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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wondered what the poorest excuse that has been given? I once had a lady text me one hour before a meet to tell me she had just remembered it was her mums birthday..and wait for it...she had organised it and forgoten, you have to laugh! |
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I was beginning to think that I was a hazard to public health as I went through a spell of people's mothers having heart attacks on the evenings of meetings and being rushed into hospital.
The worst excuse though, received the day after a no-show, by message on here, was as simple as "well that's life innit?". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My fave was a guy i had arranged to meet, i dont accommodate so i got the train to his and he arranged to pick me up at the station, i got to said arranged place and waited, and waited, about 15 mins after he was supposed to pick me up i got a text saying
Sorry theres been a change of plan im meeting somebody else now so im not coming to pick you up, but if you want to book into a hotel while your here i'll come see you in the morning
you've gotta laugh aint you
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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naughty nympho did he expect you to wait? What a dickhead(him not you).
My story didnt have that bad an ending I had booked a hotel next to belle vue greyhounds and decided I would go over and have a bet, ended up winning a nice few quid so wasnt really that bothered in the end...but thats not the point  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My fave was a guy i had arranged to meet, i dont accommodate so i got the train to his and he arranged to pick me up at the station, i got to said arranged place and waited, and waited, about 15 mins after he was supposed to pick me up i got a text saying
Sorry theres been a change of plan im meeting somebody else now so im not coming to pick you up, but if you want to book into a hotel while your here i'll come see you in the morning
you've gotta laugh aint you
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what a tosser!!!!. i would miss my own grans birthday party to see you NN |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"I was beginning to think that I was a hazard to public health as I went through a spell of people's mothers having heart attacks on the evenings of meetings and being rushed into hospital.
The worst excuse though, received the day after a no-show, by message on here, was as simple as "well that's life innit?". "
That's hardly an excuse, just plain rude. |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"My fave was a guy i had arranged to meet, i dont accommodate so i got the train to his and he arranged to pick me up at the station, i got to said arranged place and waited, and waited, about 15 mins after he was supposed to pick me up i got a text saying
Sorry theres been a change of plan im meeting somebody else now so im not coming to pick you up, but if you want to book into a hotel while your here i'll come see you in the morning
you've gotta laugh aint you
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You have got to be joking, I would have met him and ripped his balls clean off. He must be mad (or plain stupid) standing you up.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to be honest with you, even tho i was a bit pissed off at the time as i felt he could have told me before i got the train you have got to give him 10 outa 10 for honestly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had quite a few excuses, but nothing too outrageous. Usually:
Wifes come in
Wifes took the car
Called in to work
Family member/friend popped round
Usually this is followed by no further contact, so pretty much your everyday timewasters. |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"to be honest with you, even tho i was a bit pissed off at the time as i felt he could have told me before i got the train you have got to give him 10 outa 10 for honestly "
That is true I suppose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry theres been a change of plan im meeting somebody else now so im not coming to pick you up, but if you want to book into a hotel while your here i'll come see you in the morning
you've gotta laugh aint you
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 I'd have let him come in the morning and be ready to gouge out the cheeky bastards eyeballs lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"had the usual "been called into work" then the dickhead from northwich put a meet in the meet tonight section 10 mins later
That's just plain rude, not even the decency to be honest."
quite agree needless to say quickly got scrubbed of the friends list and blocked |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"had the usual "been called into work" then the dickhead from northwich put a meet in the meet tonight section 10 mins later
That's just plain rude, not even the decency to be honest.
quite agree needless to say quickly got scrubbed of the friends list and blocked"
Dam right and no second chances |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My classic was 'had to take the cat to the vets'
Whatt about my poor pussy I say."
aww i did leave a meet early once cause my daughter called me up saying the dog was having fits, sorry but getting my dog to the vets was more important than having a shag |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This saturdays potential conquest suddenly managed to find himself a girlfriend between 6pm and 9pm yesterday...the mind boggles, perhaps he'd dropped her down the back of the sofa!
Also had at least 10 family heart attacks, two dogs at the vets, one "my daughter needs some change for her takeaway" and one "your sat nav is shit"
The worst are the no excuse at all and a block....wankers! |
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Only once, and it was a date not a meet. He phoned as he was leaving, half an hour later he hadn't arrived. He called in distress saying he'd had a car crash in East Croydon and had caused major problems but he was unhurt but shocked.
