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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering how many couples meet apart. Do you state this on your profile? Do you have a separate account for solo meets? All feedback and chat welcome |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can meet on my own or we entertain ladies at home.
If I'm on my own I tend to go to clubs and use it as night out x"
With clubs closed for the foreseeable do you have plans for arranging meets in the meantime? |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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We meet as a couple, but Char is free to meet guys, girls or couples on her own should the occasion arise. I (Bry) don't play with other girls and some couples don't like that, so we have a guy that Char can call on to make up the numbers if they need everyone joining in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On one occasion I had a social with the husband first, and whilst out he called the wife for us to chat and arrange a meet, which we did and it was amazing btw. He obviously wanted to make sure I'm not a nutter and his wife would be safe with me, but happy for us to meet alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We play seperately as stated on our profile, were comfortable with it and open about everything.
Hi to Char and Bry on this thread!
I'd (N) like to be more active this way but ive found most couples need to meet you as a couple first.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We play seperately as stated on our profile, were comfortable with it and open about everything.
Hi to Char and Bry on this thread!
I'd (N) like to be more active this way but ive found most couples need to meet you as a couple first.. "
We could never find couples we both agreed on and always felt like somebody was "taking 1 for the team" so now we meet separately. |
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"We play seperately as stated on our profile, were comfortable with it and open about everything.
Hi to Char and Bry on this thread!
I'd (N) like to be more active this way but ive found most couples need to meet you as a couple first..
We could never find couples we both agreed on and always felt like somebody was "taking 1 for the team" so now we meet separately."
Hi there. We had the same issues when hubby and I had a couples profile. Finding 4 people that are all attracted to each other is a lot harder than you'd imagine, unless as you say someone takes "One for the team"... |
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"Just wondering how many couples meet apart. Do you state this on your profile? Do you have a separate account for solo meets? All feedback and chat welcome "
Yes we meet sseperatly and yes we have single profiles. Wife however will only meet people that we have met together as a couple previously though. Shes not comfterbal meeting a complete stranger on her own. |
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We've talked about meeting seperatly as we also can find it difficult finding suitable couples and also getting the time together to arrange meets. However we realise that it would probably be hard for hubby to get meets and that doesn't seem very fair on him if I'm out having fun when I want. It's a difficult one finding the balance x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We've talked about meeting seperatly as we also can find it difficult finding suitable couples and also getting the time together to arrange meets. However we realise that it would probably be hard for hubby to get meets and that doesn't seem very fair on him if I'm out having fun when I want. It's a difficult one finding the balance x"
Yeah this is an issue, men out number women heavily unfortunately. Need a way to fix this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've talked about meeting seperatly as we also can find it difficult finding suitable couples and also getting the time together to arrange meets. However we realise that it would probably be hard for hubby to get meets and that doesn't seem very fair on him if I'm out having fun when I want. It's a difficult one finding the balance x"
Same feeling here too.
We are looking for a cpl instead to swap husbands . |
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"We've talked about meeting seperatly as we also can find it difficult finding suitable couples and also getting the time together to arrange meets. However we realise that it would probably be hard for hubby to get meets and that doesn't seem very fair on him if I'm out having fun when I want. It's a difficult one finding the balance x
Same feeling here too.
We are looking for a cpl instead to swap husbands ."
We would love to find that as well. The couples we meet dont play separately from each other which is fine but would be nice to find a couple willing to do that occasionally. |
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We meet solo and together and fem has often met alone with a guy tht we've met as a couple. True to say that she has many mny more opportunities than I have. So not done the hot husband thing ever but plenty of time the hotwife. Just the way it is I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would love to find that as well. The couples we meet dont play separately from each other which is fine but would be nice to find a couple willing to do that occasionally."
Most of them cpls are happy to meet single guys but when it comes to meeting other cpls they insist on bifem play which we don't do.
Then there are a section of people who don't want to meet a cpl with male half as bi.
Even for social meets they are scared. Lol
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"Just wondering how many couples meet apart. Do you state this on your profile? Do you have a separate account for solo meets? All feedback and chat welcome "
We have a couples profile and each have a single profile. We will only meet a couples as a couple though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We meet people together but I would happily let Hotwife meet people alone, as long as I seen them first, her safety is priority, but I would love it "
She should get in touch with my hubby  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have my own account as well as couple's with my husband. On a couple's account we say that we meet separately as well as together. I felt the need for a separate account as I have some preferences that are different to those when meeting as a couple. |
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We have recently thought about playing separately. This is both because couples need all parties to fancy each other which can be tricky but also because of childcare issues.
We have recently added it on our profile but don't have separate accounts.
We agree that it can be much harder for "hot husbands" to arrange meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We was only getting interest from single males and after a few threesomes with them on our couples profile (randycouple89) we agreed I could have a singles profile as she has met the guys on her own before for fun. All I get tho are men wanting me ?? never been lucky enough to for a couple or women lol |
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"I can meet on my own or we entertain ladies at home.
If I'm on my own I tend to go to clubs and use it as night out x
With clubs closed for the foreseeable do you have plans for arranging meets in the meantime?"
