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By *andS09 OP Couple
over a year ago
Sheffield |
Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."
Social for us would be a must anyway, there a plenty of soft swap couples on here though. |
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"That’s what we are wanting to do meet for a social maybe a couple of drinks and see how things go rather than getting someone’s hopes up for more when we meet "
Make it clear in your profile and first message. You won't get any hopes up then |
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By *edhead72Man
over a year ago
Cheltenham and Ashby |
I love the idea of no expectations. Just meet for that drink, enjoy the moment. If everyone’s feeling it then sure back to the room/ house and allow things to unfold with no expectations. If that’s just one more drink absolutely fine anything else is an exciting bonus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."
We’re very organic about the whole thing...as long as it’s all inclusive we don’t ever go into it with preconceived notions of exactly what might happen x |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."
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Think you'll find soft play is quite popular really 
After all, we've all got to start off somewhere  |
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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago
Blyth |
"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."
Absolutely, I even put on my profile that I'm often happy with just a kiss and cuddle. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Have had some fantastic meets that have been soft play only.
Personally I don't see penetrative sex as an *aim* of sex, more just an element of the overall thing that if it happens it happens.
My preference is just to go with the flow, within individual and agreed boundaries, and see where it leads |
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"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."
Yes, totally. We have only done soft-swapping so far although we're open to more. Soft-swapping is still very enjoyable with the right person/people and we get that some people want to explore cautiously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have gone full circle from soft play to full swap back to soft play only.
We have found soft play to be so much more erotic, intense, sensuous and hedonistic than full swap.
Soft play also takes away some of the uncertainty. One or two couples we've met and played with as foursums and in groups, it was the male's objective to nail my partner and then he got upset and wanted to leave while his wife had only just really got started and was intent at continuing to sample and enjoy her pleasures with the both of us after he was spent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."
Yes we d love too |
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"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."
We've only ever done soft swap...great fun xx |
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Yes absolutely. A social is always a must anyway and we are equally comfortable with soft or full swap. Commented on these forums before that one or two or our most fun evenings were with couples who only soft swapped........  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just remember, not everybody's idea of what is soft play, is the same as yours, try and sort that out before meeting."
 Definitely this. Discuss your boundaries beforehand. Also don't be afraid to remind them of your rules/ stop, if they are doing something you didn't agree to.
Don't let people try and guilt trip you into doing more than you want to. Soft play is great. If they want more, you're just not compatible. |
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"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."
Whilst we are a full swap couple, we enjoy soft play meets. As a rule we always go at the speed the other parties are comfortable with. Sometimes it has gone further, sometimes it hasn't. We always respect others boundaries. |
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We always do socials first and although we are happy to full swap with the right people we would be equally happy with just soft swap. Most of the fun is in the playing and we have each other to fuck |
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