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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m curious as to how many couples start or end up at this point.
When we started playing with others I had zero interest in other Guys, I get what I need at home and so for my part it was more about me being with other women/watching him too that drew me to this.
Hubby on the other hand had a little interest in being with other women but really loved the idea of seeing/sharing me with other men.
Where we are right now is everything we wanted at the start but more and more we’re both drawn to more hotwifing. The anticipation whilst you’re getting ready for the date and the not knowing what’s happening for him while he waits at home and of course the reclaim when i get home.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The fog has now passed 
How many other couples have fallen into hotwifing as a natural progression?
How many always did it? (we have but don’t advertise it on our profile)
If it’s not for you why not, insecurity or just not for you?
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"The fog has now passed
How many other couples have fallen into hotwifing as a natural progression?
How many always did it? (we have but don’t advertise it on our profile)
If it’s not for you why not, insecurity or just not for you?
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Not for us. We like to share the moment together, see each others enjoyment and the look of ecstasy in each others eyes.
Each to their own but just don't understand why people play separately. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The fog has now passed
How many other couples have fallen into hotwifing as a natural progression?
How many always did it? (we have but don’t advertise it on our profile)
If it’s not for you why not, insecurity or just not for you?
Not for us. We like to share the moment together, see each others enjoyment and the look of ecstasy in each others eyes.
Each to their own but just don't understand why people play separately."
Don’t get me wrong that’s still my preference but I’m enjoying the different thrills of this too. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!"
I’ve always been curious about the anklets, has a complete stranger ever mentioned it? Or hinted etc? I honestly don’t know what I’d do if someone challenged me on it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me (Claire) I was exactly the same at the beginning, I had zero interest in meeting other men. Over time it kind of happened, and I must admit, I now like it as much as anything else we do. I don't play separately, never will, I feel safe when I'm with my husband, but I'm really enjoying the mfm aspect of swinging. Like you say, the whole getting ready, as the excitement builds is amazing, I love my husband taking me out to meet another guy, hubby been in full control so I can fully relax is amazing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!
I’ve always been curious about the anklets, has a complete stranger ever mentioned it? Or hinted etc? I honestly don’t know what I’d do if someone challenged me on it lol "
I need to get one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's pretty much where we have ended up. Originally it was about meeting other couples with bi fems but naturally progressed to just seeking guys as we found that turned us both on more"
Hot, isn’t it weird though how it can change so dramatically. You don’t know until you try as they say |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We brought home a single guy once and that was all it took. Our go to is still couples and always will be, but you only live once and the single guy is a lot of fun."
Understand that 100%. |
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There's no sign of us heading towards this at present. We enjoy doing things together.
The nearest thing is if Hannah wants to see a woman, which she is welcome to do and I don't feel any need to be involved. It has happened a couple of times and I found it thrilling and it still turns me on a lot thinking about the experiences she has had.
However, neither of us would see a couple or a member of the opposite sex without the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We started as me being a hotwife, both love it. Hubby doesn't play but we might do the club's together if and when they reopen. Me playing as really worked for both of us so far. Xx |
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"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!
What is the anklet thing? X"
They say Hotwife on them, so if someone is in the know it could be a starter. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have been talking about it for ages but haven’t found the right man yet,maybe it will just stay as a fantasy "
If the fantasy adds such a level of excitement then I guess if the right guy comes along it’s got to be worth a try right? We didn’t set out looking for this but it made us feel so hot for days afterwards. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We started as me being a hotwife, both love it. Hubby doesn't play but we might do the club's together if and when they reopen. Me playing as really worked for both of us so far. Xx"
Did hubby ever play? We haven’t really been interested in clubs but maybe one day we’ll check one out x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not yet, but when it is noticed and mentioned, I guess it’s pretty much on at that point! She likes them at the nude beach too."
