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Very hard or not so hard... depends on how you approach it.
Try and find a lady just for the purposes of pegging you, then get your wallet out and find a pro. Okay i'm being extreme but most ladies don't want to be some throw away item just for your sexual fantasy.
Seriously, want to get pegged then form a bond with that person, get to know the person via a relationship or friends with benefits or a club meet.. and bring up your interest once you've got to know each other a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not hard at all, there’s plenty of us out there.
However......as with most women who are dominant and really enjoy what we do, trust has to be built up first. It’s certainly not a wham bam pastime for us and anal sex is all about trust believe me. You want someone to know what they’re doing.
Good luck in your search OP.
Miss V |
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"We have ordered a strap on and it comes in a couple of days. Anything we should think about as it will be our first time?
Lube, and pull out gently!
Is that all we need to know!"
Depends how dominant you are!! When it hits his/your g spot enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very hard or not so hard... depends on how you approach it.
Try and find a lady just for the purposes of pegging you, then get your wallet out and find a pro. Okay i'm being extreme but most ladies don't want to be some throw away item just for your sexual fantasy.
Seriously, want to get pegged then form a bond with that person, get to know the person via a relationship or friends with benefits or a club meet.. and bring up your interest once you've got to know each other a bit."
 This!
I enjoy pegging but I'm not a fetish dispenser. Anyone who slides into my inbox with a list of their interests gets deleted. Got to get to know me first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very hard or not so hard... depends on how you approach it.
Try and find a lady just for the purposes of pegging you, then get your wallet out and find a pro. Okay i'm being extreme but most ladies don't want to be some throw away item just for your sexual fantasy.
Seriously, want to get pegged then form a bond with that person, get to know the person via a relationship or friends with benefits or a club meet.. and bring up your interest once you've got to know each other a bit.
This!
I enjoy pegging but I'm not a fetish dispenser. Anyone who slides into my inbox with a list of their interests gets deleted. Got to get to know me first."
The catch22... slide in and say hello and risk all, or play the long game and get swamped...  |
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By *ediMan
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Thanks, maybe I should keep it secret for a while like I have for 20 years. Then i told the wife, now she thinks I'm gay!
It’s not gay atall cause it’s a female with a strap on"
what if it a real feminine attractive female born with a penis  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tried it for the first time on a woman the other week..
I'm now hooked and would love to fuck a guy "
Mmmmm yes please add me to your “To do” pegging list  |
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I've been pegged quite a few times.
I have my own strap on with the 5 inch dildo allows room for a real good deep hard n fast banging so she can come too. Love to feel the ladys body pounding against my butt while gripping my hips.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have ordered a strap on and it comes in a couple of days. Anything we should think about as it will be our first time?"
be super relaxed and horny, make it about him doing what he likes the most whether that's playing with him ass or cock, going down on her or role play. Play with his ass and ease strap on in very slowly. First time you might not actually have the pegging you want his ass might not take it just take it slow. Once your in the groove you'll know exactly what to do and remember lube, lube and more lube x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How hard is it to find a woman who likes to dominate a guy with a strapon?????"
You could always try 'the real thing' as a suitable substitute... You may even like it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very hard or not so hard... depends on how you approach it.
Try and find a lady just for the purposes of pegging you, then get your wallet out and find a pro. Okay i'm being extreme but most ladies don't want to be some throw away item just for your sexual fantasy.
Seriously, want to get pegged then form a bond with that person, get to know the person via a relationship or friends with benefits or a club meet.. and bring up your interest once you've got to know each other a bit."
exactly this. I had a FWB for a few years and she loved pegging me and i loved her doing it BUT funnily enough it wasn't the first thing we did together. It only happened after months of intimacy/exploring each other and what we BOTH liked and enjoyed. Respect is a big thing both ways yes some women will peg you on a meet i expect but they are like the hens teeth and as mentioned elsewhere some women get nothing out of it but do it to please. its like asking a woman on a first meet to wank you off and giving nothing back in return...
we used a double ended strap on in the end as she said at least she had some pleasure too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it kind of entered our marriage eventually after years of plugs and vibe and dildo play..a natural progression so to speak..various harnesses and strapless peggers are being purchased to suit all moods on a fun kinky night.Sometimes she wants to feel very close so the internal strapless one suits better and other times she just wants to strap on a cock and just go for it as a power thing.. Good luck OP... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think all women should try it at least once  claim some of the dominance back  I have used a strap on on a man, and will again very soon I hope!! The thought of a man being totally Sub for me really floats my boat haha x |
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"We have ordered a strap on and it comes in a couple of days. Anything we should think about as it will be our first time?
