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What got first got you into swinging?
Ours was that we had a weekend away one time with a group of friends, we ended up back at our apartment with one of our male friends after I night out before everyone else. We continued drinking and things quickly escalated. The next day he told us about this site and we kind of took it from there. But that is a separate storey  |
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I (mr) had been on fab as a single guy, mrs said she was bi curious so I suggested we join fab and head to a club
Needless to say she loved the experience and we are loving the naughty fun world of swinging  |
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over a year ago
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Years ago, I knew a flirty older married lady through work. After drinks we ended up back at her place, just having a laugh. The lady became far more suggestive and flirty than normal. I thought the husband would be annoyed, but he just laughed.
We all got talking. Turned out they were swingers and she liked younger, hung men. Apparently she'd been eyeing my bulge for a while. Things progressed v rapidly from there.  |
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"I (mr) had been on fab as a single guy, mrs said she was bi curious so I suggested we join fab and head to a club
Needless to say she loved the experience and we are loving the naughty fun world of swinging "
Where you not nervous of what she might say when you recommended fab? |
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over a year ago
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Living in Ibiza for two years and working for manumission when the porn show was still going . Genuinely had my eyes opened to a different way of living . |
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over a year ago
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First taste was my girlfriend and I getting carried away on holiday whilst staying in the same room as friends. We could hear them playing and fumbling, which started us off. We all knew what was happening just feet from each other, but pretended not to notice. After we got home and back to normal it was still a go-to fantasy for us.
Years later my ex returned from a night out drinking with a female bi friend. Long story short, it became a ffm. That got us started fantasizing, and although we took it no further in that relationship it reaffirmed my desire to explore the lifestyle.
Then 12 years ago I found this site whilst doing "internet research" and shortly afterwards a very nice couple noticed I had perved at their profile quite a lot and suggested we meet. The rest is a very happy 12 year on and off hobby, meeting some great people and having some amazing experiences.
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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago
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Was Mr who said he'd like to try it, but it was Mrs who said she might know a "friend" who would be into it, haven't looked back since and can't wait for lockdown to be over to meet some sexy people again. |
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over a year ago
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Wife telling me what she got upto before we met so I knew I would like to see her enjoying herself and low and behold she had same feelings about me having fun |
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"Was Mr who said he'd like to try it, but it was Mrs who said she might know a "friend" who would be into it, haven't looked back since and can't wait for lockdown to be over to meet some sexy people again."
Interested in how you knew about this “friend” |
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"I (mr) had been on fab as a single guy, mrs said she was bi curious so I suggested we join fab and head to a club
Needless to say she loved the experience and we are loving the naughty fun world of swinging
Where you not nervous of what she might say when you recommended fab? "
No as I was honest from the start of our relationship, we started swinging from the start, started off just all about girl on girl to progressing to full swap
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"I (mr) had been on fab as a single guy, mrs said she was bi curious so I suggested we join fab and head to a club
Needless to say she loved the experience and we are loving the naughty fun world of swinging
Where you not nervous of what she might say when you recommended fab?
No as I was honest from the start of our relationship, we started swinging from the start, started off just all about girl on girl to progressing to full swap
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Me being ridiculously brave (or stupid?) at a young age and messaging a couple on one of those old phone line services. They met me in their van after my shift at a well known fast food outlet  and we drove out to a dogging spot. I was hooked to the lifestyle from then on and got to know them well.  |
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over a year ago
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Local couple were holding socials and swinging parties and they lived around the corner! So being a horny young 24 year old I went to investigate and the rest is history. |
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over a year ago
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I went to a local club night for hot wives.
Met an older couple and continued to have private meets with them until they left for sunnier climbs!
They put me onto the site to fill their place and I’ve never looked back! |
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The Mrs. When we first met we got on INCREDIBLY well and I knew I'd found my other half. Yet a couple of months later she suddenly dumped me out of the blue  . Undeterred I badgered her for the reason and she revealed she thought I was too straight laced for this kind of lifestyle that she was already into !. I gave her a ticking off, told her it had always been my fantasy, got straight back together and into swinging |
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Saw an ex GF give a guy a blow job without them knowing. Told her later what I'd seen and it turned me on. Had some of the best sex for weeks after that and tried out a club. The rest as they say.... |
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"Saw an ex GF give a guy a blow job without them knowing. Told her later what I'd seen and it turned me on. Had some of the best sex for weeks after that and tried out a club. The rest as they say...."
