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Filthy surprise... good or bad?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Soo this one's for the ladies...
You've arranged to meet with a guy a while ago and tge day finally comes. Just before arrive you call him to let him know your almost there. When he answers he tells you that about 5 of his carribean friends are there too as they were supposed to leave in time but they wanna get involved... ladies how are you responding/reacting to this.
This is a true story, luckily the special woman I was meeting was a BBC FREAK. But only the other day it dawned on me how it could've come across sooo rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would turn and walk away. It's disrespectful and bloody dangerous for the woman. I'd have never spoken to you again. "
Totally agree- I’d be off like a shot. It’s just not safe and if you are prepared to put me in that position you don’t care about my safety or needs- you wouldn’t hear from me again! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would turn and walk away. It's disrespectful and bloody dangerous for the woman. I'd have never spoken to you again. "
That's why I had to make this thread because although I got no backlash from it I realised that if the woman i met was not so driven by BBC I could've highly offended someone and lost a friend |
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"I would turn and walk away. It's disrespectful and bloody dangerous for the woman. I'd have never spoken to you again.
That's why I had to make this thread because although I got no backlash from it I realised that if the woman i met was not so driven by BBC I could've highly offended someone and lost a friend"
I think the vast majority of women would be more than offended. How did five other men know about the woman in the first place unless you told them of your intended meeting? Why on earth did they think it would be OK to want in on it unless you told them it would be? Are you following my train of thought here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lol. Probably not the response OP was looking for. "
No it is... any answer is a good answer as i am trying to raise awareness kind of. I can't help but think of how often this happens and maybe that some woman feel like they should say yes even if theyre not down with it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"But if I was going to meet with a girl, and called her just before arriving, and she would tell me there is another 5 girls that would like to join... that would be the best day of my life  "
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would turn and walk away. It's disrespectful and bloody dangerous for the woman. I'd have never spoken to you again.
That's why I had to make this thread because although I got no backlash from it I realised that if the woman i met was not so driven by BBC I could've highly offended someone and lost a friend
I think the vast majority of women would be more than offended. How did five other men know about the woman in the first place unless you told them of your intended meeting? Why on earth did they think it would be OK to want in on it unless you told them it would be? Are you following my train of thought here? "
Id just like to say that in this case the woman always was clear that she loved group fun. If it wasn't for that i wouldn't even consider asking and my friends would've been kicked out. |
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"I would turn and walk away. It's disrespectful and bloody dangerous for the woman. I'd have never spoken to you again.
That's why I had to make this thread because although I got no backlash from it I realised that if the woman i met was not so driven by BBC I could've highly offended someone and lost a friend
I think the vast majority of women would be more than offended. How did five other men know about the woman in the first place unless you told them of your intended meeting? Why on earth did they think it would be OK to want in on it unless you told them it would be? Are you following my train of thought here?
Id just like to say that in this case the woman always was clear that she loved group fun. If it wasn't for that i wouldn't even consider asking and my friends would've been kicked out."
I see. Because a woman says she loves something doesn't mean that you have to provide it without her prior knowledge.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But if I was going to meet with a girl, and called her just before arriving, and she would tell me there is another 5 girls that would like to join... that would be the best day of my life "
Its still not ok just because youre male... youre a person not piece of meat.
If its been agreed that a singular of one gender is to be alone with a multiple of another gender and there has been agreement, consent, transparent communication by all involved then fair play enjoy the session. When you agree to meet a person one to one other people shouldnt be there expecting to be involved.
Defo dodgy and I personally would not have gone through with the meet if presented with that scenario OP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would turn and walk away. It's disrespectful and bloody dangerous for the woman. I'd have never spoken to you again.
That's why I had to make this thread because although I got no backlash from it I realised that if the woman i met was not so driven by BBC I could've highly offended someone and lost a friend
I think the vast majority of women would be more than offended. How did five other men know about the woman in the first place unless you told them of your intended meeting? Why on earth did they think it would be OK to want in on it unless you told them it would be? Are you following my train of thought here?
Id just like to say that in this case the woman always was clear that she loved group fun. If it wasn't for that i wouldn't even consider asking and my friends would've been kicked out.
I see. Because a woman says she loves something doesn't mean that you have to provide it without her prior knowledge.
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I understand this. This whole post is me reflectin on past mistakes and bad decisions. I am in no way trying to defend what I done. |
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"Lol. Probably not the response OP was looking for.
No it is... any answer is a good answer as i am trying to raise awareness kind of. I can't help but think of how often this happens and maybe that some woman feel like they should say yes even if theyre not down with it."
What are you trying to raise awareness of? That should anyone agree to meet you they are going to be walking into a gangbang set up they know nothing about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You must have told them because you say they wanted to get involved so they hung on ,your a dangerous creep and I’d be surprised if you got another meet this site is supposed to work on trust |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Soo this one's for the ladies...
You've arranged to meet with a guy a while ago and tge day finally comes. Just before arrive you call him to let him know your almost there. When he answers he tells you that about 5 of his carribean friends are there too as they were supposed to leave in time but they wanna get involved... ladies how are you responding/reacting to this.
This is a true story, luckily the special woman I was meeting was a BBC FREAK. But only the other day it dawned on me how it could've come across sooo rude. "
I'd have turned my car around, blocked you here and blocked your number. I wouldn't want to play with a guy that brags to his friends and then instead of kicking them out, assumes it's OK for them to even be there. Because if she hadn't called, she could have arrived to quite a shock.
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If I had arranged to meet one guy and within a few minutes of arriving was told there were other guys there I also would turn my car around and never contact them again.
In my opinion,if I had still gone,I would have been putting myself in a stupidly risky situation and it just wouldn't be worth it. |
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