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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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indulge my curiosity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"indulge my curiosity "
5-10 not anywhere near on a par with most women in here |
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Differs really before I updated my profile way too many lol now maybe 10-15 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"indulge my curiosity
5-10 not anywhere near on a par with most women in here "
Maybe due to your age range? all I can think of i think most have it open |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Differs really before I updated my profile way too many lol now maybe 10-15 "
Haha how come you get less now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"indulge my curiosity
5-10 not anywhere near on a par with most women in here
Maybe due to your age range? all I can think of i think most have it open"
Most likely because my profile is rather specific, I’m happy without an overflowing inbox |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"indulge my curiosity
5-10 not anywhere near on a par with most women in here
Maybe due to your age range? all I can think of i think most have it open
Most likely because my profile is rather specific, I’m happy without an overflowing inbox "
Yes that makes sense. From what I see most people aren't looking for a recurring thing |
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"Differs really before I updated my profile way too many lol now maybe 10-15
Haha how come you get less now?"
Stated what I want i guess lol |
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I am surprised you don’t get more your pics are fantastic x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am surprised you don’t get more your pics are fantastic x"
Me? Thank you! |
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"I am surprised you don’t get more your pics are fantastic x
Me? Thank you! "
You’re welcome xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am surprised you don’t get more your pics are fantastic x
Me? Thank you! "
I agree ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"indulge my curiosity "
ok with all my filters off from 50- 300 in a day
filters up and little activity 20 - 50
upload status or photo with filters on
50 - 200
average daily numbers. numbers are higher on Sunday or if i log on late at night.
women on page 1 or 2 of hot photos get 1000s a day
Doe that help your research? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People get messages on here? ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a single man so none most days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh god!!!never counted...but loads can't possibly answer to all of them. |
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"indulge my curiosity "
30-40 but only got one cock lol |
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"Alot. Had about 30 already."
I can see why wow very hot xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None, very rarely will I get one from someone I’ve never met. I’ll might get one from someone I already know. When I first joined, the only messages I got was from men, so I had to block them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe 1 a month if that lol |
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Not that many, we have filters in place, but it depends on the day and time really, update a status or upload a pic and we get loads more attention but not necessarily from who we're after. We definitely don't get inundated with messages though. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 5 to 10. X |
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Depends. If I'm only darting onto the site to pick up messages I'll get maybe 5-10 from people I chat to regularly.
If I'm on here for a stretch of time I'll get maybe 20-30.
If I upload a photo maybe 50.
The day I updated my status for the hotlist thing in the lounge I got over 100. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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5-10 normally but none at the moment due to us hiding our profile.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only replies if I’m lucky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really varies. Usually none, but quite often I’ll get into a conversation and then it will be loads, but all from the same person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0
I value the fact, that they dislike me, or someones told them to dislike me.... ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On average, 15-20. On a busy day, up to 50. |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
some none, 20+, funny that when i post vanilla stuff i get less ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never any
Unless I send messages and then I somtimes get a reply. Its always exciting to see a little yellow box.. But such a disappointment when it turns out to be a message about my subscription running out lol. |
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I value the fact, that they dislike me, or someones told them to dislike me.... "
awesome ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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"5 a week if I’m lucky!! "
if you're lucky... probably telling you to stop messaging ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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I’d estimate between 5 - 20. And around 3/4 of those messages are from people who haven’t read my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1 or 2 a week these days, think we must be slacking ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it weren’t for forums, none ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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Some days none, other days loads. Depends on pictures uploaded, or naughty status updates. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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847 yesterday. Don't know why it was so low. ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago
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Mmm varies day to day but between 1-10 more if I upload a photo. Nothing compared to women on here especially those in the hot pages |
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I normally get around 15-20 a week but some off them are from asian guys asking for advice and asking why do you have so many verification and they are struggling |
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"5 a week if I’m lucky!!
if you're lucky... probably telling you to stop messaging "
Well if you will message me every morning! I have told you before I’m not interested & doesn’t matter how many sexy photos you send me! ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Womens saying 5-20 a day.
I set up a female profile just to see what its like. In the first hour I got over 20 lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"indulge my curiosity "
Do you mean on average or when setting a personal best?
Oh it's none by the way ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Womens saying 5-20 a day.
