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Why do so called straight guys, meet trannies

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You cant be straight and meet trannies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cos they’re gay

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

Curious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they're fab straight. Any hole is a goal.

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By *unloversCouple over a year ago

rotherham

"You cant be straight and meet trannies "

Why not??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because they're fab straight. Any hole is a goal."

Hahaha very true.

Should just say they are bi still lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You cant be straight and meet trannies

Why not??"

Because straight men like women only.

Bi both men and women and sometimes trans

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they're fab straight. Any hole is a goal."

^^^^^^ this and maybe a bit deluded as well.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple over a year ago

Falkirk

Oh dear

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By *affeine DuskMan over a year ago

Caerphilly

Yes, this definitely isn't the place to explore sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they're fab straight. Any hole is a goal.

Hahaha very true.

Should just say they are bi still lol"

But they won't as some women don't meet bi guys therefore they feel they wouldn't have a chance.

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By *issVeryWoman over a year ago

streatham

because ‘straight’ women having a cheeky kiss/experimenting with other women is applauded and even encouraged.

Men, sadly, not (yet).

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By *ed_AstrayCouple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Does it need a label? Can you not just enjoy sex?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

this topic seems so popular atm

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

Maybe they meet up for a coffee and a chinwag

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"because ‘straight’ women having a cheeky kiss/experimenting with other women is applauded and even encouraged.

Men, sadly, not (yet).

Very true. Think that's why gay guys have their own nights at clubs, but do get bi parties, mostly bi women.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Because they're fab straight. Any hole is a goal.

Hahaha very true.

Should just say they are bi still lol

But they won't as some women don't meet bi guys therefore they feel they wouldn't have a chance."

shame i would prefer bi sexual guy

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By *nliveneTV/TS over a year ago

Selby

There's nothing wrong on that, people meet with who they feel conected their own choice no matter if are straight bi pansexual whatever, if chemestry works why not?

I know there's a discussion arround why they state straight and not bi , but sometimes is just that the conection chemestry and adventure of the unknown or new. That don't make anyone less straight just because they cross the road to a new pub once or twice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's nothing wrong on that, people meet with who they feel conected their own choice no matter if are straight bi pansexual whatever, if chemestry works why not?

It certainly makes them curious on their way to possibly become bi.

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By *jl1972Man over a year ago

Bournemouth

Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

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By *affeine DuskMan over a year ago

Caerphilly

"There's nothing wrong on that, people meet with who they feel conected their own choice no matter if are straight bi pansexual whatever, if chemestry works why not?

Yep.

And some would consider it more of a lie to be straight their whole life, experiment once and then start calling themselves bi.

There is no blanket word for everyone. There never should be, either. Let 'em live.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple over a year ago

Falkirk

"There's nothing wrong on that, people meet with who they feel conected their own choice no matter if are straight bi pansexual whatever, if chemestry works why not?

Yep.

And some would consider it more of a lie to be straight their whole life, experiment once and then start calling themselves bi.

There is no blanket word for everyone. There never should be, either. Let 'em live.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There's nothing wrong on that, people meet with who they feel conected their own choice no matter if are straight bi pansexual whatever, if chemestry works why not?

Nice point. Just thought I would post up, see what everyone's opinion is. Nice to see peoples different views.

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

"Straight is what nature intended, to be paired man and woman, not man and man, or man and 'fuckin confused'"

How do you know what 'nature' intended?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your only using them for sex.

So if you like heels n stockings, blow jobs and a bit of willing anal....

who cares whose hole it is?

Doesn't matter what you label yourself, your just shagging a hole for some relief, not getting married.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My sexually fluid kid would tell you it's about the person not the gender.

Live and let live

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get."

I know its hard for us single guys on here because women get flooded with messages, just go to the club, so much easier to get to talk and play with people

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By *nliveneTV/TS over a year ago

Selby

"There's nothing wrong on that, people meet with who they feel conected their own choice no matter if are straight bi pansexual whatever, if chemestry works why not?

It certainly makes them curious on their way to possibly become bi."

Is just a possibility probably most wont become bi , is just a probability

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's nothing wrong on that, people meet with who they feel conected their own choice no matter if are straight bi pansexual whatever, if chemestry works why not?

It certainly makes them curious on their way to possibly become bi.

Is just a possibility probably most wont become bi , is just a probability

So they're curious

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Curious or bi

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By *irtySekretsCouple over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Trannie

Such an endearing term

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By *nliveneTV/TS over a year ago

Selby

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get."

Just your point of view i can assure you some they have womans on theirs side that probably you would dream every night to get a chance to just watch them without touching them , you would be very surprise trust me

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By *nliveneTV/TS over a year ago

Selby

"There's nothing wrong on that, people meet with who they feel conected their own choice no matter if are straight bi pansexual whatever, if chemestry works why not?

It certainly makes them curious on their way to possibly become bi.

Is just a possibility probably most wont become bi , is just a probability

So they're curious

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probably yes possibly not who knows ? Right ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's nothing wrong on that, people meet with who they feel conected their own choice no matter if are straight bi pansexual whatever, if chemestry works why not?

It certainly makes them curious on their way to possibly become bi.

Is just a possibility probably most wont become bi , is just a probability

So they're curious

probably yes possibly not who knows ? Right ?"

Left.

Straight guy doesn't cross the road once or twice.

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By *oldswarriorMan over a year ago

Falkirk

Single guy playing with a tranny would be a mechanic would it not

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By *londie8399Couple over a year ago

blackpool

So what happens if you bump into them at group social or clubs at the bar and socialise u can't have bi people as friends the mind boggles

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get."

Wowweeee the bigotry in this one is strong.

Firstly, if a guy can't get a woman to meet him then he is obviously doing something wrong.

Secondly and probably more poignant for this thread, if you think any TV/CD is a replacement for a woman then you need to go back and listen during your biology class.

That you think that any TV/CD would or should entertain this is laughable at best and downright disgusting at worst. Do you think that we are some desperate subspecies of human who will fawn at any guy, particularly those unable to manage to get a woman to meet them?

I for one and many others like me have standards ourselves and our own preferences and if you think I'm unable to meet those I like then you are sadly mistaken, I very much doubt you would be as capable as many of us 'trannies' at meeting the people we like.

