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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ll start with the disclaimer that it’s perfectly natural and acceptable for women out there to be attracted to whatever size dick they’re into, short or egregiously long.
Having said that, after the persistent trend I’ve seen on here of women asking for 9-10” (usually in a very hostile manner like “if you’re under 9, you’re not worth my time”), I do have to ask: are most people on here aware that guys with 9”+ dicks make up about 0.01% of the population? If we have guys on here with that size, that’s awesome. I envy you all. But I can’t help but wonder if some women are going to be searching a LOOOONG time for that size. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What makes you think this site is representative of the general population?
That 0.01% you refer to could be the majority here because they know how much they'll be sought after by ladies on fab."
A fair point. A very fair point... |
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Thats how it is on here unfortunatly mate..
Yes everyone has preferences and not every man is hung like a stallion.
You got to think everyone is looking for a certain something or someone on here.
You got to weigh it up and think what do THEY bring to the table with demanding “You have to be X Y and Z” while they have next to nothing to show and give on their profiles..its all hit and miss ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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isn't this the place where fantasies become reality?
people can request anything they want from a meet just because we request doesnt always mean we get and sometimes we like to mix things up just for a bit of veriety![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"sometimes I want big most of the time I want normal why does that make me a size queen ..its no different than guys wanting big tits "
Perhaps that’s too derogatory a term, in which case I apologise for using it. There are just a lot of profiles on here whose upfront rudeness make me question why they think people would reach out to them (unless they’re desperate I guess).
Conversely, I’ve seen people who ask for bigger sizes in a very civil manner. There’s a difference how you state your intent. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thats how it is on here unfortunatly mate..
Yes everyone has preferences and not every man is hung like a stallion.
You got to think everyone is looking for a certain something or someone on here.
You got to weigh it up and think what do THEY bring to the table with demanding “You have to be X Y and Z” while they have next to nothing to show and give on their profiles..its all hit and miss "
Also a fair point. |
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There are two things going on here.
Firstly, men grossly exaggerate the size of their penises.
Secondly, people are generally shit at eye-measuring anything – just look at the public's fucking woeful attempts to guess what two metres looks like.
End result: Bunch of guys with slightly-above-average 6" dicks telling every woman they've ever met that's what 8" looks like, and since most women aren't going to whip out a tape measure, how are they supposed to know any better?
Based on the best data available (Veale et al. 2014), the average erect penis is 5.2" (13.2cm) long and 4.6" (11.6cm) in girth.
Only 1.4% of men even manage 7". Imagine a crowd of a hundred men. *One* of them will have a seven-inch dick.
For 8", you're down to 0.01%. That's *ten thousand guys*, only one of whom will have an eight-inch dick. |
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Only once has a lady measured me erect. This was for the opposite reason, she had a size limit for anal! I was just over and she said my girth was on the larger size but she was willing to try and we both had a great time.
At clubs, I've seen VWE males being admired by the ladies. But it's mainly a visual and mental attraction as they don't fuck balls deep. You'll often see the same in porn, the big dicks are partially hanging out.
Beyond a certain size, unless the partner is used to it, full penetration can be uncomfortable or even painful. Some really well endowed males complain they miss the intimacy of not being able to go deep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's possibly a self fulfilling prophesy... let's say two guys join one is 5 the other 8. The odds are against men anyway due to numbers. The 8 is in more demand and more likely to get a meet a verification and stay... the 5 more likely to get annoyed at the very issues you raise feel inadequate and leave... thus in an environment where penis size is a factor to be successful natural selection means there are higher than average numbers of big juicy cock for women to demand. (Plus if I had a 9 I'd let them demand anyway they want... infact I love an dominant woman anyway ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not that we're looking for single guys, but I'll speak for myself and say I can't bear huge cocks and prefer to keep my cervix intact. We're not all looking for massive schlongs... It really does depend on how they're used.
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I think the It depends on what the woman is used too
T is fairly big we got the tape measure out once but I’ve forgotten what it was around 6/7 I think, I enjoy his size anything smaller and I find myself waiting for the guy to finish so T can take over as I like that full feeling
So personally I prefer guys of a similar size of slightly bigger
The problem is when your looking us girls need to aim high because you guys exaggerate
If we aim for 8-9 with a good camera angling a guy can look not look to far off, yet when he arrives on my doorstep he’ll say Haha hope you don’t mind but I’m actually only 5-6 & then be offended if you decide to turn him away
If we aimed for a 6incher well only get 4 or less & if you know that’s not gonna do it for you why not be honest from the start, it’s better than walking out mid meet or turning them away once you see what there actually offering you
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"Only once has a lady measured me erect. This was for the opposite reason, she had a size limit for anal! I was just over and she said my girth was on the larger size but she was willing to try and we both had a great time.
