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Ok, it usually happens with a face pic that family, friends and work colleagues immediately recognize.
But there's two other ways it can happen which are less obvious-
1. No face pic but unusual bodily features like a tattoo, distinctive hairstyle etc.
2. 'Background' information. It's not the person that's recognized but something in the background. Could be the furniture, a bookshelf, wall hangings etc.
Any stories of being recognized by the stuff in the background rather than facial features? Or do you deliberately keep the background neutral?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im recognised quite a lot.
it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op  |
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"im recognised quite a lot.
it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "
Haha never seen you in the co op before |
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over a year ago
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"im recognised quite a lot.
it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "
Soz, your just well fit innit... |
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over a year ago
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I recognised the night security guard from my old place of employment in a profile pic once. Was a bit odd seeing a guy wanking in a place I had to work in every day... and I bet he never cleaned down after himself . I didn't really know the guy too well but wasn't keen to make myself known either so I blocked him lol |
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We have recognised a few from here, a few dads from school, 1 being my daughter’s best mates dad. I went to a work mates wedding, when I met her husband I instantly recognised her new hubby from here. Seen a few people from school, an woman in the local leisure centre and the local farm foods.
Once my cousin posted a pic on Facebook with this horrible t-shirt on, later that night he posted the same pic on here but with out his face. |
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"Ok, it usually happens with a face pic that family, friends and work colleagues immediately recognize.
But there's two other ways it can happen which are less obvious-
1. No face pic but unusual bodily features like a tattoo, distinctive hairstyle etc.
2. 'Background' information. It's not the person that's recognized but something in the background. Could be the furniture, a bookshelf, wall hangings etc.
Any stories of being recognized by the stuff in the background rather than facial features? Or do you deliberately keep the background neutral?
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Wow, fabs very own Morse! |
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"Ok, it usually happens with a face pic that family, friends and work colleagues immediately recognize.
But there's two other ways it can happen which are less obvious-
1. No face pic but unusual bodily features like a tattoo, distinctive hairstyle etc.
2. 'Background' information. It's not the person that's recognized but something in the background. Could be the furniture, a bookshelf, wall hangings etc.
Any stories of being recognized by the stuff in the background rather than facial features? Or do you deliberately keep the background neutral?
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I was chatting to this owd bird once and though she had blurred her face out in her photo her house in the background gave it away. She shit it when I asked her if she liked living in Buckingham palace? |
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Had someone know who I was at a greedy girl event once because he recognised my arse from my pics. Had loads of messages asking if I enjoyed shopping in certain shops too by people who have obviously (Correctly) assumed it’s me. |
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"Had someone know who I was at a greedy girl event once because he recognised my arse from my pics. Had loads of messages asking if I enjoyed shopping in certain shops too by people who have obviously (Correctly) assumed it’s me. "
I'll never understand why people (I'm assuming men) have to be so creepy about this kind of thing  |
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I have recognised a Lady I used to work with, incredible Artist and very very very very sexy - here with her new love who apparently makes her smile like no other and enjoys her enjoying herself with other guys before him. What should I do - I fancy her rotten, always have, always have wanted to become dishevelled together.. And more than once or twice... in fact as many times as I may be able to muster in scenarios erotic... Forum - what say you?  |
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I had a guy message me for a meet. He was around my age from the area where I live so I explained that I can't risk it incase he knows me or my mrs. Anyway he sent me a pic asking if I recognised him. It was only my "streight" brother in law |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been recognised once and so far it hasn’t worked out too badly.
I think it’s different for guys but to be honest I find it a turning on learning people nearby are just as naughty as us |
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By *aznlouCouple
over a year ago
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I’ve recognised a person off a single bloke profile but it was the fem (wasn’t a couple profile) think posted pics with ex gfs.
Recognised a few others my best friends fella who was playing away. He never liked me being around as he knew I was on fab as my best mate told him.