Yeah I imagine so! Must be a thrill in itself just wearing one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We started as me being a hotwife, both love it. Hubby doesn't play but we might do the club's together if and when they reopen. Me playing as really worked for both of us so far. Xx
Did hubby ever play? We haven’t really been interested in clubs but maybe one day we’ll check one out x"
No, we were going to do the couple swap thing but he's not as interested so I play solo now. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Us!!! Really now into hotwifing and progressing more and more!!! Probably will get to the point soon where we will form some kind of poly relationship xx |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
S. Northants |
We have so far always been Cuckquean /Hot Husband, but are unfortunately finding it increasingly difficult to find ladies to actually meet. Therefore we came back with an open mind towards couples (cuckold ideally). Mrs DRST isn't desperate to find other guys, she much prefers seeing me with other girls (although it's been discussed, and I'm more than happy for her to have other guys too).
So, who knows where we will end up. We're not sure Fab is really the place for our preferred dynamic, but don't really know where else to go.  x |
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It’s a journey we’re just starting on. I’ve had a social with the guy I want. The tension is there and it’s so exciting!! Just waiting for our diaries to match so hubby and said man to meet. Hubby wants this so he knows who I’ll be with and that I’ll be safe. Then once it’s safe said man and I will be meeting at a hotel for fun whilst hubby is at home. We’ll send videos and pics as we’re playing. Once we’ve finished, hubby will come join me and reclaim me.
My pussy is throbbing now and soaking just talking about it!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a journey we’re just starting on. I’ve had a social with the guy I want. The tension is there and it’s so exciting!! Just waiting for our diaries to match so hubby and said man to meet. Hubby wants this so he knows who I’ll be with and that I’ll be safe. Then once it’s safe said man and I will be meeting at a hotel for fun whilst hubby is at home. We’ll send videos and pics as we’re playing. Once we’ve finished, hubby will come join me and reclaim me.
My pussy is throbbing now and soaking just talking about it!!!"
Reclaiming a wife after probably the best part of the whole thing!!! Mila just going crazy knowing I will reclaim her after!!! |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
Yes swinging has definitely been a journey for us and we have floated towards Hot Wife/cuckold scenarios.
I absolutely LOVE hubby waiting in his cage while I'm playing. The reclaim sex is amazing
Mrs N |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes swinging has definitely been a journey for us and we have floated towards Hot Wife/cuckold scenarios.
I absolutely LOVE hubby waiting in his cage while I'm playing. The reclaim sex is amazing
Mrs N"
EXACTLY!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should try the hotwife club if clubs ever open again at libs. That's a great night
Any profile or website for hotwife club?"
Um yeh hold on I'll find it |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
S. Northants |
"It’s a journey we’re just starting on. I’ve had a social with the guy I want. The tension is there and it’s so exciting!! Just waiting for our diaries to match so hubby and said man to meet. Hubby wants this so he knows who I’ll be with and that I’ll be safe. Then once it’s safe said man and I will be meeting at a hotel for fun whilst hubby is at home. We’ll send videos and pics as we’re playing. Once we’ve finished, hubby will come join me and reclaim me.
My pussy is throbbing now and soaking just talking about it!!!
Reclaiming a wife after probably the best part of the whole thing!!! Mila just going crazy knowing I will reclaim her after!!!"
It's not just reclaiming wives that's amazing. Reclaim of Hubby is the best bit!! |
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"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!
What is the anklet thing? X
They say Hotwife on them, so if someone is in the know it could be a starter."
Do they always say that or are there other way? Doesn’t seem very subtle but hey it gets the message across |
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We started always trying to play as a couple, with couples, but it was hard to find a dynamic where there is mutual attraction... So we then started experimenting with MFM... But hard to find childcare etc, so I started venturing out on select meets alone... And the rest is history |
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"We started always trying to play as a couple, with couples, but it was hard to find a dynamic where there is mutual attraction... So we then started experimenting with MFM... But hard to find childcare etc, so I started venturing out on select meets alone... And the rest is history "
We have childcare issues too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Myself and husband started off as social exhibitionism and bi play for me on the scene but like yourself have totally moved into the stag n vixen lifestyle...he loves to present me to a guy for mutual pleasure for all ...loves to watch and the whole dynamic seems to be working great for us ...just find it difficult to source experienced bulls in this are where it's more stag vixen than cuckold |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!