I was not amused and wasn't very nice: called him all sorts.
Then I turned on the local news...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wasnt technically a no show as he cancelled the morning of the meet but the excuse was just pure class..
said he had arranged a meet with another person on fab, and i quote ' shes a munter so will do more for me plus she's closer' i couldnt find the block button fast enough
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"wasnt technically a no show as he cancelled the morning of the meet but the excuse was just pure class..
said he had arranged a meet with another person on fab, and i quote ' shes a munter so will do more for me plus she's closer' i couldnt find the block button fast enough
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How could you block such s charmer?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"wasnt technically a no show as he cancelled the morning of the meet but the excuse was just pure class..
said he had arranged a meet with another person on fab, and i quote ' shes a munter so will do more for me plus she's closer' i couldnt find the block button fast enough
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If it's any consolation he was a crap shag. |
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Had the regular ones...called into work, oh forgot to text and let you know.
Had a few beers so can't drive now.
The best had to be a guy who cancelled when he got invited to a party instead so said he had more pussy to chose from!
The are all still on Fab too so ladies look out!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry, We forgot our Son is in Hospital, so We had to go and visit"
Also had "We only have £10, so if We put that in petrol, can you give us the £10 when We get there"  |
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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago
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I had one guy message us 5 mins after confirming a spontaneous meet that he had just left the house to find his car had been stolen and the cat run over possibly in the process so couldnt come. He was back onine with in minutes looking for a meet as he then messaged our couples profile to arrange a meet that night needless to say we called him out on it and got blocked |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
""Sorry, We forgot our Son is in Hospital, so We had to go and visit"
Also had "We only have £10, so if We put that in petrol, can you give us the £10 when We get there" "
What bloody cheapskates |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Sorry, We forgot our Son is in Hospital, so We had to go and visit"
Also had "We only have £10, so if We put that in petrol, can you give us the £10 when We get there"
What bloody cheapskates "
Had the petrol one a few times too lol |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
""Sorry, We forgot our Son is in Hospital, so We had to go and visit"
Also had "We only have £10, so if We put that in petrol, can you give us the £10 when We get there"
What bloody cheapskates
Had the petrol one a few times too lol"
Its just the pure cheek of it, some people.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She texted to say 'on way will be there in 10 mins'. So I went to the bar and bought her a G&T, as she'd asked for the drink during our previous texting. 30 mins later got text to say 'sorry, popped into Tesco for a couple of things but ended up doing a big shop. I can't make it for the drink, got to go home and put the ice-cream in the freezer'  So I downed the G&T and went home and promptly blocked her. |
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Feel better after reading this (sorry guys)
Not a no show, but a guy turned up half an hour late and left me sat on my own in a pub waiting, his excuse.....
'I had to get petrol so I won't have to stop on way to work in morning!'
Way to make a girl feel special lol - was a short meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There should be a way of naming and shaming then others wouldnt waste their time aswellwell said"
I think there is an unofficial name n shame, we all gather friends on here and if we have a negative experience we tend to tell our friends who tell their friends and so on.... might be a bit slower but word does get around eventually with regard to people who pissing others about an I think people will take more notice of what someone they know says than if there were a list of 'don't meet this person because....'.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One couple that strung me along for months eventually arranged to meet and then on the day the woman's mother died. Okay fair enough, then 2 weeks later when supposed to meet, there was yet another death in the family.
hmmmmmmmm so you have a death in the family every time we are meant to meet up? yeah whatever bye! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got let down yesterday with bo explanation at all! Got the whole yes I'm defo 100% coming and no show! I didn't even bother asking why I because I don't chase penis!! So his loss someone elses epic gain |
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Had chatted to an attractive, well endowed guy on cam and arranged to meet up. He was in my local area on one of his regular visits to stay with his sister he claimed...
He texted to say he didn't have any of the special larger sized condoms he needed, should things progress (usually ordered them online)...even asked if I could check my local sex shop, as he was out in town and had tried several places who had none.
After several messages to and fro I checked fab, showed he was online, in chat, found him in a chatroom on cam laying in bed! I have him blocked (and did report) but he's often up to his old tricks on here. Utter fantasist.
