different site... |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m sorry but sadly the minority outweigh the majority .. and a lot of us guys that are genuine and respectful get judged wrongly and overlooked
Ladies... give us a chance to prove the minority wrong .. "
we prefer genuine and respectful. I (f) has met mostly this type and they still give you a good time in and out of the bedroom |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP maybe be honest and start a single person’s profile..
Not rocket science "
Then loose my veris which are mostly single meets!!
That’s a dumb idea and how is that not honest
Read the profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wow a couples profile slating off single guys ..
How original
I’m a woman not a couple
There you go right there...men can’t read?
So why does your profile say you're a couple??
There you go right there.... Women can't even set up profiles?
Because I was a couple and I can’t change it!
As I say if you read it it explains it!!
Why would I read your profile?
On here it says couple..
No need for your attitude atall.."
Because as I said I can’t change it!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s not the guys looking bad on this thread ..
I’m sure most have noticed who seems to have attitude "
No attitude here
I’m saying it as it is
My op still stands
I cannot change my profile from couples to single
Most of my veris are from single meets
I have put in my profile what the situation is. If you choose not to read it then don’t say I’m not honest
You want me to delete my account and loose my veris because I’m sure you would do the same thing! |
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There are some nice guys on here...
it’s couples profiles that’s hard work. some fake, some a single guy or in your case female... I don’t get why a female wouldn’t start up again on a single profile when females get so many messages ??? I get messages as soon as I’m online... |
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"There are some nice guys on here...
it’s couples profiles that’s hard work. some fake, some a single guy or in your case female... I don’t get why a female wouldn’t start up again on a single profile when females get so many messages ??? I get messages as soon as I’m online... "
I've been on as a single woman and got twice as many messages. I'd rather be on as a couple. That's bad enough. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hear so many bad stories about single men on here , like not even turning up , how rude!
I think women are better off finding themselves a nice sexy dominant reliable mature married man....  "
Couldn't agree more, not turning up is plain rude and us more mature men are more reliable |
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"There are some nice guys on here...
it’s couples profiles that’s hard work. some fake, some a single guy or in your case female... I don’t get why a female wouldn’t start up again on a single profile when females get so many messages ??? I get messages as soon as I’m online... I've been on as a single woman and got twice as many messages. I'd rather be on as a couple. That's bad enough. X"
I have been on a couples profile (before I became single) and find people are more polite and respectful on this profile |
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"There are some nice guys on here...
it’s couples profiles that’s hard work. some fake, some a single guy or in your case female... I don’t get why a female wouldn’t start up again on a single profile when females get so many messages ??? I get messages as soon as I’m online... I've been on as a single woman and got twice as many messages. I'd rather be on as a couple. That's bad enough. X
I have been on a couples profile (before I became single) and find people are more polite and respectful on this profile"
I can honestly say I've rarely come across many disrespectful men on here. Most accept a polite no thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are here but as someone said earlier over looked. I think sometimes we may not come across as we would in real life in a message or two. I actually got turned down on here by someone i know quite well in real life as i didnt come across to well. Wasnt until she found out who i was we progressed further. |
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"The gems are there, you just have to do a little work to find them sometimes and not always be quick to dismiss.
Haha ok
I’ve been here a while and done a lot of work also so your point isn’t valid"
My point is very valid if that’s the experience we’ve had my lovely.
Despite your protests of not being rude, you’re rude!
The energy you emit is what you’ll attract so I’m not surprised you’re attracting dicks. |
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