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Is it always hard for single guys?
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OK so I get everyone has a taste in what they like and don't like, doesn't everyone? But single men get alot of hate and I'm suprised but why do couples and women feel like it's ok to be horrible to single men in general because I'm finding alot of hate on this site x |
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Some people are just dicks. Sometimes you might be inadvertently rubbing people uo the wrong way. Sometimes people are just frustrated because of all the crap they get in messages on here. Personally I've turned my messages off and my experience is vastly better. |
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I would let it get to you , my strategy has always been any really horrible comms I just block instantly, I don’t bother retaliating just block... lol I have a massive block list ..
To be fair in general I find people quite nice on here as a whole.... |
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"Some people are just dicks. Sometimes you might be inadvertently rubbing people uo the wrong way. Sometimes people are just frustrated because of all the crap they get in messages on here. Personally I've turned my messages off and my experience is vastly better. "
I can get that but I try and make sure in respectful on every message I send and theys still people out there who think a harsh reply is better than no reply and that's not what I thought this community would be like x |
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"Some people are just dicks. Sometimes you might be inadvertently rubbing people uo the wrong way. Sometimes people are just frustrated because of all the crap they get in messages on here. Personally I've turned my messages off and my experience is vastly better.
I can get that but I try and make sure in respectful on every message I send and theys still people out there who think a harsh reply is better than no reply and that's not what I thought this community would be like x"
There's the dicks! I get that it's depressing. Obviously not the same thing but I've had all sorts of abuse in messages on here. Some people are just unpleasant when behind a computer screen unfortunately. |
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It was when I was younger but I feel like I've got a bit more control over it now. 
Partly because we're communicating online, it seems easier for some **people** to forget they are talking to human beings with emotions and stuff.
That and the tendency to only see things from your own point of view leads to a lot of "he said, she said" threads.
Lot's of lovely people here and I feel I get a lot out of the open minded conversations you can have here  |
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Also many people if they do not want to reply or do not like the look of you , will not reply to your message.
It is not to be considered an insult , it is just that they do not want to reply to your message |
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"OK so I get everyone has a taste in what they like and don't like, doesn't everyone? But single men get alot of hate and I'm suprised but why do couples and women feel like it's ok to be horrible to single men in general because I'm finding alot of hate on this site x"
Copy and paste (without it looking like copy and paste) the same message to many women and you will get replies .
If you both click then engage in more detailed chat |
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"Some people are just dicks. Sometimes you might be inadvertently rubbing people uo the wrong way. Sometimes people are just frustrated because of all the crap they get in messages on here. Personally I've turned my messages off and my experience is vastly better.
I can get that but I try and make sure in respectful on every message I send and theys still people out there who think a harsh reply is better than no reply and that's not what I thought this community would be like x
There's the dicks! I get that it's depressing. Obviously not the same thing but I've had all sorts of abuse in messages on here. Some people are just unpleasant when behind a computer screen unfortunately.
Avuse is nothing but when It comes from the same people who have a problem with horrible messages ect it makes me wonder do people get alot of hate out of there horrendous personalities "
I don't understand sorry. |
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"Also many people if they do not want to reply or do not like the look of you , will not reply to your message.
It is not to be considered an insult , it is just that they do not want to reply to your message"
No that's the best way people should be I wouldn't count it as an insult I get they get alot messages but theys alot who don't do that |
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"OK so I get everyone has a taste in what they like and don't like, doesn't everyone? But single men get alot of hate and I'm suprised but why do couples and women feel like it's ok to be horrible to single men in general because I'm finding alot of hate on this site x"
Some people get a kick out of being mean |
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"Some people are just dicks. Sometimes you might be inadvertently rubbing people uo the wrong way. Sometimes people are just frustrated because of all the crap they get in messages on here. Personally I've turned my messages off and my experience is vastly better.
I can get that but I try and make sure in respectful on every message I send and theys still people out there who think a harsh reply is better than no reply and that's not what I thought this community would be like x"
Are you reading their profiles, before you send a message?
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"OK so I get everyone has a taste in what they like and don't like, doesn't everyone? But single men get alot of hate and I'm suprised but why do couples and women feel like it's ok to be horrible to single men in general because I'm finding alot of hate on this site x"
Can you be more specific OP?
You’ve sent a respectful message to someone and they’ve replied rudely? |
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I'm sorry that this has been your experience of fab OP. Sadly, like everywhere in life, there are people on here who will be rude an hateful. Just block, move on and don't take it personally.
Mrs xx |
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