Curls x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got let down yesterday with bo explanation at all! Got the whole yes I'm defo 100% coming and no show! I didn't even bother asking why I because I don't chase penis!! So his loss someone elses epic gain "
another person who enjoys the chase and is too scared to follow it up sadly |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"I got let down yesterday with bo explanation at all! Got the whole yes I'm defo 100% coming and no show! I didn't even bother asking why I because I don't chase penis!! So his loss someone elses epic gain "
But it is people like this and many others who spoil it for us genuine guys, who never have and never would let anyone down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had chatted to an attractive, well endowed guy on cam and arranged to meet up. He was in my local area on one of his regular visits to stay with his sister he claimed...
He texted to say he didn't have any of the special larger sized condoms he needed, should things progress (usually ordered them online)...even asked if I could check my local sex shop, as he was out in town and had tried several places who had none.
After several messages to and fro I checked fab, showed he was online, in chat, found him in a chatroom on cam laying in bed! I have him blocked (and did report) but he's often up to his old tricks on here. Utter fantasist.
Curls x"
OMG! There's one way about lying for reasons not to show up because the dog ate the homework.... but this is just pure piss take. Wow! |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"We had a guy excuse himself from a meet this week saying he was going to a workmates birthday BBQ. Are there really people on here who have those kind of priorities!!"
Yes there are and there are a lot of people who have no intention of meeting and just like messing others around, it really spoils it for us genuine guys who would never do that |
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Some people live such sad lives, a friend is on the dating scene and same sort of thing happens to her.
Think it would great to have a formal way to identify these types of idiots through their IP number and the Mods block them from the site if they get reported more than 3 times by 3 different people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After several messages to and fro I checked fab, showed he was online, in chat, found him in a chatroom on cam laying in bed!"
Similar happened to me, he even texted to say he was on his way, coming up the M6, i logged on here and he was in chat, cam on sat in his front room!... BLOCKED |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"Some people live such sad lives, a friend is on the dating scene and same sort of thing happens to her.
Think it would great to have a formal way to identify these types of idiots through their IP number and the Mods block them from the site if they get reported more than 3 times by 3 different people. "
That would be a good idea. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Ive not long since just had a text,
"sorry 4 got England were playing u won't mind waiting another hr or so ?"
I must have been an afterthought @ half time! "
My meet Sky Plussed it, bless him. |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
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After several messages to and fro I checked fab, showed he was online, in chat, found him in a chatroom on cam laying in bed!
Similar happened to me, he even texted to say he was on his way, coming up the M6, i logged on here and he was in chat, cam on sat in his front room!... BLOCKED"
Just goes to show how stupid some people actually are |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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One guy I was supposed to meet at the station and walk to the club together (as I didn't know where I was going). I got there, tried texting and calling but the number had been de-activated, so tried to walk to the club myself, and got lost. So I went home and, on the way (three hours after we were supposed to meet!), he texted from another number asking where I was. He was sat in the club all cosy and expected me to have divined this somehow.
I was meeting another guy in a pub. Meet time came and went without him showing so I texted him. Half an hour later he texted back saying he was still in bed with a women he'd picked up the night before, and I was welcome to come round and watch!
I have lost count of the amount of guys who have texted to say they had been held back at work and would I mind waiting for 2 hours. Erm, yes I would! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive not long since just had a text,
"sorry 4 got England were playing u won't mind waiting another hr or so ?"
I must have been an afterthought @ half time! "
Cant argue with that one |
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I've just had a meet cancelled but I hadn't even done my nails as I knew he would. I usually meet for a social meet during the week during my lunch time.
Whenever they've been unable to meet and I've arranged a weekend meet it never happens. His car somehow wouldn't start this morning and living in west London there's no transport this side of the river.
Lots of dreamers and fantatists here I feel. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I've just had a meet cancelled but I hadn't even done my nails as I knew he would."
It is weird how you just KNOW omeone is going to be a no-show or cancellation. It took me a while to work this out though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just had a meet cancelled but I hadn't even done my nails as I knew he would.
It is weird how you just KNOW omeone is going to be a no-show or cancellation. It took me a while to work this out though."
yet we all can read between the lines x
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By (user no longer on site)
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i had a guy tell me his mum had died which to be honest i never thought anything of at the time as i never thought anyone would lie about something like that
But then about 3 months later he messaged me asking if i would still like to meet as he was passing thro my area at the weekend going to his mums 60th birrthday bash |
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After several messages to and fro I checked fab, showed he was online, in chat, found him in a chatroom on cam laying in bed!