Would love to be caught giving a guy a bj |
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I was playing in a touring band and after a gig we’re invited back to a couples house for a party. We were all sat round the kitchen table when the lady of the couple started playing footsie and rubbing up each of us. The husband just looked on smiling ... things quickly escalated and I haven’t looked back since |
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I used to tease her during sex, asking her if she'd like another guy in bed with us, she'd always say yes and what she'd like him to do to her so I set it up without her knowing. The night went great and we have had many more nights of fun. |
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over a year ago
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Met a girl who was into kink, I always knew I wanted more from my sex life so when she took me to kink fet and then swing clubs I knew I’d found Elysium....I’ll never forget my first full swap with her and another couple |
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over a year ago
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I was working as a plumber. A lady in skimpy lingerie invited me in and asked if I'd brought my biggest tool. Then out of nowhere she dropped to her knees and started sucking my cock.
Wait... that was porn again, wasn't it? |
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It's something we had talked about together as fantasies and one day we were having a chat about how to make things more exciting and decided maybe we should actually give it a go.
Things have definitely got a whole lot more exciting
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The subject of her fucking another guy often came up ( normally when I’d had a few ) but she always said she couldn’t see it ever happening
But then a chance encounter on a camping trip when we lost our tent in a storm and was offered refuge for the night by the guy next to us in his camper van
Him seeing my wife lay there on his bed in just her thong and bra because as our clothes were soaked through must have triggered some naughty ideas as through the night he somehow managed to seduce my wife into doing what I’d been trying to suggest her to do for so long
And it changed our lives forever |
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"The subject of her fucking another guy often came up ( normally when I’d had a few ) but she always said she couldn’t see it ever happening
But then a chance encounter on a camping trip when we lost our tent in a storm and was offered refuge for the night by the guy next to us in his camper van
Him seeing my wife lay there on his bed in just her thong and bra because as our clothes were soaked through must have triggered some naughty ideas as through the night he somehow managed to seduce my wife into doing what I’d been trying to suggest her to do for so long
And it changed our lives forever "
Is that a porn film again lol |
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"The subject of her fucking another guy often came up ( normally when I’d had a few ) but she always said she couldn’t see it ever happening
But then a chance encounter on a camping trip when we lost our tent in a storm and was offered refuge for the night by the guy next to us in his camper van
Him seeing my wife lay there on his bed in just her thong and bra because as our clothes were soaked through must have triggered some naughty ideas as through the night he somehow managed to seduce my wife into doing what I’d been trying to suggest her to do for so long
And it changed our lives forever "
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Always knew and started young. Love being a giver and love how a partner can look after being so satisfied and going with their wants.
Swinging is so good to build up body confidence as well as mind - its a turn on to see this especially.
Swinging can be mans idea but a woman can end up the one in control. Same in the fetish world i think.
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"Always knew and started young. Love being a giver and love how a partner can look after being so satisfied and going with their wants.
Swinging is so good to build up body confidence as well as mind - its a turn on to see this especially.
Swinging can be mans idea but a woman can end up the one in control. Same in the fetish world i think.
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Going to a club is so relaxing and safe - like being at home. Love it. |
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"The subject of her fucking another guy often came up ( normally when I’d had a few ) but she always said she couldn’t see it ever happening
But then a chance encounter on a camping trip when we lost our tent in a storm and was offered refuge for the night by the guy next to us in his camper van
Him seeing my wife lay there on his bed in just her thong and bra because as our clothes were soaked through must have triggered some naughty ideas as through the night he somehow managed to seduce my wife into doing what I’d been trying to suggest her to do for so long
And it changed our lives forever
Is that a porn film again lol "
No , but it sure played out like one right in front of me |
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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago
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"Was Mr who said he'd like to try it, but it was Mrs who said she might know a "friend" who would be into it, haven't looked back since and can't wait for lockdown to be over to meet some sexy people again.
Interested in how you knew about this “friend” "
Was a previous FWB before we met. |
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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago
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"Saw an ex GF give a guy a blow job without them knowing. Told her later what I'd seen and it turned me on. Had some of the best sex for weeks after that and tried out a club. The rest as they say....
Would love to be caught giving a guy a bj "
Would love to "catch" the Mrs doing this, may have to follow her on one her dates and hope she sneaks somewhere public to do it  |
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"Saw an ex GF give a guy a blow job without them knowing. Told her later what I'd seen and it turned me on. Had some of the best sex for weeks after that and tried out a club. The rest as they say....
