I just saw a music video with Blondie playing. I thought Debbie Harry in her youth, looked so seductive and beautiful. But when I looked at her photos, I didn't think the photos did her justice. So got me thinking how many people on fab I ignored etc would been much more attractive in person.. I know meeting fabbers in clubs is the way forward but covid times, makes things extremely difficult.
Do you think you're more alluring and attractive in person because of your personality and sexiness as you might not have traditional model like looks. I know it could work the opposite, some people take fabulous photos but their personality and attitude doesn't bring it out in person. Or does personality matter when someone really physically attractive? I know I'm definitely instantly turned off by bad personalities.  |
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I hate having my picture taken, and hate a ‘selfie’ even more, I like to think photos do not do me justice, I have been told that before, and yes you’re right I feel I am over looked sometimes because my pics do not do me justice.... either that or I’m just fugly....  |
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Personality, charisma, mannerisms etc are all absolutely as if not more important than the looks.
I’ve found from dating apps that people can have an amazing profile, the chats good, but when you get there in person, the chemistry just isn’t there.
It works both ways. Sometimes people that seemed a little plain and shy via text and photos are actually glowing, bubbly people in person that you can’t resist giving your time to. Similarly, people who take very good photos can be dry, uninspiring.
So yeah for me the personality is really important.  |
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I've seen so many times pictures not doing the justice so now pay little attention to looks. I always meet for social only first, so if there's interest regarding other aspects I leave the looks bit for after I've seen them live. Having said so not once things didn't go further due to looks, it was always something else that came to light during social. |
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Based on feedback I've had I am better looking in person, personality wise I am who i am and no difference to here or in person.
Looks are important but it's a fleeting thing, you look and decide yes or no I fancy them. After that personality is, overall the most important thing as that's what ultimately brings you together and results in a meet and if all goes well many more after that.
No matter how good looking someone is lack of personality or one you don't click with kills any chance if a meet.
I've chatted to some who have been quiet and shy on the forums and in pm but having met them at a social they really come across more lively. |
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