Similar happened to me, he even texted to say he was on his way, coming up the M6, i logged on here and he was in chat, cam on sat in his front room!... BLOCKED"
Haahaahaahaa!!! Sorry...but that did make me giggle. |
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"I've just had a meet cancelled but I hadn't even done my nails as I knew he would.
It is weird how you just KNOW omeone is going to be a no-show or cancellation. It took me a while to work this out though."
When they can't meet my timetable it's a given they'll be a no show. I always choose London Bridge, 15 minutes away from me, never been there for a meet.
The dreamers are easy to spot and no second chances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"never had a no show, am i just lucky or is it only single men that do it?"
ive only had 2 no shows in 10 years of doing this, i consider that quite well going to be honest, had loads of people cancel but only 2 no shows |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just had a meet cancelled but I hadn't even done my nails as I knew he would.
It is weird how you just KNOW omeone is going to be a no-show or cancellation. It took me a while to work this out though.
When they can't meet my timetable it's a given they'll be a no show. I always choose London Bridge, 15 minutes away from me, never been there for a meet.
The dreamers are easy to spot and no second chances. "
i always find the cammers are usually the dreamer, get loads of guys who just want to cam all the time
Arranged a meet for last week with a guy, had been talking on msn for a couple of weeks and every time i logged on without saying a word he'd just send a cam invite, i got fed up with it so told him to go find someone else if all he wanted to do was cam, he said it wasnt he did want to meet he just liked looking at me while we spoke, but for some reason he could only look with his cock in his hand
Anyway we arranged a meet for wednesday, i had a feeling he wouldnt go thro with it and low and behold wednesday afternoon i got a text saying he couldnt make it, something about work but then next time i logged on msn.....cam invite
I just blank him now i find it more fun than blocking lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"never had a no show, am i just lucky or is it only single men that do it?
I don't count mine as no shows as they've always let me know in ample time. I've never been left sat in a pub waiting."
i did with a couple once, they never turned up then had the check to tell everyone it was me who didnt show and put in the chat room i was using fake pics and that i had blonde hair really and thats why they couldnt find me cause they was looking for a dark haired women |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"never had a no show, am i just lucky or is it only single men that do it?
I don't count mine as no shows as they've always let me know in ample time. I've never been left sat in a pub waiting.
i did with a couple once, they never turned up then had the check to tell everyone it was me who didnt show and put in the chat room i was using fake pics and that i had blonde hair really and thats why they couldnt find me cause they was looking for a dark haired women "
So how did they know you were a blonde if they couldn't find you? Hmmmm, methinks they didn't think that one through!
I know you're real. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"never had a no show, am i just lucky or is it only single men that do it?
I don't count mine as no shows as they've always let me know in ample time. I've never been left sat in a pub waiting.
i did with a couple once, they never turned up then had the check to tell everyone it was me who didnt show and put in the chat room i was using fake pics and that i had blonde hair really and thats why they couldnt find me cause they was looking for a dark haired women
So how did they know you were a blonde if they couldn't find you? Hmmmm, methinks they didn't think that one through!
I know you're real. "
no idea i felt like saying, i know my roots need doing but thats taking the piss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It was someone of another site. I was driving from manc to bham to see her, she text me in the morning saying i cant wait to see u and told me to leave as soon as i could.
I ditched work and drove down, I text her saying im on way got few texts back along the way then i got to bham and her phones off no reply to texts or anything..
i stayed for an hour or so and left. at night i get a text with the excuse of- her phone died and her dog destroyed her phone.
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"We had a guy excuse himself from a meet this week saying he was going to a workmates birthday BBQ. Are there really people on here who have those kind of priorities!!"
What? You mean prioritising real life friends & family over faceless people on the internet?
Nah! Surely not......
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We had a guy excuse himself from a meet this week saying he was going to a workmates birthday BBQ. Are there really people on here who have those kind of priorities!!"
haha that made me laugh
nah we all know single guys on here are that greateful of getting an offer they would crawl thro broken glass to get there
i mean seriously how dare anyone go to their mates birthday bash instead of shagging
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By (user no longer on site)
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Cam people are usually teases with no intention of actual meets. I gave up with people on cams.
One time I arranged to meet someone for a drink, i turned up and couldnt see her anywhere. I had a drink on my own to see if she would arrive but didnt. Her car even has a noticeable sticker on it and didnt see it. Get home and find a snottty email asking where I was??!! Apparently she was there,but we somehow totally didnt see each other |
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