At clubs, I've seen VWE males being admired by the ladies. But it's mainly a visual and mental attraction as they don't fuck balls deep. You'll often see the same in porn, the big dicks are partially hanging out.
Beyond a certain size, unless the partner is used to it, full penetration can be uncomfortable or even painful. Some really well endowed males complain they miss the intimacy of not being able to go deep. "
Out of interest, did you ask her how she determined the maximum internal dimension of her anus.
I’ve a mental image of her arse as some weird jelly mould. ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think the It depends on what the woman is used too
T is fairly big we got the tape measure out once but I’ve forgotten what it was around 6/7 I think, I enjoy his size anything smaller and I find myself waiting for the guy to finish so T can take over as I like that full feeling
So personally I prefer guys of a similar size of slightly bigger
The problem is when your looking us girls need to aim high because you guys exaggerate
If we aim for 8-9 with a good camera angling a guy can look not look to far off, yet when he arrives on my doorstep he’ll say Haha hope you don’t mind but I’m actually only 5-6 & then be offended if you decide to turn him away
If we aimed for a 6incher well only get 4 or less & if you know that’s not gonna do it for you why not be honest from the start, it’s better than walking out mid meet or turning them away once you see what there actually offering you
MrsB"
See, that’s just as shitty of a guy to do though. There’s no reason to lie about it. All that leads to is a slap in the face.
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
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"I’ll start with the disclaimer that it’s perfectly natural and acceptable for women out there to be attracted to whatever size dick they’re into, short or egregiously long.
Having said that, after the persistent trend I’ve seen on here of women asking for 9-10” (usually in a very hostile manner like “if you’re under 9, you’re not worth my time”), I do have to ask: are most people on here aware that guys with 9”+ dicks make up about 0.01% of the population? If we have guys on here with that size, that’s awesome. I envy you all. But I can’t help but wonder if some women are going to be searching a LOOOONG time for that size. "
People can seek what they like, although i agree that how that request is worded is not always that appealing |
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Out of interest, did you ask her how she determined the maximum internal dimension of her anus.
I’ve a mental image of her arse as some weird jelly mould. "
Good question, I didn't ask ... it was just a rule she had and wouldn't bend for anyone.
A relaxed and experienced recipient can take the penis all the way up the rectum to where it meets the colon. This is why some VWE guys say they like anal as they can penetrate full length and hit this 'S-bend'. |
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"isn't this the place where fantasies become reality?
people can request anything they want from a meet just because we request doesnt always mean we get and sometimes we like to mix things up just for a bit of veriety "
Totally unrelated but you have a very sexy aura about you; having looked at your pictures. A very attractive woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm not a size queen myself, I can see why some women want larger though, it's personal preference.
For me sex is more enjoyable with an average size man. I'm only 5ft3 so I'm not a tall or large woman you can't be shoving near 3/4 of a ft inside me that's a 6th of my height haha |
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"I’ll start with the disclaimer that it’s perfectly natural and acceptable for women out there to be attracted to whatever size dick they’re into, short or egregiously long.
Having said that, after the persistent trend I’ve seen on here of women asking for 9-10” (usually in a very hostile manner like “if you’re under 9, you’re not worth my time”), I do have to ask: are most people on here aware that guys with 9”+ dicks make up about 0.01% of the population? If we have guys on here with that size, that’s awesome. I envy you all. But I can’t help but wonder if some women are going to be searching a LOOOONG time for that size. "
I find huge cocks massively unappealing
In fact would be a decider NOT to meet if they were too big |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not a size queen myself, I can see why some women want larger though, it's personal preference.
For me sex is more enjoyable with an average size man. I'm only 5ft3 so I'm not a tall or large woman you can't be shoving near 3/4 of a ft inside me that's a 6th of my height haha"
Well when you put it like that ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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"I’ll start with the disclaimer that it’s perfectly natural and acceptable for women out there to be attracted to whatever size dick they’re into, short or egregiously long.
Having said that, after the persistent trend I’ve seen on here of women asking for 9-10” (usually in a very hostile manner like “if you’re under 9, you’re not worth my time”), I do have to ask: are most people on here aware that guys with 9”+ dicks make up about 0.01% of the population? If we have guys on here with that size, that’s awesome. I envy you all. But I can’t help but wonder if some women are going to be searching a LOOOONG time for that size. " Big or nor so ....the lady decides .... ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not a size queen myself, I can see why some women want larger though, it's personal preference.
For me sex is more enjoyable with an average size man. I'm only 5ft3 so I'm not a tall or large woman you can't be shoving near 3/4 of a ft inside me that's a 6th of my height haha
Well when you put it like that "
Short girl problems haha! It's not just the top shelf in Tesco that poses an issue ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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