I set up a female profile just to see what its like. In the first hour I got over 20 lol"
Yep when you set up a new female fab profile it’s absolutely overwhelming. |
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By *aseMan
over a year ago
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Maybe one a week, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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put it this way, im looking on getting a P.A to help. So any females up for the job feel free to contact me ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"5 a week if I’m lucky!!
if you're lucky... probably telling you to stop messaging
Well if you will message me every morning! I have told you before I’m not interested & doesn’t matter how many sexy photos you send me! "
cough cough... mistaken me for someone else with a different name ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"indulge my curiosity "
Approximately 1-200 weekdays double at weekends, 3-400 if I status and 500+ if I upload a photo which is why I avoid uploading photos now.
Message volume is irrelevant as important messages only get lost, It's the content that counts and the good ones are hard to find in the list.
Some women I know here even have 1000's per day, It's a losing battle Xx |
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Maybe 5-10, I block men. Women and couples don’t message as much.
I do have the occasional nice chat though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a lot ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get about 5ish a day but majority of the time it doesn't lead to anything as quite a few time wasters. Be nice to meet someone chat and meet as busting ATM |
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"Maybe 5-10, I block men. Women and couples don’t message as much.
I do have the occasional nice chat though. "
i never message a guy initially ... think most other women are similar attitude. its hard enough keeping up with the messages that get sent. i have to delete majority of them to cope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot but only maybe 5% get a reply as they’re cut and paste dick pic chancers ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"I get about 5ish a day but majority of the time it doesn't lead to anything as quite a few time wasters. Be nice to meet someone chat and meet as busting ATM "
there always a fleshtorch... i think most women don't want to be men's wank banks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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anywhere between 0 - 2000+, more if i upload something.
most usually the same 'fancy a fuck' BS.
sometimes there's a decent message, like a needle in a haystack
Px |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I post a new picture, it’s in the hundreds. If I’ve not posted a while, maybe around 20-30. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since we have placed filters in we probably get between 10-15 but before it was unmanageable with around 80 and after adding a pic we had 200 which is impossible to keep on top of ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 15, 20 a day, actually feel bad for women they must get bombarded! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lel!
If you take a month and average it out, I'm probably sitting at about 0.5/day. |
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1-2 on a god day not sure what I am doing wrong other than being male |
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And always happy to receive more and to have a chat, be it clean or dirty who cares |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had about 15 today |
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1 or 2 a month all from men trying their luck I guess. |
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If I post new photos, add a meet (prior to lockdown) or spend the day on the forums, anywhere between 5 - 25 messages.
I now have more filters up so some days non ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had 7 since joining up a couple of weeks ago. 6 were from men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before like 3-5 a day then I hid my profile and came back and now I get like 1 message every week or two weeks |
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Couple messages a month, no wonder I never get reply when couples get that many messages ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"indulge my curiosity
ok with all my filters off from 50- 300 in a day
filters up and little activity 20 - 50
upload status or photo with filters on
50 - 200
average daily numbers. numbers are higher on Sunday or if i log on late at night.
women on page 1 or 2 of hot photos get 1000s a day
Doe that help your research? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends how active I am on here. If I post pictures etc it can be a lot.
I currently have 810 unread messages so will need to do a bulk delete |
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Usually a couple, if forum-ing/post new pics around 5-10?
Most are just "hey" messages, somjust get instantly deleted. Some are just compliments. Only ones that get read seriously are ones that have obviously read our profile. |
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"5 a week if I’m lucky!!
if you're lucky... probably telling you to stop messaging
Well if you will message me every morning! I have told you before I’m not interested & doesn’t matter how many sexy photos you send me!
cough cough... mistaken me for someone else with a different name "
There you go again, you can’t keep away can you? ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not near as much as some .. but today 17 .. usually 7-8 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bear with me...will take a while to do the maths...
0.00001
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not many |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1/2 per day most days. Most people look and don’t email haha |
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"1 "
That’s what hiding in the shadows does to you ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm lucky maybe 1 a week |
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maybe 2-3, depends on how active i am on cam haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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8-10 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when not looking 30 to 40 ish when looking then 50...100...200 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple -we get approx 100+ a day. Most we had was when we put dogging on our status and had 783 in one day(per 24hrs) lots of single men lol - ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not many, but likely due to the current worldly situation.
