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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im curios as to what most women prefer to see in an opening message, do you prefer a more gentle, how's you're day etc. approach, or to get straight to the point, maybe its somewhere in-between?
I ask to try and improve my opening gambits haha |
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The most likely thing to grab our attention is a proper introduction. If you met somebody for the first time at a dinner party, you hopefully wouldn't start with "I'm really into watching couples" or "Would you like to watch me fuck your other half?" You would hopefully start off with "Hello. I'm..." You should do the equivalent here. A message starting with "Hello, Luke and Hannah. I'm..." is much more likely to attract our attention.
Secondly, the most important thing is: Have something to say! If you have decided to contact us, tell us why. Have you read something on the forum or our profile that made you want to contact us? Is there something that makes you think we are compatible?
We get "Hi" or "How are you?" or "What are you up to?" messages a fair amount. That's small talk. We have no desire to enter into small talk with a total stranger just because the sender is hoping for some action. If we have nothing of any substance to say to each other, we don't want to have that conversation.
It's clear from our profile we want to meet people we get on well with and develop a friendship with. Short generic messages don't give us any clue whether that you have any ability to hold a conversation.
If a message shows no thought or consideration for us then it goes in the bin. Don't expect us to lead the conversation. You contacted us (not you personally, OP) so at least attempt to give us a reason to want to chat or your message will join the many other boring ones in the bin. |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
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We've had some good messages which proves they've read our profile. The odd few who haven't, well delete unread unless they've attached a photo, then the reply is yes or no. Just be yourselves when replying, don't big yourself up |
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