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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why are single men so disrespectful, and then moan when they get told no.
Our profile clearly states that we only play as a couple unless its on a 1 to 1 basis for the ladies - no men present.
Yet single guys are constantly asking C if she come play on her own.
I've even been referred to as 'he' today.......
Respect is the one thing above all else we value, if there's no respect, it isn't going to happen.
Do other couples have this problem?
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I wouldn't want to suggest all single guys are disrespectful but there are certainly a lot who are.
Do they say this to you in the first message? We haven't had anything exactly like that. Normally single guys just write vacuous, pointless messages that are of no interest to us. We don't bother replying so the conversation doesn't get as far as them saying they want to see Hannah without me. |
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By *oozleMan
over a year ago
high wycombe |
I’m a single guy, but not desperate or bombarding people with messages. It’s down to the person themselves and whether they respect the other people on the site. I would rather have a long conversation and get to know some lovely people, than send a short desperate message. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Why are single men so disrespectful, and then moan when they get told no.
Our profile clearly states that we only play as a couple unless its on a 1 to 1 basis for the ladies - no men present.
Yet single guys are constantly asking C if she come play on her own.
I've even been referred to as 'he' today.......
Respect is the one thing above all else we value, if there's no respect, it isn't going to happen.
Do other couples have this problem?
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If you are not going to meet them, does it matter? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
If you don't want to meet them, block them from messaging in the first place. This will eliminate any issues for you, unless you like the drama or attention for whatever reason. Fab has all the tools available to run your profile without any hassle. Filters are your best friends on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are single men so disrespectful, and then moan when they get told no.
Our profile clearly states that we only play as a couple unless its on a 1 to 1 basis for the ladies - no men present.
Yet single guys are constantly asking C if she come play on her own.
I've even been referred to as 'he' today.......
Respect is the one thing above all else we value, if there's no respect, it isn't going to happen.
Do other couples have this problem?
" it's arseholes like this that make it so difficult for the rest of us I'm afraid. |
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"Why are single men so disrespectful, and then moan when they get told no.
Our profile clearly states that we only play as a couple unless its on a 1 to 1 basis for the ladies - no men present.
Yet single guys are constantly asking C if she come play on her own.
I've even been referred to as 'he' today.......
Respect is the one thing above all else we value, if there's no respect, it isn't going to happen.
Do other couples have this problem?
"
Bit of a sweeping generalisation, though I’m aware there are many idiots, there are some normal people out there too ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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