Give your head a shake before posting something that offensive next time please.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"Straight is what nature intended, to be paired man and woman, not man and man, or man and 'fuckin confused'"

And you are worse....what the hell is wrong with people living their lives as they see fit and not to your deluded standards.

If it was as nature intended then study nature a little more, you will find plenty of instances where animals engage in same gender sex so nature is giving us all a damn big wake up call that same sex shenanigans is perfectly OK.

You do know that bigotry like this has no place anywhere in life and certainly not on a site as happily diverse as Fabswingers.

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By *unandlaughter69Couple over a year ago

Boston

"Does it need a label? Can you not just enjoy sex?"

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they like it . Why do we do anything sexually?

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By *irtySekretsCouple over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

What a narrow minded individual the Op is

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So what happens if you bump into them at group social or clubs at the bar and socialise u can't have bi people as friends the mind boggles"

I have talked to loads at clubs. Very nice just like 99.9% of people at the clubs. I was referring to the sexual side.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What a narrow minded individual the Op is

How I'm I narrow minded when, I just put up a status to get other peoples views on a subject and I havnt said anything wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Straight is what nature intended, to be paired man and woman, not man and man, or man and 'fuckin confused'

And you are worse....what the hell is wrong with people living their lives as they see fit and not to your deluded standards.

You do know that bigotry like this has no place anywhere in life and certainly not on a site as happily diverse as Fabswingers."

Don't rise to it.. obviously just trying to provoke a reaction..

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By *ackformore100Man over a year ago

Tin town

"You cant be straight and meet trannies "

Isn't "trannies" a little derogatory?

Now to the question... Unless its for a social its bi isn't it really? Not that it's a problem either way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Straight is what nature intended, to be paired man and woman, not man and man, or man and 'fuckin confused'"

2020 and there are still idiots like this... on a site for swingers

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You cant be straight and meet trannies

Isn't "trannies" a little derogatory?

Now to the question... Unless its for a social its bi isn't it really? Not that it's a problem either way. "

Ok transgender.

Definitely no problem at all. Everyone meet who they want, to meet. Just stating they are not straight.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"Straight is what nature intended, to be paired man and woman, not man and man, or man and 'fuckin confused'

And you are worse....what the hell is wrong with people living their lives as they see fit and not to your deluded standards.

You do know that bigotry like this has no place anywhere in life and certainly not on a site as happily diverse as Fabswingers.

Don't rise to it.. obviously just trying to provoke a reaction.."

Oh im not triggered by this, I understand clearly that not everyone is as open minded as the rest if us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Straight is what nature intended, to be paired man and woman, not man and man, or man and 'fuckin confused'

2020 and there are still idiots like this... on a site for swingers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

Wowweeee the bigotry in this one is strong.

Firstly, if a guy can't get a woman to meet him then he is obviously doing something wrong.

Secondly and probably more poignant for this thread, if you think any TV/CD is a replacement for a woman then you need to go back and listen during your biology class.

Give your head a shake before posting something that offensive next time please."

Well sed plus if that’s the case about desperate guys damm there must be a lot considering the fact I get close to 400-500 page view a day and well over 100 message in fact but the reasont threads about how meny page views you have open my eyes that I even out shine lot off woman on hear on page views

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they're fab straight. Any hole is a goal.

Hahaha very true.

Should just say they are bi still lol

But they won't as some women don't meet bi guys therefore they feel they wouldn't have a chance."

Lol message a woman one time and she hit me with this checked her verification and opps I had meet ever guy she had meet before her and one had even rollled out my bed in the morning and in to her bed at night didn’t have the hart to tell her but found it very funny to say the least

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *loria JamesTV/TS over a year ago

Durham

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get."

Ok Brad Pitt keep ya hair on.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"You cant be straight and meet trannies "

Maybe they want to find out whether men really do give better bj's than women?

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple over a year ago

hadleigh

Well, this thread has been useful in helping me block people...

Very sad to see such bigoted views spouted.

C (her)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get."

This!

. Some TVs are really convincing, too.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

"You cant be straight and meet trannies "

In your opinion. You're not even using a respectful term, so I'm 100%confident that you have not researched any credible literature's evidence. Case closed.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Single guy playing with a tranny would be a mechanic would it not

In America yes

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By *orello-pieWoman over a year ago

southwest

Lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

Ok Brad Pitt keep ya hair on."

Hahaha that made me spit out my tea laughing

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

What a champion of a self-blocker this ride was!

*Adds ‘freak of nature’ to profile header

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

"Straight is what nature intended, to be paired man and woman, not man and man, or man and 'fuckin confused'"

You're confused, it doesn't matter. That millions of people have varied sexuality seems perfectly natural, it's been a part of nature, possibly for hundreds of thousands of years at least, pre-empting the evolution of homo sapiens.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The reason why ‘straight’ guys meet ts or tv is because they’re attracted to them, simple. Why the fuck would you meet someone in a swinging site you’re not attracted to?

They just haven’t got the bollocks to admit to themselves or others that they’re bi or gay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You cant be straight and meet trannies

In your opinion. You're not even using a respectful term, so I'm 100%confident that you have not researched any credible literature's evidence. Case closed. "

How many straight men, you played with. 0. They are bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well, this thread has been useful in helping me block people...

Very sad to see such bigoted views spouted.

C (her)"

Good bye then

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By *ed_AstrayCouple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

OP why do you seem to have an obsession with labelling the individual's on here? You're in the wrong place if you want to judge people for what they enjoy sexually!

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By *unandlaughter69Couple over a year ago

Boston

Oh dear, now this is classic

'the more you try to explain, the deeper the hole gets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP why do you seem to have an obsession with labelling the individual's on here? You're in the wrong place if you want to judge people for what they enjoy sexually!"

I am not judging anyone. Everyone can do what every they like, I dont have a problem with anyone.

Was stating guys shouldnt lie about there sexuality. If you are straight or bi, be who you are.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Because they're fab straight. Any hole is a goal.

^^^^^^ this and maybe a bit deluded as well.

Yep this. Any hole will do. They would shag the pavement if it had a crack in it.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Because they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

I know its hard for us single guys on here because women get flooded with messages, just go to the club, so much easier to get to talk and play with people "

I have to disagree, based on my experiences, the last thing I would advise a single guy to do is visit a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

I know its hard for us single guys on here because women get flooded with messages, just go to the club, so much easier to get to talk and play with people

I have to disagree, based on my experiences, the last thing I would advise a single guy to do is visit a club

I have had no problem at all going to clubs by myself, have met so many nice people.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"The reason why ‘straight’ guys meet ts or tv is because they’re attracted to them, simple. Why the fuck would you meet someone in a swinging site you’re not attracted to?

