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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Other than the safe/unsafe sex debate does anyone else have ‘Non Negotiables’ when it comes to agreeing to a meet?
Height is one of mine - Shallow maybe but honest including ‘real life’ relationships. Men must be taller around 5’10 plus however Females I’m not bothered.
Age - I put 30 but I would much rather older 40+ when comes to men women however 25+ x
I feel bad having criteria but we like what we like maybe? Or am I really shallow so interesting to see if others have any... |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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Other than the safe/unsafe sex debate does anyone else have ‘Non Negotiables’ when it comes to agreeing to a meet?
Height is one of mine - Shallow maybe but honest including ‘real life’ relationships. Men must be taller around 5’10 plus however Females I’m not bothered.
Age - I put 30 but I would much rather older 40+ when comes to men women however 25+ x
I feel bad having criteria but we like what we like maybe? Or am I really shallow so interesting to see if others have any..."
Whatever floats your boat imho x |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
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Other than the safe/unsafe sex debate does anyone else have ‘Non Negotiables’ when it comes to agreeing to a meet?
Height is one of mine - Shallow maybe but honest including ‘real life’ relationships. Men must be taller around 5’10 plus however Females I’m not bothered.
Age - I put 30 but I would much rather older 40+ when comes to men women however 25+ x
I feel bad having criteria but we like what we like maybe? Or am I really shallow so interesting to see if others have any...
Whatever floats your boat imho x"
Same as being in a Club tbh x |
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each to their own.. Had experiences with what I consider my "ideal" and it's been shit, had experiences with the exact opposite and it's been amazing...
We as a couple find a mental attraction is much more important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it if they have anything referencing 420.
If you want to do that I won’t judge you, it’s your choice likewise it’s my choice not to be anywhere near that |
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Other than the safe/unsafe sex debate does anyone else have ‘Non Negotiables’ when it comes to agreeing to a meet?
Height is one of mine - Shallow maybe but honest including ‘real life’ relationships. Men must be taller around 5’10 plus however Females I’m not bothered.
Age - I put 30 but I would much rather older 40+ when comes to men women however 25+ x
I feel bad having criteria but we like what we like maybe? Or am I really shallow so interesting to see if others have any..."
why do you feel bad?
I see plenty of profiles stating that meets must fulfil certain criteria, we're here for fun and at base this is quite a shallow activity anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mine:
- at least my height for men, doesn't matter much for females
- age wise- almost the same as OP, men preferably between 40 and 65
- distance- no more than an hour drive, unless we are meeting in a club.
Only those available in the evenings, or at weekends if they don't mind meeting with myself and my partner. |
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Filming
We have put on our profile that all potential meets must be ok with being filmed but we do not allways adhere to it
and should remove it from our profile really.
But I cant help feeling a lot of timewasters and fakes,married men will run a mile when reading that so have left it there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think it’s really the height thing that made me feel bad as someone was quite pushy asking why I didn’t want to meet them, I was honest and said height as I’m 5’7 they were 5’5 and was given a bit of a hard time about it...
I’m a bigger girl so understand I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. |
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"I understand the chemistry over physical attraction but anything can b a non negotiable.
Racist or deviant ‘jokes’ - get tae fuck x"
Clearly some types of people float people's boats more than others- being a racist isn't sexy, nor are a lot of seemingly acceptable male values and beliefs. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"I understand the chemistry over physical attraction but anything can b a non negotiable.
Racist or deviant ‘jokes’ - get tae fuck x
Clearly some types of people float people's boats more than others- being a racist isn't sexy, nor are a lot of seemingly acceptable male values and beliefs. "
I really do value your opinion 
Thank you x |
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"Filming
We have put on our profile that all potential meets must be ok with being filmed but we do not allways adhere to it
and should remove it from our profile really.
But I cant help feeling a lot of timewasters and fakes,married men will run a mile when reading that so have left it there"
Good idea |
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it looks as if you are a bald, fat bloke over 55 you are fucked (and I don't mean that in a literal way)
Fortunately I don't fit into those categories....!!
Personal Hygiene is key, I had to walk away from a meet once due to this (how do you politely say, sorry but you smell) 
All about the personality for me and sexual attrcation |
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