Hello ppl.
Basically I joined the fabs not long ago.
Shortly after the break up...
I really want to add a bit of spice to my life. Never been on swingers party’s and all that...
but I’m trying to look for it... I have a lot to offer for females... I’m sure I would bring unforgettable feelings and memories....
BUT THE THING IS... I HAVE NO CLUE HOW AND WHERE I CAN FIND AND JOIN THIS KIND OF EVENTS... AND THE FACT IM SINGLE MAN IN MY 30s MAKES IT SO MUCH HARDER...
So I was wondering perhaps somebody could give me some advise or direction where to look for such a fun.
Thank you Fabers. |
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Depending on what fun you mean, it sounds like you need to look at swingers clubs (when they open up again properly of course). There are lots accessible from London. Do an interweb search and look at their web sites, see what people say about them on the forum, and pick one that looks right for you.
Be polite and respectful when you go. Be friendly and chatty. Leave people alone if that's what they want. Don't go with any assumptions of what will happen. Don't go with a sense entitlement. Just go and enjoy your time there.
When I (Luke) first started in this scene several years ago I went to clubs on my own and I met some lovely people and had a 100% hit rate, but I would still have enjoyed my time there even just with having the conversations I had even if I hadn't had sex there.
I think I was successful because I had the right attitude and approach. If you do that you should be just fine. |
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"Depending on what fun you mean, it sounds like you need to look at swingers clubs (when they open up again properly of course). There are lots accessible from London. Do an interweb search and look at their web sites, see what people say about them on the forum, and pick one that looks right for you.
Be polite and respectful when you go. Be friendly and chatty. Leave people alone if that's what they want. Don't go with any assumptions of what will happen. Don't go with a sense entitlement. Just go and enjoy your time there.
When I (Luke) first started in this scene several years ago I went to clubs on my own and I met some lovely people and had a 100% hit rate, but I would still have enjoyed my time there even just with having the conversations I had even if I hadn't had sex there.
I think I was successful because I had the right attitude and approach. If you do that you should be just fine. "
Definitely for a single guy swingers clubs, are the way to meet people.
So glad I started going, so many great people at the clubs. Fab is a pain in the arse, to meet people so definitely hit the clubs ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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