So what does it for you?
Multitude of things probably.
Currently our profile states we are not meeting for obvious reasons. Tonight we received a message to ask why not? Surely it's safe now?
Other instant turn offs for me are messages in local threads about dogging or outdoor fun or gangbangs, just not for me.
Just made me think, what do you see that makes you go ugghh and block?
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Incoherent messages or text speak.
Men wearing women's underwear.
Anyone starting a message with 'how are you?' or similar
Any message that suggests they haven't read my profile.
Profiles with drug references
Profiles that have been written by illiterates
Any mention of anal sex/mummy & son roleplay in the message.
Plenty more....let me think |
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"Incoherent messages or text speak.
Men wearing women's underwear.
Anyone starting a message with 'how are you?' or similar
Any message that suggests they haven't read my profile.
Profiles with drug references
Profiles that have been written by illiterates
Any mention of anal sex/mummy & son roleplay in the message.
Plenty more....let me think"
Ooh, this is a good list 
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I rarely ever use block. I would be tempted to if someone’s attitude or specific message is rude or offensive. Mostly I simply delete it and pretend they don’t exist. I like being peaceful and being kind even if the situation is rude or unpleasant. I’m sure ladies and couples would get much more volume of messages, including rude/unpleasant or the persistent ones and would be better to block to avoid repeat. |
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"It says in our profile "random friend requests result in a block". If people don't read it and send one, guess what happens?  "
Yep that does it for us - anyone who sends a friend request we not met or spoken to in here gets instant block. Funnily enough that’s generally men.
Other one is “Hi babe you fit...“ it says at top of profile we are a couple, that means two people.
We tend to just ignore single men that send “hi how your evening?” And their profile has no pics or details, once we see we’ve had that message from them 3 times they get blocked.
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"Racsim
Nationalism
Xenophobia
Any form of hatred towards a group of people really.
Oh and trump supporters 
All of this  "
Isn’t the last one the opposite of the last but one on your list? So you need to block yourself? |
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"Racsim
Nationalism
Xenophobia
Any form of hatred towards a group of people really.
Oh and trump supporters
All of this
Isn’t the last one the opposite of the last but one on your list? So you need to block yourself? "
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"Racsim
Nationalism
Xenophobia
Any form of hatred towards a group of people really.
Oh and trump supporters
All of this
Isn’t the last one the opposite of the last but one on your list? So you need to block yourself? "
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I hardly ever use the block button, but I did recently for someone who over reacted after I asked her a question and another time after I read a profile, I then basically asked what she liked about black guys and she bit my head off and called me a racist |
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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Incoherent messages or text speak.
Men wearing women's underwear.
Anyone starting a message with 'how are you?' or similar
Any message that suggests they haven't read my profile.
Profiles with drug references
Profiles that have been written by illiterates
Any mention of anal sex/mummy & son roleplay in the message.
Plenty more....let me think"
Men wearing underwear ???? Comes far too often from Bisexuaul women on here ......case in point .....a lot of guys wear it better than most women ?? Live and Let Live too many Judgmetalists on here.....
I Block prople who call me Babe .....too many presume |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
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"So what does it for you?
Multitude of things probably.
Currently our profile states we are not meeting for obvious reasons. Tonight we received a message to ask why not? Surely it's safe now?
Other instant turn offs for me are messages in local threads about dogging or outdoor fun or gangbangs, just not for me.
Just made me think, what do you see that makes you go ugghh and block?
Jo x "
We block anyone that clearly hasn't read the profile e that doesn't meet the criteria. Any messages like the type you mention we would also block as they are insulting and I think some folk forget some ladies wish to be treated as such. Not like a piece of meat. We've had lovely messages but unfortunately a lot that havr been instantly blocked owing to the above. |
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Anyone who is racist, ageist and generally twats !
At the moment stupid people asking for meets; most of who have no intention of meeting they are just trying to get a reaction and it works .... Blocked ! |
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"So what does it for you?
Multitude of things probably.
Currently our profile states we are not meeting for obvious reasons. Tonight we received a message to ask why not? Surely it's safe now?
Other instant turn offs for me are messages in local threads about dogging or outdoor fun or gangbangs, just not for me.
Just made me think, what do you see that makes you go ugghh and block?
Jo x
We block anyone that clearly hasn't read the profile e that doesn't meet the criteria. Any messages like the type you mention we would also block as they are insulting and I think some folk forget some ladies wish to be treated as such. Not like a piece of meat. We've had lovely messages but unfortunately a lot that havr been instantly blocked owing to the above. "
And we are still chatting |
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I use the block option very rarely,but rudeness & men that want me to meet for cock fun despite my profile stating that I only want to meet women & couples & won't take no for an answer get blocked. |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
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"So what does it for you?
Multitude of things probably.
Currently our profile states we are not meeting for obvious reasons. Tonight we received a message to ask why not? Surely it's safe now?
Other instant turn offs for me are messages in local threads about dogging or outdoor fun or gangbangs, just not for me.
Just made me think, what do you see that makes you go ugghh and block?
Jo x
We block anyone that clearly hasn't read the profile e that doesn't meet the criteria. Any messages like the type you mention we would also block as they are insulting and I think some folk forget some ladies wish to be treated as such. Not like a piece of meat. We've had lovely messages but unfortunately a lot that havr been instantly blocked owing to the above.
And we are still chatting "
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Anyone who accidentally outs themselves as an MRA, PUA, incel or other flavour of manospherian. I'm seeing more and more of this, and I have to wonder why people who hate women so much are even on a site like this.
Aggressive conspiracy theorists.
Right-wingers.
People who think that "It's just my opinion" is a magic get-out-of-jail-free card for their abhorrent views. |
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