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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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99% of the mail we receive seems to be aimed at the female of the couple.
While we appreciate that the vast majority of people on here are male, we are wondering how many guys are actually interested in a threesome, rather than just seeing the other male as an added inconvenience? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I've had this a lot on my joint profile with hubby. Asking if I play alone but its the male of the couple asking. You can tell when they after women when they have hardly any pics of the men. And all of the women.x |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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in a way... its not the worst thing in the world... because at least it is one added way of working out who is going to be suitable for you both to meet..as opposed to those who are not.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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aye i never get people like that that think they can just cadge you off for themselves,
same guys who probally come on here saying had another couple time agree to meet me then blocked me for no reason haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeah I've had this a lot on my joint profile with hubby. Asking if I play alone but its the male of the couple asking. You can tell when they after women when they have hardly any pics of the men. And all of the women.x"
Yes its the same with us. We get loads of emails sometimes going into great details on what they want to do to Dee. I must be in the kitchen making sandwiches or something...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I've had this a lot on my joint profile with hubby. Asking if I play alone but its the male of the couple asking. You can tell when they after women when they have hardly any pics of the men. And all of the women.x
Yes its the same with us. We get loads of emails sometimes going into great details on what they want to do to Dee. I must be in the kitchen making sandwiches or something......"
I'd be pleased just receiving mail lol hehehhe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Being serious though; the same can be said about fems/couples opposite way ie; the amount of times i noticed i been "looked at" by couples / single fems/ and even straight guys - yet in most cases thay are either "not looking for single males" (i am single lol) or "have not noticed i am bi" grrrrrrrr and double grrrrrrrrr cuz dare i contact them or not ????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in a way... its not the worst thing in the world... because at least it is one added way of working out who is going to be suitable for you both to meet..as opposed to those who are not...."
Fabio's right - see it as a positive, not a negative and turn it to your advantage. We would guess less than 5% of guys who say they want a MMF 3some really understand the dynamics of it and what they are getting into. So the other 95% reveal themselves in the messages they send you. Just bin them and concentrate on the ones who know what they are about. Simples.  |
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"Being serious though; the same can be said about fems/couples opposite way ie; the amount of times i noticed i been "looked at" by couples / single fems/ and even straight guys - yet in most cases thay are either "not looking for single males" (i am single lol) or "have not noticed i am bi" grrrrrrrr and double grrrrrrrrr cuz dare i contact them or not ????? "
Yes its confusing isn't it? The only thing we would suggest as a "genuine" couple is that other couples may say they aren't looking for single men to prevent beng overwhelmed with messages but may proactively contact a guy now and again for fun. Its really difficult for us to even make initial contact with someone we may want to take things further with as they are buried in a deluge of rubbish messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I've had this a lot on my joint profile with hubby. Asking if I play alone but its the male of the couple asking. You can tell when they after women when they have hardly any pics of the men. And all of the women.x
Yes its the same with us. We get loads of emails sometimes going into great details on what they want to do to Dee. I must be in the kitchen making sandwiches or something......"
Like any couple swinging, you have your rules/agreement and you stick to it. If the guys messaging you clearly haven't read your profile then there's a button for that and it's marked 'delete'.... |
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"99% of the mail we receive seems to be aimed at the female of the couple.
While we appreciate that the vast majority of people on here are male, we are wondering how many guys are actually interested in a threesome, rather than just seeing the other male as an added inconvenience?"
In the past when I contact a couple I tend to address both of them as I believe it's only right and to be honest if you've got a good rapour with the male half then I find the fun more intense rather than you just playing with his partner and him joining in occassionally. I realise attraction has to play a part for the women but when meeting for a 3some definetly better if you can build that rapour. The other 1 out of 10 normally they are voyeurs or cucks so communication is with the women who want their husband to watch or be humiliated. each to their own.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being serious though; the same can be said about fems/couples opposite way ie; the amount of times i noticed i been "looked at" by couples / single fems/ and even straight guys - yet in most cases thay are either "not looking for single males" (i am single lol) or "have not noticed i am bi" grrrrrrrr and double grrrrrrrrr cuz dare i contact them or not ?????
Yes its confusing isn't it? The only thing we would suggest as a "genuine" couple is that other couples may say they aren't looking for single men to prevent beng overwhelmed with messages but may proactively contact a guy now and again for fun. Its really difficult for us to even make initial contact with someone we may want to take things further with as they are buried in a deluge of rubbish messages"
You make a very good point; but im sure it will fall on deaf ears lol |
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