They just haven’t got the bollocks to admit to themselves or others that they’re bi or gay.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

I know its hard for us single guys on here because women get flooded with messages, just go to the club, so much easier to get to talk and play with people

I have to disagree, based on my experiences, the last thing I would advise a single guy to do is visit a club

Never been to a club, but was thinking about going.. why do you say this?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"What a champion of a self-blocker this ride was!

*Adds ‘freak of nature’ to profile header "

Mine would have got a whole lot bigger if I didn't already have men blocked

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Because they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

I know its hard for us single guys on here because women get flooded with messages, just go to the club, so much easier to get to talk and play with people

I have to disagree, based on my experiences, the last thing I would advise a single guy to do is visit a club

Never been to a club, but was thinking about going.. why do you say this? "

No need to derail the thread, feel free to message me directly

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By *eacsMan over a year ago

nottingham

I've had several experiences with trans girls.....On my own..... and with fem partners! Electric experiences!!!!

I consider myself straight.....However I'm attracted to femininity and chemistry. Some of these girls are beautiful, sexy and naughty!!! I really don't care what you label me to be honest!

I do know that when I first joined the site and had that I was interested in tv/ts I was blasted and denied by some fems!

I even veried a trans girl after meeting her with a fem FB and was consequently ripped to shreds by some fems.....Is this right?

sadly, this meant that I have not advertised my proclivities.....Id rather be open however that does me NO favours.

In this day and age!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So why is it okay...if not encouraged, for girls to play together...but not guys.

It's no one's business but the people involved..end of

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've had several experiences with trans girls.....On my own..... and with fem partners! Electric experiences!!!!

I consider myself straight.....However I'm attracted to femininity and chemistry. Some of these girls are beautiful, sexy and naughty!!! I really don't care what you label me to be honest!

I do know that when I first joined the site and had that I was interested in tv/ts I was blasted and denied by some fems!

I even veried a trans girl after meeting her with a fem FB and was consequently ripped to shreds by some fems.....Is this right?

sadly, this meant that I have not advertised my proclivities.....Id rather be open however that does me NO favours.

In this day and age!!!"

It's sad the bi guys cant be open, but bi women get the most attention and the most praise, so it's ok for them to open about it.

Interesting to see peoples views, and I didnt realise loads of guys hide it.

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By *reatformeatWoman over a year ago

my own bubble

All guys are bi sexual in some way some more than other most will not admit to any urges they have though because it may upset there testosterone levels

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Cause they can

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By *nliveneTV/TS over a year ago

Selby

"OP why do you seem to have an obsession with labelling the individual's on here? You're in the wrong place if you want to judge people for what they enjoy sexually!"

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By *nliveneTV/TS over a year ago

Selby

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get."

I can assure you some they have woman that you would dream every night just to watching them in front of you because their beauty and body , personality whatever is your taste without you even touch them . You can take this my words as true words

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By *londie8399Couple over a year ago

blackpool

"Because they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

I know its hard for us single guys on here because women get flooded with messages, just go to the club, so much easier to get to talk and play with people thought

I have to disagree, based on my experiences, the last thing I would advise a single guy to do is visit a club

"
thought you enjoyed your club visits

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Research is needed.

I know in here of a few TV's that like BB

Not for me, but each to their own.

Look at their verifications, loads of " straight "

Then look at the man's profile and he's been with 7 " straight " couples

Who incidenly won't meet "bi" men.

Do your research

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

Wowweeee the bigotry in this one is strong.

Firstly, if a guy can't get a woman to meet him then he is obviously doing something wrong.

Secondly and probably more poignant for this thread, if you think any TV/CD is a replacement for a woman then you need to go back and listen during your biology class.

Give your head a shake before posting something that offensive next time please."

Well said!

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By *arry monk40Man over a year ago

Telford

Why do you care what others do

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"Because they're fab straight. Any hole is a goal.

^^^^^^ this and maybe a bit deluded as well.

Yep this. Any hole will do. They would shag the pavement if it had a crack in it.

Thankfully trans girls have standards as high as any biological woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most guys are at least curious

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Because they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

I know its hard for us single guys on here because women get flooded with messages, just go to the club, so much easier to get to talk and play with people thought

I have to disagree, based on my experiences, the last thing I would advise a single guy to do is visit a club

thought you enjoyed your club visits"

I’ve enjoyed some it’s true, but I’ve had far more negative experiences as a single guy in clubs, to be able to disagree with the OP’s statement “so much easier to get to talk and play with people”. Clubs are for couples

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Straight is what nature intended, to be paired man and woman, not man and man, or man and 'fuckin confused'

And you are worse....what the hell is wrong with people living their lives as they see fit and not to your deluded standards.

You do know that bigotry like this has no place anywhere in life and certainly not on a site as happily diverse as Fabswingers."

This

Also the other comment about trans people being a consolation prize was a mega over step too.

Hearts not parts is a mantra that everyone should be living by. Certainly not spouting ignorant comments of you don't agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You cant be straight and meet trannies

Isn't "trannies" a little derogatory?

Now to the question... Unless its for a social its bi isn't it really? Not that it's a problem either way.

Ok transgender.

Definitely no problem at all. Everyone meet who they want, to meet. Just stating they are not straight. "

Don’t you dare use the word “ trannies” around me.

That is a very offensive term !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s none of your business if they’re straight or not. People are allowed to experiment , being on fab may actually allow them to express themselves and seek a new adventure.

Another negative post

Tut tut

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"Because they're fab straight. Any hole is a goal.

^^^^^^ this and maybe a bit deluded as well.

Yep this. Any hole will do. They would shag the pavement if it had a crack in it.

Thankfully trans girls have standards as high as any biological woman."

It's not about standards, the biology is ultimately male.

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By *edheadjMan over a year ago

High Wycombe

For a site that's for swinging, there's an awful lot of narrow minded people on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's nothing wrong on that, people meet with who they feel conected their own choice no matter if are straight bi pansexual whatever, if chemestry works why not?

