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By *k38 OP Couple
over a year ago
Hartlepool |
"Tbh it's the best! The more you know someone the greater the trust and understanding that leads to better sex. "
Thanks for the reply.
Does it lead to any jealously with the feeling that she has a bf? Lol |
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"Tbh it's the best! The more you know someone the greater the trust and understanding that leads to better sex.
Thanks for the reply.
Does it lead to any jealously with the feeling that she has a bf? Lol"
Just a great and often reclaim sex  |
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"Tbh it's the best! The more you know someone the greater the trust and understanding that leads to better sex.
Thanks for the reply.
Does it lead to any jealously with the feeling that she has a bf? Lol"
Hopefully not as long as everything is out in the open its fine. Plenty of conversations about boundaries need to be had and respected by all to work well. |
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My wife would choose having a regular guy over having a 1-2-1 anyway , she has had one in the past and would love another one
The problem being finding the right guy ,somebody that understands the role fully and doesn't take liberties would be a very happy and content guy indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very difficult to find a reliable regular guy x"
This is so true. We all appear to be saying the same thing. A regular FB / Bull is all we want. Instead, what happens is the pretenders email without reading the profile or simply think that a few lines with no effort will make them the ones. There has to be someone worth waiting for out there.... until we find them, its a polite no thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?
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It is great, can join in , meet on her own and watch via facetime, all good fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?
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I do give regular full body orgasmic massage to four married ladies about once a month two of the husbands are not aware. No question of penitration just massage a sensual arousal. Works well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?
Yes! Would love for a regular for Mrs when things blow over a bit more. "
Pity you are not nearer! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely what we’re looking for, unfortunately as others have said finding the right guy is far more difficult than you would think. "
Happy to start you off with a sensual massage and see where it goes.  |
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"Very difficult to find a reliable regular guy x
This is so true. We all appear to be saying the same thing. A regular FB / Bull is all we want. Instead, what happens is the pretenders email without reading the profile or simply think that a few lines with no effort will make them the ones. There has to be someone worth waiting for out there.... until we find them, its a polite no thank you. "
If it’s any consolation, it’s hard to find from the other side too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm more than happy for my future partner to have a regular fb as long as it doesn't get in the way of or affect our sex life.
I'd like the fb to be happy with a threesome every now and then, so we can both enjoy her.
But there is always the risk of emotions and feelings with anything like this. I would talk to my partner and make sure things were okay. If I felt that the fb was becoming a little too full on and over stepping set boundaries then I'd want us to question the reasoning behind it.
People will lie about their feelings, especially if they're onto a good thing, and all involved need to be open and honest otherwise it'll never work.
I'd like to be a regular fb with one woman... But only time will tell if it ever becomes a reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about a regular girl for the missus?  
Is there an application process?...  
Just, ya know, asking for a friend.. "
Well your friend would have to speak with her about it |
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"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?
This was our thing a regular quality man for mfm so the lady has double the attention a d pleasure "
Always great meets when this happens  |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
Without fully knowing what the LS is like I imagine that having regular or semi-regular FBs and FWBs to have fun, sexy adventures with, where there's trust and rapport and socialising alongside the sex would be the dream / ideal for me. Somewhere in the middle between one-night stands and a full girlfriend / partner. |
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I definitely find that regular is much more rewarding and indeed fun..!
Getting to know someone's body and likes/dislikes etc. definitely adds...
I'm not really into one-offs these days due to the above. |
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By *inman73Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
I had a regular guy for almost two years, amazing sex and it worked perfectly, my hubby was fine with it even meet took part in 3somes on occasion, then he found himself a girlfriend and blanked me, he called me about a year later asking to hook up, I hang up. do want another regular but on much different term.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?
I do give regular full body orgasmic massage to four married ladies about once a month two of the husbands are not aware. No question of penitration just massage a sensual arousal. Works well "
How do you massage four married ladies at once? |
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........................Had a regular years ago, met him at a club when we were going every Friday and Saturday's ,he was about 15 years younger than me, he would stay with us usually every other weekend. Hubby has told me to look for another regular which I intend to do, he does'nt have to tell me twice! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A regular woman is definitely better, sex gets better and trust between you. I've found if it's a couple, the two men are best getting on, it's a big thing the trust, if you're meeting his wife/gf without him, if he likes you as a person, it's a good start. A mate of mine used to meet with me/gf for mfm, was good for a few years, then he went abit weird, spoilt it in 2 mins. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A regular woman is definitely better, sex gets better and trust between you. I've found if it's a couple, the two men are best getting on, it's a big thing the trust, if you're meeting his wife/gf without him, if he likes you as a person, it's a good start. A mate of mine used to meet with me/gf for mfm, was good for a few years, then he went abit weird, spoilt it in 2 mins."