Lube, and pull out gently!
Is that all we need to know!"
Don't go to big to start with. Maybe 5-6 inch to start. You can buy a harness so you can work up to bigger ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Crazy how when you attempt anal on a woman I have to be so delicate and gentle and go very very slow to start. Yet give her a strap on and she’s off like a Jackhammer |
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By *ecker30 OP Man
over a year ago
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After being on here for a few months I'm coming to the conclusion that there aren't any women out there that would enjoy fucking me with a strapon! Lol.
Any guys found any willing ladies out there? Just give me a wink ladies! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well you need to decide if you're just looking for someone to reenact some porn you've watched just to deliver your kink, or you're looking for something more than that.
If it's the former then good luck, you'll need it
We get these topics on a weekly basis and it's almost always a guy asking if someone's interested in pegging them. Do you really think someone's going to put their hand up and say "sure, I'll peg you"?
Obviously this approach isn't working. |
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Go looking for a woman purely to peg you and nothing else then you might find it easier to open your wallet and find someone who specialises in that kind of service and im sure you'd have a damn good time doing so too.
I'd think that for any woman to want to peg you it would take a connection between you both for a start and also not be purely about you being pegged either, there would likely need to be more to your liason than just that.
If it helps you to have some perspective OP, ive been pegged by women who probably didn't have this as one of the things they were looking to do but it developed into something they wanted to try over time and also because they wanted to do something for me too.
Who knows, what I can tell you is is that its brilliant fun and the switcheroo of it all is a great mindfuck at the same time.
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Have to add that as much as I love pegging every gender it gets bloody exhausting after the first half hour! I have a whole new respect for guys when us women are in the mood for a long session
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"Have to add that as much as I love pegging every gender it gets bloody exhausting after the first half hour! I have a whole new respect for guys when us women are in the mood for a long session
Miss V"
Get them to sit on you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have to add that as much as I love pegging every gender it gets bloody exhausting after the first half hour! I have a whole new respect for guys when us women are in the mood for a long session
Miss V
Get them to sit on you "
I always do after I’ve exhausted every other position. I like to experiment first! |
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"Have to add that as much as I love pegging every gender it gets bloody exhausting after the first half hour! I have a whole new respect for guys when us women are in the mood for a long session
Miss V
Get them to sit on you
I always do after I’ve exhausted every other position. I like to experiment first! "
Lucky peeps |
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By *erb51Man
over a year ago
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"Wanting any kind of kink needs attraction and connection... For me
I like it
Oh, you do?!!? Maybe you should tell me all about it!  "
Ha ha I've got to catch you out first you kinky fox lol xx |
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I remember seeing a girl in Bristol for a couple of months a few years back and she was getting pretty insistent about giving me a pegging. ‘What’s good for the Goose is good the Gander.’ she used to say..
..I wasn’t sure about it at all so I just put her off. Perhaps that was a little unsporting of me with hindsight. Then again perhaps it was a close escape. Still not sure which. |
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"Wanting any kind of kink needs attraction and connection... For me
I like it
Oh, you do?!!? Maybe you should tell me all about it!
Ha ha I've got to catch you out first you kinky fox lol xx"
Haha yes you do!  |
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"I like pegging a guy, but not to dominate him... For me it's no different to riding him or him fucking me... It's about pleasure, not power"
Agree! obvs some people have their own kinks of being dom or sub but for me it's all about pleasuring each other and turning each other on! |
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"Have to add that as much as I love pegging every gender it gets bloody exhausting after the first half hour! I have a whole new respect for guys when us women are in the mood for a long session
Miss V"
Message me and we can sort something out |
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"We have ordered a strap on and it comes in a couple of days. Anything we should think about as it will be our first time?"
Cleanliness (obviously) relax and get in the mood for it take it slowly use plenty of lube and keep comunicating with eachother.
Mr H. |
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"We have ordered a strap on and it comes in a couple of days. Anything we should think about as it will be our first time?
Lube, and pull out gently!
Is that all we need to know!"
Anal douche so I've heard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've recently started getting pegged by this absolute buity of a woman. I'd fantasised about it a lot prior and now she comes and pegs me regularly. It's one of my favourite kind of encounters. I also own my own strapon if theirs any lady's who fancy it |
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