Most of the time its like waiting for a bus - I'll get nothing for a little while, then it all comes along at once. lol
Its quite quiet right now though, understandably. |
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A couple a day. Maybe 30 if we upload a new picture. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
I rarely look at my messages. Not many 20 ish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm surprised if I get one that's not from a friend ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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By *aige675Woman
over a year ago
North of London |
It depends on whether I am on line or not. I get a lit more when I'm about but mainly from friends when I'm off line. It's great to get acrandom message me something interesting when I'm away. It means they came looking I guess and I'm more likely to respond to that then the bombardment of when I'm on line. |
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If your active in the forums and posting new photos is higher , 5-8 but normally 2-3 ... you need to be the golden goose for more than that it can be tough here ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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Hardly any at all,think I have two heads(on my shoulders) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quality not Quantity..
Nobody has said that yet ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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"Quality not Quantity..
Nobody has said that yet "
I was going to say but you stole the words
Quality not Quantity ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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Really depends how active we are. On a normal day 5 at most, if we post a pic or status maybe 20. If we're on cam it goes a bit crazy and can be over 50. I'm sure it fluctuates for everyone here. |
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Hardly any. Most days nothing but a few from time to time.
Recently started chatting with someone local and got loads. Sadly she went UNLOS at the weekend! |
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2 or 3 as an average when I have no status update or new photos. But I do have message filters and an age range applied.
This includes messages from a guy who sends one almost every other day but doesn't seem to be able to get beyond "how are you?" ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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From friends , 1 or 2 a day
From someone new , maybe 1 a week |
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With no filters and a new photo, maybe 5 (How's u etc). Otherwise 1 or 2 new ones a week (not counting ongoing convos). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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10-15, unless I've posted a new photo or have been very active on the forums, then it gets very busy. Tight filters help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1230 up to now today. But only because I posted new pic. Average is 300/400 unless online a long time then its double that. |
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That all depends on a few factors such as, status update weather online at the time or if we have posted for a meet.
It can be from 50 to 100 a day but if we post new pictures it always jumps to around 400 that day hence why if the profile is left untouched for the weekend we can be faced with over 600 to try and go through. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had about 15 messages of women on here since I started. Have at least one message a day from males asking to suck me off, why males contact me when it says I’m straight is beyond me. Always get excited when a message is in my inbox and then boom, it’s another guy!!!!
Once my site supporter pass has run out then I’m out of here, not enough happens round Cheshire. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe 3 a day for us ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe 3 a day for us "
I am surprised it is not more! |
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"That all depends on a few factors such as, status update weather online at the time or if we have posted for a meet.
It can be from 50 to 100 a day but if we post new pictures it always jumps to around 400 that day hence why if the profile is left untouched for the weekend we can be faced with over 600 to try and go through. " Today we have had 489 messages after posting new pictures and profile viewed 4368 times by 15:55 today. |
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Anywhere from about 20 to 200+ a day, it depends how active I am, if I've posted new pictures etc.
I rarely read any that aren't from friends or part of a forum thread, I prefer to do the hunting when I'm looking to meet and will message guys I like the look of. |
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"1
That’s what hiding in the shadows does to you "
I’m searching for the men....x |
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over a year ago
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"Maybe 3 a day for us
I am surprised it is not more!"
Nope we had loads at one point and depends if Mrs has uploaded a pic, we have a pretty tight age range and aren’t looking to meet single men which probably leaves us with a very small percentage of the site |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
KIDLINGTON |
The system.must have an error.. it says none! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *ittle LunaCouple
over a year ago
London (future visits not now) |
Luna made it to page 1 in the pics once and we had over 600 messages one day... mostly nonsense, but many nice compliments etc. Just impossible to find the time to do a polite reply which we prefer.
Typically - even with filtering if we post a pic there will be about 100 messages, 50% completely ignoring any details about age, location and little things like not wanting to be fistfucked in the arse, etc... We let it die down and try and go through them when we have time - that can take many days. Also I wish there was a way to save or tag messages better - or multiple hotlists (grouping by locations, interests, etc). We get a lot of nice enquiries from guys in places we'd like to visit but months late the message is lost in the somewhere in the chaos... |
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"Quality not Quantity..
Nobody has said that yet "
I neither have quality or quantity. |
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over a year ago
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Depends really if upload new pics or videos 100+
If not say bween 30-40 |
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By *eo_72Man
over a year ago
Mansfield |
Mostly zero 99% of the time unfortunately. ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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of if add 0 too 0 i get 0 ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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"I’ve had about 15 messages of women on here since I started. Have at least one message a day from males asking to suck me off, why males contact me when it says I’m straight is beyond me. Always get excited when a message is in my inbox and then boom, it’s another guy!!!!
