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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think when people say sex is over rated, its because they haven't had really amazing sex session or met the right sexual partner yet?   "
100 percent either that or the connection just isnt there, you can be mind blowing physically in bed but the mind is what elevates it... well for me anyways |
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"Do you think when people say sex is over rated, its because they haven't had really amazing sex session or met the right sexual partner yet? "
Mr here, totally agree. What amazes me, is the 'its disgusting' type of people. Same sort who wouldn't admit to wanking! |
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"Think foreplay out ways the actual act. To bring a women to climax in foreplay does it for me every time.  "
Definitely, from flirting via text, phone call, video and photo sharing, then caressing, teasing, sucking, kissing etc then actual fuck... where you both act like animals make sex so addictive  |
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"Do you think when people say sex is over rated, its because they haven't had really amazing sex session or met the right sexual partner yet? "
Yes, I think it's that the person saying it either hasn't met the right person, or is too inhibited to really enjoy it.
If you don't feel comfortable in your
own body, you're not going to enjoy it.
It's also about the partner. Some partners just...DO IT for you. Others, not so much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If they think it's over-rated then they don't know how to enjoy it and probably have wanked so much that they have lost their sexual impulse and desire to engage sexually with others, and they've probably become so immune to porn because they've seen so much of it that they believe there is more buzz from watching porn than with having sex with others. It should be a mutual act of passion and pleasure between people, and not a hard physical challenge to achieve orgasm with no other thought in mind. I can accept that some may believe it is a physical and mental challenge and if they can't reach orgasm they try again and again and cover up their frustration by saying that sex is over-rated, but if their mind is constantly on the end result, then they are cheating themselves of the full experience of what sex is all about, and that is perhaps why they can't orgasm at the end.
It takes a strong mind and a deep desire to bring pleasure as well as receive pleasure, and they should not be taking sex for granted for a single second. It is an event and a joyful experience. It should not be seen as a physically hard task. I think if they were to fully embrace the experience of sex from the first moment to the last then they would never say that sex is over-rated. The mutual feelings and emotions it creates within us, holding each other with lust, love and passion as we embrace our bodies together, and for a brief moment we become one, and in that moment the whole world makes sense and you want to cry because the moment is so beautiful. Now that is sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbf I wasn’t that bothered about sex even having been on here...
But 2 years ago met someone who was just the ting to my yang and the wed was outstanding because the chemistry was so strong.
It’s over now and I’m actually worried I’ll never feel that again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey don't be worried you will find someone who will be just as good as the last guy x "
I’m not sure as I’ve never lusted after a man before him or fancied someone so much and vice versa so the whole package was there not just physical.
Took me a 20 years to find that |
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Most people who say that maybe are just having sex.
There's more to sex then putting a penis into a vigina.
The connection. Kisisng, touching, learning about each other. And so on..
Or they are just not into sex.
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"Do you think when people say sex is over rated, its because they haven't had really amazing sex session or met the right sexual partner yet? "
Definitely agree. Sex is without doubt unparalleled as the most awesome human experience in my eyes
I've been lucky in having had lots of amazing sex with some wonderful women so definitely not over rated  |
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By *BBWWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you think when people say sex is over rated, its because they haven't had really amazing sex session or met the right sexual partner yet? "
Think they have just gone without and convinced themself that's ok x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think when people say sex is over rated, its because they haven't had really amazing sex session or met the right sexual partner yet? "
These are the same people who go to sex club to socialize and dance..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people are asexual- they're just not interested.
It must be so peaceful to be like that 
Sex is definitely overrated if it's just body parts rubbing together.
I need more.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think when people say sex is over rated, its because they haven't had really amazing sex session or met the right sexual partner yet? "
Yes.
When it's everything it could and should be it's quite simply amazing. |
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"Some people are asexual- they're just not interested.
It must be so peaceful to be like that
Sex is definitely overrated if it's just body parts rubbing together.
I need more.
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Exactly, some people just aren't motivated by sex. Some people don't like football, opera, wine, food, drugs, exercise etc... We are all different, thankfully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think when people say sex is over rated, its because they haven't had really amazing sex session or met the right sexual partner yet? "
Or perhaps they have had so much of it that it no longer is the be all and end all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all have our differences and experiences but we firmly think a MFM is really the ultimate! "
Ha see I have had a spin on that. As I am trans I have had a few ts/f/f/f meets that was lots of fun |
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"Do you think when people say sex is over rated, its because they haven't had really amazing sex session or met the right sexual partner yet?
These are the same people who go to sex club to socialize and dance....."
And your point being???
Perhaps you've seen people who are on their first visit to a club & are just checking it out to see if its for them??? There's a whole host of reasons why someone may not be playing
None of our business is it really |
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By *ljamMan
over a year ago
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"Some people are asexual- they're just not interested.
It must be so peaceful to be like that
Sex is definitely overrated if it's just body parts rubbing together.
I need more.
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This nails it for me. I guess it's a scale from a asexual to sex addicted. Depending on where you fall on the scale will determine how over-rated (or not) you think sex is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think when people say sex is over rated, its because they haven't had really amazing sex session or met the right sexual partner yet? "
Absolutely. Sex can be just sex, or it can be an amazing fusion of fireworks and chemistry.
Sex with the right person is beautiful 
HC |
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By *ilfdawnCouple
over a year ago
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It’s better for everyone the fitter you are. No question about it.
Sex is great, but a 69 or suchlike can psychologically be better and feel ‘dirtier’ for example.
I also still believe that making love and sex are two different things, so the initial question on this thread could be broken down further. |
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"It’s better for everyone the fitter you are. No question about it.
Sex is great, but a 69 or suchlike can psychologically be better and feel ‘dirtier’ for example.
I also still believe that making love and sex are two different things, so the initial question on this thread could be broken down further. "
i love kinky filthy sex.. with the right person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s better for everyone the fitter you are. No question about it.
Sex is great, but a 69 or suchlike can psychologically be better and feel ‘dirtier’ for example.
I also still believe that making love and sex are two different things, so the initial question on this thread could be broken down further.
i love kinky filthy sex.. with the right person"
Filthy sex with a hotwife cannot be said to be overrated. Especially if her hubby looking on and maybe taking pics of 2 guys fucking his wife it's a real amazing experience  |
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"It’s better for everyone the fitter you are. No question about it.
Sex is great, but a 69 or suchlike can psychologically be better and feel ‘dirtier’ for example.
I also still believe that making love and sex are two different things, so the initial question on this thread could be broken down further.
i love kinky filthy sex.. with the right person
Filthy sex with a hotwife cannot be said to be overrated. Especially if her hubby looking on and maybe taking pics of 2 guys fucking his wife it's a real amazing experience "
I'm not married, will never experience it in my life but i know its popular sexual scenario for quite alot of fabbers |
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