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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so I've been honest in my profile rather than lying on here.
Shame there aren't more females or couples that can see past that and will engage.
Any females or MF couples from the south west fancy discreet fun? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where? There is no mention of your married status on your honest profile. 
There is. Look at the header "
I take it back...only read the profile and not the header.  |
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"Shame there aren't more females or couples that can see past that and will engage. "
Unfortunately there’s also a lot single blokes here in general that are either genuinely single, or dishonest.
Some people might see those as less drama/hassle, as they don’t want to get caught up in someone else’s marital concerns.
Could also just be that they’re not into you! Happens to me a lot too.  |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Well done for being honest about your marital status. There will still be people who wont want to engage with you though because you are married, just because you have been honest about it doesn't negate the fact you are cheating & a lot of people just don't want to be a part of that. That is absolutely their choice.
There will be others who won't be put off by the fact that you are married though, & even some who will find it appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it's down to desire. We are a cuckquean cpl and had some luck and we are very up front about loaning me (dirk) out to cpls. I had a single guys profile on here for years and was surprised how many ladies and cpls didn't mind as long as my lady was aware. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well done for being honest about your marital status. There will still be people who wont want to engage with you though because you are married, just because you have been honest about it doesn't negate the fact you are cheating & a lot of people just don't want to be a part of that. That is absolutely their choice.
There will be others who won't be put off by the fact that you are married though, & even some who will find it appealing. "
Spot on |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"I guess it's down to desire. We are a cuckquean cpl and had some luck and we are very up front about loaning me (dirk) out to cpls. I had a single guys profile on here for years and was surprised how many ladies and cpls didn't mind as long as my lady was aware. "
I could be wrong but I suspect the OPs wife isn't aware |
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By *arksxMan
over a year ago
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"It may not be because you’re married.
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Imagine walking around with ego so large...
You would think the only reason women don't want to have sex with you is because already have a wife.
Apparently women are sexually attracted to men who are already married... It shows they are stable 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess it's down to desire. We are a cuckquean cpl and had some luck and we are very up front about loaning me (dirk) out to cpls. I had a single guys profile on here for years and was surprised how many ladies and cpls didn't mind as long as my lady was aware.
I could be wrong but I suspect the OPs wife isn't aware"
Hmmm perhaps who knows! |
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I don't think we'd be bothered by somebody being married if they had their reasons.
Like many here, we're just not looking for guys. If we did, the vast majority on here that we've had any direct contact with rule themselves out not by being taken but simply by what they say to us. |
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It's a plain and simple fact that a majority of ladies and couples will not entertain playing with a married man who has an unaware wife...
....of the minority who will, most will not really be interested in or bothered by his marital status...
....but there are those for whom playing with a married man behind his wife's back adds to the excitement - they're few and far between, but they are out there!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Possibly, but then they are being disingenuous themselves by responding the way they do. I'm not so egotistical to think I'm everyone's cup of tea so that's rather stating the obvious.
Seems to me there are a lot of couples on here pretending to be swinging gurus when in fact they are merely doing it for their own titillation and have no interest in meeting.
At least I'm honest.
And yes, my wife is aware. |
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The thing is married would b ideal for me as they wont want commitment probably b clean but I wont knowingly meet married or attached as its deception if the woman dont know and they say well it's their deception so not my worry! But it would b because I would b playing a part in that deception which I'm not comfortable with x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't bother us if your married/attached. It's their funeral
Just aslong as they mention it from the start, nothing worse than trying to organise a meet and they disappear every weekend Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Couldnt care less if you're married or not in general. We are married and meet separately.
Only thing we care about is people doing it behind their partner's backs. That we wont be part of."
very honest and a decent reply. I like that. There are a lot of hypocrits on here is all I'm saying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couldnt care less if you're married or not in general. We are married and meet separately.
Only thing we care about is people doing it behind their partner's backs. That we wont be part of. very honest and a decent reply. I like that. There are a lot of hypocrits on here is all I'm saying. "
Yes exactly this such is this site and life in general, a lot of couples on here won't meet married men but seem to have no problems with married women! |
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well done on being honest.
Some see married men as less emotional hassle, won't get attached etc.
Some don't like the idea that your wife may not know you are on here. They again that might appeal to them.
The clubs when open at the best bet. A load of women use this site to chat only and never meet. |
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