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Hi everyone, I hope that everyone is well, I am looking for a little bit of advice or help. At the moment I am not getting much luck on here, can you all please check my profile out and see if I need to add anythin |
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"Well id usually first read the profile so I can show that I read there profile and then introduce myself, what I'm like, what I enjoy and what I do. "
That sounds better than most of the messages we get.  |
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I get lots of messages. Too many to reply to.
If one says ‘hi’ or ‘hi there’ I don’t bother. If it’s just a page of cock pics with nothing else then I just delete it - regardless of how beautiful they are (or otherwise). If there’s an actual message I tend to look at the profile and reply if there’s something to reply to. If someone approaches me then I don’t really expect to have to start the conversation  |
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A nice polite hello, like you say a full read of the profile and pictures, compliments on them, and from what their profile says you can judge how to address them and go from there, just bear in mi d it's roughly 1000 men to 1 woman lol but luckily most of those are 1 liners |
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I think your profile is pretty decent. You say you are looking for a travel buddy. If travel is your thing then I suggest you expand on that a bit like saying where you have been and where you would like to go. It's a good point of conversation and could spark an interest in somebody. |
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"A nice polite hello, like you say a full read of the profile and pictures, compliments on them, and from what their profile says you can judge how to address them and go from there, just bear in mi d it's roughly 1000 men to 1 woman lol but luckily most of those are 1 liners"
it's because women get annoyed with the constant bashing from men... please don't ever talk to a woman like they a free sex worker... totally off putting |
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"ok thanks also can I send you a message and you tell me if my messages are good?
Is that to us? It's a good idea to use "Reply and quote" so we can see what message you are responding to. "
Oh ok its actually my first time using this forum so not sure how to use it but yes it was to you |
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"ok thanks also can I send you a message and you tell me if my messages are good?
Is that to us? It's a good idea to use "Reply and quote" so we can see what message you are responding to.
Oh ok its actually my first time using this forum so not sure how to use it but yes it was to you "
Yes you may. |
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"ok thanks also can I send you a message and you tell me if my messages are good?
Is that to us? It's a good idea to use "Reply and quote" so we can see what message you are responding to.
Oh ok its actually my first time using this forum so not sure how to use it but yes it was to you
Yes you may. "
Fair play to you both, it's lovely to see someone supporting somebody with their profile and not negatively criticise them. |
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"I get lots of messages. Too many to reply to.
If one says ‘hi’ or ‘hi there’ I don’t bother. If it’s just a page of cock pics with nothing else then I just delete it - regardless of how beautiful they are (or otherwise). If there’s an actual message I tend to look at the profile and reply if there’s something to reply to. If someone approaches me then I don’t really expect to have to start the conversation "
Ok thanks for the advice and can I also send you a message and let me know what you think of my messages? |
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"ok thanks also can I send you a message and you tell me if my messages are good?
Is that to us? It's a good idea to use "Reply and quote" so we can see what message you are responding to.
Oh ok its actually my first time using this forum so not sure how to use it but yes it was to you
Yes you may.
Fair play to you both, it's lovely to see someone supporting somebody with their profile and not negatively criticise them. "
Lots of people are hugely supportive and helpful to newbies on here
Unfortunately, alot dont take the advice given, and think " Ive got a huge member" will have them rolling in pussy by Tuesday |
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put fake pictures up of a muscly guy in the same t shirt as you and miss the head out then put 1 real picture up of you with the t shirt on with your head visible 
seen many guys do this and then you see them in threads about losing weight and shit like that even though they are meant to be built like a tank  |
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