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"im recognised quite a lot.
it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "
I was rumbled in a Co Op by the female half of a couple from here once. She recognised my tattoo!! Lol xx
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"im recognised quite a lot.
it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "
I've never bumped into you at Mowden Coop worst luck (for me possibly not you). |
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over a year ago
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Not been recognised ourselves but recently had some messages from a single guy, he attached facepics and when we read the message it turned out to be D's ex brother in law. |
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"im recognised quite a lot.
it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "
This is why all our pics are in black and white as I (L) have very recognisable hair as you know well 
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I have been reckonised in my work by a few
I met up to keep the peace if were both on here .
Still chst to them now
Good mates with one aswell
Nobody else needs to know
Was spotted out in town someone came over to me in the street wen i was out with my mate
But just whispered in my ear thst it was on here
Chstted to a few who have seen me out in town
Aswell
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over a year ago
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I recognise a customer once. I’ll mention it to her after her husband left the room. That’s all wordsWas, Please do not say something he does not know. Poor fucker.
The blow job was Amazing
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over a year ago
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"im recognised quite a lot.
it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "
Haha indeed  |
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A MILF I've met escorts on the side and needs to be super discreet.
Here's how she does it- on the escort site, her photos are slightly blurred and not of her. Instead, she searches the Internet for people who look similar and uses their images. Once she's decided to go ahead with a booking, she then sends real photos of herself to the customer.
As another precaution, she sets her location to about 5 miles away from where she really lives.
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Was at a greedy girls gang bang at a club. Old neighbours daughter was there. We never acknowledged each other but she still sucked my cock and I fucked her from behind as she was deep throating another guy. |
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"im recognised quite a lot.
it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op
Haha never seen you in the co op before "
I just went co-op to buy custard donuts  |
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over a year ago
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I’ve been recognised twice. Both times because of my red hair and lips.
Both guys remembered me as “that hot Game girl”. Hard not to be the hot Game girl when you’re the only woman that works in that store!!
I’ve not worked there for years though, so I must have made a hell of an impression. |
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over a year ago
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We have seen a couple around town who we knew were on here as they had face pics.
We also recognised some other people we know outside fabs in the past few months (and they recognised us) but they kinda like us and we kinda like them so we're actually meeting for a social when we can.  |
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"I had a guy message me for a meet. He was around my age from the area where I live so I explained that I can't risk it incase he knows me or my mrs. Anyway he sent me a pic asking if I recognised him. It was only my "streight" brother in law"
. That’s the best one yet  |
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"I had a guy message me for a meet. He was around my age from the area where I live so I explained that I can't risk it incase he knows me or my mrs. Anyway he sent me a pic asking if I recognised him. It was only my "streight" brother in law. That’s the best one yet "
Bada bing |
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"im recognised quite a lot.
it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "
From now on, I’m shopping in every co-op in the north of England |
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over a year ago
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Yep I got recognised, this lead to someone telling the mother of my child who I was not with no more.
I've recognised a few ladies who are on one or two dating apps |
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"im recognised quite a lot.
it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "
That's terrible... which co-op?    |
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over a year ago
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Recognised two different ladies from on here. First at a wedding, second was working in a local restaurant.
Didn’t say anything at the time. Messaged both to say hi, met the lady from the restaurant had a great time. |
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"Had someone know who I was at a greedy girl event once because he recognised my arse from my pics. Had loads of messages asking if I enjoyed shopping in certain shops too by people who have obviously (Correctly) assumed it’s me.