Hiya no currently I'm not meeting until its safe sorry x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We was only getting interest from single males and after a few threesomes with them on our couples profile (randycouple89) we agreed I could have a singles profile as she has met the guys on her own before for fun. All I get tho are men wanting me ?? never been lucky enough to for a couple or women lol "
The dick profile pic probably doesn't help. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have found the exact same issue where the female will be inundated but male gets no attention for fear of he is doing it behind my back or other reasons unknown to us x"
This is a bad trend that needs to change. |
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"We have found the exact same issue where the female will be inundated but male gets no attention for fear of he is doing it behind my back or other reasons unknown to us x
This is a bad trend that needs to change."
As much as we have the same issue and as much as we agree, single female accounts are (in our area especially) not exactly the dominant number on fab, ergo they can pick and choose from a endless amount of men. If they dont want to meet married guys, nothing that can be done. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have found the exact same issue where the female will be inundated but male gets no attention for fear of he is doing it behind my back or other reasons unknown to us x
This is a bad trend that needs to change.
As much as we have the same issue and as much as we agree, single female accounts are (in our area especially) not exactly the dominant number on fab, ergo they can pick and choose from a endless amount of men. If they dont want to meet married guys, nothing that can be done. "
I know. London seems to be extremely male dominated. |
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Our perfect find would be to find a couple that we really click with and could have different scenarios between us all. Sometimes all together, sometimes just the ladies and sometimes the wives would swap for a solo meet with the other hubby for n evening or night. That would be a great situation. Very hard to find. |
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"Our perfect find would be to find a couple that we really click with and could have different scenarios between us all. Sometimes all together, sometimes just the ladies and sometimes the wives would swap for a solo meet with the other hubby for n evening or night. That would be a great situation. Very hard to find. "
This exactly |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
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"We play seperately as stated on our profile, were comfortable with it and open about everything.
Hi to Char and Bry on this thread!
I'd (N) like to be more active this way but ive found most couples need to meet you as a couple first..
We could never find couples we both agreed on and always felt like somebody was "taking 1 for the team" so now we meet separately.
Hi there. We had the same issues when hubby and I had a couples profile. Finding 4 people that are all attracted to each other is a lot harder than you'd imagine, unless as you say someone takes "One for the team"..."
I've always said four is the hardest number to swing with add an extra person and it changes the dynamics completely
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We prefer to meet as a couple, but it is sometimes difficult to find childcare or find a couple where there is mutual attraction. So she does meet with select guys alone (via our joint account). I also arrange solo meets alone via a single profile (clearly stating my attached status).
Why do I not use the joint profile? Well that profile seems to attract single guys (mostly) and couples, Whereby my male profile is better to approach single females.
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It's extremely difficult to get the right mix as others have said and we even tried to get a male for exclusive meets but to no avail.
I now have a separate profile and do meet as an extra for couples we know but new couples see this as me playing behind my partner's back, which I don't do.
It's such a complicated process that my partner has given up after 3 years of searching whereas we agree I can still look for that elusive couple to have exclusive meets with, which when the planets align has happened.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We prefer to meet as a couple, but it is sometimes difficult to find childcare or find a couple where there is mutual attraction. So she does meet with select guys alone (via our joint account). I also arrange solo meets alone via a single profile (clearly stating my attached status).
Why do I not use the joint profile? Well that profile seems to attract single guys (mostly) and couples, Whereby my male profile is better to approach single females.
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I know you have a single Male profile and she arranges meets using the couples profile. Does that mean she messages potential guys or does she just get offers to meet alone regardless. |
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We have recently put on our profile we are up for meeting separately. Sarah has had meets and nights away with a sexy female friend of ours, but we both want to experience being that 3rd person with another couple. It’s the trust and being able to tell each other afterwards we find very horny. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"This is my single male profile. I wanted to ensure there is full disclosure on there. Neither of us are going behind each others back. "
We really can’t be bothered with multiple profiles. If people are concerned about permission etc they don’t understand open relationships and are not for us.
We meet singles, couples and half couples through this profile without any issue. The main problem
We have is that fab guys just expect a fuck without any going out, flirting and seduction, it’s never going to happen, no matter how horny she feels, she’s not going to fuck some random bloke just because he’s horny. Women understand this but the guys here are like little children. |
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I know you have a single Male profile and she arranges meets using the couples profile. Does that mean she messages potential guys or does she just get offers to meet alone regardless."
She never proactively messages potential guys, but I would say that 90% of messages to our couple's profile are aimed for her. Most go straight into the bin, but the occasional one will take her fancy and for the reasons stated previously, she may meet the alone. That said she does enjoy a MFM (with me too) if circumstances allow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we have both gone on meets alone we find thinking what they doing as erotic as watching and the sex while telling all about what happened is amazballs  |
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I have been invited to take the hotwife out to some swing club events at Quest in Leeds whilst the hubby stayed at home.....
He got to hear all about his H/w's naughty antics when I dropped her home later.... As she was barely able to walk from all the fun.
I think the separate room play can heighten the fun as there's no need to keep checking in to see if your partner is being properly entertained! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just wondering how many couples meet apart. Do you state this on your profile? Do you have a separate account for solo meets? All feedback and chat welcome
The wife loves to meet separately "
Does she have a singles profile or do you share a couples profile. |
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