Once my site supporter pass has run out then I’m out of here, not enough happens round Cheshire. "
there are filters to block different sex |
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A grand total of (Drum roll please) zero ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
On average, taking into account sessional variations and holiday fluctuations.... None ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
17 since this morning. |
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Very very few at all. Mostly from Friends. But then we are closed to single guys and also Mr Wet’s age is a factor. We do get a few more when we go on cam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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70-100 on an average day. Less if not online and more if photos are posted x |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
"indulge my curiosity "
I haven't done an exact count, but _ased on an average over the last six to twelve months, taking into account seasonal variation, forum posts, messages sent, etc, and allowing for a margin of error in my calculations, I'd say that per day I probably get an average of somewhere between zero and no messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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128000
or
0 ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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By *oungJayyMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Oh for me being a submissive male? I barely (and i really mean barely) Get 1 every 2 days.. I will be extremely lucky if anyone messages me first but mainly I message first, even then its barely 1 every 2 days |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"indulge my curiosity
I haven't done an exact count, but _ased on an average over the last six to twelve months, taking into account seasonal variation, forum posts, messages sent, etc, and allowing for a margin of error in my calculations, I'd say that per day I probably get an average of somewhere between zero and no messages."
Are you an accountant ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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"Oh for me being a submissive male? I barely (and i really mean barely) Get 1 every 2 days.. I will be extremely lucky if anyone messages me first but mainly I message first, even then its barely 1 every 2 days "
i swear everyone is fibbing on here ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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Zero, because I'm normal and not filthy in anyway, I'm polite and respectful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have 9 unread in my inbox just now, 3 came in today and my filters are currently on so only people ive chatted with before can message
when i remove that filter it maybe creeps up to 5-10 but my profile and filters are designed to keep it low, got no interest in having a part time job replying to cock pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends if I’ve sent any messages or been in the forums...I have a couple of friends I message on here but never really get any out of the blue... |
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with no updates at least 50...add pictures or a status update it'll be in the hundreds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple a month but only replies to ones I’ve sent , very rare I get any on here ?? |
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As a single guy not very many unless I’ve initiated a conversation. The times I get a message from a woman first are few and far between ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 to about 0 a day |
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For every 58 messages I send out, I get 1 back and its normally sent in error .
Im lucky to get about 4 a week and 3 of those are often from single guys that im not interested in ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we upload a new photo we get loads, but on a regular day 4 or 5 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get more action on pof or match than here that’s for sure ?? |
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By *rEfoxMan
over a year ago
edinburgh |
None at the moment. That’s down from none last week lol |
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Between 5-10 normally.
Also average about 30 views a day |
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5-15 usually.
More if we add a new picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No wonder nobody ever replies to me. It makes me feel a lot better knowing that females are getting hundreds of messages.
In answer to your question, I used to get dick pics once or twice a week but then I worked out how to stop men from messaging me. Last message I got was from a TV/TS telling me that I look like Frank Skinner. I don't think I've ever had a message from a female. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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10 or so.. if we add anything too the profile then maybe 40-50 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not enough. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero, nada, nothing, niente, zéro, zero but in chinese. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would rather say weekly then daily, then it might be 5 a week ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I discount those that were sent without having read my profile and are of no interest what so ever than zero on most days. |
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None, as a rule. Dick is abundant and low value. Heh. |
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It’s either everything or nothing fab is a fickle beast |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People get messages on here? "
She does if she takes her filter off ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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30-100. About 50 is typical. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"30-100. About 50 is typical."
I wonder, how many of those are just cock pictures? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1 if I'm lucky ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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2 maybe 3. If Becca puts up a new pic then it rises to around 6. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"30-100. About 50 is typical.
I wonder, how many of those are just cock pictures?"
More than I'd like...
Lol xx |
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I big fat 0 haha need to up my game ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By *mids LadMan
over a year ago
West Midlands |
I feel really lucky if I get 1 lol |
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By *attM73Man
over a year ago
Oldham |
"People get messages on here? " lol yeah i know what you mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most days 1 from someone we’ve been chatting to for a while and maybe 1 every other day from someone new. |
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