Would love to be caught giving a guy a bj
Would love to "catch" the Mrs doing this, may have to follow her on one her dates and hope she sneaks somewhere public to do it "
Set her up with someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swapping porn with a neighbour and realising how horny we both got reading and watching videos, eventually led to us inviting the same neighbour to join us for an evening of fun. |
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A bad breakup after a long term relationship followed by repeatedly striking out on dating apps and just missing physical contact all rolled in to one, leading me here  |
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When my OH and I first got together we spent the first few months asking eachother different questions and sineraos. The "would you ever have a threesome?" Question came up and things went from there. We racked our brains to find someone that would be interested in joining us but got let down twice. I happened to mention it to a friend of mine and she recommended Fab! Safe to say we spoke about things a lot more and have opened ourselves to a new world of fun! |
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A friends house party turned a bit sexy after a few drinks Spin the bottle type stuff. Afterwards we both realised how much it sparked our exhibitionist and voyeur side so we looked into swinger club visits |
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Back in the days before the internet I used phone chatlines, from which I occasionally got late-night or early hours meets with women all over the country - I was in Cambs and later Milton Keynes back then...
....one night, I got chatting to a woman in Leeds, who invited me to visit her the following evening - and it wasn't until it was all arranged that she mentioned she was married, and asked if it was OK if her husband watched!
That was new to me, and I was nervous, to say the least - but all went well, and the rest is, as they say, history! |
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over a year ago
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For us it started with sex in the car just after we met, noticing half way thru that we were being watched. From there we experimented and kept pushing boundaries discovering fantastic new sexual experiences.
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By *ettnfranCouple
over a year ago
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After watching a porn film with the then girlfriend now the wife the film was a mmf 3sum when it finished she said I've always wanted that so we would fantasize about it every so often until one day I said OK let's write an advert for a contact mag and left it in her hands to post it or not she did and we have never regretted it |
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Me and my wife started when we was talking about bucket lists and I mentioned that I always wanted a threesome but knew it wouldn't happen. She laughed and told me she used to date women. It built from there now we have an amazing open relationship. |
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By *ani87rMan
over a year ago
Boston |
"My girlfriend at the time suggested me and my mate fucked her..
We shared a bed
She groped him..to his surprise....
The rest is history ..
Would love to hear the full story "
Would love to fuck your girlfriend like your mate did it |
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over a year ago
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My ex wife used to escort for a few years and one of clients told her of clubs etc and we went from there.
I’m currently seeing someone else and she’s interested and loves hearing about the scene but isn’t confident enough as yet, but I’m hopeful she will be brave one day! |
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over a year ago
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Very naive at the time but got introduced to a couple that was on the scene already a while and the wife offered me to have her husband a night time to time only for myslef..an offer that I politely couldn't refuse..lol |
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"Very naive at the time but got introduced to a couple that was on the scene already a while and the wife offered me to have her husband a night time to time only for myslef..an offer that I politely couldn't refuse..lol "
I must add a younger couple (10 years then me)..few years have passed and we're still good friends! |
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over a year ago
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I really wanted to try fucking a woman, had a ffm tonstart loved it and the more I did the more I realised I would do and am still enjoying lushing sexual boundaries |
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Came out of us talking about our fantasies on a dirty weekend away in Brussels. Mrs floated the idea that her fantasy would be to fuck lots of different people and I said that was fine as long as I could watch!
We talked it through the rest of the night and it was super hot. Talked about maybe getting her escorts or the like, then a while later came around to the idea of trying swinging. Circled it for nearly a couple of years before getting the courage to go to an organised social, and that was when it really clicked for us! |
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I (Luke) was married to a woman with no interest in sex. She said I wouldn't get it from her so go and get it somewhere else, so I started going to clubs and then had a two swinging partners.
After my marriage broke up, I started talking to Hannah online. We were in different continents so we never expected to meet and I never made a secret of my sexual history. Then she ended up moving to the UK and was interested in a relationship that is not purely monogamous. So here we are. |
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over a year ago
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For us we used to just talk about things while we was having sex, various scenarios etc, found Fab, met a couple then broadened our chat to mrs with men and the rest is history! |
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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago
Princess Risborough |
My ex wife confessed to kissing another guy when she was out with her friends one night and she was really scared I would feel out. Instead I was rock hard and while fucking her told her she should have fucked him. Next time she went out she called me to ask if the guy giving her a lift back from the club could fuck her on the way back in his car. I said yes and she got home with no knickers on and it started from there. |
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"Ended up in a threesome with a close female friend after a night out clubbing.
...decided we liked it and wanted more"
. And this is also how our swinging journey began, hopefully we can find another woman outside of a club environment to play with...but they're called unicorns for a reason! |
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over a year ago
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My partner and I had fantasied about it for years. He’d always been sure this lifestyle would work for us, but I had reservations. But as years past I became more open to making the idea a reality.