Nice point. Just thought I would post up, see what everyone's opinion is. Nice to see peoples different views. "

You could have just looked at previous threads instead. This topic comes up regularly and has done for years and frankly it's as boring as fuck. The people who post about this are either homophobic, jealous, because they'd like to try it themselves or both. Why does it matter how people label themselves? They're not forcing anyone to fuck them. Live and let live, do your own thing and don't worry about people you have no intention of ever meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

I know its hard for us single guys on here because women get flooded with messages, just go to the club, so much easier to get to talk and play with people thought

I have to disagree, based on my experiences, the last thing I would advise a single guy to do is visit a club

thought you enjoyed your club visits

You must of went to the clubs on the wrong nights. Because everytime I have been it's great. Clubs are for men, men couples everyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's nothing wrong on that, people meet with who they feel conected their own choice no matter if are straight bi pansexual whatever, if chemestry works why not?

Nice point. Just thought I would post up, see what everyone's opinion is. Nice to see peoples different views.

Yes

More of this need to be seen rather than people being negative

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS over a year ago

stockport

Quite often guys describe themselves as straight but are into tgirls.When asked why they don't show their interest on their profile they claim it puts cis women off.That to me is insulting as its though tgirls are something to be ashamed of.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Quite often guys describe themselves as straight but are into tgirls.When asked why they don't show their interest on their profile they claim it puts cis women off.That to me is insulting as its though tgirls are something to be ashamed of."

Yeah I have noticed, that seems to be the case.

It's ok for women to be bi but not men. Suppose that's why loads of men hide or still.

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By *ikemilfloverMan over a year ago

Birmingham

I love going on a date with a T/Girl, other guys eyes popping out it in the bar, helps build up the tension and makes for very good sex afterwards.

I’m not sure why people on this site are d as pests do quick to label others, it’s a sex site, that can be with whoever you want it to be with and as long as everyone enjoys themselves what’s the problem ?

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"Because they're fab straight. Any hole is a goal.

^^^^^^ this and maybe a bit deluded as well.

Yep this. Any hole will do. They would shag the pavement if it had a crack in it.

Thankfully trans girls have standards as high as any biological woman.

It's not about standards, the biology is ultimately male."

I was referring to the crass inference that trans women are not as discerning as women born biologically female.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get."

Really?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a guy meets a lady who used to be a guy is it straight or gay and who actually cares as long as it's 2 consenting adults.

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By *aulupforitMan over a year ago

Corbridge

If you lie about your sexuality,What else are you hiding etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you lie about your sexuality,What else are you hiding etc

Wedding ring?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

I always wonder why ‘straight’ guys start these threads or contribute negatively on them. Maybe they’ve checked out the ‘hot’ Tgirl pictures and are looking for validation if they stray to the gay.

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By *atietvsheffTV/TS over a year ago

Sheffield

Never had a message from a gay guy every wanting to meet Katie, a few so say bi on their profile but the vast majority of messages and requests to meet are from straight guys. They are usually on Fab cos they are not getting what they want at home, their wives won’t wear sexy lingerie, stockings, high heels, swallow or do anal, they love the feminine image and that’s what they are after. I’m sure many women on here have met up with these same guys for meets as their profile says straight, no idea how many women would meet the same guy if it said bi, my concern is really for those women in terms of them being misled where's as I’m under no illusions what the guy wants when he wants to meet katie. What I have found interesting is how many straight men have wanted me to wear their wives sexy undies, stockings or her tights and dresses or skirts and tops that they find sexy but their wives won’t wear regularly or not at all these days

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By *ed_AstrayCouple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

OP. You are listed as straight but your last Veri is from a Bi night? If labels bother you that much why would you attend a Bi night?

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Because they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

I know its hard for us single guys on here because women get flooded with messages, just go to the club, so much easier to get to talk and play with people thought

I have to disagree, based on my experiences, the last thing I would advise a single guy to do is visit a club

thought you enjoyed your club visits

You must of went to the clubs on the wrong nights. Because everytime I have been it's great. Clubs are for men, men couples everyone "

I would love to have your enthusiasm for the club scene for sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You cant be straight and meet trannies

Why not??

Because straight men like women only.

Bi both men and women and sometimes trans "

Why does it bother you enough to out them in a forum post OP?

Maybe question yourself first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always wonder why ‘straight’ guys start these threads or contribute negatively on them. Maybe they’ve checked out the ‘hot’ Tgirl pictures and are looking for validation if they stray to the gay.

This

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By *aastyKnixWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"OP why do you seem to have an obsession with labelling the individual's on here? You're in the wrong place if you want to judge people for what they enjoy sexually!

I am not judging anyone. Everyone can do what every they like, I dont have a problem with anyone.

Was stating guys shouldnt lie about there sexuality. If you are straight or bi, be who you are.

Err....stating what people should or shouldn't do and telling people that what they do is wrong IS judgemental.

What you have done there is wrong and you shouldn't do it.

(And yes, I am judging you for doing that).

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP. You are listed as straight but your last Veri is from a Bi night? If labels bother you that much why would you attend a Bi night?"

Loads of straight guys go to bi night also Couples where the female is bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

I know its hard for us single guys on here because women get flooded with messages, just go to the club, so much easier to get to talk and play with people thought

I have to disagree, based on my experiences, the last thing I would advise a single guy to do is visit a club

thought you enjoyed your club visits

You must of went to the clubs on the wrong nights. Because everytime I have been it's great. Clubs are for men, men couples everyone

I would love to have your enthusiasm for the club scene for sure

Clubs are definitely the best way to meet people mate. Maybe try clubf, dont think it's to far from you. (When they open back up)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You cant be straight and meet trannies

Why not??

Because straight men like women only.

Bi both men and women and sometimes trans

Why does it bother you enough to out them in a forum post OP?

Maybe question yourself first

I'm good thanks

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By *aulupforitMan over a year ago

Corbridge

"If you lie about your sexuality,What else are you hiding etc

Wedding ring?

Yes there is 3 types of rings

Engagement ring

Wedding Ring and the

Suffering

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Because they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

I know its hard for us single guys on here because women get flooded with messages, just go to the club, so much easier to get to talk and play with people thought

I have to disagree, based on my experiences, the last thing I would advise a single guy to do is visit a club

thought you enjoyed your club visits

You must of went to the clubs on the wrong nights. Because everytime I have been it's great. Clubs are for men, men couples everyone

I would love to have your enthusiasm for the club scene for sure

Clubs are definitely the best way to meet people mate. Maybe try clubf, dont think it's to far from you. (When they open back up)"

I am currently a member at Club f, and have been there 5 times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cause they know how to suck cock maybe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cos they Horny as Fuck...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cause they know how to suck cock maybe

"
Absolutely they do xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cos we sexy lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because men will shag most things with a hole!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cos we sexy lol"
Thats certainly true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's nothing wrong on that, people meet with who they feel conected their own choice no matter if are straight bi pansexual whatever, if chemestry works why not?