You mean he gave your cock a little suck when you weren’t looking during an MMF? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A regular woman is definitely better, sex gets better and trust between you. I've found if it's a couple, the two men are best getting on, it's a big thing the trust, if you're meeting his wife/gf without him, if he likes you as a person, it's a good start. A mate of mine used to meet with me/gf for mfm, was good for a few years, then he went abit weird, spoilt it in 2 mins.
You mean he gave your cock a little suck when you weren’t looking during an MMF? Lol "
Nothing like that, just a daft moment of paranoia, he said something, pissed gf off and that was that, I was annoyed for abit, still speak to him though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A regular woman is definitely better, sex gets better and trust between you. I've found if it's a couple, the two men are best getting on, it's a big thing the trust, if you're meeting his wife/gf without him, if he likes you as a person, it's a good start. A mate of mine used to meet with me/gf for mfm, was good for a few years, then he went abit weird, spoilt it in 2 mins.
You mean he gave your cock a little suck when you weren’t looking during an MMF? Lol
Nothing like that, just a daft moment of paranoia, he said something, pissed gf off and that was that, I was annoyed for abit, still speak to him though."
Ahh that’s a shame, just goes to show that it can all go tits up so quick. I know through my own experience 
Sorry to hear that, a decent mmf is so damn good too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A regular woman is definitely better, sex gets better and trust between you. I've found if it's a couple, the two men are best getting on, it's a big thing the trust, if you're meeting his wife/gf without him, if he likes you as a person, it's a good start. A mate of mine used to meet with me/gf for mfm, was good for a few years, then he went abit weird, spoilt it in 2 mins.
You mean he gave your cock a little suck when you weren’t looking during an MMF? Lol
Nothing like that, just a daft moment of paranoia, he said something, pissed gf off and that was that, I was annoyed for abit, still speak to him though.
Ahh that’s a shame, just goes to show that it can all go tits up so quick. I know through my own experience
Sorry to hear that, a decent mmf is so damn good too... "
It was great, some folks are just alittle strange sometimes! Thing is I never overstep the mark, trust can be lost in an instant.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We think it's definitely the best way to go, hoping we've found the right couple - in the early stages yet but we're hoping...
People we can just have a drink with as well as fun, either of us with either.. |
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"We think it's definitely the best way to go, hoping we've found the right couple - in the early stages yet but we're hoping...
People we can just have a drink with as well as fun, either of us with either.."
Definitely, it is the best way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always worked out best for me (being the male party)
Helped sort of build a connection on what each other likes, skips all the chit & really in the end can turn out to be a rather enjoyable experience when done right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?
I do give regular full body orgasmic massage to four married ladies about once a month two of the husbands are not aware. No question of penitration just massage a sensual arousal. Works well
Ha Ha just seen your reply I don't of course massage them all at the same time but when each is free to meet.
How do you massage four married ladies at once?"
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By *ee80Woman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Very difficult to find a reliable regular guy x
This is so true. We all appear to be saying the same thing. A regular FB / Bull is all we want. Instead, what happens is the pretenders email without reading the profile or simply think that a few lines with no effort will make them the ones. There has to be someone worth waiting for out there.... until we find them, its a polite no thank you.
If it’s any consolation, it’s hard to find from the other side too. "
True story! |
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we had a regular guy,, over seven years and it was fucking awesome, wish he could contact us again, think his ungrateful wife found out , it is so more relaxed and the sex is out of this world , and everyone was happy, ok apart from his wife |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I had a regular meet with a couple for years
Great sex , husband and I got on well.
Take his wife out occasionally for a drink back home for fun.
Stayed with them some weekend s.
Sadly they moved abroad with his work.
So looking for another couple or lady if anyone interested. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?
They are as rare as finding a single woman "
They are rarer ! Most single women on here are very genuine , you chat, they say no thanks or yes and then meet and fuck you....we don’t meet guys but from what I hear the men say yes and then don’t even turn up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?
They are as rare as finding a single woman
They are rarer ! Most single women on here are very genuine , you chat, they say no thanks or yes and then meet and fuck you....we don’t meet guys but from what I hear the men say yes and then don’t even turn up "
You’re kidding me?! Wtf is wrong with these people??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would like one but they are hard to find x"
It works the other way to - if I say I'll turn-up then I always do and give my mobile to keep in touch on the day.  |
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