So we joined fab at the start of the year, with myself taking the lead. It’s been a pretty amazing experience so far, although because of covid and distance we’re still pretty green. That’s fine though just means more to experience as the world opens up again. |
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"Saw an ex GF give a guy a blow job without them knowing. Told her later what I'd seen and it turned me on. Had some of the best sex for weeks after that and tried out a club. The rest as they say....
Would love to be caught giving a guy a bj "
And at that time neither of us were into, or really new what swinging was. it was a 12 month voyage of discovery. |
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"Saw an ex GF give a guy a blow job without them knowing. Told her later what I'd seen and it turned me on. Had some of the best sex for weeks after that and tried out a club. The rest as they say....
Would love to be caught giving a guy a bj
Would love to "catch" the Mrs doing this, may have to follow her on one her dates and hope she sneaks somewhere public to do it
Set her up with someone "
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We were on holiday with friends and the two girls organised a surprise visit to a clothing optional roof top bar as me and my friend had jokingly said they would never dare to go in somewhere like there.
When we got there, the other couple became quite uptight and didn’t join in but R really got into things, got right down to her thong and did a lot of flirting and dirty dancing with a few guys in their early twenties. Nothing happened as we were there with old friends but when we got back to our room she was very turned on and admitted that if it had just been us, she would have allowed their hands to wander a lot more and probably taken a few guys back with us.
Fucked like rabbits for months off the back of that near miss and slowly gravitated towards the lifestyle. She still hasn’t had her little gangbang with a few ripped, hung guys but fantasy still burns bright from that night and know she wants to make it happen when things settle down again. |
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By *oooner1Couple
over a year ago
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More years ago that I care to remember, we were in holiday in Egypt. I was I’ll one night and rather than being stuck in the room with me, suggested the wife should go downstairs where there was entertainment.
Woke up in the early hours, she wasn’t back so went down the lobby, obviously really worried. After a while she casually walked back in.
Long story short, turned out she’d had a bit too much to drink and had got talking to one of the guys in the band and ended up going back to his place and fucking him.
Obviously I was really annoyed, made here tell me exactly what had gone on and realised I was getting more and more turned on. Ended up fucking her to “reclaim” her
Spoke about it again in the morning and was really turned on again so suggested she repeat it that evening. Sadly the band weren’t there so that was it.
When we got home we discovered a swingers group on usenet (remember that?) and met a local guy and things went on from there. |
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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago
london |
Mine was strange, an old fwb messaged me out of the blue for a talk and basically told me her friend had taken her to a masquerade party where people were having sex and she loved it.. would I want to go to the next one. Sceptical but said yes.. turns out it was a bmfc event and definitely was not masquerade loool but decent night none the less. Join the next day  |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
When I was a teenager in the 70s I always had an interest in the alternative. getting hold of porn was a challenge then and I picked up a swinging magazine.
was fascinated and that interest stayed.
When i was 33 I got my own home with a girlfriend who was extremely jealous of everyone including friends and family. We broke up in the end. I started getting serious about meeting. made contact with a swinging couple and had the time of my life. |
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Lying in bed watching porn we talked about a threesome I wanted another girl Tina wanted another guy! We went to a swingers club and met another couple, had our first full swap that night, it was the horniest experience ever watching this guy fuck Tina while I fucked his wife |
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over a year ago
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A lady on here called chazza woke me up to the world of swinging she is who showed me all the nqughty as before I was very vanilla let’s say thanks to her opened up my bi side and my kinky side xx |
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Mine is a bit different. I was working in the Far East, and had a series of short relationships with rather attractive Singapore Airlines cabin crew. Seems my secret lover approach was common knowledge at work.
I was invited to an expat house party in a colleague's flat with all other staff (couples). After a few hours drinking beer in the kitchen, came out to the lounge to find a swing party in "full swing."
Got a BJ from a wife, thought this was fun and went from there! |
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"Lying in bed watching porn we talked about a threesome I wanted another girl Tina wanted another guy! We went to a swingers club and met another couple, had our first full swap that night, it was the horniest experience ever watching this guy fuck Tina while I fucked his wife"
Porn is where we first kind of knew we liked it, then when the opportunity came up with a friend we took it |
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"Lying in bed watching porn we talked about a threesome I wanted another girl Tina wanted another guy! We went to a swingers club and met another couple, had our first full swap that night, it was the horniest experience ever watching this guy fuck Tina while I fucked his wife
Porn is where we first kind of knew we liked it, then when the opportunity came up with a friend we took it "
the need to try new things is a powerful thing |
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