Yep.

And some would consider it more of a lie to be straight their whole life, experiment once and then start calling themselves bi.

There is no blanket word for everyone. There never should be, either. Let 'em live.

Complete agree. I have no idea why anyone should label or categorise themselves and be required to stick to that. I was straight when I walked into my first swinging club and came out bisexual. We get enough crap for identifying ourselves in the vanilla world but in swinging its perfectly acceptable to test the waters or try something out with a willing partner without screaming your new sexuality from the rooftops!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

I know its hard for us single guys on here because women get flooded with messages, just go to the club, so much easier to get to talk and play with people thought

I have to disagree, based on my experiences, the last thing I would advise a single guy to do is visit a club

thought you enjoyed your club visits

You must of went to the clubs on the wrong nights. Because everytime I have been it's great. Clubs are for men, men couples everyone

I would love to have your enthusiasm for the club scene for sure

Clubs are definitely the best way to meet people mate. Maybe try clubf, dont think it's to far from you. (When they open back up)

I am currently a member at Club f, and have been there 5 times

Well what you complaining for, it's great at clubf. Jist dont go on Saturday because its couples night

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By *ickDastardlyMan over a year ago

North East

"It’s none of your business if they’re straight or not. People are allowed to experiment , being on fab may actually allow them to express themselves and seek a new adventure.

Another negative post

Tut tut "

This is my view.

Personally I think we put far to much weight toward labels.

Nothing wrong if a man is sexually attracted trans women or cd or anyone else. If he considers himself straight, he considers himself straight.

Move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My experience of messages from straight men is that they are desparate. They have been rejected so many times by women here they are trying to convince themselves that anal with a man in a frock is the same as anal with a woman as long as you don't touch his cock.

Come on ladies, if it wasn't for us you would have even more men sending you dick picks, yet what thanks do we get...? No bloody thanks..!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My experience of messages from straight men is that they are desparate. They have been rejected so many times by women here they are trying to convince themselves that anal with a man in a frock is the same as anal with a woman as long as you don't touch his cock.

Come on ladies, if it wasn't for us you would have even more men sending you dick picks, yet what thanks do we get...? No bloody thanks..!

That's why I made the post see peoples different views. I clicked on ts profiles before, thinking they were a women, then looked at veris, alot of straight guys from in their veris, then realised they were a ts. Just thought why do they call themselves straight.

But now know alot of guys hide it, because most women and couples wont meet bi men.

Alot of people taken the post the wrong way, basically saying I'm trashing guys going with tv/ts. Which is definitely not the case. Everyone can go with anyone they like, good for them

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By *asualandFeistyCouple over a year ago

Uxbridge

"Yes, this definitely isn't the place to explore sexuality."

Nail on head.

I'm not entirely sure why people obsess over what others do. Each to their own I think. If I want labels, I'll go to a library.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I clicked on ts profiles before, thinking they were a women, then looked at veris, alot of straight guys from in their veris, then realised they were a ts. Just thought why do they call themselves straight."

So there is where it gets messy. I’m technically TS but that doesn’t make me any less a woman and if anyone dares to call me a “tranny” they’re in for a world of hurt.

If you don’t want to believe that trans women ARE women that’s you’re right to think what you like, I’m not going to fight you for it but to treat me as anything less than a woman or to imply that any male who does think of me as women can’t possibly be straight......well I feel for you, the world is changing and it will get awfully lonely if you can’t change with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So there is where it gets messy. I’m technically TS but that doesn’t make me any less a woman and if anyone dares to call me a “tranny” they’re in for a world of hurt.

I treat people the way I like to be treat. Everyone has different views. I speak to ts/tv, men and women in clubs, have great conversation and a laugh with all.

World is changing but everyone has different views on all subjects.

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By *voryforebonyMan over a year ago

boogie town

"You cant be straight and meet trannies "

Not this thread again?!

When's the bareback debate thread coming back???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You cant be straight and meet trannies

Not this thread again?!

When's the bareback debate thread coming back???"

That's tomorrow

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By *eoeclipseWoman over a year ago

glasgow

Is this not where labels become an issue as they cause division.

As for trannie being offensive, that I don't understand as to me it's just an abbreviation of the word transvestite/transgender.

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS over a year ago

horsham

"Is this not where labels become an issue as they cause division.

As for trannie being offensive, that I don't understand as to me it's just an abbreviation of the word transvestite/transgender. "

I still class myself as a Tranny .. though I spell it with a “ y” it feels less offensive that way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You cant be straight and meet trannies "

Cos the site is rammed with them lol

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By *av501TV/TS over a year ago

Mancetter?

"because ‘straight’ women having a cheeky kiss/experimenting with other women is applauded and even encouraged.

Men, sadly, not (yet).

???? to this and several posts below it. It is probably one of the best responses to this topic. I am Alpha male and have had some of the best sex during life so far with gorgeous women including my late wife......yet was curious then experimented and now love Bi fun. Im not big into anal sex with men, but like everything else in equal measure to sex with fems. The amount of interest I get from " straight " men or " the male half " is unbelievably high. I like lingerie wearing from waist down only and like the feel,look etc .... but its not compulsory, yet get frowned on Bi couples, and coulles with Bi women which astounds me. I get the crass one liners from desperate men husbands boyfriends, men who assume im a 'babe' 'sweetie' princess or 'sexy girlie' No!!!! F off, im not sissy gay nor camp, no discrimination intended, .... stop making assumptions ....I enjoy good clean safe respectful sex....End Of.

Far too many people on here, and in life, Judge Condem and Label others, and I feel sorry for them tucked away in their own labelled and bigoted lives.

FOR SALE: Soap box in good order, one careful, sexy, hot, loving life, Alpha Bi Guy.... LMAO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So there is where it gets messy. I’m technically TS but that doesn’t make me any less a woman and if anyone dares to call me a “tranny” they’re in for a world of hurt.