What is the anklet thing? X
They say Hotwife on them, so if someone is in the know it could be a starter.
Do they always say that or are there other way? Doesn’t seem very subtle but hey it gets the message across "
I’m sure they don’t have to say that on them, some just have symbols on them. Again I’m so intrigued at who would make the first move, if there’s ever been a misunderstanding and someone just thought they were innocently wearing an anklet  |
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"We started always trying to play as a couple, with couples, but it was hard to find a dynamic where there is mutual attraction... So we then started experimenting with MFM... But hard to find childcare etc, so I started venturing out on select meets alone... And the rest is history
We have childcare issues too. "
Bloody annoying isn't? |
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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago
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It was a starting point for us; Tog loves watching me being pleasured by other men - he was never that bothered about playing himself, but then we did the couples thing and it turns out I really enjoying watching him with other women as well; so we both now have our own profiles and are free to meet others separately.
Muse x |
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"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!
What is the anklet thing? X
They say Hotwife on them, so if someone is in the know it could be a starter.
Do they always say that or are there other way? Doesn’t seem very subtle but hey it gets the message across
I’m sure they don’t have to say that on them, some just have symbols on them. Again I’m so intrigued at who would make the first move, if there’s ever been a misunderstanding and someone just thought they were innocently wearing an anklet "
I think we’ll try it, maybe just HW on it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We started always trying to play as a couple, with couples, but it was hard to find a dynamic where there is mutual attraction... So we then started experimenting with MFM... But hard to find childcare etc, so I started venturing out on select meets alone... And the rest is history "
This 100%, seriously the parallels are spot on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!
What is the anklet thing? X
They say Hotwife on them, so if someone is in the know it could be a starter.
Do they always say that or are there other way? Doesn’t seem very subtle but hey it gets the message across
I’m sure they don’t have to say that on them, some just have symbols on them. Again I’m so intrigued at who would make the first move, if there’s ever been a misunderstanding and someone just thought they were innocently wearing an anklet
I think we’ll try it, maybe just HW on it..."
Yeah that’s a good idea actually |
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We have same problem with child care. We are verging on hotwifeing as met a couple of men alone but husband has always been involved with finding them. Will send pictures and messages back to him and when I get home he loves playing with my fucked pussy. Reclaim sex is great
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have same problem with child care. We are verging on hotwifeing as met a couple of men alone but husband has always been involved with finding them. Will send pictures and messages back to him and when I get home he loves playing with my fucked pussy. Reclaim sex is great
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Reclaim sex yes we think one of the best xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was swinging as part of a couple hotwifing was there from the start,we got into swinging as I got off on her playing with other men so hotwifing was always one of our primary likes,then couples and single lasses sort of naturally followed on from that |
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"We started always trying to play as a couple, with couples, but it was hard to find a dynamic where there is mutual attraction... So we then started experimenting with MFM... But hard to find childcare etc, so I started venturing out on select meets alone... And the rest is history
We have childcare issues too.
Bloody annoying isn't? "
Definitely! All our friends drop their children off at grandparents and go off to play. We would love to play together more. X |
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"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!
What is the anklet thing? X
They say Hotwife on them, so if someone is in the know it could be a starter.
Do they always say that or are there other way? Doesn’t seem very subtle but hey it gets the message across
I’m sure they don’t have to say that on them, some just have symbols on them. Again I’m so intrigued at who would make the first move, if there’s ever been a misunderstanding and someone just thought they were innocently wearing an anklet
I think we’ll try it, maybe just HW on it...