I'll never understand why people (I'm assuming men) have to be so creepy about this kind of thing "
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"I had a guy message me for a meet. He was around my age from the area where I live so I explained that I can't risk it incase he knows me or my mrs. Anyway he sent me a pic asking if I recognised him. It was only my "streight" brother in law. That’s the best one yet 8
Bada bing "
I didn't send one back. I've fantasized about Him a few times but I don't think it's a good idea |
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over a year ago
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Seen one of me kids teachers getting noshed by his Mrs here once. I recognised her as she was the nurse who did my vasectomy even though his face was out of shot it was clearly them. Love parents evenings nowadays haha. |
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over a year ago
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Like everyone we are slightly fearful of this. K was recognised recently by an old friend who is on here now. We are largely banking on the logic that if someone sees you its because they are on here also so there is a mutual discretion |
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over a year ago
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Put it this way.. If you get recognise you got seen by someone else in The scene.. O is it really a biggy? Grow a set and say to yourself it's our life and we're getting pleasure causing no one harm.. Carry on living your best sex lives guys cause it you dont then that's when the shutters come down but going the swinging route saves hundreds of marriages a year I bet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive seen a few i recognised on fab from 2 females who i knew from where i lived, 2 guys who used to work at the same place and another guy who was friends of friends.
I only messaged one of the females and all cool, in fact ended up exchanging naughty pics and was going to meet but then she pregnant. |
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"Like everyone we are slightly fearful of this. K was recognised recently by an old friend who is on here now. We are largely banking on the logic that if someone sees you its because they are on here also so there is a mutual discretion "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know if anyone has recognised me,no one has told me. I've seen a hot wife couple just down the road & a man where I used to work,also I think a friend of a family member,I blocked them just in case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was recognised on here by a lad a few years ago.
He messaged on and guessed who I was(not sure how!) made me very nervous but at the same time slightly turned on. He said he lived just down the road from me. I had to block him
In the end, I had no idea who he was!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, it usually happens with a face pic that family, friends and work colleagues immediately recognize.
But there's two other ways it can happen which are less obvious-
1. No face pic but unusual bodily features like a tattoo, distinctive hairstyle etc.
2. 'Background' information. It's not the person that's recognized but something in the background. Could be the furniture, a bookshelf, wall hangings etc.
Any stories of being recognized by the stuff in the background rather than facial features? Or do you deliberately keep the background neutral?
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Just by my red lips...
Which I don't think is that unusual...
I don't have a ton of ppl roaming about in my home.
So the pic backdrops would never be recognised. |
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I’ve been recognised twice by strangers, but also see people I know off here for years out and about locally ..
Once was in chester, a lady smiled at me as if you say hi ..
We chatted and she said where do I know you from .. I had no idea .. then she went bright red and walked away .. then later on in the evening after a few cocktails she came back and explained.. we had a good giggle |
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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago
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Honestly how are people getting recognised? A lot o the people commenting don’t even have face pics. If people are genuinely recognising you from a pic of your torso or bum that’s mental hahah |
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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
from Home Counties to Middle Earth |
"I recognised a guy by his shirt and posture, at a business conference in London
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I have a keen eye for detail
That, and he had advertised for a meet in London that day at my hotel
.. and no, I didn't! |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
"I recognised a guy by his shirt and posture, at a business conference in London
I have a keen eye for detail
That, and he had advertised for a meet in London that day at my hotel
.. and no, I didn't!"
hahaha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've recognised a local woman, and been recognised myself before.
Was also recognised by one of the neighbours where I used to live a while back, that was an interesting conversation  |
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over a year ago
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My house cleaner is on here.... not sure she has ever looked at my profile - I’ve smiled and mentioned “what a fab job” to which she smiled...
also A couple ive met a few time’s walked straight past me at an Ed sheeran gig - 50k people and we cross paths and exchange big grins!!
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"Honestly how are people getting recognised? A lot o the people commenting don’t even have face pics. If people are genuinely recognising you from a pic of your torso or bum that’s mental hahah"
Because you’ve chatted to people and exchanged face pictures..