The world may be changing but it’s not going to last. Growing up in the 70s, cross dressing and homosexuality was not acceptable yet paedophillia was merely frowned upon but largely ignored.

There is a very vocal and very large group of society with some high profile names who see transgender as an excuse for men to have a perv in ladies toilets and that women and children need to be protected from them.

Without getting into a debate on the rights and wrongs of this, it is quite plausible that they are right in a small number of cases. If there are votes to be won by changing the law to protect society from these people then does anyone think the political parties would give the trans community any consideration or would they side with the majority of the votes?

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By *lana Honey-LingusTV/TS over a year ago

bolton

Wow what a thread!!!! Yes in the world there are loads of narrow minded ppl but come on this is a swinging site for sex and exploring yourself...

I can’t believe I even saw the word trannie!!! There’s plenty of names you can call us but that one is degrading!!

Got to finish on a nice note cause I’m a nice girl... so much love to everyone that enjoy the company of us special ladies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You cant be straight and meet trannies "

The level of unintentional bigotry on this thread is really quite astounding in these recent times of BLM because ‘All lives Matter’.

Sexuality is defined by words but we are have our own DNA within our umbrella term.

The simple answer is because “Skoliosexual” isn’t an option on fab but actually as a term its a whole heap closer to Straight than Bisexual, Gay, Pansexual etc.

I declare as Pansexual... as Charli with the right person I can be attracted to men, women, trans... in fact, human and I can find them all sexy as fuck.

Take off Charli... I am as straight as can be, I love women and can do a very good impression of an intelligent, sexy straight guy. I know there’s plenty of people who have been ‘balls deep’ in Charli who would be massively unattracted to my male form... whys that such a hard concept to grasp for so many people on here? Whys that a forum worthy issue? Why is it the slightest concern to a straight guy, straight woman etc?

It’s 2020 people....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow what a thread!!!! Yes in the world there are loads of narrow minded ppl but come on this is a swinging site for sex and exploring yourself...

I can’t believe I even saw the word trannie!!! There’s plenty of names you can call us but that one is degrading!!

Got to finish on a nice note cause I’m a nice girl... so much love to everyone that enjoy the company of us special ladies

Why do people insist on taking offence at certain words? Most of them are rarely used offensively but used because the user is unaware that the word is inappropriate.

If anyone wants to call me a trannie tranny or mention a cunt then feel free to PM me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do people insist on taking offence at certain words?"

Because for many of us it’s associated with, hatred, violence and worst. In the same was as you wouldn’t use a number of words to describe a black person. I would say within our community it’s uncomfortable when we ourselves use it when outsiders do so it’s actually quite offensive regardless of intentions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's about time that society got over this, THE MAJORITY of straight men enjoy us tgirls at some or various points in their lives for many many reasons, it's just social conditioning that creates shame around it.

50% of all men I go for say yes to me, both on here and in real life, the rest are either gay, shy, afraid, not into it or just not horny enough in that moment!

I only consider them bi or bicurious if they want to play with my cock but even then, it doesn't mean anything, it's not a commitment to a lifestyle just because you played with a dick once or twice in your life.

Women can be straight and play with other woman so it's high time that straight men were given equal rights here rather than continue the cycles of oppression!

GET OVER IT

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You cant be straight and meet trannies

The level of unintentional bigotry on this thread is really quite astounding in these recent times of BLM because ‘All lives Matter’.

Sexuality is defined by words but we are have our own DNA within our umbrella term.

The simple answer is because “Skoliosexual” isn’t an option on fab but actually as a term its a whole heap closer to Straight than Bisexual, Gay, Pansexual etc.

I declare as Pansexual... as Charli with the right person I can be attracted to men, women, trans... in fact, human and I can find them all sexy as fuck.

It’s 2020 people....

This.

Mrs if bi and is attracted to both men and women (also Trans women) Mr is attracted to some Trans women but considers himself straight as he isn't attracted to men or all trans people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's about time that society got over this, THE MAJORITY of straight men enjoy us tgirls at some or various points in their lives for many many reasons, it's just social conditioning that creates shame around it.

50% of all men I go for say yes to me, both on here and in real life, the rest are either gay, shy, afraid, not into it or just not horny enough in that moment!

Women can be straight and play with other woman so it's high time that straight men were given equal rights here rather than continue the cycles of oppression!

GET OVER IT"

If you’re male and the person you’re playing with has got a cock, you’re not straight. It’s a pretty simple concept.

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By *ed_AstrayCouple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

50% of all men I go for say yes to me, both on here and in real life, the rest are either gay, shy, afraid, not into it or just not horny enough in that moment!

Women can be straight and play with other woman so it's high time that straight men were given equal rights here rather than continue the cycles of oppression!

GET OVER IT

If you’re male and the person you’re playing with has got a cock, you’re not straight. It’s a pretty simple concept. "

Why do is it need the label Straight though. Same goes for Bi and Gay? Why cant you just be who you are without having to label it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

50% of all men I go for say yes to me, both on here and in real life, the rest are either gay, shy, afraid, not into it or just not horny enough in that moment!

Women can be straight and play with other woman so it's high time that straight men were given equal rights here rather than continue the cycles of oppression!

GET OVER IT

If you’re male and the person you’re playing with has got a cock, you’re not straight. It’s a pretty simple concept.

Why do is it need the label Straight though. Same goes for Bi and Gay? Why cant you just be who you are without having to label it?"

Everything needs to be labelled in 2020 Woke Life

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By *ed_AstrayCouple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

50% of all men I go for say yes to me, both on here and in real life, the rest are either gay, shy, afraid, not into it or just not horny enough in that moment!

Women can be straight and play with other woman so it's high time that straight men were given equal rights here rather than continue the cycles of oppression!

GET OVER IT

If you’re male and the person you’re playing with has got a cock, you’re not straight. It’s a pretty simple concept.

Why do is it need the label Straight though. Same goes for Bi and Gay? Why cant you just be who you are without having to label it?

Everything needs to be labelled in 2020 Woke Life "

Well done for just contributing to the problem then!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

50% of all men I go for say yes to me, both on here and in real life, the rest are either gay, shy, afraid, not into it or just not horny enough in that moment!

Women can be straight and play with other woman so it's high time that straight men were given equal rights here rather than continue the cycles of oppression!