Yeah that’s a good idea actually "
It’s a thing then x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We started always trying to play as a couple, with couples, but it was hard to find a dynamic where there is mutual attraction... So we then started experimenting with MFM... But hard to find childcare etc, so I started venturing out on select meets alone... And the rest is history
We have childcare issues too.
Bloody annoying isn't? "
yes had a great bull last night but there so rare xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have pretty much always played like this, either a mfm or the wife plays on her own, we have played with couples but i the husband prefers to sit back and watch or get sent texts/pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We started always trying to play as a couple, with couples, but it was hard to find a dynamic where there is mutual attraction... So we then started experimenting with MFM... But hard to find childcare etc, so I started venturing out on select meets alone... And the rest is history
We have childcare issues too.
Bloody annoying isn't? yes had a great bull last night but there so rare xx"
Yes had the same last night xx |
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By *intage74Couple
over a year ago
Lanarkshire |
We have had our first Hotwifing occasion and the build up during lockdown was incredibly sexy and wetted the anticipation.V loved every minute with her lovely guy and I did although it honestly played with my head slightly.The reclaim was amazing too and we are committed to continue and she wants to reciprocate for me but I presently have no great desire.I will be buying V an anklet and it will be our thing.Exciting times await |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reading back I see alot mention hotwifing as more separate meets and meeting away from hubby ....we are stag vixen we never play alone so he is there with me ....we like to have a social first get to know a little bit about them he likes me dressing sexy for the guy to present me to him he likes me to look into his eyes as I'm getting fucked then yes reclaim is the best part ...we find the whole experience amazing but personally for us it wouldn't be the same without hubby there ....its all part of the experience for us ...but then each couple have different dynamics xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reading back I see alot mention hotwifing as more separate meets and meeting away from hubby ....we are stag vixen we never play alone so he is there with me ....we like to have a social first get to know a little bit about them he likes me dressing sexy for the guy to present me to him he likes me to look into his eyes as I'm getting fucked then yes reclaim is the best part ...we find the whole experience amazing but personally for us it wouldn't be the same without hubby there ....its all part of the experience for us ...but then each couple have different dynamics xx"
As a single guy I've always preferred the husband of the couple to be present and/or involved,it adds to the thrill for me personally,especially with a hotwife or stag/vixen dynamic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I play with a lovely “ hot wife” couple - she is very sexy and loves dressing up in sexy lingerie and having hot naughty sex. He loves to watch , photograph and join in after the event for some reclaim.
They are a lovely, sophisticated couple and I really love being part of their enjoyment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We love it. Exciting from picking lingerie together for him to reclaiming her when he's finished.
I love this idea love the build up too "
The butterflies in the tummy whilst I’m getting ready in front of the mirror to Hubby being overly attentive. Can’t wait. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We started out like most, looking for couples so the mrs could indulge her love of women, but once we met one and it proved harder at the time to find more like them (6 years ago) talk turned to men which turned to scenarios, which turned to making it happen, and here we are, not hardcore by any means, we prefer quality over quantity, but we love it |
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"We started out like most, looking for couples so the mrs could indulge her love of women, but once we met one and it proved harder at the time to find more like them (6 years ago) talk turned to men which turned to scenarios, which turned to making it happen, and here we are, not hardcore by any means, we prefer quality over quantity, but we love it"
She's gorgeous |
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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago
Princess Risborough |
I used to help my ex-wife to get ready for her dates, she used to ask me how sexy she looked before leaving and would kiss me and would always say "I'm going to get fucked, see you later". Then leave. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
We've always been together but it's her who only plays. I just love watching her, her body and sounds and watching her get more and more sexual, inhibitions left well behind, it's a great spectical. So it's a very visual desire for me and an exhibitionist viewpoint for her to have me watching, we'd lose that element which is the key aspect of us being here. Definitely a stag and vixen setup here, hotwife doesn't quite fit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We started out like most, looking for couples so the mrs could indulge her love of women, but once we met one and it proved harder at the time to find more like them (6 years ago) talk turned to men which turned to scenarios, which turned to making it happen, and here we are, not hardcore by any means, we prefer quality over quantity, but we love it
She's gorgeous "
Thank you! She certainly is!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We started with playing with a guy over about a year and progressed from there, we still want to meet couples and ladies but meeting a hot guy is such a hot and erotic way to play
So more hotwife for us and I get to play with two guys, lucky lady
DD x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my partner have been swinging together for a few years now but we always played together.
