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over a year ago
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"hi there i know i have no pics, but does that put you ladies off before looking or that fact im attached too ."
I wouldn't chat to somebody who didn't have a pic. |
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"i have to be careful as of my job but i am def up fro a meet and more . just cant seem to meet right people to chat with"
Not many women would go on a blind date, neither would a fair few guys to be honest. At some point your going to have to show your face. Be mindful of rejection though once you have sent a face pic...after all, attraction/beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
As for pics not being shown for work reasons, that's always a biting point, and certainly a bone of contention for many. One of us works for HMRC in a very 'delicate' position, so we have to be mindful of who we show pics to. Same applies to teachers and other such professions. |
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imo londonguy, unless you have distinguishing features that you cannot hide, then at the very least a clothed bodyshot is required to get anywhere near any interest.
most of us wont have face pics showing, and most people dont expect that, but some kind of shot is a minimum, afterall, you are in a field of hundreds trying to get a look in on a few women, so have to provide something to catch the eye or inspire the mind.
a shadow and short profile wont do that.
and the fact you are attached wont put off some, but wont get you near most. |
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over a year ago
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"ty i do understand and i will be putting pics on and im in a teaching position"
so am I buy doubt if anyone would recognise my lower torso and if they do, what they doing looking on here? |
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Both put me off, I won't reply if there's no pic and I won't play with anyone attached if the OH doesn't know as to me that's cheating rather than swinging  |
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"i understand that it puts some people off but im not looking for a full realtionship just friends for fun and more"
Single guy, no pics, non-descript profile, attached.
I'm afraid you'll be at the very bottom of the pile mate. There may be a few blokes lower down who admit on their profiles that they love clubbing baby seals, but thats about it.... |
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