GET OVER IT

If you’re male and the person you’re playing with has got a cock, you’re not straight. It’s a pretty simple concept. "

Let me ask you if every blowjob you've ever had has been with someone you were atrracted to? Sex isn't always about attraction but sexuality is. I think that's the simple concept here! Kink!

This topic is not black or white and is way too multi layered to really expose the sensitvity and nuonces required for such a debate

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By *otsossieMan over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Why do is it need the label Straight though. Same goes for Bi and Gay? Why cant you just be who you are without having to label it?"

I guess it makes it easier to find people with similar interests. We’re a tribal species.

But “it’s 2020” there are so many different niche definitions of things nowadays that it’s all become pretty meaningless.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

50% of all men I go for say yes to me, both on here and in real life, the rest are either gay, shy, afraid, not into it or just not horny enough in that moment!

Women can be straight and play with other woman so it's high time that straight men were given equal rights here rather than continue the cycles of oppression!

GET OVER IT

If you’re male and the person you’re playing with has got a cock, you’re not straight. It’s a pretty simple concept.

Let me ask you if every blowjob you've ever had has been with someone you were atrracted to? Sex isn't always about attraction but sexuality is. I think that's the simple concept here! Kink!

This topic is not black or white and is way too multi layered to really expose the sensitvity and nuonces required for such a debate "

Yes every BJ I’ve had has been from someone I’ve been attracted to. For one reasons: If I wasn’t attracted to them we wouldn’t be having oral sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

50% of all men I go for say yes to me, both on here and in real life, the rest are either gay, shy, afraid, not into it or just not horny enough in that moment!

Women can be straight and play with other woman so it's high time that straight men were given equal rights here rather than continue the cycles of oppression!

GET OVER IT

If you’re male and the person you’re playing with has got a cock, you’re not straight. It’s a pretty simple concept.

Why do is it need the label Straight though. Same goes for Bi and Gay? Why cant you just be who you are without having to label it?

Everything needs to be labelled in 2020 Woke Life "

Skoliosexual - a man attracted to women and trans. End of story... move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

50% of all men I go for say yes to me, both on here and in real life, the rest are either gay, shy, afraid, not into it or just not horny enough in that moment!

Women can be straight and play with other woman so it's high time that straight men were given equal rights here rather than continue the cycles of oppression!

GET OVER IT

If you’re male and the person you’re playing with has got a cock, you’re not straight. It’s a pretty simple concept.

Why do is it need the label Straight though. Same goes for Bi and Gay? Why cant you just be who you are without having to label it?

Everything needs to be labelled in 2020 Woke Life

Well done for just contributing to the problem then! "

I was being sarcastic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My feeling is those that need so very desperately to define a person's sexuality by the experiences they've had and hold on to labels so tightly are either very inexperienced or carry deep seated sexual shame projecting the pointed finger at others. Sex is about liberation, free yourself x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely if someone is curious and wants to experience something that is what this site is about ?

I am straight and it doesn't appeal to me but I can relate in a different way. I have messages and invites to meet women who categorically state " Caucasian only " . When I state that I am clearly mixed race/ non white..they dont seem to care

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By *atex and KinkCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Trannie

Such an endearing term

Agreed.

Such a crass 70s definition spouted by the narrow minded Alf Garnetts of the world!!!

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By *ensual massagerMan over a year ago

Bolton

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

Wowweeee the bigotry in this one is strong.

Firstly, if a guy can't get a woman to meet him then he is obviously doing something wrong.

Secondly and probably more poignant for this thread, if you think any TV/CD is a replacement for a woman then you need to go back and listen during your biology class.

Give your head a shake before posting something that offensive next time please."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

50% of all men I go for say yes to me, both on here and in real life, the rest are either gay, shy, afraid, not into it or just not horny enough in that moment!

Women can be straight and play with other woman so it's high time that straight men were given equal rights here rather than continue the cycles of oppression!

GET OVER IT

If you’re male and the person you’re playing with has got a cock, you’re not straight. It’s a pretty simple concept.

Why do is it need the label Straight though. Same goes for Bi and Gay? Why cant you just be who you are without having to label it?

Everything needs to be labelled in 2020 Woke Life

Skoliosexual - a man attracted to women and trans. End of story... move on"

Another label lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

50% of all men I go for say yes to me, both on here and in real life, the rest are either gay, shy, afraid, not into it or just not horny enough in that moment!

Women can be straight and play with other woman so it's high time that straight men were given equal rights here rather than continue the cycles of oppression!

GET OVER IT

If you’re male and the person you’re playing with has got a cock, you’re not straight. It’s a pretty simple concept.

Why do is it need the label Straight though. Same goes for Bi and Gay? Why cant you just be who you are without having to label it?

Everything needs to be labelled in 2020 Woke Life

Skoliosexual - a man attracted to women and trans. End of story... move on

Another label lol"

Exactly and doesn't this just show how rediculous it all gets? Skoliosexual will never catch on as a sexual identity although I believe that majority of men are in fact this by nature.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

Wowweeee the bigotry in this one is strong.

Firstly, if a guy can't get a woman to meet him then he is obviously doing something wrong.

Secondly and probably more poignant for this thread, if you think any TV/CD is a replacement for a woman then you need to go back and listen during your biology class.

Give your head a shake before posting something that offensive next time please.

Well said "

Yes well said sister!

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By *exy4youxxWoman over a year ago

Pontefract

"I've had several experiences with trans girls.....On my own..... and with fem partners! Electric experiences!!!!

I consider myself straight.....However I'm attracted to femininity and chemistry. Some of these girls are beautiful, sexy and naughty!!! I really don't care what you label me to be honest!

I do know that when I first joined the site and had that I was interested in tv/ts I was blasted and denied by some fems!

I even veried a trans girl after meeting her with a fem FB and was consequently ripped to shreds by some fems.....Is this right?

sadly, this meant that I have not advertised my proclivities.....Id rather be open however that does me NO favours.

In this day and age!!!

It's sad the bi guys cant be open, but bi women get the most attention and the most praise, so it's ok for them to open about it.

Interesting to see peoples views, and I didnt realise loads of guys hide it. "

I didn't realise lots of men did either its really making me think twice on this place I rather men are truthful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had several experiences with trans girls.....On my own..... and with fem partners! Electric experiences!!!!

I consider myself straight.....However I'm attracted to femininity and chemistry. Some of these girls are beautiful, sexy and naughty!!! I really don't care what you label me to be honest!