I know most of the people on here in my area . |
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In a very statistically unlikely coincidence was messaged by a lady on here with a view to play; chat had been great; she was 10 years younger than me. I grew up in the North and moved down here a few years ago. She sent her face pics and she looked the spitting image to the girl who sat next to me all the way through Science at school 20 years ago in rural Yorkshire. I messaged back, saying you look like a girl I went to school with. Turns out it was her, she’d lied about her age. But what were the chances of us both living in same area and messaging? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was on cam one night years ago and was caught out by a couple who turned out to be friends  they’re fine, we’re fine, no one died although it did give me a bit of a shitter when they first told me they knew me |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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A customer from work recognised me at a local cruising spot a year ago and I was fully dressed . I didn't recognise him. He told me he wouldn't say anything and as far as I know he didn't. |
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By *issMidsWoman
over a year ago
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I went dogging once and was spotted by my married neighbour. A few days later he came knocking at my door. Thankfully him abd his wife have moved away now.
I have also done a really important business meeting once in front of MPs. Left the meeting and had a message on fab saying great presentation.
Quite a few other experiences as well. |
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over a year ago
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I have bumped into a few locals I have recognised, through work and passing in the street. Always giggle but have never do anything at all. I find it very amusing |
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Most of my mates know im on here but none use it themselves. Ex school friend told me about the place and she isnt shy about it.
I did spot a close female friend on here with a veri from 3 weeks after her non swinging hubby kicked her out for having a year long affair. Good catholic girl whose friends have 0 idea she is on here or celebrated her 16 year relationship with her high school sweetheart with a swinging sesh at chams. It was a horrid time and im sure shed lose a lot of respect if people knew. I havent told her. I did wink at them and they viewed my profile but no sign they recognised me! |
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We have both been recognized at some point and have recognized others. Surprising how many meets we have where we have rubbed shoulders with the others at some point or another outside of fab.
Our take is, if you're on here, you're on here for the same reason we are. It's not an issue unless the other parties make it one. We leave people be. |
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I turned up to a patient a couple of years ago... while treating him he called his wife to say he had to go to hospital. She rushed home... when she walked in the door and saw me sat there she went bright red as we had met a year before... apparently he had no idea |
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"I have recognised a Lady I used to work with, incredible Artist and very very very very sexy - here with her new love who apparently makes her smile like no other and enjoys her enjoying herself with other guys before him. What should I do - I fancy her rotten, always have, always have wanted to become dishevelled together.. And more than once or twice... in fact as many times as I may be able to muster in scenarios erotic... Forum - what say you? "
I say go for it! Shes on here so you might as well try |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I (D) have been recognised a few times both on here and out and about. 1 from fab was a "friend of a friend" who became what I thought was a awsome friend. How wrong I was! Other than that it is what it is, if people are mature enough not to be a bellend by shouting heq/she is on fab swingers then happy days. |
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"Put it this way.. If you get recognise you got seen by someone else in The scene.. O is it really a biggy? Grow a set and say to yourself it's our life and we're getting pleasure causing no one harm.. Carry on living your best sex lives guys cause it you dont then that's when the shutters come down but going the swinging route saves hundreds of marriages a year I bet"
I know you irl but wouldnt mention it. |
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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago
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"Put it this way.. If you get recognise you got seen by someone else in The scene.. O is it really a biggy? Grow a set and say to yourself it's our life and we're getting pleasure causing no one harm.. Carry on living your best sex lives guys cause it you dont then that's when the shutters come down but going the swinging route saves hundreds of marriages a year I bet"
Yeah it’s not quite that simple, they may have nothing to lose by admitting to the lifestyle but we certainly couldn’t go public |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, it usually happens with a face pic that family, friends and work colleagues immediately recognize.
But there's two other ways it can happen which are less obvious-
1. No face pic but unusual bodily features like a tattoo, distinctive hairstyle etc.
2. 'Background' information. It's not the person that's recognized but something in the background. Could be the furniture, a bookshelf, wall hangings etc.
Any stories of being recognized by the stuff in the background rather than facial features? Or do you deliberately keep the background neutral?
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It wouldn't really bother me...at one time I had face pic up and all there must be a reason why they on here in a first place |
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I messaged a couple on here once who were 5 miles or so away.
From the reply I got back - it appears it was a guy I used to go to school with...
....anyway the afternoon was wonderful but a little awkward... But his wife is seriously hot... especially naked... lol |
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