"How do u find that perfect girl to join u ? "
Quite simply, you don't.
No relationship is perfect, no girl is perfect.
In my experience a poly relationship evolves naturally, in much the same way as a two-way relationship does. |
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"How do u find that perfect girl to join u ?
Quite simply, you don't.
No relationship is perfect, no girl is perfect.
In my experience a poly relationship evolves naturally, in much the same way as a two-way relationship does."
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Can't see this happening through fab probably needs to happen more organically through friendship or as said above an affair that leads to both starting a relationship my wife had a brief none fab relationship with a female neighbour of ours who wanted to see us both but to close to home if it goes wrong |
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Best of friends and support for years.
Date for a little bit.
Break up. Really shitly.
Don’t see her for 11yrs. And don’t stop thinking about her ever.
Randomly make contact again. She felt the same.
Leave your bf of 11yrs (that’s like 66yrs in gay years. Give me credit!).
Live happily ever after. |
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As far as new/secondary relationships, we don’t look.
See many poly people or couples who collect relationships like Pokemon. If it makes them happy. Great. Won’t bad mouth it.
We prefer to have friends or FWB that organically evolves. |
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By *inranWoman
over a year ago
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It's much harder to find poly relationships for both of you. My hubs and I are poly but we treat our relationships seperately as it is far simpler and more practical to manage in my experience.
I can't say I look for poly of fab though. It's a really different thing I think.
I do agree with above though no relationship or girl is perfect all take effort and understanding. |
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"It's much harder to find poly relationships for both of you. My hubs and I are poly but we treat our relationships seperately as it is far simpler and more practical to manage in my experience.
I can't say I look for poly of fab though. It's a really different thing I think.
I do agree with above though no relationship or girl is perfect all take effort and understanding. "
Agreed. It could happen. It might never happen. Not going to force it. |
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The other thing (elephant in the room really). Is polyamory isn’t really a “thing”. It’s a catch all term for non-monogamous relationships.
I’ve yet to meet a single person, couple, triad or all the other terms I try to forget that do it in the same way.
“What’s your dynamic?” - every poly couple talking to another. |
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