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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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so with more and more couples and single women wanting more regular is this the end of random meets.
before xmas 2019 i was meeting randoms as and when i wanted (last 25 yrs)always tested and looked after myself but last xmas something changed and and sat with hubs and we talked and it seems regular is now the best path to follow then of course covid has cemented that theory.
so i know its not just me as there are more and more post appearing and some have only ever done it this way.
so have you changed the way you want to meet in the future men and women or do you intend to carry on as you did before.
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we only ever look for guys that will be regular , once we have met and had fun and then more , the fun gets more relax and so much better as everyone gets to know what the other wants, our longest was over seven years , oh and what fun was had in that time, |
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We have always preferred regular fun but we do sometimes have a random meet from time to time. Think the regular seems to work better for us as we don’t really have much free time and at least when we are free to meet we know what we are getting So just get right into it and it seems to get better each time rather than meeting fresh and starting from scratch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a question by curiosity ... Don't you think it's hard to find regular one because life move on so quick now than maybe your regular can't stay your regular . He will find someone to settle etc . Or would you be able to have some flexibility if he still wants to meet you but not always available due to is couple life etc I am really just curious . |
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The couples I've met in recent years have always been looking for a regular single male but wasnt always that way. I suspect they may have been put off by quality of applicants taking a nose dive. Too many have been messed around. Also, possibly as people mature in the scene they enjoy more trust and connection with the guy, knowing all will go well, rather than revolving door and hassle of strangers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just a question by curiosity ... Don't you think it's hard to find regular one because life move on so quick now than maybe your regular can't stay your regular . He will find someone to settle etc . Or would you be able to have some flexibility if he still wants to meet you but not always available due to is couple life etc I am really just curious . "
regular is not a ''your mine'' you have no life ....im not looking for anything other than regular fun with regular guys ill never put all my eggs in one basket people move on thats ok just find another regular to replace  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a question by curiosity ... Don't you think it's hard to find regular one because life move on so quick now than maybe your regular can't stay your regular . He will find someone to settle etc . Or would you be able to have some flexibility if he still wants to meet you but not always available due to is couple life etc I am really just curious .
regular is not a ''your mine'' you have no life ....im not looking for anything other than regular fun with regular guys ill never put all my eggs in one basket people move on thats ok just find another regular to replace "
Ok thanks that answers few of my doubts . Few regulars the available one is the lucky one ahah |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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also since ive been looking for regular some of the guys who want random are getting a bit bitter sending messages like ''what about us'' i can see what they mean as the playing field for them will become a lot lot smaller if all these new regular post are to be believed.
is fab for guys about to become even harder once and if covid goes away. |
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We have tried going the regular route but its tricky what is regular for us isn't for them if we could find people in similar situation family etc who can only play occasionally in theory we would much prefer regular but in practice it's often easier to have one off meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’d love to find a local ish couple who we both got on with socially who could become regular playmates with us. We found a couple on holiday but they live 5000 miles away so we only see them like 2-3 times a year |
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I’ve never really been into one offs. Don’t find they satisfy me, I find it all a bit impersonal. I prefer to get to know someone, as I I need some form of a connection for the chemistry to flow.
Part of me wishes I could just do random meets. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
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I've had a mixture of both. Some of my regular meetings with couples have lasted 8 years, 3 years and two respectively. There has been the odd one offs in between, but it's far nicer to get to know someone properly.
With single girls, it's been different, with only one lasting a year. I think the difference is that they like the idea of playing with different people or they then want more than nsa. |
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Regular for us ,but they are like Hobby Horse S---..one that likes us both and vice versa also having the time to meet more than once or twice a year ,its so rare as time and distance are our enemy ..  |
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By *kiolo1Couple
over a year ago
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"I’ve never really been into one offs. Don’t find they satisfy me, I find it all a bit impersonal. I prefer to get to know someone, as I I need some form of a connection for the chemistry to flow.
Part of me wishes I could just do random meets. "
Mmmm chemistry...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think if people click it tends to gravitate to regular."
Absolutely! If you really get on well with someone ,love the time you spend with them and are sexually very compatible why wouldn't you want to see them a lot!! Bit of a no brainer if you ask me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think if people click it tends to gravitate to regular.
Absolutely! If you really get on well with someone ,love the time you spend with them and are sexually very compatible why wouldn't you want to see them a lot!! Bit of a no brainer if you ask me."
Definitely x |
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As others have said, you can’t really find regulars without some one offs. Or quite often I’ll see someone a handful of times and then circumstances change, life gets in the way, etc.
I’ve seen my current fwb more than I’d usually see anyone from here really. I think that I have covid to thank for that (every cloud, right?!). I am looking forward to a bit more variety though, once we can
I don’t think that it will change people’s sexual habits over the longer term |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have tried going the regular route but its tricky what is regular for us isn't for them if we could find people in similar situation family etc who can only play occasionally in theory we would much prefer regular but in practice it's often easier to have one off meets"
this is what im finding its almost impossible to get that match for me n hubs so many say they can then in reality they realy cant or worse said they want regular knowing they dont just to get fun |
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I have to say I prefer regular as you can work out what buttons you both like having pressed and poked as well as being able to do social things too if you both choose to.
It also makes it easier as a regular means i don't have to dress which can be restrictive if they also want to have the guy side of me too which is what happens more often as there is more to me than just a crossdresser.
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