It wasn't till I went on holiday and was out on a night out when some fella started flirting with me. Told my partner about him n that he was hot my partner told me to go for it.
Apparently hubby had an erection from that moment till when I got back in touch with him the next morning. Sharing the story of what I had been upto was so hot for the both of us we got into the whole hot wife thing from then on |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
S. Northants |
"We started with playing with a guy over about a year and progressed from there, we still want to meet couples and ladies but meeting a hot guy is such a hot and erotic way to play
So more hotwife for us and I get to play with two guys, lucky lady
DD x"
It's your guys who are the lucky ones! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This was just shared in another thread:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/6432973/stag-men-love-watching-other-guys-have-sex-with-their-wives-but-its-not-cuckolding/amp/
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what's the difference between cuckolding and Hot Wifing? "
Cuckolding is humiliation and a slight form of dominating the husband
Hotwifing is the wife able to have lovers/boyfriends or go out and fuck whoever without the humiliation.
Both enjoy getting off on their wife people naughty but one likes to also be abused verbally and ordered about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what's the difference between cuckolding and Hot Wifing?
Cuckolding is humiliation and a slight form of dominating the husband
Hotwifing is the wife able to have lovers/boyfriends or go out and fuck whoever without the humiliation.
Both enjoy getting off on their wife people naughty but one likes to also be abused verbally and ordered about"
For example my wife could go and do as she pleases, I both know and am involved.
I watch her on her meets and take videos and pictures, and sometimes join in
But she would also be more than able to go out with someone and do her thing |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
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"So what's the difference between cuckolding and Hot Wifing?
Cuckolding is humiliation and a slight form of dominating the husband
Hotwifing is the wife able to have lovers/boyfriends or go out and fuck whoever without the humiliation.
Both enjoy getting off on their wife people naughty but one likes to also be abused verbally and ordered about"
This is where it gets confusing. The reverse of cuckolding, Cuckquean, from our experience doesn't involve humiliation. We've spoken to very few who consider themselves a cuckquean who even consider involving humiliation.
So what about Stag and Vixen?
We're cuckquean and Hot Husband, or at least that's what we've always thought were the labels we fell under, maybe that's where we are going wrong.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what's the difference between cuckolding and Hot Wifing?
Cuckolding is humiliation and a slight form of dominating the husband
Hotwifing is the wife able to have lovers/boyfriends or go out and fuck whoever without the humiliation.
Both enjoy getting off on their wife people naughty but one likes to also be abused verbally and ordered about
This is where it gets confusing. The reverse of cuckolding, Cuckquean, from our experience doesn't involve humiliation. We've spoken to very few who consider themselves a cuckquean who even consider involving humiliation.
So what about Stag and Vixen?
We're cuckquean and Hot Husband, or at least that's what we've always thought were the labels we fell under, maybe that's where we are going wrong. "
It is super confusing, once you really get into the nuts and bolts of it, all I know is we class ourselves and Hotwife couple so god knows beyond that  |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
S. Northants |
"So what's the difference between cuckolding and Hot Wifing?
Cuckolding is humiliation and a slight form of dominating the husband
Hotwifing is the wife able to have lovers/boyfriends or go out and fuck whoever without the humiliation.
Both enjoy getting off on their wife people naughty but one likes to also be abused verbally and ordered about
This is where it gets confusing. The reverse of cuckolding, Cuckquean, from our experience doesn't involve humiliation. We've spoken to very few who consider themselves a cuckquean who even consider involving humiliation.
So what about Stag and Vixen?