I do know that when I first joined the site and had that I was interested in tv/ts I was blasted and denied by some fems!

I even veried a trans girl after meeting her with a fem FB and was consequently ripped to shreds by some fems.....Is this right?

sadly, this meant that I have not advertised my proclivities.....Id rather be open however that does me NO favours.

In this day and age!!!

It's sad the bi guys cant be open, but bi women get the most attention and the most praise, so it's ok for them to open about it.

Interesting to see peoples views, and I didnt realise loads of guys hide it.

I didn't realise lots of men did either its really making me think twice on this place I rather men are truthful"

Just go back through their verifications, and if they're hidden... avoid em

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By *exy4youxxWoman over a year ago

Pontefract

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get.

Wowweeee the bigotry in this one is strong.

Firstly, if a guy can't get a woman to meet him then he is obviously doing something wrong.

Secondly and probably more poignant for this thread, if you think any TV/CD is a replacement for a woman then you need to go back and listen during your biology class.

Give your head a shake before posting something that offensive next time please.

Well said

Yes well said sister! "

I don't think the person who said

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get." Was having a go at you guys more at the men who hide the fact they would play with a man bc they can't get a meet and are hiding the fact they would because it would narrow down meets even more xx that's way I seen it anyway xx

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By *exy4youxxWoman over a year ago

Pontefract

"I've had several experiences with trans girls.....On my own..... and with fem partners! Electric experiences!!!!

I consider myself straight.....However I'm attracted to femininity and chemistry. Some of these girls are beautiful, sexy and naughty!!! I really don't care what you label me to be honest!

I do know that when I first joined the site and had that I was interested in tv/ts I was blasted and denied by some fems!

I even veried a trans girl after meeting her with a fem FB and was consequently ripped to shreds by some fems.....Is this right?

sadly, this meant that I have not advertised my proclivities.....Id rather be open however that does me NO favours.

In this day and age!!!

It's sad the bi guys cant be open, but bi women get the most attention and the most praise, so it's ok for them to open about it.

Interesting to see peoples views, and I didnt realise loads of guys hide it.

I didn't realise lots of men did either its really making me think twice on this place I rather men are truthful

Just go back through their verifications, and if they're hidden... avoid em

I never play with any guy who hides anything hence why I block all black silhouette who msg me as its in my profile I am not interested x

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By *abasaurus RexMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Because they’re not comfortable to admit their sexual preferences I guess.

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS over a year ago

horsham

"Wow what a thread!!!! Yes in the world there are loads of narrow minded ppl but come on this is a swinging site for sex and exploring yourself...

I can’t believe I even saw the word trannie!!! There’s plenty of names you can call us but that one is degrading!!

Got to finish on a nice note cause I’m a nice girl... so much love to everyone that enjoy the company of us special ladies

I am lost as to why “ Trannie “ is degrading .. I am one , a transvestite , I try my best look reasonably attractive. Not everyone’s choice admittedly , however I do it for me , because this is what I do since well before puberty and will always continue to do so . I’m well past my days of purging and self loathing , and secure in whom I am ..

I would say that throwing the word “ Trannie “ into a heading is on a post for discussion is at best lazy at worst flippant .. However I do not feel degradated by it .. perhaps maybe I should ... ? .. I am here to be enlightened .

I do honestly prefer to see it spelt with a “ y “ instead of an “ ie “ . That though is just my enjoyment of how words sound or look . For instance I do like the look and sound of the word “ Transvestite “ and for sure “ Dominatrix “ over “ Domme “ ( it’s got an X in it for gawds sake why wouldn’t you )

I am genuinely interested as to why some like your self find “ Tranny “ ( spelt my way) degrading ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When it’s been used in a pejorative way by people spitting hate at you it takes on a whole new meaning. Tranny is and always will be an offensive term to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

50% of all men I go for say yes to me, both on here and in real life, the rest are either gay, shy, afraid, not into it or just not horny enough in that moment!

Women can be straight and play with other woman so it's high time that straight men were given equal rights here rather than continue the cycles of oppression!

GET OVER IT

If you’re male and the person you’re playing with has got a cock, you’re not straight. It’s a pretty simple concept.

Why do is it need the label Straight though. Same goes for Bi and Gay? Why cant you just be who you are without having to label it?

Everything needs to be labelled in 2020 Woke Life

Skoliosexual - a man attracted to women and trans. End of story... move on

Another label lol

Exactly and doesn't this just show how rediculous it all gets? Skoliosexual will never catch on as a sexual identity although I believe that majority of men are in fact this by nature. "

I agree. But that’s life in 2020 now - if it exists it gets labelled and it’s only just started.

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS over a year ago

horsham

"When it’s been used in a pejorative way by people spitting hate at you it takes on a whole new meaning. Tranny is and always will be an offensive term to me "

Any term that is spat at someone is offensive , in my opinion.. put a “ fucking “ in front of biscuit and it becomes offensive

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By *otsossieMan over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Any term that is spat at someone is offensive , in my opinion.. put a “ fucking “ in front of biscuit and it becomes offensive "

Anything that can be used in the pejorative. That’s the problem with labels.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any term that is spat at someone is offensive , in my opinion.. put a “ fucking “ in front of biscuit and it becomes offensive "

If you don’t find it offensive and you want to call yourself that then you go ahead but I and many others here have expressed to you that they do find it offensive. It shouldn’t have to be a case of justifying why, it should be a case of respecting another human being.

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS over a year ago

horsham

"Any term that is spat at someone is offensive , in my opinion.. put a “ fucking “ in front of biscuit and it becomes offensive

And there endeth the debate .. each to their own

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By *aughtyBlokeKentMan over a year ago

Kent/Gatwick area

"Don’t you dare use the word “ trannies” around me.

That is a very offensive term !"

I'd suggest that some of the people on this thread read your profile. It's very well written and casts light on a trans person's position.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get."

Out of interest where would someone wishing to fuck you place on the desperation scale? I appreciate there’s probably a niche market for those with a Mr Tumnus fantasy, but in general... where would you say hunni? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think the person who said "Beacause they're desperate and a TV is as close to a woman as they're going to get." Was having a go at you guys"

If he had of said “Because they’re desperate and a black woman is as close to a white girl as they are going to get” how would that be viewed? Is that in the slightest bit derogatory towards black women? If yes... what’s the actual difference when he’s talking about trans women?

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