We're cuckquean and Hot Husband, or at least that's what we've always thought were the labels we fell under, maybe that's where we are going wrong.
It is super confusing, once you really get into the nuts and bolts of it, all I know is we class ourselves and Hotwife couple so god knows beyond that "
There are so many variations! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m curious as to how many couples start or end up at this point.
When we started playing with others I had zero interest in other Guys, I get what I need at home and so for my part it was more about me being with other women/watching him too that drew me to this.
This is definitely something that sort of creeps up on you.
I have always enjoyed watching J with other guy/guys.
Now , quite happy to stay and home while she meets ( safely) and have a facetime while she is meeting a guy, try it, you will love it.
Hubby on the other hand had a little interest in being with other women but really loved the idea of seeing/sharing me with other men.
Where we are right now is everything we wanted at the start but more and more we’re both drawn to more hotwifing. The anticipation whilst you’re getting ready for the date and the not knowing what’s happening for him while he waits at home and of course the reclaim when i get home.
Hot and bothered now, can’t remember what i wanted to ask "
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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago
Headington, Oxford |
Kind of where we ended up, hubby was all enthusiastic about the swinging scene when we started but when he realised that there were far fewer couples and single women available he lost interest whereas I took full advantage of my free pass. |
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Hubby has been in the fetish scene all his adult life and a kinky f£$%&r generally. I was a tomboy wallflower that had dreams of being glam but never had the confidence. When we met a few years ago he basically gave me the free reign to spread my wings, and with his knowledge and support I ran through the Hotwife door like a shot! Hotwifing is just one of our loves, but for me I will never go back to being that shy unconfident wallflower, and feel lucky I got to live out my dream |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
S. Northants |
"Hot wifing and also stag and vixen is definitely something that we are looking to explore more of. Just need to find the right guy to enjoy this with. "
What's the difference between hotwifing and stag & vixen? |
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We started this journey just looking for another fem for fun. Fast forward a few years, after experiencing different types of swinging fun, we now would say that we are more interested in the hotwife side of things.
If lockdown has taught us anything, it’s not to take our free time for granted and to make the most of it and be free to have whatever fun we want. Hotwifing is definitely going to be number 1 on our list of fun for 2021. |
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"Kind of where we ended up, hubby was all enthusiastic about the swinging scene when we started but when he realised that there were far fewer couples and single women available he lost interest whereas I took full advantage of my free pass."
Wow, _oubledong, beautiful sexy hot wife, looking gorgeous, x  |
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I guess we started to explore the whole mmf scenario in our minds before taking the first steps. I found that I get a huge turn on seeing Lily with other guys or her coming back after playing with a guy and telling and showing it all, sharing the experience. Then amazing reclaim Sex and planning the next adventure! She is such an amazing hotwife! Xxxx |
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"I’m curious as to how many couples start or end up at this point.
When we started playing with others I had zero interest in other Guys, I get what I need at home and so for my part it was more about me being with other women/watching him too that drew me to this.
Hubby on the other hand had a little interest in being with other women but really loved the idea of seeing/sharing me with other men.
Where we are right now is everything we wanted at the start but more and more we’re both drawn to more hotwifing. The anticipation whilst you’re getting ready for the date and the not knowing what’s happening for him while he waits at home and of course the reclaim when i get home.
Hot and bothered now, can’t remember what i wanted to ask "
We both love 4 way fun with another couple but so difficult getting that attraction and dynamic right, We have found hotwife so horny too and talking about what just happened during reclaim sex is just amazing. |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
S. Northants |
We've always been a Cuckquean couple, although I'd love to see ST with another guy. ST is the same as how you felt originally OP. She has no interest in going off with other guys on her own, or even involving other guys at first. Things change as time goes on. Who knows where we will end up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s sort of how we started me flirting tesse other guys but hubby always there joins in too
I have started to enjoy embrace the attention he he
But like to try more couples too - even another wife to go out to party with ! |
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